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Michael Hoeing Obituary

Hoeing, Michael Gerard He was born on April 15, 1953 and passed away on March 21, 2014 at St. Anthony's Medical Center. He was preceded in death by his father Elmer Hoeing and mother Laurelle (nee Wiese) and his grandparents. He was baptized on April 26, 1953 and confirmed on June 1, 1961. He received his last rights on March 17, 2014. He is survived by his wife Joyce (nee Steiger) and his two wonderful children Michelle and Nicholaus. Sisters: Mary (Joe) Altnether, Kathy (Gene) Niehoff, Betty Hoeing, Joanne (Mike) Cronin, Laura Hoeing, Peggy Hoeing, Monica (Phil) Fingerhut, and brothers: Joseph (Barb) Hoeing, Gerry (Barb) Hoeing, Bob (Lena) Hoeing, John (Nancy) Hoeing, Tim Hoeing and Tony (Margie) Hoeing. In-laws: Willis and Doris (nee Mehrtens) Steiger, brother-in-law of Jerry (Linda) Steiger and Janice (Steve) Ceriotti; our dear uncle and friend. Services: Funeral from KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd. , Tuesday, March 25, 9:30 a.m. to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque Catholic Church for 10 a.m. Mass. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Diabetes Association or the St. Louis Zoo Friend's Association. Visitation Monday 4-8 p.m.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Mar. 23, 2014.

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April 15, 2014

Mike,
Miss you with my whole heart and sou! You will especially be missed on the three big holidays. All my love to you, Mike, and to all the relatives who went before you.
Your loving sister, Peggy

Rick & Donna Wiese

April 15, 2014

Happy 'birthday' Mike. Your family can take comfort in the fact that you are no longer in pain and finally enjoying that big (hearts) game with family members who have gone before us.

April 15, 2014

Joyce, Michelle & Nick, Thinking of you especially today knowing that you feel the void as do all of his siblings on this his 61st birthday. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and hope we can all reflect on the great memories Mike has made with all of us throughout his life. Love Mike and Joanne

April 15, 2014

Mike, thinking of you always, especially today on your birthday. You and your family will always be in my prayers. Miss you, but I know you are home with our Father in heaven.
Love, Laura

April 15, 2014

We miss you dear little brother, especially on your birthday today. You, Joyce and your beautiful children will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all.
Joe and Mary
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Monica Fingerhut

April 15, 2014

Happy Birthday Mike. You will always be in our hearts. We miss you, Mike and it's comforting to know you are Safely Home. Love to you (from your baby sister), Monica and Phil.

April 15, 2014

Happy Birthday Mike. Today and every day, you will be in our hearts. We miss you, Mike but we know you're safely home. Love, Monica and Phil

April 15, 2014

Today I am thinking of you, your immediate family, your extended family, your long-time friends. You brightened many lives with your special touch!
Happy 61st Birthday, little brother!
Love you---Kathy

John and Nancy Hoeing

April 14, 2014

Joyce, Nick and Michelle,
My heart is with you as I wish the brother I always loved a happy birthday. My love, and Nancy's prayers are with you on his 61st. God Bless.

Bob Hoeing

April 14, 2014

My brother, you were tough to beat at the card game Hearts. You always seemed to know exactly what I would pass you, and you always passed me the worst three I could imagine. You were tough, and I loved it. I like to think that, with your final hand, you ran the cards; sure, you pulled the dreaded "death card", but you also took all 13 hearts as well --- those of your siblings. You've made us all very happy, and enriched out lives immeasurably. Your light will continue to shine through Joyce, and Michelle, and Nicholas, and all of us. Rest in peace, brother, rest in our love. We miss you...

Elmer and Bessie Smith

March 27, 2014

Joyce Michelle and Nick,
So sorry to hear about Michael. May you comfort each other. Warm thoughts are sent your way

Connie (Simokaitis, Baumgartner) Finnigan

March 25, 2014

Dear Joe, Jerry, JoAnn, Peggy and the entire Hoeing Family: I am so sorry for your loss. I pray your many special family memories will help ease your grief.

Kevin Raftery

March 25, 2014

Love to the whole family, and wishes of strength.

Barry Rolland

March 24, 2014

Joyce......

Dana and I just wanted to let you know you and your children are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so very sorry for your loss and hope that you will find strength in fond memories and with all the love surrounding you by your family...

Prayers,
Barry & Dana Rolland

Jean Raftery Sackin

March 24, 2014

May God bless and keep Mike in eternal rest, and may He bring you peace at this time of sorrow.

Kathy Smith

March 23, 2014

Joyce,
I wish I could say something majical to heal your broken heart. Just know that you are surrounded by much love from family and friends. We are here for you.

Maura Groves

March 23, 2014

May fond memories of Mike bring you comfort, even as you face these dark days. God will help in this with His peace and strength.

Tim Tumbrink

March 23, 2014

Joe, Sorry for your loss.

Pat Gahn

March 23, 2014

My heart goes to you Joyce, Michelle and Nick. From my lips to God's ears, I pray for peace for you. Twinkle Toes was one of my favorites.

Jim Majewski

March 23, 2014

I have lost a very close friend of over 40 years. Good luck, Secret Agent Man, on the Starship Enterprise.

Rick (Donna) Wiese

March 23, 2014

Joyce, Michelle and Nicholas
There are no words anyone can say right now to ease the pain you are experiencing. We are all born with the knowledge that someday our time on earth will end, yet knowledge and common sense seem to go out the window when our loved one passes on to the next life. The tears we shed will heal us along with the passage of time and the memories of happier days. He will always be at your side, just in a better, closer place to God.

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