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Robbin Sowinski
November 4, 2022
I still can't believe that it's been 16 years since I have seen your beautiful smile. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't wake up and say good morning to your picture. We are now 63. Unfortunately you are not here to celebrate all the times since we were 48. You would be bursting at the seams with pride and joy in all your great nieces and nephew's. Enough for a baseball team. You have missed some tragedies as well but that's life. My friend, my sister, my Glinda to my Alphaba you will always be alive in all our hearts.
Love you to heaven and back.
Robbin
Alan Berkofsky
December 25, 2013
Merry Christmas my dearest friend Lori. So it is been a little over 7 years since I last saw your sweet and kind loving face. today, I like this candle in the memory of your blue and silver Christmas of the past and the big white snowman in the front yard.you should see how big Aaron has gotten. He is almost as tall as me has the same size shoe. But he still can't beat up is that. :-)
With much love,
Alan and Aaron
November 3, 2013
My dearest friend, Lori, its been nearly 7 years since your passing. We miss you each and every day and think of you with every Yellow Butterfly, every sunset, every smile and most of all, every act of kindness that so reminds us of your kind spirit. Since your passing, you've gained many "family" members, many nieces...in fact, your newest niece Abagayle looks up at you and smiles all the time! She is now 2 years old and very "special". They say she is an Aicardi "Angel" and her needs are special and unique. We know that you will continue to be her guardian angel looking down on her from above. Christina and Katlin miss you too! I continue to seek to walk with the same "grace" and "kind spirit" that you showed me at one time in my life when I needed a big sister. You will always be my sister...and I reflect upon YOU and your friendship often. Missing your friendship more than ever, my friend...Until we meet again, please continue to smile down and show us the way...in this life:-) All our love, forever and beyond, your BFF Kim and family
Regina Manzi
November 2, 2013
Heaven has another
beautiful angel.
Alan Berkofsky
March 2, 2013
Hi My Love Lori, quite sometime has passed since I've last posted, but I do pray for you everday. You will forever live on in me heart and soul. I will never stop talking about the love and admiration for your spirit. I love you Lori and nothing will ever change that. You're my angel.
Love,
Alan
Alan Berkofsky
December 19, 2010
Hey Lori. I am not going to complain. You get to see us all everyday you're in our heart. I do miss the extravagant Lori Land parties. You'd always say "Just having a few over " still blow my mind today as you nurtured every friendship or family member like a delicate flower.
Happy Holiday's to you my dear friend Lori.
Love,
Alan
February 11, 2010
Morning Glory Lori!!
It's Kim - missing you much as always. Took a sick day for some "me" time. I'm so exhausted lately and wish you were here to share a cup of coffee and phone call, or maybe lunch in Deerfield or Pomp Pier like ole times. We could play hookie!! We're all going through some really rough times - the everyday realities and stress of kids, loss of jobs, financial strains, ups downs, health issues and all the "in betweens"...We could sure use some Loriland get-a-way time!
We recently moved - into a new house with pool. The house is quiet today and relaxing...I look out at my pool and patio and think of you. I so miss those times we shared....so many memories...wishing there were so many more opportunities to share more with you!!
Katlin is tough these days...typical teen (she'll be celebrating her Sweet 16 in 2 weeks). Wish you were here to mentor her and to help plan her party! She's dating a senior! Yikes!!! This is where you could come in....getting the scoop!!
Chrissy is great! She's a mini me with lots of spirit and a very strong will. She's very smart and doesn't miss a beat - def not the air like me!! She's all tom boy right down to skate boarding, football, you name it!! BUT - she grows more beautiful and blossoms every day. We were just reminisching about "swing swing" that you used to play with her when she was 2!!! And she remembered!
How time flies - life is truly too short my friend.
Please watch over us from above...we all need a guardian angel right now!! And I know you were always the "glue" that held us all together!! We need some super glue this time to hold it all together!!
I love you and miss you so much. Please know that although I don't write as much, I still think of you everyday. You are all over my home and all around me!! Most of all, you are right there in my mind with the memories and in my heart with the love as a BFF!!
Live, laugh and love!!
Kimmiee xo
Suzanne (Kalicki) Smith
April 17, 2009
To Mr. Galante and family, I am not sure if you remember me from Fargo Road in Stafford New York. My name is Suzanne Kalicki Smith. I lived down the street from you. I still remember when you built your house and all the times the kids and the neighborhood would spend time there. I did not realize that Lori had passed away and was truly very sad when I found this site today and saw her picture. I had seen Lori a few years back when she came up for a high school reunion (she graduated with my husband - David Richard Smith). It was so good to see her and her wonderful smile. I didn't get a chance that night to get an email address or regular address. How I wished I had and how I regret that I didn't. Both my husband and I were in total disbelief at what we read. I know it has been a while since Lori passed and I wish I had known sooner. I have spent the time since I found out thinking about riding the bus together, talking with the others in the neighborhood and much more. Please accept both my condolenses and my husbands'. We are so very sorry for all of you. Lori was a wonderful wonderful person and we will always remember her and that heart warming smile. Sincerely, Suzanne (Kalicki) & David Smith
Robbin Sowinski
April 7, 2009
Well girl we hit that dreaded milestone of 50.......... and I still can't believe that you were not here. We used to talk about turning 50 all the time and how we would travel and celebrate the whole entire month from my bday through yours. I took you to the Bette Midler concert in Vegas for our birthday's. She was very cooperative in singing "The Rose" our favorite come out of the closet kareoke song. When she sang Wind Beneath My Wings I had the usual Lori meltdown. It's a good thing that Ron has learned to embrace my Lori meltdowns with love. Did you ever know that you were my hero? I hope so because your were my friend. In life and in dealth I celebrate with you.... I know that you have found eternal peace and that you have probably started your own choir in heaven...... I bet you make them sing it your way. I miss you my friend. Happy birthday wherever you are.
I love you,
Robbin
Alan Berkofsky
January 14, 2009
If for just one moment I could make time stand still, your laugh, your smile, your hug I'd hold forever xx.
Alan Berkofsky
December 1, 2008
Oh God Lori,
Another holiday season and you're not with us. What I wouldn't do to be next to you right now. Here there I don't care, I just want to be near you.
Life has never returned to 'normal' here without you. I still talk about you to anyone that'll listen. I guess I never realized how important you were to me in my life.I really need a big Lori hug now. I'm looking for you. Be there when I get home, I want to see you first. You and Tiff, as this has ripped my heart out.
Keep smiling, and keep shining. I love you with all that I have left.
Alan Berkofsky
November 6, 2008
Oh My Dearest Lori, Today marks 2 years since your departure. Right around this time Gay and I were holding your hand as you moved forward to the promised land.
I pray and hope it has been very good to you and that you have found peace and solace. I hope it's everything we've been told in the bible and that you are with the Lord, Mama Galante, Sadie, and Tony.
I love you my dear and look forward to seeing you again.
Alan
Alan Berkofsky
October 25, 2008
Hi Lori, was just passing by and wanted to stop by. I love you.
XOXOXOXO
Alan
Kim Muszynski
September 25, 2008
Lori,
I lay awake tonight thinking about you. You've been on my mind a lot lately. I still miss you so much it hurts, your friendship, the late night calls, coffee in the morning, and all that our friendship endured during the few years we had together. I held my Rosarie Beads/Cross tonight and said a prayer for you. The same beads that I placed in your hand in the hospital and the same beads that my father held....
I miss you so much, its been tough times here lately and I could sure use your friendship.
You were ALWAYS THERE! Day or night ...my big sister. Thats what I miss the most!! I miss YOU and the person you stood for!!
All I can think of is you always saying we were "lifers." Sometimes I think about that and realize that we really are "lifers" because although you are up "there" you are always with me. You are the penny I find, the bright yellow butterfly I see, and the stars in the sky...Most of all, you are close in my heart and soul. Never a thought away....
