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McCartney, John F. passed away peacefully in his sleep on May 15, 2016, at the age of 80, after a valiant fight with lung cancer. John was the first born son of Francis and Marie McCartney. John attended CBC High School, St. Louis University and St. Louis University Law School. He was a true student athlete, playing both baseball and basketball at St. Louis University, before playing several years in the Boston Red Sox organization. He thoroughly enjoyed the practice of law, culminating in the General Counsel position at Petrolite. John was a great friend to many and a wonderful family man, and is survived by his lovely wife of 54 years, Judy; 4 sons, Jim (Simone), Mike (Peg), John and Tom; his sister Mary and brother Jim (Margi); and 9 grandchildren, Jessica, Emily, Caitlin, Madeline, Johnny, Patrick, Merrimon, Regan and Rendle; as well as a cousin, nieces and nephews. John was predeceased by his brother Tom. Services: Visitation will be Friday at 10 a.m. at St. Gerard Majella followed by an 11 a.m. Mass, 1971 Dougherty Ferry Rd, St. Louis, MO 63122. A celebration of his life will immediately follow at Greenbriar Hills Country Club, 12665 Big Bend Rd, Kirkwood, MO 63122. In lieu of flowers, donations in John's honor can be made to either the Siteman Cancer Center Development Office, Washington University CB 1204, 7425 Forsyth Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63105-2161, https://siteman.wustl.edu/contribute /giving/siteman-development-office/ or the Gene Slay's Boys' Club of St. Louis, https://www.gsbcstl.org/giving/. Gratitude to Dr. Ramaswamy Govindan, Cheryl Cima and all his caregivers.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from May 18 to May 19, 2016.

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Nora Azman

August 25, 2020

I have just found out of John's passing. My heartfelt condolences to Judy and family. John was a true gentleman and I have had the privilege of working with him and knowing him during my tenure with Petrolte Singapore. John was a true colleague and a very dear friend. He will be missed

May 28, 2016

After a chance meeting with one of the McCartney neighbors at St. Luke's Hospital last week, we learned of John's passing. My husband Jake (Claude Jacobs) played on the SLU baseball team CF, was a manager of the basketball team and graduated together with John from St. Louis U. I attended all the home basketball games in 1958. Jake was 82 this past March and is looking forward to 83. Please accept our condolences at this sad time. Jake (Claude) & Gerry Jacobs

Gary Schamburg

May 23, 2016

Mr. McCartney will be missed -- a true friend, golfer, duck hunter, and Berlin visitor. Rest in Peace.

Denny Ullo

May 23, 2016

Mike,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Condolences to you and your family.

Penny and Gary Blitzer

May 21, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss. Caitlyn has told Elyse what a wonderful grandfather he was! I know he is watching over the girls in Europe! Love, The Blitzers

May 20, 2016

Mary/Jim, and John's Family, please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your brother John. I had the privilege of playing in a golf tournament with John a couple years ago at Greenbriar. What a great guy! I know he will be greatly missed.
mark boland

Charley Sindel

May 20, 2016

What a great guy! He will be sorely missed but never forgotten

May 20, 2016

Dear Mike and McCartney family. Our thoughts and many prayers for you in the loss of your father. I have many memories of riding my bike over to the house, hanging out upstairs, and of course snacks from Judy.
Gerard Schmidt

Bill Teasdale

May 19, 2016

Mr. McCartney was the best. I have so many fond memories of him fishing at Rockbridge, hunting ducks and telling me stories about my Dad in law school. He will missed.

TRUDIE & JOHN VITALE

May 19, 2016

There can be no better couple and family than the McCartneys, and their friendship are very special.
Trudie & I go back to 1956, when John was the shortstop & I 2nd base for that famous keystone combination at SLU, and remember that great home run over the fence against Detroit.
Our golf group will miss John and his cleaning up the tee boxes of those broken tees, and we will remember him every time we hit the tee box with broken tees.
John & Judy will remain in our prayers forever... there were no greater friends and family.

Jim Tietjens

May 19, 2016

Mick, Jimmy, Johnny and Tommy,
I will never forget those nights watching the Stanley Cup Playoffs on that TV your dad used to set up on the patio. He will be watching this year's Cup in heaven and maybe he can pull some strings for our team.

Tom Ulmer

May 19, 2016

Judy and family, I had the privilege to enjoy Johns company on several pheasant hunting trips to South Dakota, talking baseball, hunting. Speaking for the other guys- Joe, Steve, Jerry, Jim, Mac, I extend our deepest sympathies on the loss of a great guy, a true gentlemen! We will have a toast in his honor. He will be missed.

Annie Gronemeyer Eck

May 18, 2016

Dearest McCartney Family, The Gronemeyer family sends our sympathy and love. John was very special to us. His visit on Christmas eve morning meant so much to us. I know he is sharing a few laughs and new jokes with my dad & many other angels up there.

May 18, 2016

JUDY AND FAMILY I AM VERY SORRY FOR THE LOST OF MY FRIEND JOHN, I AM IN FLORIDA AND ROGER PLACKE TOLD ME OF JOHNS DEATH.
JOHNNY NOVOTNY

Dick Huber

May 18, 2016

Judy,may God be with you and your family.
I often think back of the old neighborhood. My mother called me and told me about Johnny. She is 97 and doing quite well.

Patricia McBryan

May 18, 2016

Jimmy (son),
My sympathy to you & the family on this loss. May memories keep you smiling. You are in my prayers.
Pat

Patricia McBryan

May 18, 2016

Dear brother Jim,
My deepest sympathy to you & your family on this great loss. You are in my prayers,
Pat

May 18, 2016

We remember John with great fondness and admiration from his days as a summer playground teacher/coach at Sublette Park in the mid-50's!!! He always seemed to have a smile and had great stories to share with us 'kids.' RIP
Paul Owens and John Lueken

Jim Johnson

May 18, 2016

Dear McCartney Family, Many of my favorite childhood memories are of spending time at your house and seeing John on the back patio watching baseball on his little TV, or looking at all the cool soccer stuff he brought back from England. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Charles Hamilton

May 18, 2016

Judy and family: I was privileged to begin law school with John McCartney, and, 59 years later, can think of no person with greater accomplishment, more good humor, more optimism than John. It was impossible to know John and not to love him, and we all are heartbroken. We know he will rest in deserved peace.

May 18, 2016

Mike - so sorry for your loss.

Gary Ullo

May 18, 2016

Mike - Sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tom Roberts

May 18, 2016

Dear Judy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you with strength and the comfort of your family and many friends.
Marney Styffe

Marilyn Gilliam

May 18, 2016

Mr. Mac was a great man and will be forever missed by everyone. Everyone at City Lighting had great respect for him. God Bless Mrs. McCartney and all the rest of the family. Remember he will still be watching over all of you.

Judy (Murphy) Hemker

May 18, 2016

Dear Judy & family,
John was the best boss I ever worked for at Frisco Rwy. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families. God bless.

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