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Arthur Stapleton Obituary

ARTHUR "JEEP" STAPLETON Arthur "Jeep" Stapleton went peacefully to be with the Lord on Saturday, March 7, 2020, with his wife of 52 years by his side. Mr. Stapleton was born January 12, 1943, in Baltimore, MD. He lived there until 1963 when he joined the Air Force and was deployed to Vietnam. Throughout his life, Jeep was very proud of his service to his country. As music was always an important part of his early life, and before being deployed, he was the drummer in a local band, the Ravons. On his return from Vietnam, he met and married Barbara Baldwin on March 16, 1968. While living in Baltimore, Jeep attended a five-year construction and woodworking apprenticeship program. During this time, he developed phenomenal woodworking skills that defined the rest of his life. A later move to West Virginia with his wife, Barbara, allowed him to hunt and fish whenever he could. During this time, the "fly-fishing bug" bit him and he enjoyed not only fly-fishing but also became an expert at tying his own flies. Another of Jeep's deep loves was Western movies. He developed an extensive collection of such films and always reminded others that he was "born 100 years too late." Jeep's last move was to Wilmington, NC, in 1982. Upon his arrival, he was quickly employed by Screen Gems Studio and rapidly rose to become foreman of the wood shop where he oversaw the production of many movie sets throughout his career. Jeep Stapleton is survived by his sister, Andrea Rhyne and husband, Jay, and family of Hanover, PA, brother-in-law Walter Baldwin and wife, Chris, and family of Panama City, FL, brother-in-law Bruce Baldwin and wife, Joyce, and family of Wilmington, NC, brother-in-law Phillip Baldwin and wife, Melody, and family of Purcellville, VA, and brother-in-law David Baldwin and wife, Jan, and family of Dallas, TX. Jeep was a member of the Fifth Avenue United Methodist Church, the Cape Fear Woodcarvers Club, and a local fly-fishing club. Friendly and outgoing, and with a great sense of humor, Jeep "never met a stranger" and made many lifelong friends throughout the course of his life. Mr. Stapleton was preceded in death by his parents, Arthur and Evelyn Stapleton, Sr., and his sister Addriane Bahl. A Memorial Service and Celebration of Life for Jeep will be held on Sunday, March 15th at 2:00 pm at Andrews Mortuary, 1617 Market Street, in Wilmington, with the Rev. Jeff Roberts, officiating. A reception will be held immediately following the service at the home of his wife, Barbara: 7943 Placid Drive, Wilmington, NC 28411. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Alzheimer's Foundation of America: www.alzfdn.org.

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Mar. 11, 2020.

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Judy Howard

March 15, 2020

My deepest sympathy for you Barbara.

Beejay Grob

March 15, 2020

Jeep was always such a kind person. I will never forget eating catfish at that gathering so long ago! Happy times, RIP Jeep and I am sorry I couldn't make it to your service. My condolences to Barbara and family.

Connie Stewart

March 15, 2020

I dont remember ever seeing Jeep without a smile, be it in the shop at studio, at the Pig-Pickins at their house off Sawmill Rd., fishin, tying flies , paddling, drummin'...and singing along with his Idol, Mel Torme, "The Velvet Fog" on TV...I came across this photo of his birthday and Mel came on TV...we told him we planned it... you are Loved & Missed by many.

Robert and Kimberley Wozniak

March 12, 2020

Jeep was a very special man who touched so many people with his laughter and caring. Our thoughts and prayers are with Barbata and all the family and friends. Jeep, we will miss you. Bob and Kim Wozniak

Travis

March 12, 2020

When I think of Uncle Jeep, so many memories come back. In West Virgina, or Milton PA, or Wilmington.. One was hanging out with him in his wood-shop when he helped me make an easel for my high school girlfriend. I collected all the wood from hurricane fallen trees, then brought it out too his workshop barn. He had all the tools anyone could dream of. when we got started he let me make a few cuts, but in reality he did most of it by himself! It was amazing, just like everything he made and she loved it. There were so many times out on the boat or clamming in the flats with Mom and Dad. So many times. He was always full of stories about the movie business, who he saw recently, or what kind of amazing craft work he was doing for this movie or that movie. He made the break through wall sets for Big Trouble in Little China! hand made the swords in wood for Cyborg (for insurance reason)... he had lots to say about Van Damm from that one too. The Weekend at Bernies beach house set, built at Wrightsville. Maximum Overdrive. SOO many stories and so many movies! he'd always show us his name in the credits, he was super proud of it. We were all super proud of him. When I was in design school and even to this day, I share stories of how my Uncle worked on so many amazing sets. There were tons of dinners, barbecues, visits, drop ins, etc over the years... he was always there. It was really tragic to see Uncle Jeep start to change slowly then more and more drastically over the last years. Sometimes we'd visit and you'd see his eyes light up like they always did, like he had a great story to tell us or funny thing to say. I like to think that he had those jokes just on the tip of his tongue when that happened. Even that started to happen less frequently the last times I saw him. It makes me very sad to have seen him slip away, but am glad he's at rest. He is a great Uncle and I'll have memories of him forever.

Neal Shulman

March 11, 2020

He was my friend my mentor and my buddy I will miss you rest in pea cr

John Newhook

March 11, 2020

So sorry for your loss, Barbara. Although I didn't have the opportunity to meet Jeep very often, I remember him as a great guy with a ready smile, and that you two were very close. I also remember him telling me enthusiastically about his love of fly fishing, and fly tying. He will be sorely missed.
Take care,
John & Mary

Barbara Summerlin

March 11, 2020

The sun, the moon, the wind, the stars, will forever be around, reminding you of the love you shared, and the peace hes finally found.

Simon Parkin

March 11, 2020

Will miss ya thanks for my first job

Sharon Harmon

March 11, 2020

Wonderful person. I had the privilege of meeting Mr. Stapleton several times. I am blessed to have met him and his lovely wife. Rest in peace, my friend.

KAREN PARKIN BRUNT

March 11, 2020

To my Daddio, Jeep, thank you for being a huge part of my children's and my life for the past 25 years- you and Barb made a difference to all of us. You both became parents and grandparents to us and we were blessed. We miss you but know you are in a better place and probably playing the drums for all to hear. Say hi to our Nique - I miss my tea drinking buddy - love ya and will miss you xoxoxo

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