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John C. Frisella

1943 - 2025

BORN

1943

DIED

2025

FUNERAL HOME

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Road

Saint Louis, Missouri

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Sep. 18, 2025

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Kutis Affton Chapel

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John Frisella Obituary

Frisella, John C.

November 4, 1943 - September 9, 2025

Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church Tuesday, Septmeber 9, 2025.

Beloved husband of Dolores A. Frisella (nee Hamilton); loving father of Andrea (Donald Doran) Frisella, John Paul (Cara) Frisella, Claudia (Kip) Starnes and Stephanie (Doug) Fields; adoring grandfather of Daniel and Dillon (Lisette) and Jack Dunaway, Grace (Mark) Joe, John Andrew Frisella, Carter and Avery Starnes, Dominic (Hayley) Valencia, Haley and Richard (Lauren) Fields, Luca, Gianna and Salvatore Valencia; cherished great-grandfather of Anthony, Nina and Walker; Our dearest brother, uncle, great-uncle, cousin and friend to many.

Visitation at Kutis Affton Chapel 10151 Gravois Rd. 63123 on Thursday, September 18 from 4-8 pm. Funeral Mass at St. Ambrose Cathoilc Church on Friday, September 19 at 10:00 am. Interment at Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers contributions to St. Ambrose Forever Donate to St. Ambrose Forever - St. Ambrose Forever appreciated. See Kutis FH for more info. https://kutisfuneralhomes.com/frisella-john-c/

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 14, 2025.

Memorial Events
for John Frisella

Sep

18

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Kutis Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Rd., St. Louis, MO 63123

Sep

19

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Ambrose Catholic Church

St. Louis, MO

Sep

19

Interment

Resurrection Cemetery

St. Louis, MO

Funeral services provided by:

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123

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Joe Marting

September 14, 2025

Dear John Paul and Cara,
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your dad and father-in-law. I know he must´ve been a great man to raise such a fine son as you, John Paul. You are in my prayers that God would give you comfort, strength, peace, and hope as you walk through the valley of the shadow.
Blessings and love,
Your neighbor and friend,
Pastor Joe Marting.

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