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Guy Thomas Keilman

1946 - 2024

Guy Thomas Keilman obituary, 1946-2024, St. Helena, CA

BORN

1946

DIED

2024

Guy Keilman Obituary

Guy Thomas Keilman

May 19, 1946 - August 10, 2024

YOUNTVILLE - Our hearts break to announce the passing of Guy Thomas Keilman of Yountville. A beloved husband, father, granddad, brother, cousin, friend and Marine, Guy made his final landing on August 10, 2024.

Guy's journey began on May 19,1946, born to Blanche Harmon Keilman of Panhandle, TX and WWII Veteran and then Lt. Colonel Myron Harold Keilman of Missoula, MT. His brother, Geary, arrived four years later. While Guy was initially dubious over the noisy addition, Geary won him over and they became lifelong friends and partners in skiing, aviation, and mischief. Geary further enriched Guy's life with his marriage to Laurie, who's been a sister to Guy since 1971.

So-called "Air Force brats," Guy and Geary were moved by car by boat and by plane from California to Florida to Japan to Hawaii to Missouri to Michigan to Wyoming to New York and then finally to Sacramento, where the Colonel and Mrs. Colonel were lastly stationed in 1965 and retired in 1970. There, Guy attended American River College and Sacramento State before joining the Marines in 1971. He became an officer and a helicopter pilot and embarked on a storied career in helicopter aviation, and met some of his greatest friends in the process. This was the tail-end of Vietnam, and Guy would have wanted to clarify that he did not see combat and that he held the deepest respect for those who did.

In 1975, Guy mustered out of the Marines and continued flying in the reserves and then the civilian world. Guy described his work merely as going "up and down, back and forth, as usual" while the rest of us described it as "Wow." His career spanned five decades, six continents, and four types of heavy-lift helicopters. Guy flew on logging, oil, and construction projects in the US, Papua New Guinea, and Peru in addition to, most proudly, many fire-fighting expeditions in Australia, Greece, and the Western United States and humanitarian expeditions to Sudan ("the only place I was ever shot at") and New Orleans following Hurricane Katrina.

Guy was a man of deep Catholic faith and conscience, which he shared with his soulmate and wife, Mary Margaret. They met in the fall of 1992, while Guy was critter-sitting for dear friends and required the aid of Mary, a famed goat-whisperer. Enchanted, Guy offered Mary a single rose, the flower of which was promptly eaten by a goat. Mary fell in love with his heart, humor, and deep Catholic faith, and they married two years later on October 15, 1994. Guy devoted himself to being a good husband and partner, always ensuring Mary had a strong cup of coffee, a hot dinner, a chore-buddy, and someone to lean on and pray with.

Guy and Mary were also partners in raising their daughter, Annie. Guy was the best dad - immensely kind, immensely patient, immensely proud, unconditionally loving, and so so fun. He delighted equally in Annie's accomplishments, travels, and all the boring little moments in between. He went to great effort to visit Annie wherever she was, be it Rhode Island, Spain, Senegal, or Oakland. Guy cherished his son-in-law Sam and grandchildren, Naomi and Nicholas. He was a doting and present "grandad," enjoying lakes, boats, playgrounds, wiffle bats, beaches, and reading with his grandkids.

In 2017, at "the just right time," Guy retired from being a helicopter pilot with over 26,000 hours of flight time, countless stories, and many dear friends. He quickly replaced the elegant Skycrane he'd been flying with an elegant yacht he captained, a Grand Banks wooden-hulled beauty he called the "Driftwood II" and Mary called "Guy's mistress." Indeed, he loved this boat and loved sharing it with friends and family, referring to it as "our boat." He made many great friends at the Napa Marina, where he will be sorely missed.

Guy is predeceased by his parents and parents-in-law, to whom he was a dedicated son, along with many beloved friends, cousins, uncles, aunts, and good dogs.

Guy's family and friends, including his Marine Corps friends - "the boys" (oorah!); his "vagabond" helicopter pilot friends from Columbia, Carson, and Erickson; his friends from the Catholic community up and down the Valley; his Holland Lake friends; and his Napa Valley "marina buddies," will miss Guy for his hearty laugh and big smile, his endless generosity, his stories, his expertise, his Faith, and for the kindness and zest for life that he radiated. He loved greatly, and remains greatly loved.

