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Pamela Stites Obituary

Pamela Turrentine Stites Pamela Turrentine Stites, 59, a 25 year resident of Austin, past away suddenly on Saturday the 11th of December 2010. Pamela was born to Charles and Babara Turrentine on the 20th of July, 1951 in Dallas and grew up in Irving, Texas. She received her undergraduate degree from the Texas State University and earned her master's degree in social work from the University of Texas at Arlington. She began her professional career known as "Peppermint Pam" from Portaline Power Tools. Pamela was an entrepreneur, who owned and operated a personnel agency. She began a career in social work for the State of Texas as a caseworker in child protective services. Pam served as a parole officer, and spent her last years as a death row mitigator for various legal firms. Pamela never met a stranger and could make friends instantly. She was someone who was remembered by all she met, due to her bubbly and upbeat personality. Pamela was a loving wife, devoted mother, and proud grandmother. "The sun didn't rise until she came into the room," said her husband Patrick. Pamela will be remembered by her husband, Patrick Stites and son, Charles Stites both of Austin; daughter, Kolbi Stites of Kyle; grandchildren, Chloe Dyer, Kade McCarstle, Carden McCarstle of Kyle; sister and brother-in-law, Cathy and David Ostroth of Raynham, MA; brother and sister-in-law, Daniel and Dianne Turrentine of Allen; brother Franklin Turrentine of Dallas; several nieces and nephews, as well as former son-in-law Eric McCarstle of Kyle. Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from six o'clock in the afternoon until nine o'clock in the evening, on Wednesday the 15th of December 2010 at Cook-Walden Funeral Home, 6100 North Lamar, Austin, Texas 78752. Condolences may be made at www.cookwaldenfuneralhome.com

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Dec. 14, 2010.

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Gloria Neider(Thompson)

July 8, 2011

I didn't just attend Irving High with Pam, I also grew up in the house down the street from her (French Street). She was such a fun and funny girl as a child and a teenager. Were she still with us, I would have you ask her about eating chocolate covered ants (her dad had gone on a trip somewhere and brought them back home)! My prayers are with you.

Her star ascending.

Cynthia Dixon

February 25, 2011

I had the privilege of knowing Pam during our years at Irving High School. Her laugh & boisterous personality are what I remember most. Please accept my condolences and prayers for strength & healing.

Richard Fryrear

December 15, 2010

Don and I feel blessed that we had the privilege of knowing Pam, and we will truly miss her forthrightness, determination and humor. We have lit a candle here in Puerto Vallarta to honor her over this holiday and we are with you in spirit at the family visitation. We give Our prayers and golden circles to Pam's mother Barbara, Cathy, Danny, Frank, husband Pat and the whole family.
Our sincere condolences - from Don Berg and Rick Fryrear

Aaron Mudry

December 15, 2010

Pat - we pray that you find solace in this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Tracey Hill

December 15, 2010

Pam was such a wonderful person and always had a smile and great story. I will miss her visits here at the vet clinic. May God Bless your family during these trying times.

Nicole Lennon

December 15, 2010

Patrick and Family,

Pam was one very special lady and beloved by children and adults alike. We will all miss her infectious laugh and her spirited conversation. Pam lived her life to the fullest and will be deeply missed. Our heart and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Jennifer Landry

December 14, 2010

Patrick,

There are no words I can say to make your pain go away, but please know you are in my heart and prayers through this hard time.

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