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Stephen Robert Jack Lato

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Lato, Stephen Robert Jack on Sunday, September 18, 2011. Stephen Robert Jack Lato departed this life to join his Lord, parents and grandparents. He leaves behind his children, Robert Travis Lato, Kaylyn Marie (Todd) Wall and Savanna Rose McNeely, as well as his sister, Barbara Ann Desmuke and her husband Daniel and their children Danielle and Nicholas. There have been many others too numerous to mention whose lives have been touched by Steve Lato. We will rely on our many memories to help fill the vacancy we feel with his loss. Steve followed his dreams and ambitions wherever they led with courage and strength. He had a strong sense of family and lived his life on his terms. His time with us has been too short. We will miss his presence in our lives, but we rejoice with him as he has been released from his pain and trials here and enters his Heavenly Home. Services: Memorial visitation will be held at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL, 10151 Gravos, Thurs. Sept. 22, 4-8 p.m. Contributions to the Make a Wish Foundation appreciated.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 21, 2011.

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Karen Bell

September 25, 2011

Steve ~ I will miss you!
Over the years we've had good times and bad times,but through them all ,we became the best of friends.
I won't ever forget your caring nature,your smile and the way you made me laugh, I will cherish the fond memories for the rest of my life.It will be difficult for all of us that loved you ~ living everyday without you in our lives,because you touched every person you've ever known in a special way. I know that I am a better person because of it. I thank God for every moment that we shared together and putting you in my life and I will never forget you.
I will always love you.
Karen

Spencer Spriesterbach

September 23, 2011

My deep condolences, thoughts and prayers to the Lato family.
Steve and I kept in touch and remained friends despite being miles apart. I was in St Louis earlier this month and we were able to get together for a visit. We shared some pictures while he took a break from fixing up his new house. He spoke with pride of all his childern. The success of Robbie and Kaytln and future of Savanna. He left us all too soon and will be missed.

Joe Odorizzi

September 22, 2011

Kaylyn and Todd,
All of my sympathy and best wishes to you and your families during this time. I met your dad and had a very nice conversation with him the night of your wedding. He was a very nice, friendly guy, and I wish I would have gotten another opportunity to spend some time getting to know him more. God bless you all.

Pam Hutter Boshers

September 22, 2011

Even though it has been many years since I have seen Steve, I will always fondly remember him as my awesome friend from high school. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Steve's family and dear friends.

Rich Adkins

September 22, 2011

I knew Steve from high school, first time I met Steve I thought he came off a little cocky ( go figure ) we became good friends soon after that. Steve even got me a job at Immerfrost skating rink. I was back visiting family in St.Louis a few weeks ago and was able to catch up on some stories with Steve from high school. He even brought up a couple of our wild nights out ending up at my house in my basement room that I had even forgotten. He also told me about what was going on in his life now, was able to meet his new wife ever so briefly and he talked about his baby with a gleem in his eye. I wish we had more time to talk about the old days but I believe God needed Steve and he needed him now, so with that I will say later Lato you will be missed my friend by many....u are a good guy with a good heart

Vickie Hayden

September 22, 2011

Lato will always be in our hearts and many memories. As stubborn as a mule but such a giving heart and kind man. He is a man who has touched many lives. We will miss his laughs, advice and smile but hold those memories in our heart forever. The Papa's gang is going to miss him dearly. Endless thoughts and prayers to all who he touched and touched him in return.

September 22, 2011

Barbara--Michael and I want to express our deepest sympathy. We have fond memories of both you and Steven here in the country, along with your grandparents and mom and dad. He was such a fun person to be around. May God bless you and your family and remember that we do love you and care.Jodie Donati

Steven Matzker

September 22, 2011

Steve, you were a father figure,mentor, and friend for me. You took my family in as your own and always made me feel a part of yours. You showed me the meaning of respect, and hard work as well as never cutting corners is only way to make it anywhere in life. I know you and Papa will be watching over us all! I am truly grateful for all the memories, talks, and time you and I spent together! Kaylyn, Robbie, Sahvanna, and the rest of the family may God watch over you all!I love you Steve

Terry & Sue Odorizzi

September 22, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Todd and Kaylyn. It's so very hard to lose the people that we love. Kaylyn we only met your dad once, but found him to be so personable and a great individual. Please know we are thinking about you and your family.

Heather Kloeppel

September 22, 2011

For several years we walked into and out of Pappa's and several other places to find you smiling and talking. I hope this finds you happy and pain free for the first time in a long time. You joined your father too soon but you guys have many stories to catch up on. love ya Steve. And as many of us have said and will say for the last time..."later Lato" You will be missed and forever loved for just being your loving self.

Duncan Girls

September 21, 2011

Uncle Steve was an amazing man. He was kind, strong, witty, loving, honest, and not to mention a little stubborn. He was someone we could count on for advice or support. My heart breaks for the ones who never got to know, love, or admire Steve Lato. For Katlyn, Robbie, & Savanna Rose may God remind you dailey of the wonderful, proud Dad you forever have. He lives in our hearts. Unconditional Love...

Dave Cooper

September 21, 2011

Steve was a long time friend of our entire family. I could always count on Steve for help and support in many ways. He will always be in our thoughts and prayers.

Mike Duncan

September 21, 2011

Steve was one of my two true friends. He was a friend of the whole Duncan family and will be greatly missed by all of us.

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