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Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Tocco
DONNA COX
October 30, 2019
Hey Tony, I sure am missing you these days. I can't believe how long you've been gone. I miss you on the fields, at my parents house and just around. I will forever have that dance etched in my mind and it will forever bring a smile to my face. You are missed, you are loved and you will never be forgotten. Say hello to my little brother for me and I'll see you on the flip side.
mary scotino
November 15, 2009
Dear Tocco Family (Pete and Lorraine)
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. We are long ago friends of the family (Charlie and Bette). We had alot of great times with your family and Frank's as kids growing up.
You are in our prayers.
The Scotino Family
Sue (Fields) Howery
November 13, 2009
Tocco family; I'm sorry for your loss, as we know Tony "has marched to the beat of a different drummer" ever since we we're kids in Ferguson! He was destined for GREATNESS!!! I'm sorry I'm so late entering anything but I just found out about this tradegy today. I've had to move out of town for health reasons. I will miss him singing to me! We had a kinship for the song "Goody, Goody" & he always sang it for me! Say our prayers & be very good so maybe God will make us His special angels (like Tony) when He finally calls us home to Him!!! My prayers are for all of us who have to live on without Tony in our lives any longer! We should all try harder to be more like him; loving, giving, &supportive of others!!! WE LOVE & MISS YOU TONY!!!!! I can hear your songs in my heart already...sing on!!! Love to all, Sue (Fields) Howery..... formerly on Maurice in Ferguson
Joe Bedard
November 12, 2009
Tony was always the brightest star in the room. Always full of energy and reminded all of us that life is too short. You must live life to the fullest. I knew him through Progressive Group Alliance and enjoyed breaking bread with him when I came to see my dad in St Louis.
I'll miss him.
The Sarvadi Family
November 11, 2009
"Live a good life. In the end it is not the years in a life, but the life in the years."
— Abraham Lincoln
I can think of few people I have met throughout the years who would examplify this statement better than Tony.
The courtesy, kindness, and overwhelming generosity could be seen in his every action. He and his family welcomed me into their home on numerous occasions over the last few years. They made me feel welcome, Tony even taking time to speak to me as a friend and confidant. They all treated me as though I were part of their family, and this has meant a great deal to me.
It is with great regret I must pass on my family's condolences from afar to Carla and the rest of the Tocco family. May you, as we saw Tony, continue to pursue life every day with vigor and grace. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Heywood Hunt
November 9, 2009
To All family and friends, I met Tony as well as many through the CYC activites in North County. My wife and I also visited him at his restaurant. He was very friendly, genourous, and committed to his goals and directives in life. He did make an impact of what he was involved. He had a great family of which I had the opportunity to coach a few of his daughters. I will miss his friendly disposition, big smile, and words of wisdom.
November 7, 2009
Dear Tocco Family,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of Tony. As the athletic trainer at STLCC-Forest Park, I became acqainted with Tony long after Christina played volleyball. He was very generous as he regularly donated plastic bags for use in the training room for the Athletics program at Forest Park. He was always pleasant and a true gentleman. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sue Martin STLCC-Forest Park
November 6, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss and that we did not get to come to the visitation. Our son, Brett, helped do some work on Tony's Lotus at MCP this past summer. Tony made a huge, lasting impression on Brett with his humor, kindness & love for cars. Brett was always talking about him! We met Tony at a car show this summer and we'll never forget the kind remarks he had about our son. We wish we could have known him better. We look forward to seeing him in Heaven. Praying for God's peace & strength for all of you during this very difficult time, Joe, Lisa (& Brett) Santiago
Gloria Golden
November 6, 2009
If you only spoke with Tony for 5 minutes he made you feel like you were the most important person during those 5 minutes. Even as a kid he had that gift. Honest, true, loving and real. That is Tony Tocco. He will be missed.
Pat Parks
November 6, 2009
Tony was the most awesome person. Many fond memories at St. Angela CYC dances and many other dances too. Especially the New Years Eve ones. Halloween was great too because he would give my kids big candy bars and the adults got a great beverage too! The best memory of Tony was at our wedding with him in the middle of the dance floor wearing his big cowboy hat - DANCING. Tony was the best and always took great care of us. I will really miss you.
