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Eileen Jeanette Barnett

1933 - 2024

Eileen Jeanette Barnett obituary, 1933-2024, St. Louis, MO

BORN

1933

DIED

2024

Eileen Barnett Obituary

Eileen Jeanette Barnett passed into heavenly peace on January 24, 2024, surrounded by her loving family at Mainstreet Village Retirement Home in Richfield, Minnesota. Jeanette, "JJ" was born August 2, 1933, to Sydney and Grace Johnston. A preacher's daughter and the youngest of three sisters, Jeanette's childhood included moving around to new church homes and visiting her mother's family farm in Yamhill, Oregon. She wrote about her happy childhood and beloved family in her autobiography, "Shouting Glory, Glory, Glory! Memoirs of a Narcoleptic P.K." Jeanette was proud of her Oregon ancestry. Her great-grandmother was a child on a wagon train through the ill-fated Meek's Cutoff trail in 1845. It was that pioneer spirit that allowed her to be strong throughout her life; her Christian faith and foundation did not falter. She was a long-time member of Halls Ferry Christian Church in Black Jack, Missouri.

After graduation from Merrillville high school in 1951, Jeanette attended Lincoln Bible Institute in Illinois. As much as she enjoyed her time there, her dream was to be a writer. Jeanette wrote many stories and poems well into her eighties. Her dark humor and love of scary movies worked to her advantage when she landed a job at KMOX-TV St. Louis working as a production assistant for Vincent Price. JJ loved chauffeuring Vincent around St. Louis in her sports car during their time working together. KMOX was also where she met her husband Jack, who was working as a commercial artist. Jeanette and Jack married in 1965 and had two daughters. During her years as a stay-at-home mom, she completed college courses through the University of Missouri's college-at-home program. Being a mother and grandmother was her greatest joy.

Jeanette positively impacted everyone she met, especially working as a teacher assistant for Ferguson-Florissant Special School District for over twenty years. Her creative imagination, knowledge, and caring presence made her a standout educator. Always generous and accepting of others, she knew how to get an interesting conversation going. Those who knew JJ remember her razor-sharp wit and penchant for the unusual in films, art, and books. Jeanette was a voracious reader and sage storyteller. In her late seventies, Jeanette had an Opinion Shaper column in the St. Louis Suburban Journal. Sharing wisdom and humor, she wrote about topics like having the right outlook when things go wrong.

Jeanette became a tenacious advocate in the 2000s. Her five years of research and a claim to the Department of Labor led to the federal government's decision in 2009 to compensate a special class of employees exposed to nuclear radioactive waste who worked at Tyson Valley Powder Farm between 1946-1948. Jeanette's research and dedication to this cause made its way to Congress because she demanded justice for her father-in-law, Clete, who died of cancer in 1955. As an advocate for her family, she was always supportive, taking an active interest in their lives and encouraging them to pursue their talents.

JJ wrote, "If a memory is pleasing, think of it often; and if you're fortunate, it will never leave you." JJ will never leave our hearts. She will be remembered often through her wise words, humor, sweet smile, and strong spirit.

Jeanette is survived by her children, Joli (Patrick) Helm of Richfield, MN; Jessica (Jeff) DeCuir of Belleville, IL; granddaughters Sydney, Abby, and Isabel; nieces and nephews, great-nieces and nephews, dear friends, and devoted caregivers.

She is preceded in death by her husband of fifty-six years, Jack, her cherished sisters, Maurine and Dorothy, her beloved parents, Sydney and Grace, and her life-long friends, Kay Porter and David Stetzel.

Jeanette's wishes were to be cremated. A family memorial gathering will be held at later date.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to The Alzheimer's Association: https://www.alz.org/

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Feb. 7 to Feb. 8, 2024.

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Jessica

February 17, 2024

Mama, it was an honor and privilege to be your daughter and caregiver. I don't think you knew how many people you impacted throughout your life in a positive way. There is so much more to say about you! Your dark sense of humor and your unfaltering generosity. You listened intently to every song I ever sang and that Jeff and I wrote. You not only listened, but discussed the music with so much encouragement and enthusiasm. I delighted in hearing you recite "The Cremation of Sam McGee", "Jabberwocky", and your own poetry. Thank you for introducing me to cool novels and films like "Being There", "The Loved One", and "The Tin Drum". You taught me how to have a lucid dream and the importance of flying in one's dreams. You cared about my art and were my biggest fan. You were my advocate and I yours. Mom, your poems and stories remain, and you are immortalized in independent film. Oh the laughter! Thank you for your smile, for your unconditional love, and for always being so thoughtful of others. You were such a trooper and a fighter. I miss you so much, and will always hold you close in heart and mind. Dona Nobis Pacem!

Zak and Katie

February 10, 2024

Katie and I have been thinking of and praying for you guys. It was really neat to read about aunt Jeanette's life. Quite a great story for sure. We love you.

Connie Price

February 10, 2024

My condolences to Cousins Joli and Jessica.. It was wonderful to have Jeanette in our family. She was distinguished and very loving to all of us. I will always remember her brilliant conversational talent, always mixed with her kindness when we got together. I do miss her.

Barbara Palmer

February 9, 2024

My sincere condolences to Joli and Jessica and your families.
Barbara Palmer

Joan Fabian John Mason

February 9, 2024

Dearest Jessica and family. Our hearts go out to you in this time of your loss. She was a special woman and lives on in your heart always. Much love surrounds you forever.

Chris Sauter

February 7, 2024

Much love to Jessica and Jeff and all the Barnett family. Eileen raised a wonderful human being in Jess which much speak to her character. Godspeed Eileen!

Joli Barnett Helm

February 7, 2024

Love you forever, Mommy!

Kris Evans

February 7, 2024

Such wonderful and fun memories from my childhood and such cherished memories from the wisdom and comfort she provided in my adulthood. Girls, I am so very sorry for your loss.

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