Our faith was the rock in our friendship and I feel that when I turn to my "faith" I find you right there by my side.
I love you...
Kimmie
Alan Berkofsky
September 21, 2008
OMG Lori,
I was fixing my crashed computer today and came across "that" song. I just remember how it used to set you of and I'd laugh. We just always had such a blast at work together.
But, today "I won't put your picture away" I promise. I love you. And, you're all over my Facebook.
Love ya,
Alan
glenda sabo
September 9, 2008
Looking for signs again one day, I saw a beautiful white butterfly and wondered if it was you, since I had moved again and hadn't seen any.... after living where I did, when I fist came here,,,, and then that same white butterfly was there again several days later on and off and it kept returning because I felt your presence since I had moved back in with my mom for a short while.
Life is too precious and too short and you have been on my mind a lot lately. I can't count the times that I have spoken your name and thought about you.
I have been thinking of moving on in life and leaving the states for something in England or Italy. That made me think of the trip we had planned to go to Italy. Back again for me and to show you the sights. How clever, if we had only gotten the chance to do that.
Forever in my heart! You don't lie in the grave there in Ft. M. You travel around everywhere with me.I expect to see you again really soon. What I wondered was in that year not seeing you.... what you were doing up there in Heaven? Planning for some new adventure, perhaps?
You would be glad to know that I will be called a doctor in a few short months...I love you Lori LOOOO....
XX
Alan Berkofsky
September 7, 2008
Hi Lori,
I want to say "hello", I don't here much from you anymore.
As far away as you are you're still so near and dear to me.
I lye awake at night thinking of you. Such a beautiful person so full of life. I love you so much my friend.
Love,
Alan
June 2, 2008
Hey Girlee!
Its me - just checking in. Happy Belated Birthday!! I wanted you to know that I didn't forget your birthday. Robin and I went over to see you in Ft. Myers. I left you a birthday card - hope you got it. We also had a nice visit with Gay. We all miss you so much!
Summer is approaching fast and furious. Sure do miss Loriland and all the days of fun in the sun we shared!!
The girls are growing so fast! Rich and I are doing good. I saw Sex and the City (the Movie) this past weekend. Remember how we used to compare us 4 girls to the girls on the show! LOL NOT!!! Wishful thinking though!!!
Anyway, I miss you more than ever! There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of you! You're here with my every day - right by my side!!
Love,
Kimmie
Alan Berkofsky
April 25, 2008
Happy Birthday....love ya always.
Suzanne Little
April 25, 2008
My dear friend Lori,
You are in our thoughts and prayers today and everyday. We will lift our glasses to you tonight and smile as we say "Cheers"!!!
Our celebration of your life will continue always!
Today, April 25th, will forever be "Lori Galante Day!!"
Lots of smoochies blown to Heaven for you! We miss you!!
Much love always,
Suzie and Christopher Jay
Alan Berkofsky
April 10, 2008
Hey Sis,
So what's going on in Heaven? Surely by now you must have the biggest wings.
I know because you have helped get me through a lot down here. You always said ive it to God and he will make it right or better.
Here's the scoop, My Dad will be joining you soon. I know it'll be hectic up there, but your smile will make him feel like it was the right choice.
I love you always, God bless you.
P.S. Those crazy keys keep popping up again. Another four of them. I know you and Tiff are in on this.
Kim Muszynski
February 25, 2008
Hey girlee,
Tomorrow is Katlin's 14th birthday! Like you'd forget!! Not!! You never forgot a birthday! Just remembering 2 short years ago when we sat on your back porch with fireworks on Katlin's birthday! They came from out of nowhere...and we sat there trying to figure out this really cool display that we had no idea where it came from??? And you told her it was a sign that she was special....I'll never forget that night! What a great memory! But again, we had so many of those!!!
I know I probably write more than anyone...Not sure why. Maybe its my way of feeling "connected" to you. Although you're gone, the writing is a way to communicate through my heart to yours...Even if its far beyond reach. Please know that I love and miss you, my friend. We'll be missing you tomorrow night on Katlin's birthday and remembering those fire works!
Love,
Kimmie
Kim Muszynski
January 9, 2008
New Beginnings, my friend! Thats what you would always say in the New Years' past.
2008 is a new Beginning again. A chance to be a better person, a better mom, a better friend...So here we are - the same people doing the same things and living our lives the best we know how.
Its a quiet year so far for me. I really reflect (quite often) on our friendship and all the special lessons I've learned. I'm in a different phase now with your loss. Although I've felt the grief, I'm now smiling instead at the way you celebrated your life! I find myself laughing sometimes at the goofy memories I hold dear to my heart! I think people think I'm crazy - because I just smile and laugh out loud...Like the time we both went to get into some stranger's car on the way out of a restaurant. Then we both realized it wasn't my car when the alarm starting going off! Two dizzy blondes - we were!!! Or the BEST was our trip to the Bahamas (the hot dog) refund! You insisted I get my money back because we don't have HOT DOGS like that in the US! Wow - was that a hot dog deal breaker!!!! You actually negotiated another "free" meal for me to get the hot dog out of our faces before we barfed (from being far too hung over from the night before)!!!!
So here I am praying that I can learn to let go of my inhibitions & worries and laugh a little more!
After all, you taught me to embrace change (through some of the most difficult times in my life) and to count my blessings (each and every one of them). For that, my friend, I am forever grateful to you.
So this year - my resolution will be to be more thankful for my blessings AND to make that "Wish List" I told you I always wanted to do ....listing and accomplishing all that I want to do in my life!
The very first wish on my list is to "say thank you" for being my friend and loving me unconditionally.
You were an amazing chapter in my life, Lori. I just pray that you'll continue to be my silent narrator from above (guiding me and watching out) for me in heaven above. Most of all - watching out for us girls and keeping our "circle" of "chosen family" very tight!!!
Happy New Year, my bff!
Kimmie
Kim Muszynski
December 21, 2007
Lori,
Our Christmas wish for you - love, peace and everlasting joy in heaven as you rest peacefully!!! Been thinking SO much about you lately. I'm really struggling through the holidays and can't tell you how much I miss you. You were the spirit of "christmas" and such a model of all that this holiday holds. The love, peace, glitter, kindness and friendship that I will forever cherish in my heart - you were such an example of it all! Most likely, you would be hosting your annual Christmas party this coming weekend (Sat) night! It will be very hard without you! BUT I am forever grateful for the lessons of frienship you've taught me. You've taught me to treasure life's greatest blessings - love, faith and happiness!
This Christmas we put you right on the top of our tree! You are the most beautiful angel with all the glow that lights up our tree and our home! Thats you - the angel with the brightest "light" that could light up the world and all those who were lucky enough to have felt your glow!!!
We love you so much and miss you more than words can say,
Kim, Rich, Katlin & Chrissy
Alan Berkofsky
December 20, 2007
BFF Lori,
I was feeling down yesterday and walking along the sidewalk. I had my head down looking to the ground. I was thinking of you(I had just past your tree), the one we decorated in all blue. So I got your sign as you've always talked about pennies from heaven. You must have known I needed an extra hug so you sent me a quarter. You're just still amazing. I can only imagine the size of your angel wings never mind the glitter and perfume you added.
You are truly one of a kind. The most giving, kindest person I ever met in Florida.
Merry Christmas Lori our angel. You are still so loved and missed.
Love Always,
Alan
Suzanne Little
December 13, 2007
Dear My Forever Friend, Lori,
I hope you are watching over us and smiling - but knowing you, you're right over our shoulder as we shop for that perfect gift (or deal) that will be just the right item for that special person. You were always the thoughtful, gift-giver... I think of you so often - so much of this season reminds me of your shine and how you could bring the fun with you wherever you went. You loved Christmastime.
