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Michael VanderPluym Obituary

VanderPluym, Michael J. suddenly on Sat., Dec. 29, 2007. Baptized into the hope of Christ's resurrection. Beloved husband of Laurie VanderPluym (nee Hall); dear father of Lisa (Allan) Casciola, Julie (Michael Kulik, Emily VanderPluym and special friend to Mary Jeanne Wilson; dear grandfather of Maria Grace Casciola; dear brother of Nancy (Joseph) Barry, Mary Ann (Steve) Malle, and Joseph (Julie) VanderPluym; dear brother-in-law; uncle; great-uncle, nephew; godfather; cousin and friend to many and many. Services: Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Justin Martyr Church, 11910 Eddie & Park Road, St. Louis, MO, 63126 (314-843-8482) on Thurs., Jan. 3 at 10:30 a.m. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. Visitation at St. Justin Martyr Church on Wed., from 3-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Pink Sisters at Mount Grace Chapel, 1438 E. Warne Ave., P.O. Box 470219, St. Louis, Mo, 63147 would be appreciated. A service of GEBKEN-BENZ Mortuary.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jan. 1 to Jan. 2, 2008.

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Gloria Hunter

January 24, 2008

Laurie,Lisa,Julie and Emily:
We were so sorry to just hear of Mike's untimely passing. As former neighbors, we really enjoyed your family's friendship and will always remember Mike in our thoughts and prayers. Our condolences to you Laurie and the girls.
John, Gloria & Matt Hunter

lou & mary enkelmann

January 23, 2008

laurie: so sorry.we were out of town when Mike passed. shocked yesterday whenwe arrived home .Loved him like one of my own children...had many enjoyable daysjust talking on the phone..will sorely miss his sly sence of humor and love of life..we will keep him in our daily prayers till God calls us home...lou &mary enkelmann stlouis/

Sandy Timmerberg

January 10, 2008

Dear Laurie, It feels like just yesterday that I babysat for your kids Lisa and Julie when they were babies along with Amy. I still remember you all like it was last week! Please accept my sympathy for you and your family. Love, Sandy Timmerberg (Peg and Amy's friend)

Andrew, Ivy & Eva Thornton

January 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We hope that the memories of the laughter and love you've shared will help to ease the pain of your loss. Mr. VanderPluym was a special person who could bring joy to everyone!

Andrew Eisele (Custom Muffler)

January 5, 2008

The Vanderpluym's
All of us here were stunned to hear about Mike.
He will be missed by all who knew him personally and professionally.
His sense of humor and just his overall outlook on life is what made it an honor to know him.
May God bless you and keep you through your time of sorrow.

Patricia Partridge

January 4, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Julie and Emily, I cannot believe my eyes. I just happened to see this today or you would have heard from me before now. I am so very sad to learn about Mike. What a GREAT Dad he was, and sooooo good to you Laurie. I pray for your comfort in the knowledge of Mike's goodness, and that your hearts will always know his love.
Blessings and love to each of you.
Patricia and Pat Partridge

Kammy Sitz

January 3, 2008

Dear Laurie and girls:

I have thought a lot about your family this week and wanted you to know that all my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Derek Young

January 3, 2008

Dear Laurie:

I was devastated to hear the news about Mike. It's been a while since I talked to him, but I had so many laughs with him that I will always remember him. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and if you need anything, please let me know.

Buddy, Abby and Connor Watkins

January 3, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Stay strong and always remember the love that your father (and husband) had for all of you.

Jen Zielonko

January 3, 2008

Mrs. VanderPluym, Lisa, Julie, & Emily,
I was very shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. Mr. VanderPluym was such a caring and kind person. He will be greatly missed. You are all in my prayers.

Colleen Clark

January 3, 2008

Dear Julie and Family,
It is quite obvious your dad has made quite a difference in the lives of those around him, as do you in the people you meet each day. His name Michael means "He is who is like God." God's love is never-ending and shines all around us all day, every day. Your father's love has touched many people's lives near and far, creating memories that will be cherished forever. May you continue to spread his love all around you and may you remember he is shining all around you all day, every day.
God bless,
Colleen (McLaughlin) Clark

Chris Althage (Schmidt Auto Service)

January 2, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about Mike. He will be missed in the Automotive community. Our condolences to his family.

Arlene Suchomski

January 2, 2008

Mrs. VanderPluym,

I am so sorry to hear about Mike. I had stopped by the church tonight and seeing all the people there for him showed what kind of man he was. I had spoken with Joe who obviously loved him very much and will miss him. I will miss answering the phone and hearing "Hey Red" and then him saying something that made me roar with laughter. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Mike often mentioned how proud he was of his daughters.

