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Ret. Thomas Matthew Bushold US Army COL obituary, Ballwin, MO

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Thomas Bushold Obituary

Bushold US Army COL, Ret. Thomas Matthew

Bushold US Army COL, Ret. Thomas Matthew, Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, at the age of 92.

Loving husband of Margaret Clare Bushold (nee Henley). Beloved father of Thomas R. (Peggy) and Steven J. (Debbie) Bushold and Zoe C. de Penaloza; stepfather of Joseph C. (Gina) Williams and Janet M. (Tim) Berry. Dear and loving grandfather of 10. Dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and friend.

Tom attended Loyola University of Chicago where he graduated with a B.S. in Clinical Psychology and attended graduate school at Columbia University in New York, studying executive business courses. He worked for Smith Kline, now Glaxo Smith Kline, for 42 years. His duties included Sales Management, Marketing Management, Corporate Personnel and he retired as Director of Corporate Accounts. He also served in the U.S. Army for 37 1/2 years on active duty and in the active reserves, retiring as a Colonel. Tom is also a member of the Knights of Columbus, 4th degree. We, the family, would like to thank St. Andrew's at Cape Albeon and St. Andrew's at Francis Place for their loving and compassionate care. Tom was loved by many who knew him, and we will miss him very much.

Services: Funeral from the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, 14960 Manchester Road at Holloway, Ballwin, Monday, 9:30 a.m. to St. Alban Roe Catholic Church, Wildwood for 10:00 a.m. Mass. Interment at Holy Cross Cemetery, with full military honors. If desired, contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, the A.S.P.C.A. or Guiding Eyes for the Blind. Visitation Sunday 3-7 p.m., with Knights of Columbus Rosary at 7:00 p.m. Friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 12, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Thomas Bushold

Sep

14

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO

Sep

14

Rosary

7:00 p.m.

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO

Sep

15

Funeral

9:30 a.m.

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO

Sep

15

Funeral

10:00 a.m.

St. Alban Roe Catholic Church

Wildwood, MO

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Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO 63011

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Louise Nation

September 12, 2025

I remember COL Bushold with such fondness.When I was made Chief Nurse on annual training at Ft Leonard Wood it was during my anniversary and he somehow made sure I got flowers from my husband! He was very well liked and respected as a Commander.my heartfelt condolences to his family.

Stephanie Tighe

September 12, 2025

I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your father. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I can only imagine the pain of losing someone so dear, and I want you to know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

May you find comfort in the love and support of those around you and may your father's memory be a source of strength and peace.

With sympathy,
Stephanie

Donald Withrow

September 12, 2025

Tom was a lovely human being with a sunny disposition and great sense of humor.

Sheri Elpers

September 11, 2025

Tom will be deeply missed at St Andrews .. Forever in charge my friend . Love ya Sis Zoe . Forever daddy’s girls . Tom was always kind to my brother n I . Tom will live on thru his Precious Children n grandchildren, Your Mission was Successful here . God bless each of you .. Sheri

Marsha Aiken Whitaker

September 11, 2025

I am so very sorry for the loss of Tom. He was a wonderful loving man and a great friend to my Dad. God bless Tom and his family.

Mary (Prost) Ward

September 11, 2025

So sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. He was one of a kind and I am so glad I had the chance to know him. He made our days at SmithKline a joy. So many memories.

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