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for Barry Shapiro
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Pat
September 20, 2023
Barry, I still miss you and think of you every day.
To those who continue to enter your thoughts, thank you so much. Your kind words bring me joy as I remember Barry with you.
Pat
Ron Lopez, RN
September 19, 2023
Dear Family Shapiro:
I echo Patti Hara's thought regarding the tardiness of this entry. Here we are decades later and the page is still working; I love it! I came across it today because a friend of mine is traveling to Chicago and it brought back memories of the numerous times I've been there from where I've lived in CA. One of those times was in the late 1980's/early 90's when I was there for a pulmonary critical care class taught by The Good Doctor Shapiro. I was getting ready for national boards and I will never forget what a wonderful teacher he was. Know that the knowledge he imparted to me has helped save many lives in the ensuing years. One can never know the full domino-effect of great teaching from just one teacher. Suffice it to say I will be forever grateful to this man. I'm now retired and seeing patients on a purely part-time basis as I now work as a medical forensics consultant. My condolences and best wishes to all of you; and Kudos to Bruce Kleinman for putting this page togeter. Ron Lopez, RN, Modesto, CA.
Pat
July 10, 2023
I know our friend Bill Puzio would have posted a message before he passed away Friday to tell Barry he´d be seeing him soon. I am so sad.
M Nowocin
September 20, 2020
An irreplaceable Man and Soul.
September 22, 2019
There is not any person in my life I miss more than you for ten years we shared a friendship unparalleled by any relationship Ive had in my life you made me feel more important then I could ever possibly be. Thank you for being my friend
August 17, 2016
In the 8 years that have passed I think of you daily. You were such a wonderful person. I miss the memories that were yet to come but I hold on to all the one's we made. Till we meet again old friend.
Your friend
The Puz
Howard Hast
November 3, 2012
Dear Barry's family,
I am a Pediatric ICU physician who practices at Rush University. Barry was one of my professors during my Fellowship training (1993-96) that included a month at NMH training under Barry and his colleagues.
I remember Barry quite well and admired his brilliance, enthusiasm, and good cheer. He was a great teacher and one I shall remember fondly, always.
Patti Hara
June 28, 2012
Dear Pat,
I don't know if this will ever be read since it has been several years since Barry's passing. I recently learned of his passing and was very much saddened. I worked as Barry's secretary for 4 1/2 years at Northwestern Memorial Hospital when he was the Chairman of the Dept. of Respiratory/Critical Care and typed the manuscripts for his books. I have often thought of him over the years. He was such a smart, kind & generous man....one of the best bosses I ever had. I did not know that he had married again - it warms my heart to know that he found love and happiness again. I am sure he is missed deeply by many.
Chivas Guillote
October 10, 2010
Barry and Pat,
I am getting ready for a day trip tomorrow to Ft. Lauderdale, and I thought of both of you this evening. Although I only had a few hours to spend with both of you, I was honored to be able to meet you and to know I was sitting with two special people.
I am going to have lunch tomorrow at Trina's (Barry recommended it to me on our flight from Houston to Ft Lauderdale). Ever since he mentioned it, I have been eager to try it out!
Pat, I hope you are doing well and I enjoyed looking at all of the pictures on his guestbook. Good bless!
Chivas Guillote, RN
Sheila Grossman Goldberg
December 25, 2009
I do not know if it is too late to sign this book. To Barry's wife and family, my name is Sheila (Grossman) Goldberg. I first met Barry at Bagley Elementary School, in Detroit, probably in kindergarten. He was my first love starting in the third or fourth grade. He was extremely popular. I was in school with him through Bagley, Post Intermediate, and Mumford High School. He was handsome,popular and very, very personable, friendly and kind. You are truly fortunate to have had him in your lives. I am impressed, but not really surprised, at his many accomplishments. After high school, the only times I saw him was at our high school reunions. We were truly a unique group of students who accomplished much academically and professionally.
I am sure that Barry will be greatly missed. I am so thankful that I received this information on Barry. It was forwarded to me by my lifelong friend, Bertha (Greenberg) Makow. This graduating class has remained in touch with each other.
I can be reached at [email protected]. I would love to share my memories with you as they can fill in a time in your lives that you may not know much about.