Tim & Pat Parks - Wentzville, Mo
Rosina Minard
November 6, 2009
Margaret Bernardino, Rosina & Fran from San Diego send our Love and sympathy for the loss of such a wonderful son, husband, father, grandfather and friend. Our prayers are with the whole family at this hard time. Tony's is in a better place and I know my Dad Vito & Brother Tony were there to greet him.
We love you all.
Margaret, Rosina , Fran and our families
Shirley Jones
November 6, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. I have known him for several years and enjoyed the time working with him in the food industry at Suppiger, Lilar, Prime, and now Thomas Marketing.
I will always remember him and all his hugs. His parents used to go to bingo at my church (Holy Family Parish) in Cahokia, IL. He always talked fondly about his wife, children, parents and siblings.
Keep the fond memories alive.
Tom Hondorp
November 6, 2009
I am a sales person with Bunge Oils that knew Tony for about 15 years. He was always so upbeat, sincere and always loved his vocie mail messages. As our Lord has welcomed him into eternal life, joy and peace, I am sure that his sense of humor will bring joy to so many with him in his new life. May God bless and comfort his family during this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend.
Lynn Piwowarczyk
November 6, 2009
What a kind and caring man! My husband grew up with Tony and we enjoyed his DJing at Sacred Heart when our girls attended school there. He always made it a FUN time!! He was so giving that when he was battling his cancer, he took time out to come and visit my nephew who is fighting with the same cancer as Tony had. He gave Encouragment and Hope, showed Strength and Courage. Like everyone else is saying "What a great guy." Tony will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him. Peace be with.
Jill Benne Lamb
November 5, 2009
I'm not sure that there are any words to accurately describe Tony Tocco. I will always remember the fun times at the Tocco home growing up in Parc Argonne. And the amazing Christmas lights and the best Halloween candy ever! What a generous, loving human being...I feel blessed to know your entire family.
Thank you for sharing your life with us Mr. Tocco...we will remember you always.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love to your entire family.
Jill (Benne) and Ben Lamb
Stacie Spell
November 5, 2009
Tocco Family, my deepest sympathy on your loss. He was truly one of the great ones. I will never forget him and my time spent working at MnL. Still my most favorite place that I worked. Mostly because of him. He taught me alot and could always make me laugh. He touched so many lives with his enthusiam for whatever he involved in.
November 5, 2009
I'll always remember Tony and the Tocco Family as great, fun neighbors in Parc Argonne. May the peace of Christ give you comfort in the days ahead.
Sylvia Blue
November 5, 2009
There are so many fond memories of living on Arbre Lane with Tony and his family. At Halloween, where being the newer neighbors, we had to stock up on over 600 pieces of candy, because this was the popular street -- at Christmas, watching all the traffic turn on our street to reach Tony's magnificient display! We as the Arbre Lane neighbors also had the priviledge of the tailgates in his garage when the Rams were really something, burning the Sage, and the the wonderful food he provided! My family has wonderful memories of those times, I really miss those days now...
Tony was truly a one-of-a-kind individual and sadly, gone too soon!
I can still hear him saying "how you doing babe? and take care babe!"
Now we should be saying, "thank you for taking care of us, Tony!"
Janet, Steve, Kyle, Allyson and Jared Hinrichs
(Arbre Lane -- Florissant, MO)
Chris & Michelle Estes
November 5, 2009
Though we are miles apart, you will be kept in our thoughts and prayers throughout the days. Keep your heads high through this rough time and know that your family and friends will always be there. All our love.
Jerry Roderick
November 5, 2009
Carla and Girls, I can only say I share your grief because I feel like I lost a brother.I can't remember not knowing Tony.He was always the best. God bless the Tocco family. Jerry & Coleen Roderick
Helen Heilich
November 5, 2009
Dear Tocco Family,
"Celebrate a life well lived."
