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Rueben Rivers
November 6, 2019
A man of boldness who lived life well in a less than perfect world. His commitment helped shape my future.
Laura Hunt
November 8, 2011
When Dr. Becker called me to come from New York to inverview for an English Dept. opening, I did very much feel that St. Catherine's was indeed my vocation, and I was delighted to answer the call. Allen was such a gentleman, so thoughtful and caring. He was my hero.
Elizabeth Graybill Suber
November 8, 2011
I have lovely memories of Dr. and Mrs Becker. They provided kind-hearted guidance to a no dobt challenging array of young ladies at Saint Catherine's. Being South Carolinians, my family had a special affinity for Dr. Becker as he was a graduate of both Dreher High School and the University of South carolina. My father was a few years behind him at both schools and remembered him well. My family's deepest sympathies and prayers of comfort to all of you.
Amy Deane
November 7, 2011
Dr. Becker will always hold a special place in my heart. I am grateful to have known such a wonderful man who made a lasting impression on my life at St. Catherine's and beyond. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
November 7, 2011
Dr. Becker was a wonderful headmaster while I attended St. Catherine's. He retired the same year I graduated and was always a warm, kind person. He had a great smile and certainly kept my 1989 class "in line" as we ventured through our senior year. He will be greatly missed and my thoughts and prayers to his family. Kristen Vilseck Scott '89
Ashley Cusack
November 7, 2011
Dr. Becker was so committed to St. Catherine's and the girls that attended. I look back and greatly appreciate all that he did to try to help us make good decisions and to grow into women of character. My prayers are with his family.
duVergne Gaines
November 7, 2011
How I cherished Allen and Elizabeth. They were my beacons, confidants, and wonderful teachers at St. Catherine's. His leadership was extraordinary and self-effacing. I will never forget his kindness and compassion towards me after a family death when I was a boarder. And I will never forget the respect and commitment to change that he demonstrated when a group of students protested against the more subtle forms of racism practiced at St. C's. His faith, life, and leadership are an inspiration. My heart goes out to his surviving children and grandchildren. So many students benefited from Allen's faith-filled gifts.
Pam Talley
November 7, 2011
I will always remember his smiling face in the halls at St. Catherine's. Thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.
Rueben Rivers
November 4, 2011
Dr. Becker lived a life that demonstrated greatness through action.His life reflected a great appreciation for the goodnesss in all of God's creation and an unwavering commitment to sharing that vision.I extend prayers and thanks to the family for sharing him and to God for having him be in my life.
Anne Moultrie
November 4, 2011
Allen (and Elizabeth) will always hold a special place in my heart and soul. Together, they helped an African-American girl make a complex transition from a totally segregated Houston to a nearly all-white school in the hills of Austin; with their decisions, behavior, and open arms, they instilled hope that race relations could and would improve. And because of all of this, I am grateful that our paths crossed. My condolences to my former "babysittees"--Joan, Mary, and Stephen and their families.
William Polk
November 4, 2011
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
By Lamaretta Simmons
Pat Booker
November 3, 2011
Allen was so much more than a fine English teacher and headmaster; he was a wonderful human being. Those of us who knew him once we became adults had richer lives as a result. My condolences to his family. He will be missed by many.
Jay Wiener
November 3, 2011
You have my deepest condolence.
November 2, 2011
My condolences to Becker family. may the memories, that family and friends enjoyed bring you comfort, during this time of grief.
Bob Trent
November 2, 2011
I worked with Allen and Elizabeth in Mississippi for 5 years and was a friend for the rest of his wonderful life. He had a profound influence on my own career in international education.
Bob Trent
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Andrew Mullins
November 2, 2011
He was a teacher's headmaster. He backed his teachers and staff to the hilt. He will be remembered as a great educator and had immense positive influence on hundreds of students. As an educator I am blessed to have been tutored by one of the finest.
Farewell old friend.
Andy Mullins
Robert (Bobby) Wright
November 2, 2011
Allen was the consummate scholar, gentleman, and friend. He inspired so many people, both young and old. I shall miss seeing him on Sunday mornings in the pews of All Saints Episcopal.
November 2, 2011
dr. becker was my first headmaster and we all adored him; a great leader and friend. sally c.
Eduardo Aparicio
November 2, 2011
We mourn the loss of a good man and dear friend who made our lives better with his mere presence. My condolences to Joan, Stephen, and the rest of the family.
Barbara Baggett
November 2, 2011
I am blessed to have known Allen just a little! He enjoyed life!
Bob Warneke
November 2, 2011
A fine person. I know he had a good time on that last trip to Costa Rica. He will be missed.
Eileen Dranetz
November 2, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Eileen Dranetz
November 2, 2011
Joan I am very sorry that your father died. I have donated to the Allen and Elizabeth Becker Scholarship Fund in his memory.
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