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Stephen Proctor Obituary

Proctor, Stephen P. Feb. 10, 1966-Nov. 24, 2017. Chef Stephen died quietly on Nov. 25, 2017 after a brave battle with lung cancer. His mother, Carol, and his younger brother, James, proceded him in death. His father, Stanley, survives him. He is sorely missed by a number of friends and co-workers, especially his dearest friends, Tera Petri and Dave Gant. He was a charter member of King of Kings Lutheran Church in Chesterfield. Stephen was born in Saint Louis and lived in a number of places before settling in Chesterfield, MO. He attended Parkway Central High School where he was active in the marching band, orchestra and jazz band, playing the trombone. He received a BS degree from Michigan State University in Food Systems Management and Economics in 1988 and spent his freshman year in the Spartan Marching Band. He then attended the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, New York and received an associate degree in Culinary Arts/ Chef Training in 1990. He began his culinary career as a sous chef at the Adams Mark Hotel in St. Louis, MO and then moved to the Fox Theater as Executive Chef. He was at the Fabulous Fox for 22 years until his death. He also served on an advisory committee for Le Ecole Culinaire in St. Louis County. Services: There will be a visitation from 5-8 p.m. on Tuesday, Nov. 28 and from 9-10 a.m. on Wednesday, Nov. 29 at Bellerive Mausoleum Chapel, 740 N. Mason Rd, with Funeral Ceremony at 10 am. Interment Private. A Memorial Service will also be held at King of Kings Lutheran Church, 13765 Olive Blvd. on Monday, Dec. 11, 2017 at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to King of Kings Lutheran Church or to a charity of your choice. www.valhallafunerals.net

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Nov. 28, 2017.

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Ronald Seitz

November 22, 2020

Our prayers go with you. LOVE YA ALWAYS>

Ronald Seitz

November 22, 2019

Stephan you will always be in our prayers

December 12, 2017

Steve, you will be missed by so many people. Thank you, dear cousin, for being such a dear friend to your Dad. Joanne Kleppe

Nicole Shuman

December 5, 2017

Stephan was a wonderful soul and talented Chef, he will be greatly missed. My greatest sympathy to his father and other family members.

Mike Belcher

November 29, 2017

Steve, you were one of the nicest guys I have ever met working for you at the Adam's Mark. Rest in Peace!

Deborah Hammonds

November 28, 2017

Almost 20 years ago, Stephen did a great kindness to my family that has lasting impact even to the present day. He will not be forgotten for his generous, loving and unselfish heart.

Rosalyn Coffey

November 28, 2017

So saddened upon hearing of the passing of Stephen. I didn't know him as a Chef, but as a patient in our allergy office. I was one of the nurses who would give him his shots. He always had a smile and a great sense of humor. I am privileged to have gotten to know him. Many prayers and blessings for the family and friends he left behind. And I ask Stephen to pray for us, now that he is one of God's Angels and personal Chef.

Steve Glover

November 28, 2017

Heavy heart with the passing of such a great talent. Although a customer in name, truly a friend in my heart and I'll miss the conversations, the laughs and the smiles during sales calls. Deepest sympathy and condolences from the entire team at Fortune Fish.

DAVE STEPHENS

November 28, 2017

So sorry for the passing of Chef Stephen. His memorable meals at The FOX for our annual banquets and his presence will be sorely missed.

Ronald and Dorothy Seitz Family

November 28, 2017

Stephen You will always live in our hearts and prayers. Stanley our love and thoughts are with you.

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