Tony was a special man indeed. I am blessed to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Joe, Teri, Gia, and Josephine Orlando and family
November 5, 2009
Pete and Lorraine, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.
Monica @ River Town Foods
November 5, 2009
Tocco Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with your family. Tony I will miss your jokes, they were the best!
Diane Gantner
November 5, 2009
To the Tocco Family, my thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you. Tony was a very special man.
Larry Claffy
November 5, 2009
It brings a tear to my eye to know that I will never see Tony in this world again. We both grew up in Ferguson, playing football on the lot behind the tracks, and hanging out at Chuck a Burger.We spent many hours together during those years. I hold fond memories of Tony and think about him from time to time wondering what he is doing. He is now a guardian angel, and like the rest of his life, the job will be done very well.
May he rest in peace and his family be blessed by the touch's that he has shared with you.
Malorie Stockmann (Cox)
November 5, 2009
Carla and family,
Tony and all of you have been an extended part of our family for quite some time. He changed so many of our lives and brought so much happiness to us I just cannot seem to wrap my head around this. We all love him very much and are so very grateful to have you in our lives. I have never known someone who could light up a room the way Tony did. He was the laughter, joy, and king of the dance floor at every event. He is soooo loved and will be truly missed. We love you and are praying for you.
Donna Cox
November 5, 2009
Carla, girls and family;
Anyone lucky enough to meet Tony was truly Blessed. I had the honor of knowing Tony and your family through my parents and as a fellow umpire. Tony touched every person he met. His love of life, his knack for bringing joy and laughter in every room he entered. His sense of fairness and responsibility are all traits that God gave Tony an abundance of . My fondest memory is the night of my parents anniversary party when Tony took just a few minutes of his time and gave me a happy memory to last me a lifetime. Anyone who has ever had the pleasure of dancing with Tony knows what I am talking about.
The love, laughter and joy he has brought to my parents/family is something that no one can take away. As our bracelets say, "He will never walk alone".
You are home now Tony and at peace. Keep an eye on us and help us all to follow in your footsteps. Help us to continue with the work you started.
Thank you God for sharing Tony with us. I will see you on the ballfields in heaven Tony. Remember, "It Aint Nothin Till We Call It".
God Bless and Keep Us All.
Donna
Kim & Todd Burton
November 5, 2009
Tocco Family,
We are truley blessed to have gotten to know Tony over the years. He always had a smile and a joke for you. I can tell you that Nationals will never be the same. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry Cameron
November 5, 2009
Carla, no words can express our sorrow at the loss of Tony. He was a wonderful man, and we will miss him very much. His love of family, his integrity, his humor, kindness, love and generosity towards everyone can never be measured.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Terry & Chuck Cameron and Dixie "Grandma"
Terry & Mary Young
November 5, 2009
As many have said before, Tony will be greatly missed. He was a dear friend and we are so blessed to have known him and had him in our lives. Please know that we are praying for all of you and asking that God will bring you comfort.
Krista Renard-Eggemann
November 5, 2009
He was never short a joke (bad or good). No matter how stressed or busy I was when he called, I was forced to slow down and listen to a joke. Somehow after the call I wouldn't be as stessed. And on the rare occation I did get to see him, a hug came with the joke, and what a great hug it would be. He'd hug you like he meant it, what an awsome quality to have. I'll miss those bad jokes and the good hugs.
JoAnn Stone-Wilga
November 5, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. Tony and our family grew up together in Ferguson. He was a happy go lucky person and loved his family very much,
you are in my prayers,
Lisa (Grippi) Deker-Galdamez
November 5, 2009
To Aunt Loraine & Uncle Pete, Carla & family.....My heart & prayers are with you in this time of sorrow!
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I have so many memories of my childhood going to CYC dances, TONY was the best to all the kids and a true dear friend! He always made us all laugh and truly was a man of character that we all admired!!! XOXO to the TOCCO family!
Jay Rosciglione
November 5, 2009
I always loved when Tony came to the bakery for a visit. He always made me laugh! He has touched so many and I am proud to say that I knew him! My thoughts and prayers will always be with the Tocco Family!