With love and respect
Sheila
October 18, 2009
Pat
October 18, 2009
Bill Puzio
September 25, 2009
One year ago...It hurts more today.
Pat
September 25, 2009
My Dear Barry, as I continue life's journey without you, I fill the hole in my heart with memories, just as you said I should. The memories of your smile, your laugh, the wise things you said, your touch, and, most of all, your love replace my tears with a smile. My life will never be the same without you; I miss you so. Love forever, Pat
Jim McClure
June 15, 2009
I got to know Dr. Shapiro during a Respiratory Congress held in San Jose Costa Rica in 1988. We were assigned to sit together and became friends over the week. I was impressed with how animated and life-loving he was. My Costa Rican counterparts were impressed, of course, with his status as one of the giants in our field.
Yesterday I ran across an old photo of us sitting together while he tried to force me to try a Costa Rican folk dance being demonstrated (kind of pushing me from my chair). I thought I would look him up on the internet, get in touch and say hello after 21 years. I'm so sorry I waited too long. Lesson learned. He left a deep impression of love of work along with love of family and fun. He is missed.
Terence Grupe, RRT
March 17, 2009
I worked with Dr. Shapiro at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in 1972/3 as a critical care respiratory therapist specializing in ventilator management. I was always good at the technical aspects of respiratory care while thinking I was pretty good at clinical care as well. I discovered that what I thought I knew well clinically was only the beginning of my learning curve. Dr. Shapiro expanded my clinical expertise well beyond what I was previously taught. He included me in doctor rounds and asked for my input in the patient’s care. I must admit for a young therapist I felt pressure since all the residents were in attendance. However, his soft voice and encouraging words help guide me. He made me a better respiratory therapist. He will be missed.
Paul Lange
February 7, 2009
I first heard Barry speak in 1990 when I was a intern. His passion and teaching ability were so inspiring to me that I choose to pursue a career in critical care. I have never regreted that decision and I have Barry to thank for that inspiration. I cannot thank him enough for the brief but significant impact he made on my life.
Kelli DeBerry
January 21, 2009
My Heartfelt Sympathy to Dr. Shapiro's family. I was a respiratory student at northwestern in 1979, Dr. Shapiro was one of my instructors. After 6 weeks of class I thought I made the wrong career choice, until Dr. Shapiro's classes began. He made learning pulmonary medicine interesting and challenging. My understanding of the science is because of Dr. Shapiro's classes. I love my profession and so grateful to Dr Shapiro for keeping me on tract.
Phil Weinfurt
December 26, 2008
To Pat and family,
I learned from Barry in all facets of medicine and administration. I also learned how to enjoy life and weigh life's priorities from Barry! He was my friend and mentor. I dearly miss him.
Phil
Debbie Sharpe
October 28, 2008
We are so going to miss the stories.
My thoughts and prayers go to Pat and family
Diane Shepardson
October 20, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to Barry's family. While working with Barry as his Administrator, he engaged me in laughter, learning and the art of living. His many lessons have helped me in my life transitions. His diverse legacy lives within the many people he touched. With love and gratitude, Diane
Nina Appel
October 14, 2008
Pat and family,
Please accept my condolences on the death of Barry. I know that your friends at Loyola Law School join me in sending you our deep sympathy.
Dean Parker
October 14, 2008
Pat;
I am unable to attend the service, but want you to know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Barry was a wonderful fellow, a rare combination of intellect and warmth, and a great partner in life for you. He will be sorely missed by all who those who knew him.
Fondly,
Tim McCarthy
October 14, 2008
Pat: I was so sorry to hear about Barry. He was a great guy. I'll never forget when he took us sailing.
Tim McCarthy
Chivas Guillote
October 13, 2008
Pat,
I am so sorry to hear about Barry's passing. Although I only knew him for a few hours, I felt like I was sitting with a Giant! I know he helped patients, doctors, nurses, respiratory therapists, and any and all people he came into contact with. I felt honored to meet you both.
Thank you so much for sharing a very small piece of your lives with me. I know it was hard to come home from Houston. I will never forget the experience!
God Bless you and your family. All of you are in my prayers.
