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Mark Poelker Obituary

Poelker, Mark Steven age 55, passed away August 4th, 2011. Loving father of Lucas and Mason Poelker and grandfather to Tyler; beloved son of Joseph and the late Betty Poelker and brother to Gloria (Michael) Francis, Joseph (Marcy) Poelker, and Margaret Peggy Shelton; dear uncle to Sarah, Rebecca, Beverly, Renee, Nicole, Laura, Joseph, Nicholas, Melissa, Diana, and Kathleen; dear brother-in-law and endearing former husband of Barbara (Barth) Poelker; cousin to many and friend to all. Mark reveled in any activity that involved people. He especially enjoyed being around family and friends and spent the last few years volunteering to help others. Services: Funeral mass will be held Saturday, August 6, 11 a.m., All Souls Church, 9550 Tennyson Avenue in Overland.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Aug. 5 to Aug. 6, 2011.

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Debra Crowe

August 9, 2011

I knew Mark only briefly, since he started volunteering at The Bridge, the non-profit agency where I work. He was dedicated, worked hard, and was always pleasant. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Dan Boudria

August 8, 2011

I had the privilege of coaching Mark at MU his freshman year of college. He had so much talent as a wrestler, as well as being very tough and hard-nosed (my kind of wrestler). Whenever I ran into Mark it was always a joy to see him. He loved to brag on his sons as well as his wife. He loved them all a great deal as well as his father and brother. I will miss seeing Mark at who knows where, because you never knew where he may show up. God Bless you, Mark Poelker.

Becky Politte

August 8, 2011

I am so truly sorry to hear of this loss. I'll never forget the many happy times my family spent with Mark's family as long-time neighbors. My deepest sympathies go out to you, Joe, Joe Jr, Gloria & Peggy and to your families. Mark was always one of my favorite people. He will truly be missed.

Mark Laney

August 7, 2011

I am sorry to hear of Mark's passing. He was a great competitor and a nice guy. I had not seen him in a long time until a few years ago at the State tourney. It was always good seeing him. I am sorry for your family's loss.

Gregory Pace

August 7, 2011

Mark:

I played you in street hockey and you snapped my stick.
Then I tried roundball where you set one nasty pick.
I chose not to test you on your sweat stained mat,
As that was your temple where bugs tend to go splat.
But I evened the score in calc and physics class,
Where your aim was high, not just simply to pass.
I appreciated the width and the depth of your mind.
You were generous of spirit and your heart was kind.
It was an honor and a privilege to have called you a friend.
And I am quite sad that your journey is now at its end.

Cynthia Robinson Dyer

August 7, 2011

My heart and prayers go out to the Poelker family. Mark made a huge impression on me. He and I remained friends throughout the years even tho I live in Florida. I'll never forget getting fixed up on a date with him, going to one of our home games of the football season and he torn ligaments in his knee. He ended up in the emeregrncy room and I was bummed cause our date got messed up. Later that night he made his brother drop him off to my house. I answered the door and he says "Didn't we have a date tonight?!" he cracked me up. Never a dull moment with Mark!! You will be missed!

Tim Vogel

August 7, 2011

I was truly sorry to hear about Mark. Mark and I wrestled together at MU. When I would run into him at the state tournament I would always tease him about the time he had to wrestle Al Nacin from Iowa State. Mark was a true freshman and Al was a Senior and went on that year to win the NCAA's and go undefeated. He'd always laugh. Mark had a wonderful smile, and you always felt good after talking to Mark for just a few minutes. He will truly be missed. My prayers will be with his family.

Cassie (Polittle) Zinn

August 7, 2011

I can't believe tht he passed away. I never forgot about him when were growing up together as neighbors. He's soooo wonderful guy! I'm really sorry tht u lost ur beloved brother, father n grandfather. My prayers r with u all n Mark. Huggies

Ed Brown

August 7, 2011

My Hearfelt,condolences go out to the entire Poelker family. I only meet Mark once. But he left an impression that I will always remember.

August 6, 2011

Mark was fun to wrestle against in H.S. and a great team mate at M.U. I loved seeing and talking to him at H.S. wrestling meets the last few years. He always seemed to be in a positive mood. I will miss him. Jim Paulsen

Debbie (Politte) Speck

August 6, 2011

I could not believe it when I heard the words that Mark has passed away. I am so sorry. I started thinking about Mark and the things that happened in our lives. Mark and I was in the same grade through the school years. But what I remember the most is he was one of the good looking guys in our neighborhood and buff too! All of us neighborhood kids would get together and play 'tag your it' or we would play 'tackle football', even us girls got to play! It was fun - but then as we got older we went our separate ways. But never forgotten! My deepest sympathy to his family and friends. RIP Mark.

Tami Murphy-Hamby

August 6, 2011

Mark was a dear friend of mine growing up in Overland ...Our deepest symphony to the Poelker family, you are in our thoughts and prayers

Tom Zembidge

August 6, 2011

Joe, We wish to express our deepest sympathy and prayers for the loss of your brother Mark and to the Poelker family. May his soul rest in the Peace of the Lord.
Love, Tom, Jeanne, Greg and Kelly, Amy, Phil, and Carrie and Jim

Christy Kowalewski-Patterson

August 5, 2011

I'm so sorry.

August 5, 2011

Mark was a good friend, we shared a lot of great times together. He was always someone I could depend on. He will surely be missed. Terry (Stoner) Dacus

David Jeep

August 5, 2011

I remember Mark as good and true friend. He was always willing to help, no matter the personal cost.

August 5, 2011

I remember Mark as an outstanding athlete at Ritenour High School and an all around nice guy. Cindy Hearst Wittich (class of '74)

Cathty Huddle

August 5, 2011

Mark did our concrete patio on Wismer over 20years ago. When we moved to N.C. a had a picture and asked if they could make our new patio just like it. The guys had no idea. Mark was a great guy, always made everyone feel welcome.
Cathy (Derbak) Huddle

Benjamin Hunt

August 5, 2011

I remember Mark as a good guy and a very hard worker!!!!!

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