"Every time a bell rings, a loving angel gets her wings." I can just imagine how beautiful your wings are! They probably sparkle just a little more than the rest too! So, when I look up at the angel on top of our tree, I’ll say a quiet prayer in remembrance of you.
Missing you always,
Suzie
Alan Berkofsky
December 5, 2007
Tis the season, yeah right. Not the same without you. But, I remember it's about someone else so I have to put my feelings aside for now.
I passed your house a few days ago, it looks empty and shallow, not one single Xmas light. I sat at the stop sign and the tears stared pouring from my eyes. I miss you so much.
I have a prayer story for you Lori. I was starting this new job this past Tues, and I was looking inside, outside, and upside down for my flash memory usb stick. It was nowhere to be found. The next morning after having coffee in the a.m. I felt something in my pocket, it was the memory stick. I pulled these shorts out of the drawer the night before to wear them, I know it wasn't there when I put them on before bed? How'd they get there? I prayed about it that day. God heard me, and responded. I know it's a miracle because if it was truly there before it would have had to survive the washer and dryer.
Heavenly Father, As the season approaches for the miracle birth of you only son sent to earth to save us from ourselves approaches, we offer prayer to those in need and ask for forgiveness ourselves for we know our BFF Lori is in your Kingdom. We just want to remind you how much we love her and thank you for letting her be with us and communicate in all the different ways she has. Father, bless us this season with strength, power, wisdom, and health to all those we love. We pray for your grace and unconditional love. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
Kim Muszynski
November 28, 2007
Hello there, my big sister & BFF - Lori:
Happy Thanksgiving! Although I'm a couple days late, please know that I thought about you the ENTIRE day on Thanksgiving! I wanted to THANK YOU for all the precious lessons of love, faith and enduring kindness you taught us. There were so many more lessons learned - most of all the blessing of an unconditional love that only a true frienship and sisterhood knows! The kind of love that touches your heart and soul deep within. We all thought about you on Thanksgiving and felt your presence!
Katlin placed your famous blue "groovy" blue theatre light in her bedroom the night before Thanksgiving. She felt the need to be close to you and felt that you were there with her. We felt your presence and saw the signs. I even found a penny right on top of your bear skin rug (which I keep in my bedroom closet). I know you were there showing us every reason to be THANKFUL!
Well, my friend, its been officially 1 yr since your passing. They say time "heals" but honestly, I will never heal completely. I lost a piece of my heart with you. Actually, maybe I should say you took a piece of my heart with you! I like that better - just like the little necklaces that break apart in the middle of the heart....Remember those? Each friend would carry a half of the heart around their neck as a symbol of friendship. This is a symbol of our friendship - only it is much more real and our friendship will be for eternity. Remember, we are lifers and always will be. I know when my time comes, you will be waiting for me at heaven's gates with arms open giving me that big warm hug that only you could give!!!
Well, girlee, before I write a book here. Please know that the holidays will be extremely difficult this year for us all. We plan on decorating our tree with your traditional "blue" theme! AND we're going to try to find a Giant Blowup Snowman for our front yard so we can all share the wonderful memories you gave us! AND I won't forget to give the snowman a "toast" just like we did back a few years ago!
Please continue to watch over us and keep the girls safe, healthy & happy!
Love always,
Kim, Rich, Katlin & Christina
glenda sabo
November 8, 2007
I choose not to grieve but to live with the memories that you will live on in my life. I still see you in various places in my every day to day walk in life. I saw a butterfly the other day and it was small and brown. I knew it wasn't you gurlfriend cuzz, you are the colors in my life. Not a day goes by that I don't long to spend time with you thinking about all the dreams we both shared. Remember the clown thing? I met a man who has a little clown school and I thought about you and knew you cast him into my life. As we talked about magic and acting, I was brought back to the magic kit you bought in Vegas as we walked there our last day. The fun we had knowing that the bottles were not empty but the TSA didn't see that...lol.
Lori, as this might be the last entry into this book, it will by no means be the last time I speak to you or imagine you still in my life...Short and sweet was the time we shared but no one will ever know what you meant to me...OXOX
Glenda
melissa altman-weldy
November 7, 2007
...it's the day after...and last night, like most of us who have shared our memories of the last year in this "book", grieved in silence. I remember exactly, every inch of my day when Lori passed... What a bittersweet reminder, when the email came today to say the guestbook is just about to "close". The guestbook will close, but the memories live on- in ourselves in each other. I am not only thankful to have had her in my life, but thankful to her for bringing some wonderful people in life that I would not have known otherwise. You were a true gift Lori...to always be treasured & kept in our hearts & and to live on in our stories. I love you always, Melissa.
Alan ,Tina, Aaron Berkofsky
November 6, 2007
Lori...Today is the saddest and the happiest day of my life. The saddest because today was the day we lost you here among us, the alpha of a pack that you help together. Our leader, the one we had the happiest days of our lives and yet, someone we can come to for comfort in our neediest. You were there no matter how you were feeling to pick us up and put us on our feet. It's the happiest because I know you're our guardian angel and with our lord.
As I my eyes swell with tears it would be selfish of me to want to bring you here as I would have given my life for you. I know though you are in a better place now. Every step I take, every new person I meet, I tell them about you, Lori, for no one can fill the void left behind. I hope my life in the end will mean as much as yours has been. Your a legacy.
I took a moment of silence this morning just to embellish in all the good times. I love you and miss you with all my heart, and you are very much alive in my heart.
Robbin Sowinski
November 5, 2007
I wish so much that you were here with us still. It seems impossible to me that you have been gone a year already. Not a day goes by when I don't think of you and talk to you. The worst part is that I keep expecting you to answer back and when you don't I don't know what to do. I was up in Geneseo a couple of months ago and went to visit all the places we frequented when we were in college. It has changed so much but yet felt like time had stopped and that I was able to recapture all the great memories of our youth, I was walking in the flea market yesterday and my friend Bonnie said Robbin do you ever get any signs from Lori. I looked at her and found myself standing in front of contrast furniture and we both got chills. I looked in the window and there was the glass doves that you had in your family room and I knew you were there with me at the exact moment. Last holiday those closest to you all mourned the greatest loss by not having you here. This holiday I want you to know that I will work hard at celebrating your life and try to carry on the holidays in the Lori traditions the way that you would have wanted us to. You are so missed my friend. There is such a void in my life that no one can fill but you. I still struggle with not having you here with me but the beauty of having a life long friendship is that I know what you would say to me to guide me through the tough times and I can remeber your laugh and smile through the good times. I know that you have earned your wings already because in death as in life that is one role you never had to perform, the guardian angel came naturally. To all those who were blessed to have you in their lives I hope they celebrate your life today and remember how lucky and fortunate we all are to have had a gift like you in our lives.
I love you.
Always & Forever
Robbin
Kim Muszynski
October 16, 2007
Lori,
Its so hard to believe that nearly 1 year has passed since you left us. In fact, this past weekend I remembered the phone call that spun the whole process of getting you to check into the hospital. You had been on a trip to Las Vegas and had returned very sick. We all knew it and convinced you to finally get checked out. From there, the minutes and days became a blur. I spent nearly everyday at the hospital by your side. No matter how hard I tried to "save" you, I couldn't. It was too late. So I tried my best to let you know that I wouldn't leave your side. I was there almost every day to rub your feet, give you chap stick and read and pray for you silently as you slept. I've been feeling very guilty lately...wishing I had one last chance to have told you all the things that I wanted to say...or to take you up on all your Loriland invites...or just to make sure that you knew how much I loved you as my best friend. It still really hurts. Deeper than words. Please know our friendship is a "lifer" friendship and I'm convinced that someday we'll be little old ladies laughing and partying it up in the Loriland Ever After....Just like we always dreamed it would be!
