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Charles E. "Charlie" Ruffin III

Charles E. "Charlie" Ruffin III obituary, Wilmington, NC

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Charles Ruffin Obituary

CHARLES "CHARLIE" E. RUFFIN III Charles "Charlie" E. Ruffin III, age 69, of Wilmington passed away Saturday, April 4, 2015 at Lower Cape Fear Hospice and LifeCareCenter. He was born August 29, 1945 in Sanford, North Carolina the son of Charles E. Ruffin Jr. and Betty Adcock Ruffin McDavid. Charles proudly served his country in the United States Air Force. He later furthered his studies and graduated with a Bachelor's Degree from Campbell University. For years he was employed in the construction lending and home mortgage business. He was a dedicated member of Temple Baptist Church and active in the community. He was a wonderful husband, loving father, faithful friend, brother and son. He had a strong faith in God, a wonderful smile and always had a twinkle in his eye. Left to cherish his memory are his loving wife of 42 years, Sue Ann Ruffin; sons, Edward "Ned" Gordon Ruffin and wife Nancy and Charles Jason Ruffin and wife Maggie; grandchildren, MacRae, Grayson and Miles; brothers, John "Rocky" Ruffin, Gail McDavid, Allen McDavid and Andy McDavid; sister, Phyllis McDavid Farren; and numerous other loving family and friends. A funeral service will be held 12:00 PM Wednesday, April 8, 2015 at Temple Baptist Church, 1801 Market St, Wilmington, NC 28403 with Reverend Steve Spangler officiating. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service at the church. Burial will follow the services in Oleander Memorial Gardens. The family would like to thank the staff of Lower Cape Fear Hospice and Liberty Commons for their wonderful care of Charlie. In lieu of flowers memorial may be made to Lower Cape Fear Hospice Foundation, 1414 Physicians Drive, Wilmington NC 28401, Temple Baptist Church or the charity of one's choice. Please share condolences with the family at www.wilmingtonfuneral.com Wilmington Funeral & Cremation, 1535 S. 41st Street, Wilmington, NC 28403. 910.791.9099

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Published by Wilmington Star-News from Apr. 5 to Apr. 8, 2015.

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Ron and Marie Finn

April 18, 2015

Dear Newton and Alice We were saddened to hear about your son Charlie. We extend our sympathies and prayers for this difficult time.

ReNee Farmer

April 9, 2015

Sue Ann, Ned, MaCrae my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sherry Davis (Richardson)

April 8, 2015

Charlie Ruffin....I hope Heaven has a golf course named after you! I cannot imagine all the lives you have touched and changed with your sweet spirit and generous heart. You were always so good to those of us in your life. We had some great times at work. I love you and thank you for all you did for me. See you in Heaven my sweet friend!

Sherrill

April 8, 2015

Sue Ann and family, so sorry to hear about Charlie. You're in my thoughts.

Gina Marcum

April 7, 2015

Charlie was one of my best friends and the best boss anyone could ever imagine! He was the smartest person I've ever known. His warm smile, sweet heart and crazy/funny personality will make me smile every time I think about him. I Love you and miss you already!

Cory Gore

April 7, 2015

I have known Charlie, through business, for 35 years. A true gentleman but also with a quick wit. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with the Ruffin family.

April 7, 2015

Charlie had an infectious smile and quick wit! May God bless his family. A wonderful friend to be remembered forever.
Kathy and Sandy Griffin

Allison Frk

April 7, 2015

Praying and thinking about the entire Ruffin family. Charlie will truly be missed.

Dennis Bellefeuille

April 7, 2015

Charlie, you will always be a part of my cherished memories....Campbell U; Sanford, golf course.....your great family.....Love ya.

Shelly Frederick-Smith

April 7, 2015

Charlie was one of the nicest people I've ever met. He always shared a positive thought. He had the ability to put a smile on your face each time he was in your presence. Love you charlie....

Nancy Fauser

April 7, 2015

I've always said that the best thing from any job I've had has been the great people I met. In my 6+ years at the Wilmington-Cape Fear HBA Charlie was absolutely one of the bright lights. He would drop by just to visit and we all stopped what we were doing to spend some time with him. And then there were those times we met for lunch, and Charlie would NEVER let us pay.

I have a "special" memory of calling Charlie from work one day, on his cell phone. When he answered I asked, "Charlie, what are you doing?" He replied, "I'm in the men's room."

What a guy.

I've missed seeing him, and our lunches, since I no longer live in Wilmington, and I grieve that he's gone. But at the same time he's not REALLY gone. There are some lights you just can't extinguish.

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