Memorial services will be held at St. Helena Catholic Church, beginning with a Rosary on September 3 at 6:00 p.m., then funeral Mass at 11:00 a.m. on September 4 with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Wounded Warrior Project or the Carmelite House of Prayer in Oakville, CA.


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Published by St. Helena Star on Aug. 22, 2024.

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David Bergin

December 18, 2024

I´m not sure what compelled me to return to Guys Memorial, but Christmas for me is a time of reflection.
Guy was in our ranks for years but met him on a fire in Redding as we were crewed on the same ship. Not sure how the introduction went but when Guy opened the SAS closet door he said Oh My.
We sat at the Helibase due to smoke perhaps but Guy sprayed and wiped the nasty dried hydraulic goo out of it as a sense of duty and purpose. And so we flew in the same way.
And in subsequent years it was the same How are you, and isn´t this a scene!
In closing I hold all of these moments close, Guy and others in my thoughts on any given day or mission. That is my guiding principle for that moment on which I make decisions, relate to peers and start the next day. Thank you Guy. Blessings to all and peace in 2025

Paul Kearns

December 17, 2024

Just discovered of Guy’s passing.
My heartfelt condolences.
We worked together in the helicopter industry. A first class pilot.
May Guy rest in peace and his family love and respect his life and memory.

Bo Bowman

September 9, 2024

WHO IS THIS.....GUY?

This person whose life we are celebrating, just who was he? We know he was a loving father, outstanding grandfather and wonderful husband. A pilot extraordinaire, OUTSTANDING friend, and someone who could never get the saltwater out of his veins. BUT, did you know about his exploits as a teacher?
I encountered these exploits numerous times. The first was shortly after meeting him, and getting to know each other, he taught me that there are Anglo Catholics who are not priests. Understand, I was a modestly poor redneck Protestant from West Texas, who had never before seen a non-Hispanic Catholic, except for the priests in my hometown....who for some reason all seemed to be of Irish extract. Being the dimmest bulb on the strand of lights, it just never occurred to me.
The second and third lessons happened in the O´Club at New River. First when he taught me I didn´t have to follow peer pressure, "Drink what you want, when you want and as much as you want, then go home. Everybody else can go to Hell". Then he taught me that rank does not necessarily equal superiority when telling a Major, "You may have more hours than me, but I´m a better instrument pilot if for no other reason than I read the instrument manual today!" He did confess to me the next day that he might have been a little obnoxious with that remark, and yes, alcohol was involved.
BUT, it was not a one-way street between the two of us. I tried to return the favor many times. For instance, there was the time in Okinawa when we were doing farewells to friends since we were both deploying with `462 the next day. After excusing myself to go and pack my seabag, I good naturedly took the harassment he rendered for not being as smart as someone from California, and packing BEFORE going to the "Hale and Farewell". While he, being the aforementioned much smarter Californian, could stay until closing time. While on my way back to my hootch, and passing Guy T´s abode, I went in, observed his packed seabag standing tall in the middle of the room, and unpacked his things and put them back into the drawers. Thus enlightening him on the wonders of Locks. See, we looked out for each other. (I had actually given him this lesson once before when I gave his "50 mission cover" to Mamasan so she could wash, starch and iron it for him, but he had evidently forgotten).
However, forgetting lessons was not something that affected only him! When it was my time to head back home (a month prior to him), he agreed to keep me company at the Kadena AFB BOQ room set aside for personnel waiting for their flight. I left him with my bags to go check on the updated departure time, and shortly after rejoining him, he told me so long, and safe flight. When it was time to go I reached down, grabbed my B-4 bag and stood back up.....handle in my hand and my bag still firmly attached to the floor. It was then I realized that either the nuts holding the handle´s bolts had decided to fail, unzip the bag and walk away, or perhaps I had forgotten the lesson of locking your luggage. I called him from the airfield and congratulated him on a brilliant lesson. I then asked him what he planned to do for the next month before he rotated home, he said "work 24 as ODO, then play racquetball on his 24 off". I informed him that I was thinking about him and tried to lighten his load for his trip back, so I had mailed his racquet home the day before. He wrote me a letter after I got home and informed me his racquet was back in his hands 4 days after I mailed it since he had all of his mail forwarded to Okinawa. He did thank me for reminding him to change that before he rotated. We were always glad to help each other.
The last lesson we shared with each other was the last time I was out visiting the cabin in Montana. He called me in Spokane where I stayed the night before departing on SWA going back home. He told me it was not for my benefit, but for the benefit of the baggage handlers at Southwest, that I should check my luggage for the leftover Braunschweiger roll I had left behind. I laughed and told him I still remembered the lesson from Kadena. I had in fact checked my bags before I left the cabin, found the offending roll and left in the cabin somewhere, but I couldn't remember where. Since he was in the process of closing the cabin for the winter I figured this was another lesson. I did call him back 30 minutes later to tell him I remembered that I had left it in the trash we had taken out. I can only assume the cabin got an extra dose of examination that Fall. We were always looking out for each other.
Fair Winds and Following Seas my Friend, until the next lesson!