I love you forever and beyond,
Kim
Alan Berkofsky
October 2, 2007
Hi Sister...I wrote a poem for you as we near one year since you left us.
Lori, Lori you're so far and gone; from earth to heaven and far beyond.
Forever you were the glue to friends here on earth to the distant end. You've become our angel from far above.
In the heavens you be, but return from above; in the form of a butterfly you've brightly become.
You visit us daily making your rounds; listening to us praying you answer abound; you fly near us to assure your work is never done.
We know your legend will never be forgotten; as friends forever we will never stray, as you've become for who we pray.
As time goes on, I want to say; my love for you is here to stay. As friendships have become unglued; you know I'm always here for you.
Love Alan
Kim Muszynski
September 20, 2007
Hey girlee,
Its me - just checking in. I still miss you so much! Wish you were here to deal with all of Katlin's issues right now. She misses you so much too. The girls are getting so big and beautiful. You'd be proud of our "girl" power.
Katlin brought home a paper from school the other day. It was a biography of her life. She talked all about you and the loss of her "best friend". I cried. Then we both cried for you. I didnt' realize the impact you made on her life for the short time you knew her. She was really looking forward to your friendship and being a mentor as she grew into her "teen" years! Well - she's THERE! And God knows, I could really use your advice and help right now! She reminds me a lot of you in many ways, the free spirit, the energy, the innocence, the big giving heart. I just pray that you'll continue to watch over her and Christina. You are their guardian angel up there so PLEASE keep them out of trouble for me when I'm not around!
Actually we "see" you quite often - the bright yellow butterfly that flutters around in our back patio. It keeps getting in through the screened porch and we don't know how but it always finds a way to be there when we least expect it. The girls think its "you" trying to flutter around to let them know you are watching over them....Remember -we used to see yellow butterflies all the time on your patio near the fence. And we would wonder why they were always "there" in that spot. You would say maybe its God's way of showing you a sign that he's there. Who knows - maybe the butterflies we see are actually the guardian angels looking out for us when we least expect it. Then they "fly" away when they know we're ok....You are welcome to fly around all you want! We'll be watching out for you on the back patio!
Love,
Kim, Christina & Katlin
Alan Berkofsky
August 25, 2007
Lori,
Today, I'm sad of the "lifer" friendship that I lost in your untimely leaving, even though I know you're in a better place it's still heartbreaking.
I haven't seen or heard from you in awhile, although, I know you're with me all the time as my angel. I still asked and prayed for a sign that you are OK. Within the hour as I was still teary eyed a colorful butterfly makes her flyby in front of my patio. Just one pass. And I knew, I felt your presence, your touch and warmth. I broke out in tears.
My "lifer" one day I know our friendship will reunite in heaven and I know you'll be there at the gates for me with that huge open arm hug that I took for granted and yearn for now.
I love you forever and ever,
Alan
glenda sabo
August 15, 2007
Lori Gurl,
"Let's get some shoes"...lol....You would love this tune. I think of you when I hear this." Just get it, you know you want it, debit, credit, just GET IT".....lol
My new job starts on Monday at the new college and there is talk of it going to a full blown thatre dept. next year. I know you will be glad to hear that the move was most positive. You moved on and now, I have moved on. But theatre still makes me think about you everyday. When I look at anything that closely resembles theatre, I think of you. This time, I may have an office for you to come visit me in. You know, that I know, you are looking down on me and there doing theatre with me.
If we were going back to Vegas, which we said we would make a yearly visit, we would see Liam Sullivan this year. He is a comedian and you would love him. He is so funny. It makes me sad because I know that there will never be anyone who I will have so much fun with, in Vegas again, and it was just our beginning.
Love you, and think of you often. I get senses you are around by little things.... A feather fell off a boa the other dayin a room where nothing is moved, and when I saw it, I just smiled,knowing it was probably you trying it on and dancing around.
I love you and miss you. But I know you are still with me, always. Theatre will be great at this school and they are so happy to have my expertise here, in this area......:)
christina O'connor
August 14, 2007
To my favorite Auntie Lori:
Its me - Chrissy. I missed you on my birthday this year. I turned 7. I remember last year you brought me all kinds of goodies and toys to play with. And I remember the birthday party at your house when I turned 5. We had so much fun playing with Brandon and Ryan and the pretend "wedding". You laughed so hard at us. I'm glad we made you laugh and gave you such joy!
Most of all, I miss your fresh baked cookies and walking into your house right after you baked them for us kids. You never forgot us kids whenever you had a BBQ or party.
I asked my Mommy about you the other day and if you would send some cookies down from Heaven for my birthday. Mommy told me that next time I eat a cookie - to think of you! And what a special "treat"
it will be.
I love you Auntie Lori and miss you much!
Christina O'Connor
"7" Years old
glenda sabo
July 7, 2007
Hey,
The 4th was great with my family in NC and sure enough a butterfly came to our picnic and I told my sister that was you, checking on me, to see how I was doing in NC. Just one single butterfly....All yellow with "light". My sister asked me how I knew it was you.....I said becuzz, you wanted to see how I was doing and the yellow color meant sunshine and happiness and that you could tell I was happier there than in Fl. Never saw a yellow butterfly in Fl.
I am sure you are in God's garden everyday and blooming in vivid colors.
Kim Muszynski
July 6, 2007
Happy Belated 4th of July, Lori. You were in our thoughts and prayers on the 4th this year. Remembering your famous 4th of July parties and what a blast we all had!!!! The fireworks were not the same this year but I'm sure you had the best show from above.
Please know that you are in my thoughts each and every day and there's not a day that goes by that I don't ache for your friendship.
You'll always be my guardian angel and big sister!
Love,
Kimmie
Alan Berkofsky
June 22, 2007
Hi Sis,
It's getting to hard to believe it's almost been a year.
You've brought many blessings to my life here on earth and in heaven. Yet, the pain is still so real.
Last night in my dreams I was fighting so hard that I kicked the computer monitor clear off the desk. Thanks for cables it didn't go out the window. The point here though is how much I miss you even though you're in my heart, I sat outside at 4am just balling my eyes out.
Just thinking back out all the good years leaves this gapping hole, that will never fill. As my eyes flood once again, I pray for your soul.
I love you so dearly, rescue me,
Alan
Kim Muszynski
May 29, 2007
Hey girlee,
Yesterday was Memorial Day & Suzie's birthday. I thought of you and the memories we've shared. I really miss your BBQ's. It was such a gorgeous weekend and I just know you would have been thrilled to host Suzie's birthday BBQ this past year. Robin has taken your place with hosting the parties and did a marvelous job! We were all there and thought of you in "spirit". I'm sure you were smiling down on Suzi on her special day. You'd be proud of me - I carried on your tradition of getting her a silly card and a serious card! She got a kick and we both smiled as we remembered "your way"! You were always the hostess with the mostest and a friend for all times!
Gosh girl....What to say. I still can't believe you're gone - remembering last year and our good times together. How being "laid off" was really a blessing for little did I know at the time you'd be gone in a few short months. I was truly blessed to have been able to spend such quality time with you! And here I am today -still thinking of you everyday and wishing you were here to share life's blessings. You taught me well - and I try hard to always remember your famous saying "Live, Laugh & Love."
Missing you much,
Kimmie
Ellen Mattingly
April 26, 2007
Happy Birthday Lori
Sure do miss you!!!
Love & Laughter ;)
El
Alan Berkofsky
April 25, 2007
Big Sis,
A very happy and blessed B-Day to you.
I still miss you sooooo much.
I couldn't have said it better than Kim.
Love ya forever and ever,
Alan
Maria Ventura
April 25, 2007
Happy Birthday to my cousin Lori!
Would never forget my cousin who shares an April birthday with me.
