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Ellen Gibbs Matson

1944 - 2017

Ellen Gibbs Matson obituary, 1944-2017, Elmira, NY

BORN

1944

DIED

2017

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502 W. Water St.

Elmira, New York

Ellen Matson Obituary

Gibbs Matson, Ellen

age 72, of Elmira, New York, died on Friday, January 20, 2017 at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester, surrounded by the love of her many friends and family.

Ellen was born in Elmira on May 21, 1944 to Harris and Ann Paton and lived her whole life there. She attended Hendy Avenue school and Elmira Free Academy, graduating in 1962. She went to Skidmore College and graduated in 1966. She returned to Elmira and began teaching in the Elmira School District as an elementary school physical education teacher. Ellen married Lyman "Skip" Gibbs in 1967 and set up housekeeping in the little house she still owns today. Here she raised her family and created a life full of fun and friends. She continued to pursue her physical education vocation by coaching volleyball and basketball and running the intramural program at Elmira College from 1979 until 1988. At one point she ran the adult education classes and served as temporary athletic director of the Elmira School District before returning to George Washington Elementary School as their physical education teacher. At GW, Ellen made physical education fun for the kids, dressing up for parades and initiating after school ski trips to Greek Peak.

Ellen was an avid golfer as well as a serious tennis player. She loved sports of all kinds and engaged in many of them. Ellen was the Women's Club Champion at the Elmira Country Club four times and was the proud possessor of three holes in one. She loved spending her summers at Keuka Lake where she entertained family and friends with water sports of all kinds - even balancing on a paddleboard after having two knee replacements. She was a more than twenty year active member of the Elmira Junior League, on the board of directors of the Elmira Country Club and on the board of directors and president of the Elmira College Booster Club. Recently she was President of the Women's Golf Association at PGA National in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.

Ellen is survived by her husband Ed Matson of Palm Beach Gardens, Florida; her son, Michael of Perrysburg, Ohio and his wife, Jennifer and their two children, Megan (12) and Nathan (10); her daughter, Julie of Lantana, Texas and her husband, Justin Heuer and their two children, Landon (9) and Logan (6). Also her step children, Robin Kelley of Malvern, Pennsylvania and her husband Colin and their daughters Caroline and Claire; Ned Matson of Brentwood, New Hampshire and his wife Jessie and their three children, Carter, Ryan and Katie; and Amy Hyland of Cincinnati, Ohio and her husband David and their three boys, Nicholas, Michael and Nathan. She is also survived by her three siblings, her sister, Sue Wiseman of Roanoke, Virginia and her husband, Charles; her sister Christie Holmes of Viera, Florida; and her brother, Bruce Paton of Winter Park, Florida and his wife Karen. She leaves her three first cousins, Charlie Schott, Joan Peck and Judy Keim. Ellen was very fortunate to have had a second family who loved her as a sister in Georgia Reynolds and her husband, Rance, Pam Yunis and Kim Kinsman, and Bebette Yunis and Kristen DeLuca. Ellen's many nieces and nephews, great nieces and great nephews, will miss her effervescent spirit and her unparalleled joy of life.

A memorial service will be held later in the spring. The family requests in lieu of flowers that donations be made to the Keuka Lake Association, 142 Main Street, Penn Yan NY 14527.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Jan. 22 to Jan. 27, 2017.

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David Patterson

February 23, 2017

Ellen will diffidently be missed. I was a Washington school ski club chaperone for many years with Ellen, and thoroughly enjoyed going skiing with her and the kids at Greek Peak.

Wendi Walton

January 26, 2017

I remember Ellen from committees, meetings, and workshops at the ECSD. She always had a brilliant smile on her face and her quick wit kept us all laughing. Now she is flying with the angels. Sincere condolences to her family.

Anne Luden Latsch

January 25, 2017

It seems that those special people who were with us through elementary, high school and beyond will always be in our lives. Ellen, especially, was such a joyful woman that hearing of her passing is particularly difficult; she will be missed but not forgotten. My last memory of her was a couple of years ago when we got lost in the Tampa airport because we were so busy "catching up" (gabbing while walking). My sincere condolences go out to her entire family and friends.

Ken Connolly

January 25, 2017

To Ellen's Family: All that we love deeply
becomes a part of us! May she rest in eternal peace.

Trisha Elwood

January 23, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss,Trisha Elwood

Jack Basal

January 23, 2017

My deepest condolences go out to Ellen's family and friends. And to Ellen, thanks for just being you.I just want to remind people that Ellen beat me in a foot race on Windsor Ave when we were in high school

Newton Pendleton

January 23, 2017

ED & entire Family,

With great sorrow I write. A most energetic and wonderful woman has left us too early. Do savor your cherished & loving memories & may she rest in peace.

My most sincere condolences,

Newt

January 22, 2017

To All of Ellen's Family,
We are heart broken to hear and will greatly miss
her infectious smile & zest for life!!! Wishing you comfort in your memories.

Lizanne Bosseler-Makoid

Steve and Judi Gibbs

January 22, 2017

We will miss her dearly.

January 22, 2017

ed, bruce, geogia and family,
there are very few people in life that have the special spark. she is still shinning somewhere. best wishes.
bruce mcleod

January 22, 2017

Rest in peace, Ellen. Many thoughts and prayers for her family. We have very fond memories of Ellen and Skip from EC/EC Booster Club events.

Gary & Alecia Archambeault

Carmela/Denny (D'Ambrosio) Whitford

January 22, 2017

To Ellen's Family, We are so sorry to read of Ellen's passing. She was such an energetic person. We will miss seeing her riding her golf cart around Camp Arey. We send our sincere condolences to her family.

January 22, 2017

Dear Mike and Julie ,
Words cannot express how we feel. We are very sorry for your loss. Our prayers our with you and your family. She was such a great lady that we really liked. She will be missed.
Marlene and Chuck LeMark

Dick Reidy

January 22, 2017

Ed and family,I am so sorry to hear of Ellen's passing. She had an amazing life. may she rest in peace

Dick Reidy

David Ostriche

January 22, 2017

Mike, Julie and your families,

Very sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. Our thoughts are with you and your families.

Susie Salsburg; Rousselle

January 21, 2017

Very saddened to learn of Ellen's passing. We were friends all through Hendy and EFA. And I loved seeing her at our high school reunions. Her love of life and her enthusiasm and sense of
humor were so evident and infectious. My condolences to her family and many friends . She will be missed.

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