My deepest sympathy,
Chivas Guillote, RN, EMTP
Memorial Hermann Life Flight
Jim Broutman
October 13, 2008
Barry and Bobbi Shapiro were like 2nd parents to me growing up in Glencoe. David was my best friend growing up and Leslie became a life long friend..Their parents were Larger Than Life..Great People..They were the cool parents..I am so sad for Leslie's kids to have not known Bobbi but they at least had the privilege of knowing their grandfather. I have so many memories of both Bobbi and Barry that it is hard to express it in a guest book..My deepest sympathies go out to Pat, David and Leslie as well as all of Barry's family and friends..A great loss...
Vicky Ramos
October 13, 2008
Dear Pat, Leslie, and David,
My sincerest sympathies go out to you and yours. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this sorrowful time.
Dr. Shapiro was a wonderful man and I'm honored to have had the pleasure of knowing him and working with him. He will always be "Chef" in my heart! I will always cherish the laughs and memories we shared in the office. He loved and lived life to the fullest!
May he rest in eternal peace.
Bonnie Mitelman
October 13, 2008
I think of Barry laughing, his head thrown back with complete abandon. Even knowing the cruel harshness and random sadness of life, he shared his humor as generously as he shared his brilliance, helping to heal however he could. He brought in some laughs, for instance, at the same time he brought in the head of anesthesiology at Memorial Sloan Kettering 20 years ago when my husband faced complex surgery for throat cancer. I think Barry was instrumental in saving Alan's life. He was my first cousin, but Barry was more like a gentle older brother to me. He was president of the Michigan Union (more prestigious then than President of the U.S. is today!) when I entered the University of Michigan as a freshman and his joyous inclusion of me in his world brought me the happiest days of my life. His presence made the world seem safer and more fun; his loss is enormous. Our love and condolences to Pat, David, Leslie, Gregg, Carly, Drew, Bev and all who knew and loved him.
janet hoffman
October 12, 2008
Dear Pat, David and Leslie, I will always remember Barry smiling, with his characteristic big grin, as we all sailed out on a catamaran in Maine. His zest and enthusiasm for life was in evidence that day, as I know it was most of his life. I'm sad for all of you. Barry will be greatly missed.
Love to you all , Janet
Donna (Appler) Crompton, RN
October 10, 2008
I was so very fortunate as a new nurse to move to Chicago and start work in the ICU at Wesley (aka Northwestern). Barry was our Pulmonary Medical Director for the ICU. His willingness to teach and listen brought our team together. He kidded me when I asked him to sign his first book for me...it remains today as one of my most treasured books and has made many moves with me. We worked together for 6 years and it still remains the most magical and special time of my career. Such discoveries we were making. He was a giant with a smile that lit up the room and so gentle with patients. He was the main reason I gravitated to caring for respiratory patients. The world is a less brighter place without his smile. Pat, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lori Harmon
October 9, 2008
My most heartfelt sympathies are extended to Dr. Shapiro's family. While I did not know Dr. Shapiro personally, as a young respiratory therapist all of my colleagues from Michigan to California used Dr. Shapiro's publications as guides to providing the best care possible to our patients. Everyone knew who Barry Shapiro was in the respiratory therapy community and everyone admired and respected his contribution to our growth as clinicians. I will forever be indebted to Dr. Shapiro for sharing his brilliant insights which inspired so many.
Barry circa 1974
Betty (Vostinak) & Charlie Rose
October 8, 2008
Dear Pat, David & Leslie,
I am so sorry that Barry has been taken from you all too soon. I have had the pleasure of knowing Barry for nearly four decades. I came to Nortwestern shortly after he did. He was definitely larger than life, a truly gifted clinician, who always had amazing patience and compassion with patients. He was an incredible teacher and a very supportive boss who taught me to always strive for the top and to above all, trust my instincts. But more than this, he was first and foremost my very dear friend. Over the years we have shared many happy times and sad ones too.
Barry had a wonderful sense of humor, whose smile and laughter was always so contagious. He loved life and jumped into every phase with the same enthusiasm.
Tonight, on the eve of Yom Kippur, as Charlie and I light yahrzeit candles for our families and beloved friends, one for Barry will be shining brightly also.
