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David ALBERTINI Obituary

April 24, 1945 - May 8, 2024

-In Memoriam-

By Dan Zadra

& Francie Lane

Coeur d'Alene - He owned several of the Inland Empire's most colorful bars and restaurants. The name on his liquor license was David George Albertini, but hundreds of his friends, customers and family members knew him affectionately as Albi.

David died in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, at age 79 on May 8, 2024, but his big heart and larger-than-life personality will always be treasured and never forgotten.

He was born April 24, 1945, in historic Wallace, Idaho. For decades, David's Dad, George, owned the rough-and-tumble Gem Bar and Steakhouse on 6th Street. Growing up, young David shoveled snow and ran errands for Delores Arnold, the storied madam who owned the Lux Rooms brothel next door to the Gem.

At Wallace High School, David played first chair trumpet, co-captained the Wallace Miners football team, and set an Idaho track record that stood for 10 years. Years later he would go on to become a "Perennial" in Spokane's 12K Bloomsday Race, meaning he entered the first annual race in 1977 and ran every year thereafter for 37 years, until he was 69.

In 1963, David joined the Navy and served on the Coral Sea aircraft carrier in Vietnam. While still in the Navy he married his high school sweetheart, Holly Shewmaker, and they celebrated the birth of their son, David Jr. in 1964.

In 1975, with a loan from Mary Albertini (his beloved Italian grandmother) David bought the venerable Skylark bar across from Spokane's Ridpath Hotel. Night after night for the next 17 years, you could always find David behind the bar, welcoming the regulars by name, swapping rowdy jokes, telling legendary stories, playing his trumpet, and singing old-time rock and roll songs at the top of his beautiful Italian tenor voice.

Soon the Skylark became a celebrated gathering place for Spokane residents and out-of-towners too. Many celebrities stopped by the Skylark through the years, including Evel Knievel, who once did a wheelie on his motorcycle in the bar.

As an avid WSU Cougar booster, David hosted frequent football rallies at the Skylark and escorted busloads of his customers across the Palouse to Martin Stadium on game days. For years, it was David who played the Cougar fight song on his trusty old trumpet after every touchdown, and often led the WSU marching band down the field.

In 1977, David and his friend, Jim Flaherty (owner of the Irish bar next door to the Skylark), were instrumental in reviving Spokane's long-forgotten St. Patrick's Day parade. On Parade day, David would stand in front of the Skylark, (dubbed, "O'Tini's" for the day) and play "Anchors Aweigh" on his trumpet as the Navy's marching band approached; then halted; stood at attention and saluted David.

In 1985 David's regular customers convinced him to run for Mayor of Spokane. Critics at first called it a publicity stunt, but David actually won 11% of the popular vote, city-wide.

After selling the Skylark in 1992, David kept the party going at four more iconic restaurants through the years: The Carlin Bay Resort on Lake Coeur d'Alene ...Albertini's Bar & Grill in Spokane Valley...the Red Lion Barbeque in downtown Spokane...and, at age 74, the place he called "my final joint": Albi's Hilltop in historic Kingston, Idaho.

Throughout his life, David was known for his non-stop storytelling and his timeless bits of wisdom. The slogan on his Skylark cocktail napkins proclaimed: "It's not what you do, it's what you get away with." But his younger sister Eileen says that his real philosophy of hospitality was contained in just two words: "Include everyone."

Those who knew David best will tell you that he was a rare mix. He was tough enough to be his own bouncer; but also gentle, caring, funny, generous and compassionate. Women loved him; children trusted him; and men wanted to be like him.

When David was in his late sixties, he would rise on dark winter mornings at 6 a.m. and go down to Riverstone Park in Coeur d'Alene. There he would walk his two rescue dogs George and Gracie, and feed four old ducks who could no longer fly South for the winter. The Coeur d'Alene Press wrote a brilliant feature story about David's simple philosophy of life: Walk the dogs. Feed the ducks. Make people laugh. Include everyone.

Our troubled world could use more David George Albertini in it.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

David was preceded in death by his parents, George and Margaret 'Teed' Albertini. He is survived by his beloved son, Dave Albertini, wife, Jenni, and grandsons, Cooper and Cade. Brother, Frank 'Angelo' (Jeri) Albertini, and sons, Dan and Graham. Sister, Eileen (Larry) Bieber, and children, Alason (Brad) Hill; Jamison (Raven) Albertini, and Rick (Brandy) Bieber.

David requested special thanks go to: "My sister Eileen, Cousin Dan Zadra and close friends Francie (Murray) Lane, Suzie Sinclaire, Peggy & Rick Cooper, Pat Wheeler and Joe Clark."

A Celebration of Life will be held Saturday, August 3, 2024, from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the Hilltop restaurant, 41845 Silver Valley Rd., Kingston, ID. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be sent to Hospice of North Idaho.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Spokesman-Review on May 19, 2024.

Memories and Condolences
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Emily K

December 24, 2024

Nick M is now there too-have some laughs. We love you guys

Carol Mossuto

July 3, 2024

David a most unforgettable character a legend in his own time in the Spokane and North Idaho bar and resturant scene
I was proud to call him my long time friend truly a "one of a kind " Keep playing that trumpet in Heaven if you were lucky you had a few personal wonderful fun memories shared with David

Pat Wheeler

June 15, 2024

Countless memories flashing thru my mind on the passing of my great friend, David. From our childhood where our families ( my loving Grandparents the Rices ) lived on the opposite ends of the same block ( River. St ) to this finality.God Bless you David.You were one of a kind and forget you not. Your dear friend, Patrick "Wheels " Wheeler.Pat

Louise

June 1, 2024

I met Albertini when I was 20 years old. He was then like a big brother. Watching over me and making sure I was doing ok.

