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Lex Dale Owens Obituary

Lex Dale Owens was an embellisher, someone who friends said gently inflated the events of his life to the exact proportions of his self-image. Friends always saw through the exaggerations, knowing they weren't necessary.

Owens died of natural causes on the day after Christmas, 64 years after setting out on a mission to do just what he wanted to do, said Martin Luecke, a friend whom Owens referred to as an adopted son. Randy Speights, another friend whom Owens "adopted," said Owens accomplished his mission.

"Dale always exaggerated because, I think, he wanted to give people the impression that he was larger than life," Luecke said. "But when you look back at all that he did, it was larger than life."

Austin allowed Owens to live large. Owens was born in Austin and graduated from Austin High School and the University of Texas. Although he traveled widely, Owens found the tolerance in his hometown for liberal politics, different sexual orientations and recreational drugs incomparable, Luecke said.

"He took it upon himself to be an ambassador for Austin," Luecke said. "He always told people, 'I'm from the best place in the world.'"

Owens took photos for The Daily Texan, the university's student-run newspaper, then worked for a short time as a wire service photographer, but it was his other job, as an ambulance driver, that would shape his future.

Owens started Capitol Ambulance Service in 1970, at a time when the city had competing private ambulance companies. Speights, who worked weekends for Owens in the early 1980s while studying to be a doctor, said Owens was the first to set up bases equipped with police radios in various parts of town so his ambulances could beat the other companies to emergency calls.

When the City Council decided Austin was better served by one municipally run ambulance service, Owens turned his attention to the air ambulance service he started in 1972 when Willie Nelson was looking for a helicopter to be available in case of emergency at his Fourth of July picnics, Luecke said.

Owens relished telling friends that Gov. Dolph Briscoe called on Air Ambulance Inc. in 1976 to make a secret run to the Acapulco Princess Hotel in Acapulco, Guerrero. Not until he arrived did Owens' pilot learn that the return cargo was the body of billionaire native Texan Howard Hughes, who had died of kidney failure. Owens said Hughes' personal doctor had asked the governor for help, worried that Mexican officials might somehow take advantage of the Hughes estate if they learned the identity of the deceased.

Despite the apocryphal nature of the story, Luecke said friends believed it had to be true. Had he been making it up, Luecke said, Owens would have been the pilot.

Later, Owens recruited Speights to create a different kind of gay bar in Austin. In 1984, the handful of gay bars in the city discouraged women from patronizing them, Speights said. Uncle Charlie's on Lavaca Street, now known as Charlie's, was a hit because everyone was welcome, said Speights, now one of the owners of Oilcan Harry's.

For a few years, Owens was a ringleader for a group, which included Speights and Luecke, that followed the national tours and eventually befriended the members of the influential 1980s electronic band New Order.

"His whole life revolved around music," Luecke said. A heart attack in 1997 prompted Owens to retire in 2003, but despite heart problems and diabetes, Owens kept going. He volunteered on the safety committee for the Cherrywood Neighborhood Association. He gave tours of Austin as a volunteer for the assistance desk at Austin-Bergstrom International Airport.

Friends have scheduled a memorial service at 5 p.m. today at Austin-Peel & Son Funeral Home before they gather for more recollection at Oilcan Harry's.

Peter Hook, the former bass player for New Order, called Friday from Belgium to tell Luecke that he wouldn't be able to come to Austin. "He told me he would say a prayer," Luecke said, "and play a bangin' tune for Dale in Belgium."

Mark Lisheron, American-Statesman staff; [email protected]; 445-3663

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Jan. 2 to Feb. 2, 2009.

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Owner/manager's desks at the north station of Capital Ambulance Inc. named 'Volcano'.

Felix Barron

March 24, 2017

Capital Ambulance Inc. units 941 and 945 on emergency standby at the north station known as 'Volcano'.

Felix Barron

March 24, 2017

Capital Ambulance North Station on Tedford Street known as 'Volcano'.

Felix Barron

March 24, 2017

Capital Ambulance Inc. Unit 941, if memory serves me correctly. Volcano, 941 is 108.

Felix Barron

March 24, 2017

sam NeWMAN

February 22, 2011

Lex was a stand up guy. When my own father died he was the first to call and give a kind word. I am a better person for knowing him.

