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Lori A. Elder

1964 - 2020

BORN

1964

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road

Ballwin, Missouri

Lori Elder Obituary

Elder, Lori A.

(nee Rush), baptized into the hope of Christ's resurrection, Wednesday, October 7, 2020, at the age of 56.

Beloved wife of Bruce A. Elder; Loving mother of Julianna Schneider and the late Brandon (Anna) Schneider; sister of Pam (Mike) Kelley, Mary (Joseph) Miller, Jeff (Gayle) Rush, Marty (Janet) Rush, Dave (Maggie) Rush, and the late Doug (Tina surviving) Rush; step-mother of Fr. Joseph Mary Elder, Shaun P. (Luciana) Elder, and Megan K. (Brett) Maltz; step-grandmother of Grace Maltz, Nolan Elder, and Dylan Elder; dear sister-in-law, aunt, cousin, and friend.

Lori was a good nurse and great cook who will be missed by her many family and friends.

Services: Funeral Mass will be held at St. Peter Catholic Church, Kirkwood, Saturday, October 17, 12 Noon. A service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.


To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 11, 2020.

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Suketha Rankin

February 21, 2021

Prayers from Keke your care giver/friend.

Anita Beckmann

October 11, 2020

Bruce, our sympathy is with you and your family at this time. If you need me to help in any way, please let me know. God bless you all.

Karen Visser

October 11, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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