Still can't believe you are gone, I know you are at peace! Dont party too much with Aunt Nancy! & Gram!
melissa altman-weldy
April 25, 2007
Happy Birthday Girlie... I miss you every day, even more so on days like today.
You are always in my heart,
Melissa (the Diva)
Kim Muszynski
April 24, 2007
To the special birthday angel, my best friend & big sister who rests peacefully in heaven above,
Please know, Lori, that your special day will be forever remembered by all of us who so loved you dearly. I am thinking of you tonight and wanted to be the first to let you know how much I miss you and will cherish your birthday forever. I was reminded by you in your very last e-mail of 9/28/06 when I asked for your address/birthday info:
..."heh there and top of the evening to ya!!!! If you happen to check in b4 tmrw.....don't forget .I will need a ride from Kieths if thats ok.....we'll have some coffee and sunshine together hows that???? Also don't 4get to get me your middle scores so I can see if a house is in the cards for ya girleee.....anythings possible!!!!!
my address....3920 nw 58th street coc crk fl 33073......bday april 25......no year!!!!!
...You said...."No Year"... A very typical answer for my special friend who chose to embrace life with all the love and joy of a "free" spirit who would live on forever. Although we're still trying to grasp that you're gone, your spirit will live on forever in our hearts and all around us everyday!
So please know that this birthday will be no different from those in the past - we love you more than ever and will be "right" there in heart & spirit on your special day!!!!
Love,
Kim, Richard, Katlin, Christina
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Alan Berkofsky
April 5, 2007
The most beautiful rainbow
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast,and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much,and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.
Missing you very much Lori.
Love you,
Alan
P.S. Wish you were you here, I need you through some tough times going on.
Robbin Sowinski
March 25, 2007
Lori,
They say that when you lose someone you love that there are times when it hits you and you just have to go through it. Tonight is one of those nights. Ron and I sat down to watch a concert in our new home with our new theater and you were so present with us. As Celine Dion sang My Heart Will Go On I had a meltdown like only you could truly understand. As our birthday month of celebration approaches I am missing you so, knowing that you won't be there for the first time in 28 years. We used to celebrate for an entire 3 weeks. From mine on the 2nd till yours on the 25th. I know you are here with me spiritually but I just wanted you to know how much you are missed. There isn't a day that goes by when you are not in my thoughts. I like to share stories of our escapades over the years so people will know the Lori that I grew up with, the friend who shared every major event of my life over the last 28 years. I hope you are at peace my friend.
Love,
Robbin
Alan Berkofsky
February 22, 2007
Hiya Sis,
Three months are approaching quickly, and yet you're all I think about. You're in most of all my conversations. I laugh, I cry, I struggle everyday not hearing from you or being able to call you. I talk to total strangers now that were you clients, they never met you and yet their impressions and memories of you are of a smiling woman who enjoyed just wanting to get to know them a little better. They knew you better then you thought as your voice alone was enough to make a person loyal to you.
I still love you very much and miss you dearly. I'd come up there and take you back, but I know your in a much better place, I also know I'll be with you again someday, then we'll have eternity.
Love,
Alan
Patsy Renee Stigall
February 21, 2007
Dear Lori,
I had the great fortune of meeting your friend and colleague Alan yesterday! I didn't get the opportunity to meet you personally but everytime I talked to you, I detected a smile in your voice. Your kindness wasn't just for the first day you contacted me but it continued with cards and calls to let me know you were still available. I appreciate your professional labor and will miss you. Lori, I will never forget you. Ecclesiastes 3:9-12 "What profit has the worker from that in which he labors? I have seen the God-given task with which the sons of men are to be occupied. He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also he has put eternity in their hearts, except that no one can find out the work that God does from beginning to end. I know that nothing is better for them than to rejoice, and to do good in their lives, and also that every man should eat and drink and enjoy the good of all his labor-it is the gift of God."
Kim Muszynski
February 15, 2007
Hey girlee,
Yesterday was Valentine's Day and I thought of you. I thought of my warm, loving, HEARTFELT friend and how much I missed you. Remembering just 2 years ago, when we spent our Valentine's Day together having dinner, sharing wine and laughing at all the goofy couples and how we actually felt ok w/ being single females who were "happy" and "content" in our lives. Funny how we never felt "lonely" when we had our girlfriends around. For we were eachother's "chosen family" and it really didn't matter on that Valentines Day in 2003 that we were alone because we had eachother!!!!
So altho this year I spent my first Valentines Day w/ my new husband, there was still a piece of my heart that ached for my best friend! The friend with the biggest, bravest and brightest "HEART" around.
And today Melissa and I had lunch. You were with us - this I know. You played a song for us giving us your sign that you heard your name as we sat reminiscing about you! There's no doubt, now I know,that you have climbed the Stairway to Heaven....and I just know that you made it to the Top of the Stairway to Heaven's Gates. You found your way. And in the moment that you were smiling down from Heaven above!
I'm going to say goodbye now because I don't think you'd want to see my crying right now as I write this.
All my love - Always & Forever,
Kim
Suzanne Little
February 5, 2007
Lori,
Pictures keep resurfacing... pictures that I just happen upon. I laugh at the silly craziness we all shared with you and then I cry because I miss you so much. I miss giggling and just being ourselves together - no pretenses, no judgement. Few friends come along that make you feel that way. I have found that life is moving on... slowly... we girls have really stuck together - we've made new, stronger friendships with one another based on our common love of you. Within profound grief, I thank you for showing me the strength of friendship and the importance of having girlfriends that will last a lifetime - however long that life may be. You, as one of my dearest, closest girlfriends, were taken from this lifetime way too early. You will forever be in our hearts! Thinking of you always.
Love, Suzie
glenda sabo
January 16, 2007
Hey Lori, Elusive Butterfly
You were in my mind all this week when I was doing the musical,"Gilligan's Island". I got to cut Barry Williams' hair, AKA Greg Brady.....and kept the curls ....thought about you and how we could have sold them on EBAY....lol. I am working with Dawn Wells from GI. She was Mary Ann...It has been fun and if you were here we would be doing all the show biz stuff we had talked about. I am doing "Joseph's Tecnocolor Dreamcoat". I am wardrobe manager for that one. We are getting a new costume shop at Nova and I am probably going to take it over. Oh, the things we could have done, Mizz Thang....I miss you and think of you everday and especially when a butterfly flies with me when I walk around outside with FB. I usually talk to them as if it were you. I know you would be proud of all the work I am doing because I have been very ill but still pushing forward...I do wish you were still here with me to enjoy the theatre. You and Dawn Wells would have gotten on quite well...We are going out when she gets back off tour. I didn't go with them cuzz, I am teaching...You and I could have hit Vegas again and this time seen a "Barry" show, live...I am sure I could have gotten tickets for us...Thinking of you always..
Love you,
Glenda
Kim Muszynski
January 15, 2007
Hey girlee,
Still can't believe you're not here to share "new beginnings" in 2007. Yesterday was Sunday, and "foot ball season"...Its strange not hearing the phone ring Sun mornings for you to cheerfully announce your Sunday BBQ plans for the day. I so miss hearing your cheerful voice inviting us to share Loriland and all the charisma that was so heartfeld in your home. So here we are in a new season of our lives... Christmas, New Years, all the holidays are gone. They were not the same without you. I'm finding the new year lonely without your friendship. As you would always say, New Beginnings this Year! Altho its a new beginning for me, I still don't know how to move on without your cheerful spirit in the New Year. You always encouraged me to accomplish those resolutions and goals...You so inspired me in so many ways and I'm feeling a huge void as this New Year is upon us. Its still just one day at a time, as lonely as I feel without you, I know you're still in my heart each and every day. I miss you so much...for your were my big sister...And I know you'll be guiding my path this year as I embark on this new beginning in 2007. I'll be thinking of you along the way....