I will miss you my friend. May you rest in peace. You will always be in our hearts.
Pat
October 8, 2008
My dearest Barry. Twenty years ago today was the happiest day of my life. Today, I grieve losing you. I cannot put into words the depth of my despair. We filled one another’s gaps. Without you, I am less than whole, wandering without your guidance and your touch. You were my beacon in the fog, my umbrella in the rain, my blanket in the cold, my companion in the sun.
You said I taught you how to love. You taught me how to love life. You told me to fill the hole in my heart with memories of our life together. Today, I pray for the strength to do that, to find solace to replace the pain. The beautiful family you have given me, David, Leslie, Gregg, Carly and Drew, embrace me. We are taking care of one another as you asked us to do.
I hope there is a heaven where I will be with you again; but if there is not, I know that I had a piece of heaven in my life with you. There could not be a greater love than my love for you.
At Bev's 70th B-Day Party in Vegas
October 8, 2008
Robert Ragir
October 8, 2008
Dear Pat, David and Leslie, I am sorry to hear of Barry's passing. I remember him as always being there when anyone in the family was seriously ill. I am especially grateful of how much care he gave to my Dad before his death. I remember how fond he was of both my parents. My deepest condolences to you.
The Sunset we enjoyed
October 7, 2008
Barry In Key Largo in June enjoying the sunset
October 7, 2008
nick rizzo
October 7, 2008
dear pat, i know this is a very hard time for you and i wanted to say that i wish you peace and serenity thru this time , i hope i will always be a friend for you , as you know my feelings for your family have always been loving and caring my prayers were there during his passing and will be said for you at this time.
Bill & Sami Puzio
October 7, 2008
It was ten years ago when Dr. Shapiro needed a caretaker for his house in Ft. Lauderdale, he chose me. I was made to feel welcome at every meeting and knew this was not a common man. Alas the house was sold and my job was over in about a year.
To my surprise I got a call from "Barry" asking if Sami and I would join him and Pat for dinner, and so it began. It was a wonderful ride from that day on, why he accepted us as friends and equals will forever intrigue me. From then on we never missed a birthday, anniversary or holiday. (except Christmas which was spent in Atlanta with his children and grand children)
From the wonderful trips we took to the gag gifts we shared on special occasions, not to mention when Sami and I finally tied the knot Barry and Pat took us away for a short and memorable honeymoon.
Doc will remain The Best Person I've had the pleasure of meeting and he will be sorely missed..
I feel sorry for the people who never had the oppertunity to meet "The Doc" they would've been Blessed to have spent one day with him.
I will think of you daily and smile often. Your friend Bill
Carl and Linda Fisher
October 7, 2008
Pat and family:
Linda and I are saddened by Barry's passing. Words cannot express the loss of such a vibrant personality. We pray that God grants him serenity in eternal life and provides you with memories which will sustain you in the years to come.
Love, Carl and Linda Fisher
Sonia Ragir
October 6, 2008
I was very sorry to hear of Barry's death. I remember him fondly from my childhood and am sorry that I did not know him well as an adult. I am sorry that we lost touch as friends and members of a family. My sincere condolences. Sonia
Bill and Ruth Shapiro
October 6, 2008
Dear Pat,
Bill and I were so very sorry that we could not be in Florida during the last few months, however, we were so happy to have been able to see Barry late in May and give him a big hug. What a great guy he was. Happy, Friendly, Caring, and a sweet, BIG MAN.
Alan Fields
October 6, 2008
Barry:
I mourn your loss, but celebrate your life. You are one of my true heroes in Medicine, and I have so few of them.
I remember our meeting in Brazil when I first met Pat. Running through the rain that day to end up eating lunch in this little restaurant in a strip mall. Ordering from a menu in Portuguese to find out that what we ordered was raw beef, a risk in a foreign country.
I remember when you took over direction of SCCM as the interim CEO and had the difficult task of leading the discussion about moving from California to Chicago. You came to the ACCM to quell our fears. You where our Moses, calming the waters as only you could accomplish. And again, coming back to tell us about a candidate named David Martin, whom you felt was the right candidate for the job. The success of SCCM proved you right on both.
