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Matthew Brewer Obituary

Brewer, Matthew Hamilton

31, of Wildwood, Missouri, passed away Friday, February 19th, 2021. Beloved son of Beth and Jay Barrington; devoted brother to Jordan Brewer, Kendall Brewer and Brandt McCartney; stepbrother to Mark Barrington and Kyle Barrington; adored nephew, cousin and friend to many; and real-life action hero to the gaggle of once-removed cousins who lovingly referred to him as "Matt-man." Born August 8, 1989, in Ann Arbor, Michigan, Matt grew up near St. Louis, Missouri, where he attended Lafayette High School. As a young man, Matt quickly stood out for his remarkable athletic abilities and leadership qualities. He earned All-State wrestling and football honors, serving as captain of both the football and wrestling teams during his junior and senior years. Matt later became an All-American football player for The United States Naval Academy as well as a champion boxer for the Navy Midshipmen. After graduation, Matt served as a captain in the United States Marine Corps and was recognized in various ways for his leadership, bravery, diplomacy and ingenuity. He recently transitioned from the military to a career of continued public service as a firefighter in Kansas City, KS. Even during his brief time there, Matt's dedication and determination were readily apparent and admired. In addition to enjoying all things sports and recreation, Matt's passions included his fierce love of family and his deep and abiding faith in Jesus Christ. He was a movie buff, a board game enthusiast, a surfer and a golfer. He was a patient listener, a strategic thinker, and a faithful friend. Matt has joined his earthly father, Timothy Brewer, former senior pastor of Central Presbyterian Church, and his grandparents in heaven. He undoubtedly greeted them with his signature shy smile, twinkling eyes and warm embrace. Those who knew and loved him will miss his gentle spirit, his quiet way and his hearty appetite. He was deeply loved, and he will be greatly missed.

Services: Funeral service is scheduled for Monday, March 1st at 9:30 a.m. at Central Presbyterian Church in Clayton, Missouri. Pastor David Sunday will officiate. Due to current restrictions, services will be in-person by invitation only with livestream participation available at https://vimeo.com/51643801. Private burial with full military honors will take place at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be offered to a memorial fund created in Matt's honor at https://www.gofundme.com/f/in-memory-of-matt-brewer to benefit families of veterans affected by CTE and PTSD. You may leave condolences at BoppChapel.com.


Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Feb. 28, 2021.

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Brad Fercho

March 11, 2021

I´ve never observed anyone who gave everything he had, to everything he did. He was so kind, you had to observe him to see that he was also a fierce competitor who participated with a relentless passion for excellence. My sincere condolences to his family, your loss is a pain I can´t comprehend. I´m thankful that I had an opportunity to know Matt, I´ll never forget him.

Rosemary Nocella

March 1, 2021

Matt was immediately recognizable as a star from the first time I met him at the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis, Md. I am the aunt of his two football and classroom pals, John Michael Nurthen II and Christopher M. Nurthen. What a sweet, handsome young man he was- I had the honor of spending a bit of time with him at his graduation at USNA. My nephews thought a lot of Matt, and my husband, Jeff, and I are honored to have known this courageous United States Marine. God bless all of the members of Matt´s family.

Judy Chathas,

February 28, 2021

Dear family, Our deepest sympathies. We met him in hawaii and will remember him as a true friend to Kevin .He spoke of Matt often, their bond and the love of Jesus. A remarkable young man. God's grace, mercy, and peace. I'm so sorry. I can't even even begin to imagine. My heart breaks for you mom . J

Charles Chathas

February 28, 2021

My salvation and my honor depend on God; he is my mighty rock, my refuge Psalms 62:7

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