Love,
Kim
Kim Norris
December 18, 2006
Hey girlee,
Thought of you this past weekend while sitting in church. Missing my "spiritual friend"...for that we shared so much in common. As I looked around the beautifully decorated church filled with Christmas decorations, I instantly thought of you and wishing you were sitting right beside me. How you loved the "season" to be "merry". Of course, you were the "season" in my life and you were always the "merry" friend to cheer me on. So sitting there thinking of you, I opened my bible to find a little pin stuck in the side of my bible pocket and it was something we found together on the ground before church one day. We both smiled and realized despite all our problems, we shared one thing in common that day....the pin read "Smile, God Loves You". And in that moment, I realized that you were there sitting right beside me at church and that God heard my prayer sending me a sign from the past that reminded me that you're memories will live on in my heart forever...each and every day I'll look for your signs for this helps me to know that you're always right beside me.
Alan Berkofsky
December 12, 2006
Hey Sis,
Just wanted you to know how much I LOVE YOU! and MISS you.
We had a lot of fun this weekend in the Keys celebrating your work and watching Kim and Rich take their vows. It was a beautiful ceremony. You've been proud of them, Kim looked to beautiful and it brought a tear to my eye that you weren't there to see them, although, you were very much there in spirit. I also have to say how happy Rich looked. Everytime he looked at Kim's eyes he lit up. It was so amazing.
It even made Tina and I feel so much closer. Which, by the way she got up and boogied on the dance floor. This whole thing has really changed her and brought her out. I know she misses you very much. I gave her the bible from your couch that she gave you 4 years ago. She teared right up.
Thank you Lori Galante for every blessing you have left here on earth, the relationships you created in life and death.
On a more positive note....You would have been proud of Tina and I Saturday, we bot were really really drunk....lol
I love you forever and ever.
Kim Norris
December 11, 2006
My Dear Lori,
We missed you so much this past weekend in the Keys...You'd be so proud of us, Rich and I, and that we finally decided to get married. And of course, you were our guest of honor from above. The ceremony was perfect....We planned to start our new life together at the exact spot you introduced us to eachother 2 yrs ago. You were the first person we told about our engagement....and you didn't think we were crazy....well maybe for a brief minute! For you shared the same zest for passion and fun as we did. You taught us to embrace life and to never pass that opportunity bye....So we leared from you! We took the opportunity to close this year with a new beginning together...and of course, with you in our hearts and souls every step of the way! But the best part, I know you were there....watching and smiling down from above as my guest of honor. Or as Ellen and Robin thought, perhaps you were the Pelican making all the fuss in the water as we said our vows!!!!!!
All our love,
Kim and Rich Muszynski (Katlin & Chrissy too)
Lin Hall
December 3, 2006
Lori's memoirs and words from friends are heart warming. I wish I had known Lori. My daughter, Alison Hall and her boyfriend, Larry Keyser were friends and I only know about Lori from them. She made a huge impression on them. They loved her and described her as a beautiful person. I know she was a treasure to all she met. I will think about her even though we never met.
Ellen Mattingly
November 26, 2006
Here is the poem I wrote for Lori and read at her memorial. I remember many asking for a copy, but I'm sorry my memory has failed me and I can't remember who. Too many party nights in Lori Land Im sure. :) Thank goodness, those memories are engrained in my mind and heart forever and I will cherrish them always!
Our Lori
Lori said, “Hey Girlie, what do you say?
Don’t you think its time you’ve come out and play?
Just take the kids over to Mom & Dad
Come on girlfriend, let’s be a little bad.”
She’d say, “Take my keys, so we arrive alive.”
I’d say, “Nah, call Dana, you know she’ll drive.”
So off we went to have a blast
To make the memories I know now will forever last
We went here and there, Boy did we raise hell
And we did some things that even today, I’ll never tell!
This is the way it all started with Ellen & Lori
Building a bond and a friendship - We kept adding to this story.
Yet, there’s things about our friendship
I bet you didn’t know
Like the hopes and dreams she gave me
And the support she’d always show.
You see, as a single mom of 2….then 4
There wasn’t much time to plan
I believed to make it in this life
I just had to have a man.
But it was our Lori who told me
“A man you don’t NEED”
You may WANT him for company, or take out the trash
You need only YOURSELF to succeed!
So this smart, independent woman showed me how it was done.
Condos, cars, theatre-room, pool, and jacuzzi
Oh yeah, now that last one was definitely a lot of fun!
Yeah she sold me two cars
and a mortgage for the house with a view
Dang, that girl could sell anything
I bet she sold to you too
So I owe her many thanks because without her I would’ve never believed
That a single woman – even one with kids
Has no limit as to what she can achieve!
And when my father died last month, At my disposal she was there
With her great big heart, so warm and sincere
There’s no doubt Lori truly cares!
So today they say I must say goodbye
But frankly I know this isn’t true
Because Miss Lori Galante will remain in my heart
And be with me during all the things that I do!
Like any trips the girls take and the toasts that we make
During parties we throw, anytime we live it up and let go
We will celebrate the life of our Lori
As there is none that could compare
She gave us each one of God most treasured gifts
The joy of true friendship that we all shared.
Love and Laughter Always – Ellen
Alan Berkofsky
November 26, 2006
GaaaaaLante........That drove you nuts.
I was sitting on my balcony watching the Xmas tree go up and couldn't help but lose the feeling and Xmas spirit knowing you're not here.
Right now you'd be planning the "Lori Land" Xmas extravaganza. Your hustle and planning. Your sparklie invitations. Magicians, DJ, and even bartender to entertain old and new friendships. Everyone eating and drinking, so many people everywhere, inside outside. Everywhere you look. Then you finally appear (2 hours into the party) like a princess and a smile from ear to ear. Hopping around to everyone spreading your good cheer. Laughing and giggling. '70's disco blaring through the house. All the flashing gizmo's and gadgets, that made up "Lori Land." I didn't matter at your party all the outside, stresses were magically lifted. One couldn't help but have a great time.
I was thinking about you last weekend and saw a shooting star, I'm sure it was you.
I love you Lori, Merry Xmas.
Forever your Friend,
Alan xoxoxoxoxo
Suzanne Little
November 26, 2006
When it was cooler the other night and I was looking for something warmer for my son to wear, I came across a gift of an outfit that was given to him last year, but it didn’t quite fit him at the time. Now that he’ll be three, the size will be a little better for him this year. I held it up and asked, “Do you know who gave you this Dolphin’s sweatshirt?” and Christopher said very clearly, “Auntie Yori” (Auntie Ya Ya, appropriately enough until more recently as his vocabulary is getting stronger). I was absolutely stunned to think that this little guy would possibly remember that it was a gift from her last Christmas. So I thought to myself that maybe it’s her way of “re-gifting”. There will always be subtle reminders of her generosity and of her fun-loving ways. Our children will surely keep that alive.
There is a void that is definite. Her laughter, especially during these months, was contagious and gave a great excuse to join in and be just a little more crazy than usual right along with her… which was not a bad thing!! I’ll miss her always.
Mr. Galante, Gary, and Gay, my thoughts are with you and your family as you gather together through the holidays. I wish you peace.
Much love,
Kim Norris
November 25, 2006
Hey there Girlee,
I'm really missing you today. I've been thinking of you so much lately as I've been planning my wedding. For you are the "reason" and the "season" for bringing me and my "soul mate" together... The love of my life for which I will be forever grateful for that wonderful memory of Key West back in December, 2004. Despite my resistence, you got me to agree to go along for the "ride" of my life....we went to the Keys that weekend ...little did I know, I would meet my soul mate and husband to be....which brings me to today. Tonight we went to our favorite local hang out --- Clamsters----where the memories will be forever treasured in my heart. I'll never forget the keorokee and dancing until dawn....I looked around and realized it will never be the same without you. But then again, life will never be the same without you...period. I miss you so much, and more than ever. But I am forever "THANKFUL" for the treasured lessons you've taught me about life and how to really "live" on....with all the passion and zest you had....most important, with you in my heart showing me the "way".