After I married a 2nd time I saw him at the bars here and there. Always a big hug and a smile and always "how ya doin" He was truly one of a kind. We surely could use more Dave´s in this world

Emily. Kelly

May 25, 2024

Worked in the kitchen at theSkylark in Spokane back in the mid 70´s. Dave was a constant and always "holding court" on the bar. I remember "Thumper" and a few others-what a really great time we had. I only wish I´d seen him here in later years.
Blessings Dave-you were one of a kind

James Norton

May 25, 2024

One of a kind has become an oft used cliche but this man, David Albertini, was absolutely, unequivocally, one of a kind. Condolences to the family. I´d love to get in contact with Dave, Jr.

Pat Kelly

May 24, 2024

Gonzaga Law School 77-80 was a great deal more tolerable because of time
spent watching Mr Albertini shine his light on the masses. Some of my
aquaintances had prolific Bar Talents on so many levels, but it was his
sage advice I have never forgotten: Better to Be a Creator of Memories than
Just a Memory.

Lori Doud

May 23, 2024

I worked at the Skylark in the 80's. One of my favorite memories was David and Jimmy Flaherty singing " Rockin Robin". What a duo! Never a St. Paddy's day goes by without memories. Thank you David for always being so kind. Especially to me and "Dickie the Spinner" Rip

Tommy Hayes

May 22, 2024

Last time we were together on CDA lake. David loved that boat.

Eric Rieckers

May 21, 2024

My grandma worked for Albi at the Skylark when I was a kid, maybe 5-6 years old at the time. Best fried chicken in town (and gizzards smothered in sausage gravy). By the time I became old enough to patronize the place during business hours, I went there and noticed little windows above the men's room urinals. I asked "what the hell are those for?". He replied "to see if anyone is hitting on your date while you're in the john." Huh. Made sense. Anyway, I'll miss you, Dave. ~ The "Monster".

Marjorie Hathaway

May 21, 2024

Everyone has wonderful memories of the times they spent with david and I'm just one of them. I went to see him on May fifth just days before he passed. He still had the wit and unconquerable spirit as always. He will be missed.

John A. Bardelli

May 21, 2024

Dear Albertini Family !!!!

I did not know the David´s entire family aside from his father George, brother Frank, and sister Eileen. Thus I address Frank and Eileen, directly, and all of David´s other family members equally.

If ever there was a person who fit the mold of "joie de vivre" it was David Albertini. I attended Junior High School with David as well as Wallace High School with him while playing football and baseball with David. He was a good athlete, especially, as a track runner and wide receiver in football.

David lived life to the fullest and loved to relate stories about growing up in Wallace and its environs.

I´m so thrilled that I renewed our camaraderie over the past two years especially as David started experiencing adverse health issues.

Even then, David seemingly smiled through trials and challenges and he looked at life as he always did ... with a smile emanating from the depth of the kindness of his heart always wanting and seeking to help others.

A special thanks must be tendered to Francie Murray Lane for the care and love she extended to David during some troubling periods he experienced. Thank you Francie!

Many of us will think of David "with a song in his heart !" He was a fabulous trumpeter! David ... you gave all to life ... to others in need ... to the animal kingdom ... and in the final analysis that´s what we are called upon to do in thus seemingly veil of tears called life on Earth. You made it a Heaven on Earth and We thank you Friend for a race well run, David. May God bless you!

Red

May 20, 2024

Few ever shine as bright as David Albertini. If there was ever a life well lived- he blazed the trail, and he did it with style! If you were hanging out with Albi, you knew an adventure was in the making. What a beautiful soul with the perfect mix of crazy and kind. He had such a way of looking at life that was so simple and so magical, that it just made perfect sense. King of characters, yet kindness and compassion that we all need more of. The world could use a schooling of David Albertini. We'd all be better off for it. We lost a great one indeed.
So Albi... thank you for all the adventures and laughs, for your love for all, and your enormous heart of gold! You will be missed more than words can express, forever loved, and never forgotten. Well done my friend. Well done!

Dr. Nancy Thaler

May 20, 2024

David was a fair minded man who was genuine with his friendships and affections. Every year he would climb up on a table wherever he was and play the Star-Spangled Banner on July 4 and each of those years it brought tears to my eyes. One of my favorite people I'm so sorry to see him go. He held together a large contingent of Friends and made us feel like family. I was honored to know David. He will be missed

Carl Pederson

May 19, 2024

I am so saddened to hear of Davids passing.

I can still close my eyes and see him pull up in his old dark blue Studebaker pickup (that had a very faint sign of Albi's Bar & Grill painted on the drivers door) and jump out with a short stogy smoking away and start telling some sort of laugh out loud story. Never ever a dull moment in the life and times with David.

If there are 2 word's to best describe Dave Albertini it would be "one off". David was one of life's treasures and will be missed by one and all.

Rest in Peace My Dear Friend

Vicki Costello

May 19, 2024

A truly wonderful friend! The world could use a lot more people like David.

Washington State

May 19, 2024

Thank you for your service to our country. Rest In Peace.

Linda "Kuhnsie" Venne

May 19, 2024

That may be the best obituary ever. You nailed it!
He was one of a kind and who doesn't have an Albi story. Not sure I could tell mine here....
I did miss any mention of the proverbial football helmets gracing the ceiling over the bar.
You'd a been a great
mayor, Albi!!

Ron Hoover

May 19, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person and a good Coug. We will love you and miss you always.

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