I remember seeing you at the annual Congress after you retired. When I asked you what retirement was like, you said that you got up in the morning, put on your bathrobe, went outside, got the paper and came back to have a cup of coffee, read the paper and plan your day with Pat. I remember looking at your face and seeing real joy. You where my compass; there would be life after the career was over.
And I remember the more difficult time at MD Anderson. When the second opinion was so devastating, the first words out of your mouth were: “at least I had a wonderful 7 years in retirement with Pat”. What a beautiful thought.
And finally, just before you left the hospital, when you where so physically and emotionally ravaged by your first course of chemo, for one brief moment you responded to one of my comments with that famous boyish grin and quick quip that put me in my place; Barry was back!
Rest in peace my friend. May Pat, David and Leslie get solace in the future because of the life you led, and the legacy you left behind.
Alan Fields
Eva Pataki
David Martin
October 6, 2008
Barry was truly a leader in the field of critical care medicine and his loss will be felt by our entire community. Our deepest sympathy to Barry's entire extended family during this difficult time.
Phil Barie, David Martin and Everyone at the Society of Critical Care Medicine
Phillipa Mejia
October 6, 2008
My sincerest condolences...
Katie Jelinek
October 5, 2008
Pat,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. My greatest memories of Barry are growing up and getting together with you, Barry, my mom and Bob for dinners. I will always remember what a caring, loving, and funny man he was. Peace be with you and God bless.
John Ragir
October 5, 2008
Pat,
Sharon and I have many fond memories of Barry and you. He was very kind to me.
Kathy Koscielniak (Stone)
October 5, 2008
Dr. Shapiro was my teacher, and a great gift to mankind. Intensive Care Medicine and Respiratory Care would not be what it is today without him. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
Anne Lockwood
October 5, 2008
Pat,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God keep you in his loving hands in your time of sadness.
Bob and Lori Machacek
October 5, 2008
We have so many memories of Barry, it’s hard to know where to start. We will always hold the memories of the fun times we shared with Pat and Barry down in Florida near and dear in our hearts. It’s so easy to picture Barry (while playing a game of Malarkey or Trivial Pursuit) with his head tipped back, laughing so hard he was gasping for breath, and with tears of laughter starting to form at the corners of his eyes. No one enjoyed a good laugh like Barry, and no one had a sense of humor quite like him. After all, who else would greet his New Year’s Eve guests wearing a grass skirt and a head wreath with a tiki torch in hand? Barry certainly enjoyed life to the fullest. So many times while the four of us were lazily floating in the pool, pondering the problems of the world, drifting aimlessly on inner tubes, rubber rafts, or “noodles”, Barry would remark, “I am so lucky! I am the luckiest and richest man in the world!” Barry really enjoyed and appreciated his life, his wonderful marriage to Pat, his amazing children and grandchildren, and his beautiful piece of “paradise” between the Birch State Park and the Ocean. Barry, we’re gonna miss you, Big Guy! Forever in our hearts, Bob and Lori
Lorraine Ostrowski (Ayash)
October 4, 2008
My sincere condolences with the family. I too was honored to have been taught respiratory by Barry. What a mind and what a caring person. With the faith I have I'm sure he's there right now looking at us and loving what we've been promised. May his soul rest in peace. Many knew him as the grandfather of respiratory who wrote the books. May all the treasured memories help you though your loss. God Bless.
melvin gerbie md
October 4, 2008
barry was a colleague and friend through the years at northwestern, he led the department into the newest era of anesthesiology and collaborated with our ob gyne dept as well, i have missed him for too many years.
Peter Angood
October 4, 2008
Pat – my sincere condolences to you and the family for your loss. Barry was a beacon in so many ways and it was my privilege to have been touched by his life. I hope for you that the next weeks and months are ones that pass smoothly and swiftly as you learn to move along in your own lives with the absence of Barry.
Sincerely;
Stacy Orenstein
October 3, 2008
Leslie and family,
Our hearts are with you during this tough time. I never knew your father, but I know you, and he had to be a great man to raise a great kid like you!! Josh and I are thinking about you and want to reach out with our heart felt sympathy. We love you.
