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Neil O'KEEFE Obituary

Dr. Neil John O'Keefe peacefully passed at home on September 4, 2023, surrounded by his family. He was born to Dr. Neil John O'Keefe Sr. and Elsie Marie Logan on December 5, 1941, in Butte, Montana. Neil was the oldest brother to Colleen, Maureen, and Hugh. Neil graduated from Butte Central in 1959, Gonzaga University in 1962, and the University of Oregon Medical School in 1966. He completed his Otolaryngology residency in Dallas, Texas before moving to Spokane in 1973.

While in medical school, Neil married his true love, Marguerite (Peggy) Fitzmaurice on December 22, 1965, in Seattle, Washington. Within the next four years, Neil and Peggy welcomed their first four children: Shannon, Erin, Neil, and Sean. After finishing medical school and interning at Santa Clara County Hospital, Neil practiced on the Crow and Northern Cheyenne Indian reservations. He was so loved by the Native Americans he served, that they named him their own "American Eaglehead." Neil and Peggy's daughter Megan was born nine years after Sean and daughter Kelly five years after that which completed the O'Keefe family.

After moving to Spokane permanently, Neil joined Spokane Ear Nose & Throat Clinic where he remained a partner until 2009. He was as dear to his patients and staff as they were to him. His humble, gentle way put his patients at ease. The practice of medicine was an integral part of the man he was. It was common for friends and family to stop by the O'Keefe house for him to treat a wide array of medical conditions.

Neil's family and friends were the priority in his life. Till the end, he maintained lifelong friendships with the "Butte boys" enjoying trips and vacations throughout their many years together. Proud of his Irish heritage, his only hole-in-one was achieved while playing golf in Ireland. He loved to travel, golf at Manito Country Club with his regular foursome, and follow his Zags, Mariners, and other sports teams. He was always a quiet force within a crowd affectionately referred to by Peggy as "o'l tons of fun" Neil truly enjoyed being with his loved ones, just never the center of attention.

Pops will always be revered and adored by his 6 children: Shannon (Brian Habib), Erin (Joseph Hojnacki), Neil (Heather McFarland), Sean (Heather Baiter), Megan (Mark Case), and Kelly (Bryan Case). He was beloved by his 17 grandchildren and will be greatly missed.

Neil was always dedicated to his Catholic faith. Whether at home or on vacation, Neil would be found at Sunday Mass. Locating the nearest Catholic church while on a trip was always the first thing on the itinerary.

To celebrate Neil's life, a vigil service will be held at 7:00 p.m. on September 29, 2023, at Our Lady of Fatima, 3327 S Perry St, Spokane, WA 99203. Funeral Mass will be held the following day, September 30, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of Fatima Parish. A reception will follow.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Hospice House of Spokane and/or All Saints Catholic School. Online memorial page can be found at www.holycrossofspokane.org.

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Published by Spokesman-Review on Sep. 10, 2023.

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Marlene Gross

October 21, 2023

I worked with Dr. O'Keefe in Surgery at Sacred Heart for many years. He truly was very compassionate and caring about his patients. So nice to work with and treated the staff kindly. I will miss him.

Chuck Krause

September 22, 2023

Neil was a good friend, I had the pleasure of knowing Neil since grade school at the I C and then at Boy's Central High School. Very sorry to see of his passing, my sympathy to all his family.

Pat and Mary Anne Shine

September 19, 2023

A wonderful man. Sorry for your loss.

Matthew Ymer

September 10, 2023

I knew Dr. O'Keefe from my work at Sacred Heart, in the Main O.R. and he was an excellent surgeon! I also was a patient at Spokane ENT for well over 20 years. I really liked dr. O'Keefe, he ALWAYS talked with me, I remember his laugh and we shared our faith in the Catholic Church. I will keep him in prayer and pray that Dr. O'Keefe's family find comfort knowing that he now is in perfect peace.

Dr. Bruce Hopkins

September 10, 2023

Dear Peggy & all the O'Keefe family: We are so blessed that our paths crossed professionally & socially as we watched our children grow to beautiful, responsible adults. Neil was Ben,s favorite as he would play golf with him when Ben worked @ Manito along with Dick Treloar. Neil took the pearl out of Emily's ear when I called him. He met us @ is office right away @ night. She was 4. His gentleness & true concern were hallmarks. He was my favorite buddy. Bruce, Sharon Mollie, Emily & Ben Hopkins

Alexis Ferrante

September 10, 2023

Not only was Dr. O´Keefe my doctor for years, I was able to see him at Mass at Holy Family while growing up. He was so kind and patient. I have often wondered about him because he was such a good doctor. I am happy to know he is resting with the Lord, and left what sounds like a beautiful family and legacy. Thank you Dr. O´Keefe for being my doctor for so many years, and being a model of what a good Catholic man should be. Eternal rest May the Lord grant you, and may He hold for family close during this difficult time.

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