Right beside me and in my heart you'll always be...and on December 9, 2006, you'll be my maid of honor (from heaven). I know you'll be there....looking down with your bright and beautiful smile giving me your blessing.
Love you, girl....
Kim
Robbin Sowinski
November 25, 2006
Lori,
Everyone keeps telling me to look for signs that you are present and yesterday I got my first sign. I was watching the Macy's Day Thanksgiving Parade and this year they introduced a new balloon to the parade. "The Energizer Bunny" I knew you were ok because I always called you that and what better place to have its entry into the parade than in your favortie city with our favorite store. I was able to reflect over Thanksgiving and as much as we are all missing you I was able to be thankful that I had you in my life as long as I did. That truly was a gift. We are going to try to continue the Lori holiday tradition by carrying on your love and zest for making the holidays a special time for all those you love. I promise you will be with us this holiday every mimute of every day. I hope that your battery up in heaven is as strong as it was on earth. Than and only than will the entire universe know how incredible a woman Lori Galante truly was and is.
I love you,
Robbin
November 24, 2006
To my sister, When I was just nine years old you entered my life. A darling baby sister that I so loved! I walked you in the baby stroller, laughed at your "funny faces" when you were two. Bought you pretty dresses and played dolls with you too. Your wonderful sense of humor, you wore your golden heart on your sleeve. Your unending love for me and my children, always kind & caring, always watching out for us. I will miss you very much little sis, but memories made with you are in my heart forever.
Love Always,
Gay
November 20, 2006
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Tina Berkofsky
November 17, 2006
Dear Family and Friends to Lori,
Though Lori and I did not have as close of a relationship as most, she taught me a lot over the 7 years that I knew her.
Her passing has taught me that God's plans are not always our plans. Love like there is no tomorrow.
Her joy of live taught me to love without abandon. Forgive and forget. And most of all, let others know you love them.
She modeled for me what a true friend is. True friends may fight with each other, but they will turn around and fight FOR each other. True friends may not speak to each other for a long time, but they will open their homes and their hearts to you at any time, day or night. True friends see past the smile to the pain. True friends see imperfections and love you anyway. True friends pick you up when you fall and hold you up when you can't stand alone.
Thank you Lori for being a true friend. May we all follow your example.
With Love,
Tina
"If one falls down, his friend can help him up."
Ecclesiastes 4:10a
Glenda Sabo
November 16, 2006
Mz Thang!!
Lori, I will never forget the last days of your life in Vegas with me. We had fun inspite of your being sick at the time. I didn't know then that it would be our first vacation and our last. We talked about going to Europe and I still will go with you by my side when I return there again to Italy. We shared such a short time together but God brought you into my life for a reason. I won't forget the hour you passed, as I saw the butterfly out flying in and around the shrubs in the rain. At that time I prayed God would tell me that was a sign you were going to get well and we would be on our way to many,"firsts"...but he actually was telling me you were at last free to be forever young. I will never forget what you meant to me in those first few days when we met. I know that if it hadn't been for you, I would be on the streets and alone...You helped me out and I know you wanted me to be in your condo as you did your best to make everything happen for me to get me moved in. I know that you wanted to help this,' ole gal' out....and you did your best...You are still fresh in my mind doing all that you did and in that short time teaching me to live and take chances. I know that my life was made fuller by having you in it no matter how long. No one will ever know what you meant to me. That night on the beach, you turned and shook my hand and said I will help you. I have lived in S. Fl. for over 3 years now and no one EVER gave me a chance like you did and I admire your honesty and trust you placed in me, as I did in you.
Why you had to leave us in such a short time is beyond me and I am still numb. I had a little sister at last and we even talked about that in Vegas. Gurl, I had a blast there and won't ever forget it or be it ever the same when I am there ever again. Somehow, something tells me it was meant to be that I be the one to go with you and spend the last days with you living and being alive in Vegas. I will never forget you and what you mean to me. I will constantly think of you no matter where I go in life. None of the same places will ever be the same without you and I will never forget your good deeds and support. You are truely one of a kind and God blessed us all with your visions and positive thinking. You are an asset to all of us and a legend to be learned from.The song that comes to mind for us is, "Girls just want to have fun". And you taught me to do that in the face of adversity. You will be missed by Biscotti and I, and by Eric who also loved you in the same way I came to love you.
Rock on....And when I listen to PJ again, I will remember you saying to me," You listen to weird music". I laughed by the pool side in Vegas as you told me to get off the phone and save my money. What plans we had in the way of theatre...theatre is what brought us together and the plans to be clowns with the kids in hospitials. We had BIG plans....But God had BIGGER and better ones. Will Never forget you, my Darling....Love you forever....:)
Lori and Alan Christmas 1999
November 15, 2006
Lori Alan Tina 1999
November 15, 2006
Elissa Bettis
November 15, 2006
My darling Lori, I loved you as
my own and my heart is heavy. I will miss you forever. Please rest
easy honey and keep doing what you
always did in life.
Love you, Mom Bettis
Robbin Sowinski
November 14, 2006
Lori,
I was watching Dancing with the stars finale and said to Ron Lori is going to be so mad she missed this. The bond that always kept us together was our love of music, theater and dance. I am missing you so tonight as I do every minute of the day. I know you are giving tap lessons in heaven and showing them a step or two. Please remember the words you sang to me at my wedding " Right beside me is where you belong from this moment on" That's where you will be " Always and Forever". I know you thought you were singing the words for me and Ron but I want you to know my friend that it was for you. Rest peacefully my friend. I Will Always Love you.
Love,
Robbin
Kim Norris
November 14, 2006
Hello there my guardian angel who now rests peacefully above. I think of you EVERYDAY, EVERY MINUTE, EVERY SECOND!!!! My heart aches for you, my best friend and sister. They say to have faith is to believe in the "unseen". I know you are here with us in spirit, smiling down at us from above. I feel your presence everyday all around me everywhere I go, every song I hear on the radio, every butterfly I see flutter bye. And thanks for tossing down the "pennies" to me....for they are my sign from heaven that you are here with us and my faith is true. I still miss you more than ever and hearing your voice every morning as we drank our coffee together and our goodnight calls as my last "check in" call for the night. We could always talk for hours and sometimes several times a day. Our lives were intertwined as soul sisters and its very hard to go on but I'm trying my best. Do me a favor girlee, keep sending me those pennies along the way.
My love forever and beyond, your best buddy & "lifer" friend, Kim
Mike Silvestre
November 14, 2006
Lori was a true angel in the fact that she brought smiles and laughter wherever she went. She will be missed by all that knew her.
Alan Berkofsky
November 14, 2006
Lori....It's been a week now. I can't tell you how much I miss you. I can't stand not hearing you on the phone or crazy voice mail. I miss the cute and funny emails. Dog gonnit! I just miss you.
Thank you again, for 12 years of a life long friendship. I know we'll see each other again in heaven. So I'll hold on to that, if that's all I can reason out of this disastrous event.
Thank you for your Heavenly Blessings! I promise to stay close with everyone.
I love you forever and ever my dear friend.
Love,
Alan
Susan Lutz
November 14, 2006
I remember the last time I saw you Lori; it was at my grand daughter’s birthday party. You always made an impression when you entered a room, it would suddenly fill with vibrancy and laughter. It was just the unique person you were. And so it did that night. Your arms were loaded down with gifts; I think you were more excited than Christina! I had no way to know that it would be the last time I would see you. If I had, I would have told you this . . . I especially will remember you with love for the way you opened your home and heart to everyone you met. You were a beautiful woman so full of love, kindness, and generosity. The friendship you shared with my daughter, Kimberly, and your devotion to her and my grand daughters, was over and beyond. Your beautiful spirit lives on within them, and I am so grateful to you.