J. E. Loggie, RRT
October 2, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the extended Shapiro family. I had the opportunity and pleasure to work with Dr. Shapiro in the early 1970's as coordinator of the 96 hour advanced Respiratory Therapy course at the University of Chicago Hospitals in which Barry and his associates graciously participated as lecturers. In the mid 1970's Barry recruited me to work more closely with him as Director of Northwestern Memorial Hospital's School of Respiratory Therapy while he was writing his second text book on arterial blood gases. He was an excellent clinician with a warm and personable manor that was only surpassed by his sense of humor. I'll never forget him. He was the first physician I knew who was kind enough to have the students and faculty into his home for dinner. May he rest in peace.
T. Steven Martin
October 2, 2008
To Dr. Shapiro's family ,I am so sorry for your loss , my heart goes out to you. Dr. Shapiro was my teacher at the University of Chicago. I used his books while heading up a respiratory program in Mississippi.In my younger days as a therapist he was a great influence on me and my professional career. He helped advance the field from from simple treatments to advanced critical care.
Valerie Klans
October 2, 2008
To the Shapiro Family: My deepest sympathies on your loss. Dr. Shapiro meant a great deal to me as a Respiratory Therapist. I admired his dedication to our profession, I absorbed his words in his lectures and in his books and I appreciated his writing style. He made monumental contributions to our field and will be missed.
John Hannigan, RRT
October 2, 2008
Friends, family, & colleagues:
I, too, was saddened by your profound loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barry Shapiro, M.D. had already become a leading figure in the early 1970's in critical care when I met him first as a teacher at University of Chicago's 96 Hour Inhalation Therapy Review, then as a employee at Northwestern Memorial Hospital's Respiratory Therapy department.
Barry was able to give and accept criticism graciously. He held us to high standards of care as a matter of course.
Two events stood out in my memories of the 1970's at NMH. First, he and Carole Trout, RN hosted a dinner for the survivors of the 1973 Boston Oral Exams from our department. It was totally unexpected and fun in my short experience as a RT.
Now, more than 30 years later, my RT colleagues and patients still benefit from his insight he shared with a department-wide RT meeting: RT's were at the bedside almost as much as nurses, and, as such, were in an excellent position to evaluate and guide changes in respiratory care FOR the patient. In the 1970's this was revolutionary. Today, newcomers to the field accept it as "Therapist Driven Protocols," not knowing how far we've come. With that support for the bedside clinician, his publications, and personal interactions with new professionals, Dr. Shapiro and his colleagues at Northwestern, set a high standard that is rarely matched, but duplicated, in part, in those of us who knew our leader as "Barry."
Michael Horn, RRT
October 1, 2008
Our Profession may have physically lost one of it's Forefathers, but through your work generations yet to come will benefit. My sincere condolences to your family on Their loss.
Cora Chretien-Veal
October 1, 2008
I am honored to have known and work under Dr. Shapiro at Northwestern Memorial Hospital. I have learned from his books as a student @LSU and I have used his books to teach Respiratory Therapy. I am so proud to have known such a great person. Dr. Shapiro was good to all of us. God Bless him. I thank my friends from NMH for letting me know of his crossing over. cora, BS,RRT
Dr. Patrick Fahey
October 1, 2008
Barry was the father of modern respiratory care. He led it out of the non scientific IPPB puffing parlors into the science based, patient centered , high tech vital profession it is today. His book was the gold standard as was the RT program he established at Northwestern. I am very sorry for his loss at a way too early a time.
Charles Miles
October 1, 2008
Dear Family As a young therapist in 1974 I joined the Northwestern Respiratory therapy department, and my life changed for the better. Under the leadership of Barry Shapiro my respiratory world exploded. He taught me so much about what we do and what we were supposed to do. My practise today is a direct result of what he taught both about medicine & life. He made everybody feel good even on the worst days. This giant will be missed but never forgotten.