Cathy Weber-Alvey
November 5, 2009
Dear Carla and family,
Tony was like a brother to me. We kept in touch over the years and he was always very upbeat and in good spirits while fighting this horrible disease. We will miss him very much. He was someone who truly left a great impression in all of our lives.
God bless.
Vita Ware
November 5, 2009
Carla and girls---
My sympathy and prayers are with you guys...He was the greatest dancer and D.J. in the world and my only regret (as i already told Laura) is not getting married in time for him to be my D.J.!!!!! Girls, when and if the time ever comes...its all you!!! Remember all the good memories you have, such as him doing the splits and spinning across the dance floor!! You were truly blessed to have such a wonderful dad! We are praying for all of you!! Love you guys!
Dan, Kelly & Madison Rector
November 5, 2009
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Lisa Rawlings
November 5, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the Love of family and friends bring you comfort.
God's Peace!
Lisa & Keith Rawlings
Ted Barklage III
November 5, 2009
Thoughts of Tony go back to High School. He was a warm and loving person and always willing to help and care for people.
Mary Rohan
November 5, 2009
Dear Carla & Girls,
My sincere sympathies over the loss of your loved one Tony. I'll always remember his love of life and family and his enthusiasm as DJ. He will truly be missed by so, so many. May family, friends and faith bring comfort during your sorrow, fond memories of precious moments together live in your hearts forever and may Tony rest in peace free of pain.
And who could ever forget his "Activity Scene" during the holidays on Arbre. The Rohan Family
Michael & Cathy Tedeschi
November 5, 2009
Our deepest sympathies to Carla and family...I've known Tony for many years. I worked at my uncle's fish market which was Rizzo's Live Seafood in Overland. This is where I met Tony. He was a cool dude. Always funny and never a dull moment with him. A man who had character and integrity and who I very much respected. I will miss him.
Deacon Ron and Patty LeFors
November 5, 2009
Dear Carla, Lorraine, Christina,Nick, Peter,family,
Our prayers are for you and for Tony. We first met Tony and Carla at a St. Patricks dance in 1987 at St. Angela Merici. Patty and I asked ourselves, "Who is this great dancer doing the splits?" Later as I got to know Tony better from teaching his daughter Christina and nephews Nick and Peter in PSR, I found that he was fiercely loyal to his family, a quality I greatly admire. When I asked him how he did the splits at his age without hurting himself, he told me he had been doing them all his life. He told me how as a young actor at McCluer North he had leaped from the rooftop set in the play, Fiddler on the Roof" into a split. It was a show stopper. The last time I saw Tony was when he hosted the wedding reception dinner for Katie Melton and her husband Scott, and yes he did leap from the stage at the Machinist's Hall to the dance floor into a split. Tony, I love you, I'm glad I knew you, and when we meet again, I want you to show me how to do that split. This how I remember you in my mind's eye, in mid air, head back, arms out, leaping for joy and landing with great style into a split.
Jeff Roemer
November 5, 2009
Padre nostro che sei nei cieli
sia santificato il tuo nome
venga il tuo regno
sia fatta la tua volontà
come in cielo così in terra.
Dacci oggi il nostro pane quotidiano
Rimetti a noi i nostri debiti
Come noi li rimettiamo ai nostri debitori.
E non ci indurre in tentazione
Ma liberaci dal male.
Amen.
To Tony's family, friends, and business associates, my heartfelt condolences. May The Good Lord hold you all in the palm of his hand...
Tom and Dee Lograsso
November 4, 2009
Carla and family, Pete and Lorraine,we are so sorry for your loss. Every time we saw Tony loved the hugs and kisses we got. So happy we saw him a few weeks ago will always remember the joke he told us that night.What a wonderful man
Pat Koch(Lograsso)
November 4, 2009
My prayers are with the Tocco family. Tony was an awesome person, always there for family and friends. At a time like this we are at a loss for words. Although its difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Someone so special will never be forgotten!
