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Thomas Vance Obituary
Thomas Michael Vance, 21, of St. Augustine died June 21, 2008, in St. Augustine from injuries sustained in an auto accident. He was born in Plantation, Fla., and resided in St. Augustine since 1989. He was a 2005 graduate of Pedro Menendez High School and a current student at the University of North Florida.
A Celebration of Life service will be held 4 p.m., Saturday at 3101 Stratton Blvd., St. Augustine. For more information, please call (904) 794-1260. Please dress casually. Flowers are gratefully declined. The family requests you think of Tom, do a good deed and pay it forward.
He is survived by his parents, Michael and Martha Vance, and his sister, Amy Sarah Vance, all of St. Augustine.
Craig Funeral Home, Crematory and Memorial Park is in charge of the arrangements.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Vance
June 20, 2009
marty and mike and amy, he will live forever in our hearts. to have known him was a blessing to all. love , susan,erik.kate and mary
Michael Maggert
August 21, 2008
My heart goes out to you. I have many great memories of Tom that will stay with me forever. I often think of my youth and my "second family" next door and every thought puts a smile on my face. I will keep you in my thoughts and Tom in my heart.
Martha & Michael Vance
July 25, 2008
We thank each and every one of you for your support for our family during this difficult time. We are proud that we had such a wonderful son. He was a kind soul, and a good friend, and we hope that people will continue to think of him and do good deeds for other people. That would be a great legacy for Tom.
Melinda Bynum
July 13, 2008
Mike, Martha and Amy,
I am so sorry for your loss. I think of you often and keep you in my prayers.
Melinda (Maggert) Bynum and family
Michael Cushion
July 10, 2008
Tom was a great guy, I am so proud to have known him. I went to school with him for alot of years . All of us will miss him and I was waiting for him to move in because I knew with him , He would be a unique roommate.:)
Diana Murray
July 10, 2008
We were so sorry to hear about Tom passing away. My son Michael and his friends were friends with him at Mason Elem. School and through Pedro Menendez high; My greatest condolences for your family. I know it really hurts at this time BUT time will make it lessen. He will always be with you.
Dwight Dykes
July 7, 2008
Mike,
I'm very very sorry for your loss.
Gary Hoog
June 30, 2008
My prayers and thoights go out to Thomas's family and friends. Thomas was bridge builder. Always helping others find their way- I witnessed it in my classroom at PMHS. He always had positive things to say, was willing to help others, enjoyed life. I truely believe that the world and our community is a little sadder, quieter without his presence.
Ricky Wilczek
June 30, 2008
Martha,Mike,Amy,
May you be comforted by knowing that friends are thinking of you and are here for you. Tom is ok, so lean on others to help ease your pain.
Larry and Nancy Bennett
June 28, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mary Olson
June 28, 2008
I wish I had taken the chance to get to know him better but he was an amazing person, he'll be remembered and loved by all.
Susie Thornton
June 27, 2008
Sue Thornton (Vance) We are all so sorry for hearing of your lost, to celebrate Michaels' life Wendell and Marilyn Vances' children Sue, Buck, Vickie, Terry, and Cindy have planted trees in your sons name
Vickie Vance Marquis
June 27, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Your cousin,
Vickie, Leo, Alexis and Austin
cathy parker
June 27, 2008
Martha, Mike & Amy
Both our families have Tom in our prayers. We will always remember the good times.
Cindy, Aaron and Ashley Aldrich
Cathy, David, Lauren and Bryan Parker
Darlene Schnittker
June 27, 2008
We are so saddened by your loss. Tom was a great young man who will be missed by many. We remember Tom as a young boy with a great smile who lived across the street. Hugs and prayers to you and your family as you grieve through this difficult time. The Schnittkers
Kristine Vance
June 27, 2008
Mike, Martha and Amy,
I know it has been a long time since we have talked. I am sorry that it is under these conditions. I know how you feel. It is hard to lose someone that you love dearly. Yes, the pain does get better but the thought of them not in your life anymore never does.
Tommy was a great kid and fun to hang out with especially at Thanksgiving when Dad and I would come up. I am sorry that I did not get to come to the funeral, but I want you to know that you are all in my prayers. He will be missed greatly.
If you need anything please do not hesitate to contact me. I still love and miss you all.
Erin Horan
June 27, 2008
Michael, Martha, Amy,
I had the wonderful opportunity to meet your son through a mutual friend, and see him from time to time while attending PMHS. Although I may have not known him well, he certainly made lasting impression. My prayers go out to you and your family.
Erin Horan
Hannah Murray
June 27, 2008
Amy and Family,
My thoughts are with you.
colette platts
June 27, 2008
Dear Mike and Martha and Amy,
There are no words. So may you find comfort and the peace that passes all understanding.
Rachel Perez
June 26, 2008
Im so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to your family. I went to school with Tom at Pedro. I send my love
Nanette and Jeff Catena
June 26, 2008
Michael, Martha, and Amy,
There are no words sufficient to tell you how very sorry we are for your loss. Although we had never met Tom personally, we have always heard were that he was a one-of-a-kind, gentle, and loving son and brother who made everyone around him smile and laugh. You should all be so very proud of the wonderful man he was. With much love from your pals sister and family.
susan and erik olson
June 26, 2008
we love you both with all our hearts,he will always be a special part of us.
Nancy Little
June 26, 2008
While I didn't know Tom, I do remember Amy fondly from my time at PMHS. My thoughts are with your familiy.
scott haas
June 26, 2008
Martha,Mike, and amy:
Deepest sympathies ;my heart is with you all. Words mean very little right now but my thoughts are sincere.
ScottM. Haas
Cheryl Schonder
June 26, 2008
Martha and Mike,
We were so sorry to hear about Tom passing away. Our boys were friends with him at Mason Elem. School; lots of fun memories. Always enjoyed having him over at our house. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Leslie, Cheryl, Michael, Matthew, Marc, Mallory Schonder
Tracey Lachance
June 25, 2008
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Tom will be missed by all.
Linda and Sydney
June 25, 2008
So sorry.
regina knapp
June 25, 2008
regina, matthew, kris and elizabeth, we were deeply sadened by his passing. tom use to come to our home with travis and hang out with kris and they would have a great time. he worked at target with my daughter for almost two years and all i can say is that he was a great friend and he truly will be missed.
Mike & Margaret Mitchell
June 25, 2008
Mike, Martha & Amy,
Our sincerest thoughts continue to be with you. We hope that each day brings a little more strength to face this difficult time in your life.
Sharon,WayneHuetcher & Kristin Williams/ Huetcher
June 25, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Veronica Adams PMHS
June 25, 2008
May God give you strength during this difficult time. I share in your grief and send my love.
Cathy Lowe
June 25, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Kathy Halkin
June 25, 2008
Dear Martha, Michael, and Amy.
I will always remember the beautiful smile Tom would greet you with whenever you saw him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathy Halkin and family
The Hoffman Family
June 25, 2008
We are sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Charlie, Shannon, and Ohara Peavey
June 25, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Jeannie Worz
June 25, 2008
Martha, Mike, and Amy,
I haven't known Tom for many years, but he was one of my favorite kids. The kind of boy you wanted your children to be friends with. A huge hug to the three of you, you are all in my prayers.
Jeannie Worz
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