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Judith Bender Obituary

Bender, Judith A. (nee Harris) Thursday, December 20, 2018. Beloved wife of the late Kenneth Bender and John VanSickle Mann; loving mother of Susan (Mick) Noce, Scott (Chari) Bender, John C. (the late Stephanie) Mann, and the late Wayne Bender; our dearest grandmother, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, and friend to many. Services: Funeral at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravois, Wednesday, December 26, at 12:30 p.m. Interment at J.B. National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers contributions to de Greeff Hospice House appreciated.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 23, 2018.

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Karen Rayburn 03-18 -22.

March 18, 2022

Judy was my cousin, my Mother & her mother Sally were sisters. Would like to find her sister Kay, my cousin also. Found other cousin Philip Vasser in Myrtle Beach ,there was Lillian , sister to Sally & Nettie

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December 23, 2018

Our sincere condolences to the Bender family in the loss of your dear love one. Our prayers are as yours, that God provide his care and comfort you each day.
- Psalms 145:18,19

Z L

December 23, 2018

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your love one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may his loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

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