Alan Fick
November 4, 2009
Tony was certainly one of a kind.
His energy and genuine concern will
always be remembered.
To his family and everyone at M&L Foods,
My deepest sympathy.
Kristen Gartland-Brugnara
November 4, 2009
To an amazing man!!! Always putting a smile on someones face. We will always remember the sporting events, DJ experiences, gatherings, kind acts, and holidays. Our hearts go out to the Tocco Family.
The Brugnara and Gartland Family
Joseph Jarvis
November 4, 2009
To the family of Tony,
Once in a lifetime you are blessed to have a friend such as Tony, no matter how many years no matter how many miles have gone between face to face smiles you always knew the arms of your friend and heart were waiting for you to hug again. May the friendship and Love Tony sharred with all he knew hold and keep you strong in the darkest of times.
I shall always have a smile in my Heart because my friend "Cousin" Tony put it there 30+ years ago.
I am sorry I am unable to attend the services but my heart shall be there with you all.
Friend of Christina
November 4, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
PATTY & CHRIS FLIEG
November 4, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
sherry pecoraro
November 4, 2009
My thoughts and prayers, are with the entire Tocco family. I' ve known Tony since junior high. I just ran into him at St. Ferdinand fish fry,in the spring. He told me how he was taking a experimental drug to fight the cancer. I was pleased to see him ,just like the sam old Tony, a big smile on his face ,and a bigger story to tell you. I hope his family will continue to attack life, with the same zest that Tony lived his, and make him Proud.
sheree montgomery
November 4, 2009
Tony was a good friend to our family! I have fond memories of him D.J.ing parties and weddings of our family. And everyone at ML Frozen Foods buying gas from my daddys Amoco Station.
God Bless you at this time of sorrow, you are all in our prayers.
Love,
Sheree Montgomery
November 4, 2009
Mr. Tocco was an amazing man. When I was younger, he always made the holidays special. Whether it be on Halloween with carmel apples and huge candy bars sitting in his King's throne making me tell him a joke when he knew every year I didn't have one prepared or during Christmas with the amazing decorations and lights.
A legend never dies.Thoughts and prayers go out to the Tocco family.
Joy (Orlando) Montgomery
November 4, 2009
Tony will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him. He ws a wonderful fun loving person who had a smile for all. He lit up alot of lives and Heaven is lucky Tony will now be its Shining Star! Give our sister "Becky" a hug for us Tony and dance the night away. You will always be our favorite DJ! You will be missed.
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with The Tony Toccoo Family.
In Sympathy, The Montgomery Family
Denise Geringer
November 4, 2009
On behalf of Florissant Area Athletic Association you will be missed. The softball/baseball community will miss you. God bless you and your wonderful family
Shelly Jones
November 4, 2009
Carla and family,
May God bless you and your family. You have lost someone very great and I feel for your loss. Please accept my condolences and prayers. Tony's legacy will live on thanks to all of the wonderful people he touched.
Don & Sharon Poliette
November 4, 2009
Carla,
We will all have fond memories of Tony in one way or another. Most of us will remember the fun he had with dancing, which he just did at my 60th birthday on Oct. 17. I'm glad all the Poliettes' got to see him in such good spirits that night. He showed us all a good time, as usual. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
jim and laura crites
November 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dorothy Sutter
November 4, 2009
I want to extend my sincerest sympathy to the wonderful Tocco family. I met Tony thru my late dear husband, Donald, who had known Tony for many years and had great stories to tell me about what a beautiful person he was. I have watched him dance, knowing it must have taken much effort on his part, but he just loved to dance, and he loved his family and friends. May God welcome him in eternity and send grace and strength to all of you as you work your way through your grief.
Dorothy Sutter,
Karen Matz
November 4, 2009
Tooco family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Tony has touched so many people, including my family. From the laughs at Halloween to the many parish activities he helped with. We are very blessed to have known him. Our prayers are with you.
John,Karen and Jamie Matz
john and Samantha Matz
Kyle Hilliar
November 4, 2009
The world is truly a sadder place today than yesterday. For those of us that knew Tony though...