No soul can ever replace you in the lives of those you touched; you will live in their hearts with endearment forever and beyond.
Thank you, Lori, now rest in peace.
Auntie Lori always got the biggest SMOOCHIES of all!!
November 13, 2006
Friendship... It doesn't get much better than this!
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Kim, Sue and Lori - Christmastime 2005
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PAUL GARRA
November 13, 2006
I WILL MISS YOUR WACKY PHONE CALLS AND STORIES THAT WE SHARED OVER THE LAST 14 YEARS YEARS YOU WERE THE CEMENT THAT KEPT PEOPLE TOGETHER. AND IM SURE JUST LIKE ME OTHERS WERE INTRODUCED TO ONE ANOTHER THROUGH YOUR PARTIES OR JUST BY YOUR PASSING IN YOUR DAILY DAY TO DAY ROUTINE.
WE SHARED MANY A GOOD TIME TOGETHER . YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN AS THOSE MEETINGS OR INTRODUCTIONS LEFT ME WITH SEVERAL SPECIAL PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT BECAME PART OF MINE . SO THANKS AGAIN PAL. IM JUST GLAD THAT I ANSWERED EVERY CALL THAT YOU MADE TO ME AND WAS ABLE TO HELP YOU UNCONDITIONALY BECAUSE YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHTS FOREVER....
PS KEEP THE CARS TOP DOWN IN HEAVEN AND DONT FORGET YOUR SUNSCREN AND SEAT BELT .
LOVE ALWAYS
PAUL DIANE AND IAN GARRA
Universal Studios, FL
November 13, 2006
Larry, Lori & Alison: Universal Studios, FL
November 13, 2006
Larry and Alison Keyser
November 13, 2006
Lori,
You brought such joy to our lives and a smile to our face every time we saw you, and you left that same smile with us everytime we think of you. We were blessed to know you the short but wonderful time we did. You are such a gem and will always hold a very special place on our hearts. You will be missed everyday. We love you.
Alex Sender
November 13, 2006
Soul sister Lori, didn't know you very long, but I'm sure glad I got to. I Miss you. Lori Land forever.
Alex
Michelle Tymes
November 13, 2006
Lori,was one of the most cheerful and beautiful people I ever knew. I always looked forward to seeing her welcoming smile. We were two from the original crew that started out in the mortgage business back in 2002. I always liked being around Lori, she had a Kind and Humble way about her. She will be truly missed by all who knew her. Rest in Peace Lori. I know your with angels!!
David Andersen
November 13, 2006
I am truly at a loss for words over the passing of a dear friend and one the most beautiful human beings I've ever known. Lori shared her "zest for life" with many people of whom I was lucky enough to be one. She defined the meaning of TRUE friend. I can't tell you how many times she lifted my spirits up with a her great smile and hugs. I will miss her so much! She will always hold a special place in my heart. I know she's saving a place in heaven for all of us. We will see her again one day.
Jackie and Matthew Jernigan
November 11, 2006
To have lived a successful life can be measured by those whose lives we touch and the good that we leave behind. Lori was one of those infectious people who touched and changed lives and could lite up a room just by her very presence. I am very thankful for having had the opportunity to know her during her short life on earth. As she now watches over everyone from above, may we all be comforted in knowing she is at peace and go forward with the same love and embracing of life that she had! Our thoughts and prayers go out to her close friends and her family as they are "celebrating" her life during the upcoming services and through the healing process ahead. God bless,
Suzanne Little
November 11, 2006
My Dear Best Friend Lori,
The telephone rang and you entered my life. With a simple question and common ground that brought us together... instant friends we became. It’s a great comfort when you know there’s that special person you can always count on, lean on, cry with, laugh with, or just simply... be with. You’ve been that person to me and I’ll miss you terribly. I’ll cherish all of our times together and I’ll especially keep your spirit and “Just do it! What do you have to lose?!” attitude in clear focus. God has given me some unexpected blessings starting with our friendship. Thank you for your loving support when I most needed it – I promise you that Christopher will have me to keep his fun, a little crazy but wonderful, Auntie Lori in our hearts and memories always. So, until all of us dance together again, I want you to take a hold of your Mom’s hand and dance!! We’ll sing for you!
Much love always,
Suzie and Christopher Jay
MAUREEN CAMPBELL
November 10, 2006
BRILLIANT MEMORIES OF THE MOST VIBRANT, GENEROUS AND GENUINE FRIEND! LORI LIVES ON IN ALL OF US WHO WERE GRACED TO HAVE KNOWN HER BOTH ON AND OFF STAGE! THE FINAL PRODUCTION IS A MATTER OF THE IMPACT ONE LEAVES BEHIND. THIS BEING SAID "BRAVO FOR YOUR LIFE BABY AND GOD'S GRACIOUSNESS TO HAVE SHARED IT WITH US!" MAGNIFICENT PERSON DYNAMIC AND TRULY FREE! LOVE AND MISS YOU MAUREEN
Robbin Sowinski
November 10, 2006
Putting into words 28 years of friendship and memories is a very difficult thing. My best friend was my sister, a daughter to my mother and a part of my heart that will go on forever. Lori I know that you are in a place where you will have the love and joy in heaven that you gave to all on earth that crossed your path. I cannot express my sadness in knowing that we will not grow old together. but 28 years of friendship was a gift that I can honestly say that no other person in your life can experience the way that I have. Our friendship lasted longer than my first marriage and being my maid of honor twice in life goes to prove that we truly were soul sisters. To my other family "The Galante's" thank you for letting me be a special part of your lives all these years. I love you all. To my closest friend, PLease know that you were a special part of everyone's life that you touched and will be missed by all. We will be together again someday and that will be one reunion I will always treasure. I love you.
Robbin and Ron Sowinski
Ana and Esteban Cintron
November 10, 2006
Lori,
You meant so much to this family! You were a daughter, a sister,and even an auntie to us.And we all love you so much! All the kids are missing you deeply just as much as we are. Thank you for the unconditional love you had for our son. You are truly an ANGEL!!! Our deepest sympathy go out to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with them.
God Bless you and Good-bye,
our beautiful girl!!
Anna,Juan, JR, Danny & Alec Enriquez
November 10, 2006
Lori,
My friend, my sister! We may not have been related by blood but we are in spirit. Words cannot express how much you will be missed!!! You meant so much to our whole family! I feel truly blessed to have known you and to have been a part of your life.You have shown all of us how to live life to the full, how to have fun and how to truly love uncondionally! You will be in our hearts forever and we will cherish all the wonderful memories! We will love you always & forever!
God Bless you, our angel!!!!
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Mark Sackoor
November 10, 2006
The kind words expressed by friends and family members paint a wonderful picture of the kind, happy, cheerful and energetic Lori that I remember. We are all fortunate to have known you and we miss you already.
Melissa Altman-Weldy
November 10, 2006
Lori, my girlee, my friend, my sister of choice...how deeply I miss our daily talks (and laughs & cries)... How blessed we all are for having had you in our lives. What an incredible person and spirit you've always been..and your "sparkle" will live forever in our hearts. I love you. Melissa
Mali Martinez
November 10, 2006
Lori, you were someone who would light up a room with your beautiful smile and your contagious laugh. We will miss you deeply.
Frank & Marcia Ball
November 10, 2006
What a beautiful difference one single life can make! Lori was so full of life and energy and her spirit touched so many. We will always remember the joy she brought others and pray that she has found peace within herself. No time on earth is long enough to share with those we love or prepare our hearts for good-bye but hopefully time will soften the pain.
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