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Mary Stenger Obituary
Of Elmira, NY: Was born at home September, 20, 1920 in Troy, PA the daughter of the late Morton B. and Bertha (Benson) Hulslander, went home to be with her Lord on Wednesday, March 26, 2014 at the age of 93. She was preceded in death by her first husband, Charles G. Moody; second husband, Ralph H. Ludwig Sr.; third husband, Charles J. Stenger; along with several other family members. The last of her family, she leaves behind: daughter and son-in-law, Joyce (Moody) and Ronald L. Ripley of Elmira, NY; son, Charles B. Moody of Lake George, NY; step-daughter, Rosalie (Ludwig) and Frank Cox of Horseheads, NY; beloved grandchildren, Joseph P. Ripley, James T. (Kandy) Ripley, Mary L. Ripley, Dr. Erik (Heather) Moody and Emily (Moody) and Mo Charles; along with several other grandchildren, great grandchildren nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. Mary has been a faithful member of the Westside United Methodist Church since April 16, 1954. She enjoyed her gardening, bowling, golfing, playing cards and was an avid bird watcher. At her request there no be no prior calling hours. Family and friends will be invited to attend a Celebration of her Life at the Westside United Methodist Church 743 West First Street Elmira, NY 14905. The Reverend Dr. Vincent Howell, Pastor will officiate. The date and time of Mary's celebration will be announced when those details are available. The family requests no flowers and wish memorial donations be directed in Mary's name to her church. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Olthof Funeral Home, Inc. 1050 Pennsylvania Ave. Elmira/Southport, NY. Mary's guestbook may be signed in obituaries at www.olthof.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary Stenger
Charlie & Lisa Lechliter
May 3, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss, the neighborhood has lost a kind and gentle lady.
Donald & Donna Ayers
April 6, 2014
Joyce & Family, Prayers Be With you.
R.I.P Aunt Mary
God was calling you home. He needed
another angel to help poor out the rain.
Tears have fallen, hearts where shattered,
but it was time for you to fly home.
Your loved ones came to say their last goodbyes, to tell you they loved you, and that you will be forever missed.
Mary
April 2, 2014
I miss you so much Grandma Stenger. I am so glad we got to spend so many years with you and you were an awesome grandma!!! No more pain and suffering and we will see each other again some sweet day!!
Mary Jane Liddy
March 31, 2014
Sorry for your loss. I enjoyed playing cards with her. We always had a laugh. She was a good friend, I will miss her too.
Danielle Bachota
March 31, 2014
I wish I was able to spend more time with my great grandmother, but the times we did spend together were always fun and filled with love. She was the sweetest lady and I will miss her dearly. Love you Grandma Stenger and my prayers are with my family in New York as we grieve her loss but celebrate her life.
susan cox
March 29, 2014
Joyce and family, so sorry to read about Mary's passing. Mary was one of the sweetest ladies and grandmother to many. Prayers for all of you during this difficult time.
Sue Cox , Jennifer,Bill and their family's.
March 29, 2014
She was my other Mother and a lady of beauty, grace, dignity,balance and overflowing love.
She will be with me always.
Susan Moody
Joyce Kenney
March 29, 2014
Joyce &am truly sorry for the loss of Mary. I am thankful that I had the pleasure to know her the last 8 years and help care for her during her last months of life. She will truly be missed by me and my family. We know she is now at peace sitting at the right hand of Jesus. He has said well done my faithful servant.
Bruce & Gail Williams
March 29, 2014
Joyce & Rip, so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She was a dear woman and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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