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James CAIN Obituary

March 30, 1964 - June 2, 2025

Spokane - James Gerard "Cat" Cain was born in Richmond, CA, to Patricia Anne (Coady) and Joseph Gerard Cain, on March 30, 1964. He died suddenly at his home on Spokane's South Hill, June 2, 2025.

James grew up and spent most of his life in Spokane, graduating from North Central High School - where, for two years, he was the most feared and hated linebacker in the GSL - and Eastern Washington University. He worked hard throughout his life, beginning with delivering the Spokane Daily Chronicle in the gritty, rough-and-tumble Indian Trail neighborhood, and ending at Costco in Spokane Valley, where his culinary skills earned him both the callsign "Chickenman," and recognition by Rotisserie Magazine as "Top Chickenman in the PNW" (which came with Mariners season tickets and a lifetime subscription to the magazine; he narrowly lost the national title to the renown Bob "Big Bubba" Boudreau of Beauregard Parish, LA). He is reputed to have served in the French Foreign Legion, but he didn't talk much about those years (though they may have explained both his fluency in French and the Croix de Guerre he kept in a hallowed spot in the bathroom). In his later years, James learned to walk away from a fight, but he never ran from one.

James was predeceased by his dad, Gerry; most of his beloved aunts and uncles; and several cousins. He is survived by his mom, Pat; his aunts, Margaret Holubowich and Mary Frances Coady; uncle, Ed Holubowich; brothers, Mike, John, Martin, and Tim; sisters-in-law, Sue and Tricia Cain; nephews, Jacob, Colin, and Connor Cain; and many cousins and friends.

James loved golf, skiing, a nice glass of wine, and spending time with family and friends. He was a master of the English language and had a vivid, creative imagination (nomenclature he developed as a child for various parts of the human anatomy and nicknames he gave to people throughout his life captured the essence of said body parts and people and are still in wide use, here and abroad). He cared passionately for the "little people" of the world and always watched out for and protected them. He wasn't religious, but he loved the Lord deeply and always did his best to honor and serve him and his people. Like St. Ignatius, he believed that the goal of our lives is to live with God forever. He considered lack of faith and its offspring, greed, as the source of the world's ills. He thought kindness to be everyone's highest calling.

James' family would like to thank his supervisors at Costco for their consistent support and his nephew, Jacob, cousins, Chris and Joe Cain, and lifelong pal, Ron Birch, for the love and friendship they never failed to provide James.

James' funeral Mass will be concelebrated by his brother, Martin, and Father Tim Hays, at Assumption Church, 3624 W. Indian Trail Road, Spokane, at 11:00am, Saturday, June 7, with burial at Holy Cross Cemetery on Tuesday, June 10, also at 11:00am. All James' friends are warmly invited to both. Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon him.

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Published by Spokesman-Review on Jun. 6, 2025.

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Corey

June 10, 2025

I´ve know James as one of my best friends that I have ever have I loved him as a brother. He will always be missed in my heart I know deep down he is in a better place and he is always with me I love you James you are good man and taught me a lot about how to actually be a better person you will always be me best friend and thanks for always being there for me and the time and memories will never be forgotten. -Corey

Anthony Goodman

June 8, 2025

I met James when i started in the maintenance department at Costco I would empty the trashes in the deli where he worked at the time and I knew I liked the guy first time I interacted with him. He was fun, kind and my conversations with him always left me feeling in a good mood afterwards. He was very easy to talk to and fun to bs with. I found myself going in the deli often to grab there trash just to talk to James and the rest of costcos amazing deli crew at store #670. Later he joined me in the maintenance department And I´m thankful I got that time to work along side him. When someone passes away I like to try and apply my favorite quality about that person into my daily routine and carry on that trait I saw and respected in that person. For James its listening fully to others. My condolences to all of James´s family. Also I work with Jacob chain at Costco and he is a very kind hard working individual as well and he was an amazing nephew to James. James often spoke very highly of Jacob.

Kevin Cruz

June 7, 2025

I worked with Jim at ups and later saw him frequently at Costco He was friendly and always had a smile when he said hello. I always felt that he was the type of person to stand up for those who couldn´t stand up for themselves. I too attended North Central high school although 4 years earlier. Go Indians!. Rest In Peace my friend.

Susan Smith

June 6, 2025

Jimmy you will be missed ., that infectious smile that lite up a room! Rest in peace dear cousin, where a place in heaven is reserved for you xo

Cousin Mike

June 6, 2025

Jim was certainly one of a kind. He was kind, considerate, a good listener and a deep thinker when he put his mind to it - but what I'll miss the most is his mischievous smile. Never had more fun on a golf course than when I was out with Jim and his brother John! Say a few good words for us up there Jim.

Pete Dolle

June 5, 2025

I knew Jim (Cat) from working many years with him at UPS and at Blumengarten Greenhouse. We spent plenty of time debating many subjects, mostly music, but he always made you think and was hilarious and a great guy to be around. We had some great times outside work, golfing and enjoying a beverage or two at Priest Lake. He will be greatly missed. My wife and I send our deepest condolences to the family. Pete and Jill Dolle

Shelley Stanhope

June 5, 2025

Love reading these thoughtful memories of cousin Jim. Linda Roggeveen said it well, you always had a feeling he was listening to you, sincerely, deeply.

He was a very sweet, kind, gentle man with a wonderful laugh and a sparkle in his eyes. I always thought - not showy or loud. And I can see he cared for the underdog. The world lost a wonderful human

Steven Schultz

June 5, 2025

I have fond memories of James. Worked the pre-load with him at UPS in the 1980's . After working our shift there, he and other friends from UPS helped our family with our business at Blumengarten Greenhouse. We went golfing together many times, Jim could really hit that ball. He was just a great guy to be around. Our family, (Schultz) give our deepest condolences to his family. He will be missed. Regards, Steve Schultz

Rachel Hill

June 5, 2025

I worked with James for many years in the Costco deli. In that time he gave me plenty of good advice about work and about life. He had a kind heart, and was always willing to listen and stand up for what was right. He had the best stories and appreciated the little things in life like skiing and sharing a good drink with friends. His memory was unmatched especially when it came to music. I could always count on him for a dose of musical trivia whenever I asked him about a song or a band. We will miss James, the deli won't be the same without him. Rest in peace buddy.

Linda Roggeveen

June 5, 2025

In Jim´s presence you always felt like he was truly listening to you and as if you were the most important person in the room. He always had a twinkle in his eye when telling a story; he was always unfailingly kind to me; and he couldn´t stand a bully. He is my cousin and I will miss him always. Peace out Jim.

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