Arlene Suchomski, Niebling Auto Body

Katie & Chris Ambrose

January 2, 2008

Our hearts go out to all of you at this time and in the days ahead. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. VanderPluym was a remarkable man with such a great sense of humor and will be sorely missed.

Anonymous

January 2, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Julie and Emily,

I am so sad to hear about Mike. He truly is the most generous person I have ever met. He is the standard I use for a parent, boss, mentor and friend. He played all those roles in my life. His humor and ability make everyone feel special was contagious. A day doesnt go by that I don't try to use the example he set for me. I feel so fortunate to have been part of his life.

George Kerry

January 2, 2008

Dear Family of Mike VanderPluym:

It's at times like this that we turn to God and ask: WHY? Sadly, the only response we get is silence. Unfortunately, Our Lord does not share His plans with us. All we can do is place our hope and trust in God: Hope that God will fulfill His promise of eternal life for Mike, and Trust that God knows what He is doing and He will never abandon us. It is O.K. to be angry with God and cry over Mike's passing. After all, Jesus cried when His friend, Lazurus, died. Mike has received his eternal reward in God's time, and not during our time. I know Mike was close to Our Lord, because he shared the love of God with me and his many other customers. May God grant Mike eternal peace.

debbie fellenz

January 2, 2008

dear family,
not only was mike the only mechanic i could trust but a wonderful person too, he will be missed by many.
debbie fellenz-customer and friend

ED AND LINDA-ARBOGAST TAYOAN

January 2, 2008

WE WILL KEEP YOU IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. LET US KNOW IF WE CAN DO ANYTHING IN YOUR TIME OF GRIEF.

Maureen Bahn

January 2, 2008

Laurie and family,
I was so sorry and saddened to hear of your loss. The enormity of Mike's passing seems incomprehensible. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Edward Jeude

January 2, 2008

We had great visits and meetings concerning aircraft and spacecraft, especially the Gemini Project for which I autographed some pictures that he then had framed. We also shared Ephesians chapter 2, verses 8 thru 10. Please read it in your own Bible.

Mary Sandhofer

January 2, 2008

Dear Julie and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Mary Sandhofer

Richard Naes

January 2, 2008

Dear VanderPluym Family,
Mike touched my life with his thoughts and laughter. He never really knew it but he was a inspiration to me.
God Bless

Jill & Jason Niemann

January 2, 2008

Our prayers are with all of your family. Mr. VanderPluym will be missed by all, he had the special ability to make everyone in a room smile.

Tom & Nancy Underwood

January 2, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you ever need any thing give us a call. GOG BLESS!!

mary beth DeNiro

January 2, 2008

Dear Lisa,Allan,Maria and VanderPluym Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
DeNiro Family

Joe McGovern

January 2, 2008

The VanderPluym family
Mike's laughter and sense of humor and his business ethics were truly remarkable. I feel priveleged that I knew him.

Tori Taggart (Ciuffa)

January 2, 2008

To the Vander Pluym Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Tricia Frisella

January 2, 2008

Emily,
Find comfort knowing that those who have died are never really lost..they live on forever in our hearts.

"To the man upstairs!"

With love and sympathy,
Tricia

Gene Staat

January 2, 2008

Sorry for your loss. Mike was a great guy, did business with him for years. He will be missed. His family will be in my prayers.

Audrey Ryan

January 2, 2008

Dear Laurie, We were so sorry to hear about Mike. How very tragic for you and your family. When we think of Mike, we have great memories from the old St. Joe's Kirkwood days. Please know that we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers, love Dan and Audrey

Roxanne Trebus (Sigma-Aldrich)

January 2, 2008

VanderPluym Family,
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you in this very traumatic time. Mike was such a kind,generous and caring person. He will be missed and mourned by many. He was one of a kind! His humor, was priceless. Stay strong.
God Bless Your Family

JoAnn Welch

January 2, 2008

It has been such a shock to hear about Mike's passing. All of you have been in my thoughts and prayers. I will treasure my memories of him. Mike was such a wonderful father-in-law to Allan. I very much appreciate the entire VanderPluym family for taking Allan in as part of the family. May you know the love of God at this sorrowful time. Mike is now enjoying eternal life with his Lord.

Julie (Finger) Fowler

January 2, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Emily, & Julie,

Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Mike will surely be missed by all.

With Love,
Julie, Justin & Nellie Fowler

Karen Korinke

January 2, 2008

Dear Laurie and Family,
My heart goes out to all of you at the loss of Mike. You have been on my mind constantly since the sad news and you are in my prayers. The loss of my life long friend who brought such kindness, laughter and
compassion will be missed. Wishing all of you strengh throughout this difficult time.