Our lives are forever enriched.
Stacy Brundick
November 4, 2009
We will never forget Tony and will miss him forever. What a great guy and a wonderful friend to our parents Chuck and Helen Cox. A dear to our entire family.
Rachel Mendoza
November 4, 2009
"Tocco Family- My condolences to your family at this difficult time. May your wonderful memories of husband, father and friend bring you comfort ."
Dan Misuraca
November 4, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Kathryn Garmon
November 4, 2009
Carla and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't get to see Tony very often, whenever we ran into each other we would always "catch up" on things, and what always stood out the most was how happy he was and how proud he was of his family. I remember the time we saw each other at the St. Ferdinand Fish Fry right after his first grandbaby was born... THAT was one proud grandpa! I'll never forget his contagious sense of humor! He was a wonderful, caring man and he will truly be missed. I pray that you all find comfort and strength in God's love, and that wonderful memories soon replace your sorrow.
Gretchen, Mike & Ashley Katinas
November 4, 2009
Tony was a wonderful man and always put everyone else before himself. He had a huge heart and was a inspiration to anyone who knew him. He knew how to live life and could always make you smile. God has taken him from us, but his legacy and memories will always remain. Our thoughts & prayers are with his family.
November 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tony was a great friend and will be deeply missed, as he has touched so many of our lives.
The Mulligan/Hartmann Family
Vitale Family and Bakery
November 4, 2009
Only the Best
A heart of gold stopped beating,
two shining eyes at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove,
He only takes the best.
God knows you had to leave us,
but you did not go alone,
for part of us went with you,
the day He took you home.
To some you are forgotten,
to others just part of the past,
but to us who loved and lost you,
the memory will always last.
Ciao for now Tony~
November 4, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the ENTIRE Tocco family and close friends. Tony was such a GREAT man! He did so much for so many in his lifetime. He will be Greatly missed!
Angie Giardina
November 4, 2009
Our sorrow runs as deep as our love for Tony,Carla and family.We thank God for blessing us with your friendship.Choi for now Tony, our sweet, dear friend,Chuck and Helen Cox and family
Shari Dugger
November 4, 2009
Dear Christina and Family,
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
christina rutz
November 4, 2009
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
to sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
but never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know.
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the lord
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my deepest sympathy
Christina
Vincent's Jewelers
Valerie Parrish
November 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tony was like a brother to my Dad(Charles Dunsford),even when Tony wasnt feeling his best,he made it a point to be at my Dads funeral and to help out my Mom. I am grateful for what he has done and what he will continue to do.
November 4, 2009
On behalf of the parishioners and staff of Holy Trinity Catholic Church, we extend our sympathy to all of you as the Tocco family and as employees of M&L Foods. Tony will often be in our thoughts and prayers as he is born now in eternal life.
Father Richard Creason
HOLY TRINITY CATHOLIC CHURCH
Lenny & Shannon Tocco
November 4, 2009
Words can't express the loss..We are so lucky to have had him in our lives. I can see him dancing now. We love you all!
Caryn Brassel
November 4, 2009
I haven't seen Tony in about 25 years, but I have wonderful memories of Tony always being our DJ at our CYC Dances at St. Blaise! He was so energetic, friendly, and always had a smile on his face! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, and may you find comfort in knowing that God did a great job with Tony, he truly touched many lives!! God Bless You! Caryn Brassel (O'Keefe)
November 4, 2009
" Carla & Family, Our thoughts & prayers, are with you at these sad times."Tony" did such a great job, at our daughters wedding, Kathy
LoGrasso and Charles, he even did our 5oth celebration.He was a great man ,and he will be missed.
Sincerly: Bob and June Berra (Cuba Mo)
Mark Fox
November 4, 2009
Carla, please accept Marianne's and my sympathy for your loss. Tony was a great friend, and always more concerned with how someone else was doing, instead of his final battle. We had the pleasure of knowing both of you the past 18 years through ASA, and we'll always cherish the memories he gave us. Rest assured, he's talking St. Peter's ear off right now!