Tony Matijaca

September 4, 2024

Condolences to Annie from Tony Matijaca

John Goldsbrough

September 3, 2024

Dear Mary.
Shirley and I were shocked and devastated to learn of Guy's sudden passing. We Aussies share the grief that you and your family are bearing now. It was our pleasure and privilege to know Guy and meet you. May his strength continue to support you now and, in the future. best wishes. Shirley and John Goldsbrough

Mark and Cathy Sanders

September 3, 2024

Dear Mary, Annie, Sam, Geary and Laurie,

We are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Guy tremendously, as will everyone here at Holland Lake. He was a a wonderful friend and neighbor.
Our love and condolences,
Cathy Mark & Kyle Sanders

Jen Arrieta

September 2, 2024

Mary, What an absolutely beautiful obituary. My prayers are with you. He was an amazing person and you have so many memories. My prayer is all those great times will find a special place in your heart and help to ease the pain. Love Jen A

David

August 28, 2024

Guy was a positive force on the Widgeon dock. His knowledgeable, mature and gentle input on any subject was often solicited, well received and always respected. He kept a clean, well maintained classic boat; an enviable accomplishment to be enjoyed by those of us who wander the docks. It was always a pleasure to visit with a cup of coffee and a tale or two. His unexpected departure has left us saddened but with undying memories of serenity and friendship as we continue on. We share our condolences to his family and pray for your uplifted spirits.
Dave Sulouff,
USCG Retired
Slip "WC"

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Rollie and Marietta Light

August 27, 2024

These last 15 years we have been able to visit Guy on his Ranch and on job sites. I wish we could have had more time together He was always kind and never had a bad thing to say about anyone. He enjoyed life and I am proud to call him my "CUZ". You will be missed

Shannon and Steve Kinzel

August 24, 2024

Mary, Annie, Sam, Naomi, Nicholas, Geary and Laurie,
Guy will be remembered fondly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love from The Holland Lake bunch.

Sam Stigall

August 23, 2024

Guy was a great friend of my wife Louise and I. We enjoyed talking about flying, politics, and the most important, Religion. I am a Baptist and with him being a devout Catholic we would have lively discussions, but always respected each other.
God Bless you Guy and Mary. And Guy we know you are in Heaven.

Sterling Gill

August 23, 2024

Guy would immediately tell you he was blessed. Mary, Annie, his adorable grandchildren stirred his heart every day. He had family and friends who loved him and he loved in return. Guy leaves this earthly realm having enriched the lives of many people. That is a virtuous legacy, indeed. His was a life well lived. Well done, brother! Well done indeed!

Mark Brumley

August 22, 2024

A wonderful Catholic man. God bless him. May he rest in peace. We're keeping him and the family in our prayers. The Brumleys give their condolences to Mary and other family members.

Jim Corey

August 22, 2024

Condolences to you Mary, and all of Guy's loved ones. I never got to fly with Guy, but it was sure fun working with him on Ipad's (EFB's) in the cockpit.
Guy was deeply respected within the Aviation community for sure. Take heart, Mary, one day we shall see him again!

Henrietta Ash

August 22, 2024

My deepest condolences to Mary and family for the sudden loss of their loved one. Guy will always be remembered as one of the finest gentlemen in my life. His love of Mary will give her continued strength and God´s blessings!

Steve & Teresa Price (Rays Repair)

August 22, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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Rosary

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Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

St. Helena Catholic Church

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