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Richard Stirlen Obituary

Stirlen, Richard 'Rick' passed away on January 11, 2008 at 11 p.m., surrounded by family and loved ones. Rick was born on August 30, 1925 in Kansas City, Kansas to Clarence and Rose (Merritt) Stirlen. He was the youngest of six children. He lived in Kansas City, Missouri until 1945 when he came to St. Louis to work as an insurance investigator. Rick retired at the age of 70 as a casualty investigator from GAB. In 1955 he married Patricia Jo 'PJ' Dalbey from Marion, Illinois. Together there were 3 children of this union: Susan Diane, Joan Marie and Mark James. In addition, Rick was the father of Mike Mitchell of Kansas City, Missouri and Susan Paine of Downey, California. In 1993 Rick and Pat adopted their youngest grandchildren, Jennifer Diane and Alexander Richard. He is survived by his loving wife of 52 years and 9 months, Patricia; daughters, Susan Newman (Lee) and Joan Stirlen; grandchildren Justin Gould (Sara), Jennifer Stirlen and Alex Stirlen and great-grandchildren, Zoe and Zeke Gould. He is also survived by his sister Virginia Brock (Wolcott) and nieces and nephews: George Fouts, Jacqueline Schiller, Robert Brock, Beverly Ridenhour, Marilyn Moore. He is preceded in death by his parents and siblings, Clare Morgan, Allene Fouts, Jay Stirlen and Clarence Stirlen; his son, Mark Stirlen and nephew Dennis Stirlen. He is also survived by many special lifelong friends: the Jerome Duff family, Marty Bronson, Ron and Sheila Dewell, Sandy Fouts and Donna Taylor. He is also survived by his beloved dog, Nessie. Our special thanks to Dr. Robert Tague, Dr. Seiichi Noda and his nurse Tina.Services:According to his wishes, Rick donated his body to Washington University Medical School. A memorial celebration of 'all that is Rick' will be held on Sat., Jan. 19, 2008 at 1 p.m. at KUTIS AFFTON Chapel, 10151 Gravois. Rick's adamant wishes were that instead of flowers, donations may be made on behalf of those charities he supported: the Humane Society, Animal Rescue or Feed My People.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Jan. 13 to Jan. 18, 2008.

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Ralph Stirlen

January 21, 2008

My deep sympathy to Pat and the rest of Rick's family. I regret being so late, but did not know of Rick's death until the 20th of January.

Julie Harvey

January 20, 2008

My prayers and love go to Pat and the family. I've know Rick for many years, and is someone I respect very much. I just found about his passing-or I would have been at the memorial service. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers,
Love,
Julie Harvey and Paul Harvey

George Wendell Fouts

January 18, 2008

I met Rick while replacing a door on his house. I could see he was a compassionate and caring person then, even before we discovered our family connection.
I am sorry I never kept that connection alive and have thought of him many times since that meeting.
I know he is dearly missed and my heart goes out to all that are affected by his passing.
The good Lord has had a good man here on earth. He will live on, forever in my heart.

Peace and Love,
George Wendell and Pamela Fouts

Loni Ross Kleinschmidt

January 14, 2008

Dear Pat;

We know he will live in your heart forever. Our prayers are with you and the family at this time and forever forward.

In Our Hearts,

Bob and Loni Kleinschmidt

Marilyn Moore

January 13, 2008

Our love and prayers go out to all the Stirlen family in the loss of their Father, Husband & Uncle. I still have the necklace that Uncle Dick & Aunt Pat gave to me for graduation in 1967. I will always remember the caring & love he gave to Denny & I during & after Mom's surgery & then the loss of her. It meant so much to both of us, but Denny loved being able to see our "Dad" in Uncle Dick & talk the "Stirlen" stuff that he wasn't able to do with our Dad. He will be missed. God Bless.
Love,
Marilyn & Doug Moore

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