Sharon Richey

January 2, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If we can do anything for you let us know. All Our Love,
Everyone at Richeys Auto Repair

Donna Plumley

January 2, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Julie & Emily,

Our memories of all Mike did to bring life to the lives of others will never be forgotten. We have all been touched by Mike's generous spirit many, many times. He was truly an angel to many here on earth and now God has called him home to live with Him forever. Though we are so saddened by his sudden passing, we are very blessed to have had him in our lives. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your beautiful family in this time of loss and sadness. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of his love and his love for life.
Our very deepest sympathy to Michael’s beautiful family.
To Michael, Have a Beautiful Forever!

Love,
Don Dresner, Teresa, Joe, Alicia & Donna Plumley and Bob Papin

A Friend

January 2, 2008

Mike was one of a kind! His compassion, generosity, laughter, friendship, and understanding were his trade marks. He will be missed! Blessings to the family.

Dina Garland

January 2, 2008

Dear VanderPluym Family
Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
The Garland Family (friends of Jerry & Lisa Kadlec)

MARY JUDE English

January 2, 2008

DEAR LISA, ALLAN AND MARIA,
WE WERE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR DAD'S SUDDEN PASSING. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.
FONDLY,
MARY JUDE AND DAVID ENGLISH
ASHTABULA, OHIO

Nick Rizer

January 1, 2008

Lisa,
We are so sorry to hear about your dad. You, your mom and sisters will be in our constant thoughts and prayers.
Sending you much love,
Nick and Erika

January 1, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Phil Catanzaro (the plumber)

January 1, 2008

Dear Vanderpluym Family,
My deepest sympathays to you. Mike was one of my best friends.He will be missed a lot. He was a special friend to me, and his passing has left a huge void in my life.I will never forget him, and will miss the good times I have shared with him whenever I have stopped by his shop.

FT & Jordan Tetlow

January 1, 2008

Lisa, Allan, & Maria --

We are so sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Katie F

January 1, 2008

Julie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. There are so many wonderful stories you have shared with me and others about your dad. Those stories and memories are reminders of all the joy, love and laughter that fill your lives. Your dad is a very special man, and he will always be with you.
We love you & your family dearly.
Katie & Zach

Patrick & Molly Hinker

January 1, 2008

VanderPluym Family,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and our prayers.

Anne and Domingo Gomez

January 1, 2008

The VanderPluym Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We will praying and thinking about you.

David Gdovin

January 1, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. I know what a special man he was to your entire family. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
David

Dave and Ann Weatherby

January 1, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Julie, Emily
Nancy, Mary Ann and Joe

Our thoughts have been with you since we heard the sad news. Please know you are in our prayers. We will remember Michael always for his generosity of spirit, his humor, and his enjoyment of being with his family and friends.

We were privileged to know him.

With love,

Rita Kloster

January 1, 2008

Dear Laurie and Family-
We are so sorry to hear of your loss! Mike will be missed by many, he was a very special person!
You are in our thoughts and prayers-
Rita and family

Joette Bergeson (Gdovin)

January 1, 2008

Julie, Michael, & Family -
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your father. We enjoyed our time with him at the wedding and share fond memories of a wonderful man! Always remember how he made you laugh and how much he loved you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Dan & Joette

John Hess

January 1, 2008

Laurie and family,
Mike left us way too early. I truly am sorry for your (and our) loss.
John Hess
Here's a link for my announcement to the radiator industry. I will soon send it out in an email message as well.
www.gohtsn.com/article_905.shtml

Pete, Donna, Pete, Danielle, & Halie Wildhaber

January 1, 2008

Emily,
We are so sorry for the sudden loss of your dad. We realize how close you were to him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your sisters, and your mom during this difficult time.
The Wildhaber Family

Jennifer Schreiber

January 1, 2008

Laurie, Lisa, Julie and Emily,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
The Schreibers
Brett, Jennifer, Cole and JAck

January 1, 2008

To Laurie, Julie, and the VanderPluym Family:

We are sorry for your sudden loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad and difficult time.

The Osberg Family (Paul, Martha, Julie and Luke)

Mike and Francine Gugger

January 1, 2008

Laurie,

If there is anything we can do to help let us know. I am sure that the very strong network of friends that you have will help you through. We will be in for the viewing and the funeral. Please don't even give us a thought. Our prayers are with you and your family. All our love and support.

Christina Cole

January 1, 2008

Lisa,

Your sister and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Cole Family

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