Gregg Fox
October 1, 2008
Dear Friends and Family,
I'd like to share some of my beliefs as to what Barry Shapiro would say to us all at this sad time. For most of my life, things were carefully planned out with definitive plans laid out along the way. Let's just say I was traveling along the highway of life at the appropriate speed limit. Unfortunately or fortunately, G-d had a slightly different plan and decided to speed me along to be with him in the heavens. Maybe G-d's plan was that I should be there with him before all of you so that I may get the lay of the heavens and be prepared to teach you and show you the way upon your arrival. I will be there in heaven waiting with open arms. Please don't rush to get here but instead take your time and enjoy everything that life has to offer as that is certainly what I did with my time on earth.
Forever Your Friend and Son-In-Law
More Oregon
October 1, 2008
Sherif Afifi
October 1, 2008
On behalf of many clinicians in the sections of critical care medicine, respiratory therapy, and blood gas analysis lab, at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago, I would like to convey our sincere condolences for the loss of Dr. Barry Shapiro. I personally had the pleasure of hosting Barry Shapiro as a visiting professor to the critical care division at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation in 1993, and was duly impressed with his knowledge, his teaching style, and his support of residents and fellows in training. That feeling was only re-inforced as I followed his lectures at different society meetings. Many years later, as I assumed leadership of the critical care division in the Anesthesiology department at Northwestern, I knew that much of the success and efficiency that the section enjoyed was part of the legacy that Barry Shapiro had worked hard for and left behind only to assume bigger responsibilities. We share your feelings of sorrow for this great loss, and, also celebrate his life and his accomplishments. Dr. Shapiro leaves behind many students who will remember him at a special memorial in Chicago. Our thoughts are with you.
Larry Vosburgh
September 30, 2008
My deepest sympathies for your loss. As one of Dr. Shapiro's students in respiratory therapy school over 30 years ago, I have wonderful memories of his warm teaching style. Dr. Shapiro inspired so many of us as we began our careers in respiratory care. Over the years, I have never stopped passing on his gifts to my students.
Patti Covert
September 30, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know your father/husband really loved you all so much..especially his special grandchildren and their unconditional love!!! Please know that we ove you all very much and are always a phone call away!!!!
Keith Roberts
September 30, 2008
So sad to hear of his passing. I hope that the Shapiro family can take some measure of solace in remembering that Dr. Shapiro shaped the knowledge and careers of so many physicians, respiratory therapists, and nurses. That contribution is eternal.
Jeff Fox
September 30, 2008
With our deepest sympathy - Jeff, Melanie, Davis and Madison Fox.
Rochelle Sisco
September 30, 2008
Fond memories of Dr. Shapiro will live on through recalling his tireless dedication to educating and promoting the respiratory care profession. I feel privileged to have been a RT he shaped through realtionships with Central YMCA College and the Illinois Society of Respiratory Care. Sincerest Sympathy
bruce kleinman
September 29, 2008
Barry was my mentor and inspiration in critical care medicine. He had a profound affect on my career. The lessons and insights he taught me over 30 years ago remain with me even today. I pass on his wisdom and teachings to my residents - the intensivists of tomorrow. I will never ever forget him. His image is forever burned deep within my mind's eye.
M Nowocin
September 29, 2008
To Dr. Shapiro's Family,
My sincere condolences to you. I had the privilege of working with Dr. Shapiro during the 80's & 90's @ Northwestern Memorial Hospital. He was a Giant in Respiratory Therapy and Critical Care Medicine.
Every therapist is enriched because of his contribtions to our field. Barry lifted the standards of care, in which we are all indebted to carry on. His sense of humor and ability to make everyone involved, an important member of the team, regardless what letters followed your name; i.e. M.D., PhD, RRT, CRTT.. were greatly appreciated. He had a great presence, charisma and level of intelligence that is unmatched. May you rest in Peace.
Leslie (Shapiro) Fox
September 27, 2008
My daddy was the greatest dad a girl could have! He was brave, confident, funny, caring, successful, loving, and a phenomenal grandfather. Although the years with his grandchildren were too short, he packed years worth of love and adventure into them to create some amazing memories! My father faced death with the same bravery that he displayed in life, and I am so thankful I was able to be with him during his final moments. Dad - You will live in my heart for eternity and I promise you that we will take care of each other now that you are no longer here to take care of us. I love you daddy and will miss you more than you will ever know!
Love - "Your little girl"
Drew Fox
September 27, 2008
I love my grandpa with all my heart. I will miss him and will never forget him.