John and Beth Renard
November 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. Tony was a great man, with a great sense humor, he will be missed by all of us.
Susie & Danny Dixon
November 4, 2009
Tocco Family
We have a large close knit Italian family that is joined with the Tocco family not only with blood cousins but with love. Our heart goes out to the family. All of you are in our thoughts during these stressful l times. We love you and can’t come close to expressing our feeling on how much Tony will be missed.
Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family.
Carla, we are here if you need us (Love Susie & Danny)
Love the Dixon Family
Pat Conroy
November 4, 2009
Carla and the rest of Tony's large family, My thoughts and prayers are with you all of you. Tony touched so many hearts in many ways. Always wanted to help anyone. He was always in my corner during my sickness. I cant say good bye I have to say keep fighting.
Your Rebel Viking
CHOW Pat Conroy and girls
Carla @ Bremen Bank
November 4, 2009
Carla, Tiffany and family,
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Patti Willi
November 4, 2009
Carla know that no Tournament will ever be the same without Tony.He was always such a welcome sight. His battle is over and his work here is done. My prayers are with you and the kids. God Bless
pam clendenin
November 4, 2009
Carla and family,..What an impact he made on all of us who were honored to know him...Pam Clendenin and Greg Bogacki, Stephen Vincel Honda.
Carol Perry
November 4, 2009
Carla, my prayers are with you. Tony was the heart and soul of the North Broadway Business Association; he will be greatly missed by all of us! What a great time you, Tony, my daughter Katy and I had at the final baseball game in the old Busch Stadium! I remember Tony telling me he went to the very first game in the stadium with his dad. - Carol Perry
Katie Hand
November 4, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family in this time of sorrow. May the memories of him give you comfort during this difficult time. God Bless
Bob, Sally, Sheri, Rob & Sarah Sanders
November 4, 2009
Carla and family, our prayers are with you at this sorrowful time. Take comfort in all the wonderful memories and knowing that Tony actively lived his life to the fullest. He will be missed by all!
Shannon Schumacher-Shafer
November 4, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry for our loss. Tony was such a great man. He will truly be missed.
Holly Henman
November 4, 2009
I was a business colleague of Tony - met with him on several occasions. I greatly enjoyed his spirit and passion for his business. He was also very proud of his family and shared many personal stories. He will be truly missed. My heart goes out to his family.
November 4, 2009
A St.. Louis Legend indeed,,, God Bless the Tocco Family.
Linda Pierce
November 4, 2009
Peace
Don Loberg
November 4, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Danae Larson
November 4, 2009
Carla and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. We mourn a great man with an enormous heart! Tony will be missed daily. Nate and Blake absolutely adored Tony, as did many! If you need anything, please do not hesitate to call!
In Jesus,
Danae Larson
Mike Gallo
November 4, 2009
Carla and family,
Please accept my condolences. Tony was a great guy who cared about people and would do anything for you. The world needs more people like him. He will be missed.
Mike Gallo
Leo and Debbie Catanzaro
November 4, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
PEGGY BALLARD
November 4, 2009
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY.I ONLY NEW HIM FROM MY DAUGHTER & GRAND KIDS.HE WAS A GREAT DJ & A VERY FUN PERSON.HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.PEGGY BALLARD.
Denny & Katie Spangenberg
November 4, 2009
Our hearts ache so tremendously! Tony you truely are a legend!! How do we say goodbye to someone who has touched our lives sooo deeply. Your love and tenderness will forever live in each of us. Our love and prayers to the entire Tocco family. And Tony, until we meet again...ciao for now :(
Katie and Frankie Misuraca
November 4, 2009
Dear Karla and Family,
Tony will be missed: a great Dad, awesome friend, caring cousin, groovin' DJ, fair sportsman, entrepeneur, life of the party. Generous to all and truly an inspiration. We have been blessed to have him in our lives.
Know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
mike MJproduce
November 4, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.A great man will be misted
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