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Deiters, Thomas J.
Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, Wednesday, November 4, 2020. Beloved husband of Patricia Deiters (nee Peroutka); dear father of Steve (Chelsea) Deiters and Jeanne (Frank) Melton and the late Tommy Deiters; dear grandfather of Alex, Ellie and Tillie; dear brother of Jim and Vince Deiters and the late Margaret Rolfes and Charles Deiters. Our dear brother-in-law, uncle, cousin and friend.
Tom was a high school and college basketball referee for over 40 years.
Services: Funeral from Kutis Affton Chapel, 10151 Gravois, Thursday, November 12, 9 a.m. to St. Elizabeth of Hungary Catholic Church for 9:30 a.m. Mass. Interment J.B. National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions to the Alzheimer's Association appreciated. Visitation Wednesday 4-8 p.m.
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Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Deiters
Bill and Susan Peroutka
November 13, 2020
I´ll miss talking SLU basketball at family functions. RIP Uncle Tom
Bruce & Sharon Hagy
November 11, 2020
Condolences to the family, Tom always had a smile and a story!
Tom loved basketball and his "beautiful bride". He knew he was a lucky guy!
Bill Siebel
November 11, 2020
One of the best guys I have ever known. We coached baseball together for years and our families had many great times together. Totally love this man
Daniel Puricelii
November 11, 2020
My deepest sympathy
George and Linda Birk
November 9, 2020
Our deepest sympathies.
Tom was a wonderful gentleman.
Pat may you and your family find comfort in Gods love at this time.
Sincerely
George and Linda
Columbia Mo
The Smith family, Jill, Garrett and Tara
November 9, 2020
We are praying for your sweet family. Love you, The Smiths
Chuck & Beth
November 8, 2020
You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
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11
Visitation
4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.
Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123
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12
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Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123
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