Carly Fox
September 27, 2008
On Thursday September 25, 2008, my wonderful, goofy, spirited, and loving grandfather lost his 6 month battle. And though I will miss him dearly, I know that he is in a better place where he no longer has to feel his pain. I was so fortunate to have spent so much time with him, and I will remember him forever in my mind and in my heart.
Mark & Jody Miller
September 27, 2008
Dear Pat,
Words cannot express our sadness. There could not be enough time in the universe to spend with a person as wonderful as Barry. Our thoughts are with you.
richard esack
September 27, 2008
Pat,
anne and i want you to know you are in our thoughts and barry in our prayers. rick esack
Douglas Reimer
September 27, 2008
Dear Pat and family: I was saddened to learn of Barry's passing. My thoughts are with you now and I hope you can take some comfort from all the good wishes you are receiving from friends. Doug Reimer
In Oregon- Aug. 2007
September 27, 2008
Barry & Pat
September 27, 2008
Barry Singing "New York" at the 130th B-Day Celebration
September 27, 2008
Patricia McGaffigan
September 27, 2008
Dear Pat and family:
It was as a new graduate nurse in the ICU that I got my first glimpse of how impactful Barry was on practice as both of his definitive texts were on my required reading lists. Again and again I referred to them over my careers in clinical practice, teaching and industry. In truth, they ended up being the most practical and dog-eared resources in my library.
I got glimpses of Barry from afar while attending numerous lectures at conferences, and to me he was one of the rock stars of critical care. I finally had the good fortune of meeting Barry when I joined the Coalition for Critical Care Excellence. At first, I could hardly believe I was sitting at the same table with someone who was so prolific in our field!
Over the years on the Coalition, I learned that the Barry was simply an amazing person and an enormous personal and professional inspiration. He was passionate about excellence in practice, but even more passionate about his roles as a husband, father, grandfather and friend. He always made time to ask about my own life, work and family--even if on a rushed chance encounter in an airport. During a family health issue, I remember his outreach provided some of the most inspirational and sincere words I received from anyone. I am forever thankful for the chance to have known, served with, and grown from Barry.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
gustavo solano
September 27, 2008
my simphathy to his family
Iwill always remember him as great man.
Roy Cane
September 26, 2008
Barry was my partner, mentor, friend and hero for more than 30 years. He taught me so much about medicine and life, we shared many triumphs and disappointments over the years. By example he inspired me and many others to reach for the sky and took great pleasure when we came back to show him the stars we had grasped. In short he was the WIND BENEATH MY WINGS. I miss you my friend, may you rest in peace.
Rolland Love
September 26, 2008
Thank you for your friendship Barry A. Shapiro and for laughing at the weird things I used to say. I will always remember you as a kind and gentle soul with a wonderful smile who helped many folks along the way.
My sincere condolences to the family.
Judith Stutz
September 26, 2008
Pat, David and Leslie,
Please accept my sincere condolences. I had the privilege of being one of few persons who knew Barry more than one-half of his life. Over the years, we had many in-depth conversations about life and how it could be so unfair at times, relationships, and family. I always got a good laugh from his story as a young parent reading bed time stories to David and Leslie, and it was the first time that it dawned on him, after David told him, that Humpty Dumpty was an egg. Barry was most endearing when I was undergoing cancer surgery and was scared. He had telephoned the anesthesiologist and told him to take good care of me and that everything would be okay.
Michael Mioduski
September 26, 2008
David, my prayers are with you and your family. Please know that you are in my thoughts.
September 26, 2008
We were so very sorry to learn of Barry's passing. Please accept our sympathies , and extend them to your family. Your neighfors, Kay and Mike McFall.
Alice Ewert
September 26, 2008
Pat, Please accept our sincere condolences. We always enjoyed hearing of your wonderful adventures. Sincerely, Alice Ewert
Lori Lustbader Ashworth
September 26, 2008
When I was young, Barry was a giant. Larger than life. He always remained that way in my eyes. He was an awesome man who helped so many people. He will surely be missed. My love to Leslie, David, Pat, Gregg, Carly & Drew. I love you all!!
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