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1954
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2025
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Pam Merker Obituary
October 30, 1954 - May 3, 2025
Pam Ravarino Merker, Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Saturday, May 3, 2025.
Dear daughter of the late Ernie and Toni Ravarino; loving sister of Pat Koke and Carla Ravarino; beloved wife of Tom Merker for 44 years; cherished mother of Dan Merker and Amy Chapman; doting grandmother of Mikey, Reece, TJ Merker, and Vinny Chapman.
Memorial Mass at St. Clement of Rome Catholic Church on Saturday, June 7th at 10:00 am, with reception to follow. boppchapel.com
In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial donation in Pam's name to Birthright Counseling, St. Louis or Cardinal Glennon Children's Hospital. Boppchapel.com
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Julie Driscoll Myrick
June 5, 2025
I am so sorry for all of Pam's family. We were playmates back in the 50's and '60's back on White Ave. Such great memories of Pat and Pam. We had a lot of fun. Ran into one of them in college but don't remember which one. I treasure those times with the Ravarino's. God Bless you all and Prayers are being said.
Mark Grider
May 13, 2025
Attended St. Clement grade school with Pam and her sister Pat. Always pleasant, good sense of humor and a straight shooter on her opinions. Prayers and condolences for Pam and her family.
Cindy
May 12, 2025
Tom, So sorry for your loss. I used to dogsit for you. Cindy Fernandez
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