Xavier Nieto

August 18, 2010

A greater loss in life I have not suffered. I love you and miss you Lex.

Bryan Crow

October 9, 2009

Life just isn't the same without you, Lex.

Bradley Hughes

February 2, 2009

What a pleasure to have known you. Your annual Christmas parties were always the best.

Anonymous

January 30, 2009

Thank you for the good things you did for The Community. You will be missed.

steve Gamboa

January 27, 2009

Rest in Peace good friend. Dale
and I were both former Daily Texan
photographers and fun to be around.
We lost track of each other but would run into each other from
time to time and always a joy to
visit and chat with. God be with
you good friend. We'll miss you.

Ted Smith

January 14, 2009

Friend, neighbor, fellow bon vivant. I am sorry to read of your passing!

Ben Parsley

January 8, 2009

I could always count on Dale for positive support and a kind word. You are missed.

Kerry Jaggers

January 5, 2009

Dale was a truly unique and original man and my dear friend for 25 years. We travelled together across cities & continents, flew or sailed over lakes & oceans, assailed countless dance floors & surveyed the depths of inner space. We shared incomparable moments, laughed, cried, worked and lived together. No backstage door, bouncer, or velvet rope ever withstood our desire to be on its other side. The indescribably delicious world was ours to consume and we fed like our lives depended on it. Where on Earth (or beyond) could I now ever hope to find another companion so sublime?

Trudie Redding

January 5, 2009

We will miss you Lex, you have been a good neighbor to me for a long time, I have learned a lot from you about how to care for each other and how to be brave and speak out even if others don't agree. I wish you peace, Trudie

Jim Walker

January 4, 2009

I knew Lex through his constant and consistent work on neighborhood and public safety issues. Even though there were those rare times we didn't share the same view, I never doubted Lex's passion and commitment to his friends and community. I will miss him.

Bryan Crow

January 4, 2009

Lex, I will always cherish every moment we spent together laughing and having fun. You were one of my best friends and my world will never be the same without you. But you are in my heart and everywhere I am...there you'll be. I miss you.

Vicki James

January 4, 2009

I bought one of Dale's old Capitol Ambulances and kept it going in my service ( Heart Beat Ambulance)for quite a few years. I also bought many supplies from Dale for my trucks.
He used to call me mother jugs and speed because of the way I had my trucks decked out with a big heart on the side and a heart beat thru the middle of it.
God Speed Dale

Allison McGowen

January 4, 2009

Love you Lex! Thanks for your friendship over the years- I'm honored to have known you...

Seth Chase

January 3, 2009

Dale what a friend really was.

Anne

January 3, 2009

God Bless the family-My best friend and I were regulars at Charlie's. Even though I am not a lesbian, my best friend was gay and died of AIDS in '95. He loved Charlie's and we always had a great time there. Thoughts and prayers.

Chris "Dig'm" Allen

January 3, 2009

Thank you for always keeping my groove in check. Thank you for always believing in me. Thank you for always showing up at just the right moment. Most of all, thank you for being my friend. For all these years gone by. I will so miss you dude. Peace 2 u bro. Always.

Charlie Jackson

January 3, 2009

Time passes quickly. A toast to Dale.

yolanda carrillo

January 3, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Pat

Pat Johnson

January 3, 2009

Dale was an inspiration to many people who he came in contact with. I fondly remember Dale from many encounters at the Private Cellar on 6th Street in the 80's.

May you rest in peace my friend!

Larry Todd

January 3, 2009

A fun gentlemen who was always willing to help others...no matter what. A true Austin character, Dale was always positive and creative.
I knew him from his work with the A.P and he was always professional.

Larry Todd

Eric Shropshire

January 3, 2009

Dale was a kind hearted man and entertaining character who loved UT sports. We are going to miss him because he epitomized the motto "keep Austin weird".

Erik P.

January 3, 2009

Since moving to Austin in 1995, I have spent many carefree weekends and a few ambitious weekday nights visiting with old friends and making new ones at Charlie's Austin. Although I never met you personally, you indirectly had a big influence on my life through your bar(s). See you on the other side.

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