Hochman, Susan Kirchner "Susie"
74 of St. Louis, MO passed away peacefully at her home in Clayton on Thursday, June 22, 2023.
Susie was born in 1949 to Marguerite Shaub Kirchner and Bernard Cletus Kirchner in Lancaster, PA. After moving to New Jersey and then to Geneva, Illinois during her childhood, she went to college at St. Louis University where she met the love of her life, Jeffrey Hochman. The two lived in St. Louis, surrounded by loving family and friends, for the entirety of their 54 year marriage.
Susie was passionate, enthusiastic, and effervescent. A lover of design, art, and craft, she was creative and curious. She never shied away from a challenge and threw her whole self into everything she did. When she worked in vintage clothing, she studied Japanese to better communicate with clients. She prepared assiduously for her beloved book club. She always looked impossibly chic whether in blue jeans, a Halloween costume, or a cocktail dress. In Susie's presence, everyone felt seen and heard. She was generous with her sparkling smile and her joy was contagious. Susie loved to celebrate with family and friends. She was also a great listener and compassionate and present friend, mother, grandparent, sister, and wife. Her table was the most welcoming place to share a meal, stories, laughter, and empathy.
Susie is survived by her husband and constant companion, Jeffrey Louis Hochman; her children Jessica Lee and Jules B. and his wife Erica Wood Hochman; her grandchildren Ella Leigh Hochman, Hadley Ryan Hochman, Mirabelle Rose Threadgold, Evy Rose Hochman, and S. Brooks Hochman; her sister Marcia Anne Kirchner, and her siblings by marriage Jere Irving Hochman and his wife Josette Del Priore Hochman, and Janet Hochman Ness and her husband Christopher Ness.
Services: Visitation Wednesday, June 28th, 11:00 a.m. at BERGER MEMORIAL CHAPEL, 9430 Olive Blvd, followed by memorial service at 12:00 Noon. Visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. For more information about Susie, visit https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/susiespretzeljar
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to National Jewish Hospital or Barnes Jewish Hospital Hospice, whose compassionate care made such a difference to Susie and her family.

Cindy Zimmerman
June 26, 2024
Our high school reunion in 1990. As usual Susie and Jeff were the coolest people in the room with their Jean jackets. Miss you Sue
Cindy Zimmerman
April 8, 2024
Dear Jeffery
I just heard about Susie. I´m so sorry for your loss. She was too young and too beautiful to leave this world. My sincere condolences to you and your family.
Cindy & Rand Zimmerman
Alison Waters
June 26, 2023
Dear Jeff & family, so very sorry to hear of beautiful Susie´s passing! I met her at Barry´s several parties over many years! She was so sweet & kind to everyone she met! I realize how much you loved her- and send Tom & my very deep condolences! Hoping that time May ease your pain! We have relocated to Houston since 2021! Much love always! Alison & Tom Waters
Marta Dorr
June 25, 2023
I met Susie when she created the beautiful Monet T-shirt for the Saint Louis Art Museum. So creative!
Marta Dorr/De Mun neighbor
Ivette Rothschild
June 25, 2023
Jeff, my heart goes out to you and your family. I met Susie many years ago doing a project on our house. She was everything you write about - the sweetest smile, knowledgeable, relatable with such a gentleness about her. Little did I know she was the mother of my son Paul´s future good friend, J.B. If there´s a heaven, it surely awaits Susie. Ivette and Andy Rothschild
John Drew
June 25, 2023
Jeff, I´m so sorry for your loss. Susie was a wonderful person who leaves us with many beautiful memories.
-John Drew
Maxine Meyerhardt
June 25, 2023
A terrible loss for everyone who knew her.
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