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Thomas Stack Obituary
Thomas was a man of strong beliefs and an unwavering love of his family, faith and flag. After serving with the Air Force in the Korean War, Thomas married Valerie Ann Byrnes of the Bronx, N.Y. They raised six children in Kinnelon, N.J., where they were active parishioners of Our Lady of the Magnificat church, with Thomas serving as a member of the Knights of Columbus. He worked for AT&T in Manhattan for most of his career before starting Pow-R-Save, a successful small business in northern New Jersey.
In the initial years following his retirement, Thomas split his time between Mystic Island, N.J. and St. Augustine, Fla. There he shared his love of the ocean, boating, fishing, music and wine with his children, ten grandchildren and friends. He enjoyed the last years of his life on Saint Augustine's beach so he could look out over the ocean and all its grandeur, every day.
Thomas was preceded in death by Valerie, his wife and loving mother to their children, and a son Richard. He is survived by five successful children Kevin Stack, Thomas J. Stack III, Cathleen Stack Rugulo, Jeannine "Gigi" Stack McDonnell and Robert Stack; as well as ten grandchildren who will forever remember their "Pop-Pop." He is also survived by children-in-law Mary Stack, Avril Stack, Lou Rugulo, Wayne McDonnell, and Olga Stack. The family requests that any remembrances be sent as donations to the American Cancer Society in honor of Thomas and Valerie Stack. "Cheers to a wonderful life!"
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Memories and Condolences
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Carol & Paul Capone
March 13, 2016
Tommy, I spoke to Barbara today, the woman who took your dog "Lucky". Want you to know they are all doing well, and "Lucky" has adjusted to her new family. She always became aggressive when anyone came near you. I think she understood how sick you were, and she was going to protect her master. "Boston Terriers" are very smart. The good thing, is she is no longer aggressive, and is enjoying her new family. I thought you might like to know this. Paul and I still miss you, and pray for you everyday. Love you.
Doug Williams
February 26, 2016
Remembering all the many afternoons at the Franklin Steak House . .!!!!! Great memories. You will be missed . . .
February 25, 2016
These pictures are all so beautiful and remind me of what a happy, fun man he was! I have nothing but fond memories and I was always so grateful to see him during the holidays. My thoughts and prayers to Mr. Stack, and his family and loved ones.
David Russinko
Carl Wischmann
February 16, 2016
Natasha and I are very sorry to learn of Tom Sr.'s passing and offer our condolences to the entire Stack family.
karen lee timoney
February 13, 2016
I will miss your huge smile, and outgoing,fun loving lust for life!thankyou for the many happy occasions of being your barber,and all of the times we enjoyed raising a glass,and sharing a love of music in st.augustine.Thanks for the memories!
February 12, 2016
Would love to be there! Rest in Peace Tom!
Linda Cole
February 12, 2016
Much love and prayers to all the family of Thomas. He was a wonderful man; always kind and respectful to me and loved it when I would sing to him. May he rest in Peace in the arms of our Heavenly Father.
Linda Cole
February 12, 2016
Much Love to the family of our darling Thomas. He always treated me with respect and care when I would sing to him. What a wonderful man. May he rest in the gentle care of our Heavenly Father.
Greg WIer
February 12, 2016
Cheers Tommy! We will miss you. I always knew you were in the house with the "Oh Yeah" Satchmo exclamation.
Donna Miani
February 12, 2016
Hello Tommy Friends Please join us at 5pm tonight to make a toast to Tommy. We will be in at Amicis for the Happy Hour We think Tommy would be happy to know we are thinking of him wheresoever he is
Cindy Capasso
February 12, 2016
Our deepest sympathy to the Stack family, I only had the pleasure of meeting Tom once but spoke many times on the phone, I could tell he was a man of good character, one full of life, a kind man who expected professionalism and respect, he always told me that he liked the way I answered the phone for Pow/R/Save. May he rest in peace on the most beautiful beach in heaven and may happy memories fill your hearts with peace and bring you through this difficult time, our thoughts and prayers are with you all-Cindy, Rocky and Rocky Capasso
Big Heart and Smile
Jill Ziebell
February 10, 2016
Lucky Us II
Jill Ziebell
February 10, 2016
Happy on the water
Jill Ziebell
February 10, 2016
Tommy loved being on the water, especially driving his boat "Lucky Us II"
Jill Ziebell
February 10, 2016
Tommy and I shared many memories, laughing, boating, dining, social gatherings AND we had the same Birthday!
May you rest in peace my friend.
My heart goes out to your family.
Ana Garcia
February 10, 2016
My condolences to the Stack family. May you all find peace knowing that yout Dad (Pop Pop) is resting in the arms of the Lord.
Carol Capone
February 9, 2016
We will miss Tommy. So many good times spent with him. He was sort of our "Chairman of the Board", here in St Augustine. When he arrived, with his great smile, and bellowing voice, that fun would follow. He was one of a kind. The past year was very hard on him, he hated needing extra help with most things. We are glad we were able to help him. He was always so thankful. He leaves behind a little dog, Lucky, who loved him too. R.I.P our friend. Our prayers to all your family.
Paul and Carol Capone
Mike & Cathy Bolger
February 8, 2016
Kevin, Mary & Family- Our deepest condolences on the loss of your dear father. He certainly lived a life rich in all the best of things: faith, family and service to others.
God's peace to you and all who mourn his passing.
Joanne Roth
February 8, 2016
It was with sadness that we read of Tom's passing. We all shared many happy days that seem like only yesterday. He was a warm and welcoming friend and was there for us many times, even opening his home to us - a kindness that we will never forget. We send our sincere and heartfelt condolences to Kevin and the entire family, and will remember Tom and all of you, in our prayers. Joanne & Bob Roth
February 7, 2016
We are truly going to miss our dear Thomas and Valerie. Not long will we be able to welcome them among others back to a restoration of life as God has promised. Our tears of mourning will soon become tears of joy. Acts chapter 24 and verse 15.
P-Irvington
Msgr. Timothy Shugrue
February 7, 2016
I am sorry to learn of Mr. Stack's passing, and I extend prayerful condolences to all his family.
Ron Prezzano
February 7, 2016
So sad to hear of the passing of my first friend in St. Augustine. Ellie and I will miss his love of friends,family, music and life. Oh yeah! Untill we meet again, my friend!
Ellie Prezzano
February 7, 2016
Ron and I shall truly miss our kind and dear friend, Tommy. The angels in heaven are singing!
Kenyon Dye
February 7, 2016
Will miss our good friend Tommy at the Piano Bar....one of my all time favorite characters I've had the pleasure to know and love. God speed pal....
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