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Randy Neller Obituary
Randy "Coach" Neller
September 28, 1956 - December 11, 2024
SAINT HELENA - Randy "Coach" Neller passed away at the age of 68 in his hometown of Saint Helena on December 11th, 2024. His unexpected passing was peaceful, and in the comfort of his own bed.
Randy Neller was a pillar of the local community in Saint Helena. Randy worked over 45 years at Beringer Winerey, doing everything from logistics to maintenance. When he was not working, he dedicated his free time to the local high school football program in Saint Helena, where he served in a coaching role for over 30 years. Coach Neller, as many called him, could not go anywhere in town without being stopped by a previous football player, or parent, who were grateful for his role as coach in their lives. He enjoyed watching his grandkids play sports, and watching his sons coach sports.
Randy enjoyed woodworking, bicycling, fishing, camping, and kayaking. More than anything, Randy was passionate about helping his friends and family with issues around the house, from plumbing to roofing to electrical, he was a jack of all trades. Although he sometimes pretended not to enjoy it, he secretly loved all the animals his wife brought home to raise.
Randy is survived by his wife Marcie of 46 years, his three sons, Kevin, Adam and Chris, and his three granddaughters, Kaitlyn, Lindsey, and Claire. Additionally, he is survived by his mother Fauntilla, his two brothers, Wayne and Glen. A memorial will be held at the American Legion Hall on December 28th, from 2-4 where light refreshments will be served. In lieu of gifts, please make a donation to the Saint Helena High School Athletic Association, or Napa Valley Support Services.
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Robert L. Williamson
April 2, 2025
I was surprised to learn of Randy´s passing recently. I wish I had been able to see him and let him know how much he meant to me as a coach, a mentor, and a friend. Randy... you taught me to ski, you taught me to persevere, and you taught me to never give up when things get hard. I wish i could have explained to you how many times your lessons were all i had in some tough times... but Randy... your lessons were all i needed. Rest in peace... and ya know... i bet i can make it down an intermediate run still.... and every time i ski now, i will look up... remember you... your kind guidance and belief in me when others did not... and thank you again... because in life i have needed to believe... and i learned to believe through you.
Norine Combest
January 2, 2025
I am so sorry to hear about Randy's passing. Just now. I worked with him at Beringer's for over 20 years. My love to his family. He was a wonderful man.
Tom Ryan
December 30, 2024
Miss you buddy. So many fond memories.
Roxanne Prager
December 29, 2024
Condolences he will be missed. I will remember him out on his bicycle riding into town. May the happy memories help during this difficult time. Your neighbor.. The Prager Family
Antony Matijaca
December 27, 2024
Condolences to the Neller Family. I knew Mr. Neller when I was a Student at St. Helena High School 2001-2004.
Tim Shaw
December 27, 2024
I played football with Randy in our high school years , and I had the pleasure to coach with him for a couple years, Coach Neller could challenge his players to be their best, always in a positive way, my condolences to his family .
Donalee Oswill (Shackelford)
December 27, 2024
Randy was a fellow classmate of the amazing class of 74. Glad we were able to connect a bit at 50th class reunion. I am so very sorry for your loss. Never forgotten
Coco
December 26, 2024
Losing a shining light in the family is and will always be tough. But! Your legacy will live on in your family and the community members you´ve touched! Rest easy Mr. Neller
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