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Sara Lisa Nathan, Katheryn, and Mark McCarty

Sara Lisa McCarty Obituary

Sara Lisa, Nathan Michael, Katheryn Jhoelle and Mark Andrew McCarty Sara Lisa means princess consecrated to God. She went up into the heaven's Wednesday, April 29, 2009. With her little angels: Nathan Michael McCarty, 3 ("mommy's little helper"), Katheryn Jhoelle McCarty, 17 months, (‘her sweety pie"), and "the wee one inside" Mark Andrew McCarty (little Andy) due June 11th. Lisa was a gift, and touched everybody's soul she met. She was a source of light and inspiration in hard times. She was an excellent mother, an unparalleled chef, a straight A student, a loving and nurturing wife, the best friend of many, a soul mate, an excellent writer and a wonderful daughter. Above all she had tremendous love for everyone. She was wholly and happily married to Mark Allen McCarty Jr., since January 2004. They were high school sweet hearts and met in French class and it was love at first sight. They were Francois et Michelle, they went together like biscuits and gravy! She devoted her life to her family above everything else. The kitchen table, togetherness and talking about everyone's day was very important to her. She graduated from Godby High in '03. She enjoyed learning, and attended classes at TCC with her husband Mark. Their goal was to create a better life for their children. She enjoyed watching TV in bed with her hubby, after the kids went to sleep. Beach trips, family get togethers, astronomy, meteorology ("the study of Gods weather patterns"), making healthy food for her family, play dates, snuggling with her babies, talking to Jesus at bedtime with the babies, one on one time with the kids, teaching her kids, sitting on porch with her hubby, watching her kids play together and going places on family trips were just a few of the things she enjoyed. She was the most wonderful, beautiful, loving wife a man could ever dream of having. Together they were dynamite, and an unstoppable force. Nathan Michael McCarty, Age 3 – loved his mommy and siblings and he was the best friend of his older brother, Ashton Tyler McCarty. They were thicker than thick and stuck up for each other no matter what. They were closer than twins. He always told Lisa "Mommy, you're the bestest cooker in the world." He had a jubilant nature and was loved by everyone. He loved helping mommy cook and clean, and he was very artistic, smart, creative, athletic , funny, and loving. Nathan had a way with words, and his little facial expressions would melt your heart. His Mommy and Daddy loved him very very much and he had smiles for miles. Our little "Wightning McQueen". Kathryn Jhoelle McCarty, Age 17 mos. - was the twinkle of her parents eyes and she was a beautiful baby girl, and was always smiling. She was a girly girl and loved playing dress up, watching mommy cook, and tagging along with her brothers. She was Daddy's little princess, and mommy's delight. Mark Andrew McCarty - "The wee one within" Not yet born but already loved by many. They are greatly missed by everyone, and touched all of our souls in their far to short a time on earth. They were a source of inspiration with abundance of love for all and it is only fitting they our now in heaven since they were already angels on earth. Lisa would not have wanted sorrow but a celebration of a happy and joyful life. They are survived by the family she made, and the family they loved so much. Husband, Dad and Her Soul Mate Mark Allen McCarty, Son and Big Brother Ashton Tyler McCarty age 4, Monticello, Mother/Grandmother Laura Belle Kathryn Phillips, Father/Grandfather William Kent Phillips ("Dad") Monticello, Brothers James Phillips (Sint Maarten NA) and Jerry (Wendy) Phillips. Niece and Nephews Maci, Dyllan and Damian Phillips (Duck WV) Father in-law/Grandfather Mark Allen McCarty Sr. Mother-in-law/Grandmother Lisa McCarty , Sister-in-law/Aunt Chelsy (Mark) Ray ("my sister") , Brother-in-law/Uncle Cameron G. McCarty, ("Uncle ‘G',"), Tallahassee Many other aunts, uncles, cousins. And friends to numerous to count. She joins her Grandparents, JC and Evelyn Phillips of Tallahassee in heaven. The husband, son and all of the family extend our eternal gratitude to everyone who has helped us out and continues to do so. The friends, firefighters, police, EMS, all of Monticello and Tallahassee, and anyone else that has prayed, felt a tear, or gave a extra hug to someone they loved are in our memories. "Thank You" from the bottom of our broken hearts. The Graveside service will be held at Concord Family Cemetery in Havana, FL Wednesday May 6th at 11 a.m. EDT. Following the service, we will have a commemorative get together in celebration of their happy lives. To be held at Old Bainbridge Park, on Old Bainbridge Road in Tallahassee. Everyone is welcome to come, children especially (that's what she would have wanted!) For those who can not attend Wednesday, there will be another commemorative get together in celebration of their happy lives. To be held at Jordan Park, on Pearl Street in Monticello, Saturday afternoon and again everyone is invited (bring the children to celebrate and play). Beggs Funeral Home (850-942-2929) is handling arrangements.

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Published by Tallahassee Democrat on May 5, 2009.

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Maci Murphy

September 30, 2009

Gramps and Nana,This is Maci I'm still shocked that all of this has happened.
I'm sure you are still weeping and I just wanna say I love you and wish I could've been there for you.I never got to meet Katie, I met nathan only a few times but I brake down when I think of their lives ending so soon.But I know that they are happy,healthy and safe in Jesus's arms,and as for the wee little one Jesus has a rocking chair too I'm sure,so be strong and think of all the happy memories you have,and remember they will all be watching over you now as angels in heaven.
Sara will always have a spot in my heart in ways I looked up to her,she was a kind hearted person,always happy,and a wonderful mother,I talked to her a few times on the phone and could hear what love she had for her children.We didn't have much time together but what we did have will always be with me,I remember when I was younger we took a walk in white spgs.and found a kitten under the bridge,and we named it bridgette,and the time we went shopping in Thomasville,and the great advice she always had to offer.I will miss her.And I miss you guys so much and hope to see you soon.I will pray God is with you,Mark and Ashton whenever you may need him.With love,Maci

Walter & Jeannette Joiner

June 15, 2009

to the McCarty family. we are very sorry for your losses. we just find out June 13th at the Davis reunion. Again we are very sorry.

Tiffany Sanchez

May 7, 2009

Mark Nick and I are deeply sorry for your loss. I just wanted you to know that Lisa was a beautiful and wonderful person and I knew that from the very first time we met in 9th grade English. I just regret not keeping in touch with her the way that I should have. But I know that she is peaceful where she is especially that she has her babies with her. I also know that she and your babies are watching over you and Ashton as well as everyone they loved. Keep on going for them and for Ashton. I will have your family in my thoughts and prayers for the rest of my life.

May 7, 2009

Kent, Belle, and all the family, I just want you to know I didn't know of this tradgedy until this morning when my brother Oswell Maxwell called and told me.
I will be praying for you, my heart is sadden by your loss. I will be in touch,
Your Cousin, Mary Ellie Maxwell Pitts
Phenix City, Al.

Milly Westman

May 6, 2009

Mark and Lisa, Patrick called and told me about this today. I knew, but did not realize this was your daughter-in-law and grandbabies. My heart goes out to you and I will keep you and the family in my prayers.

shalottie mosley

May 6, 2009

I am so so sorry for your lose. My heart and prayers go out to the family. I am a classmate of both Mark and Lisa and they were like angels. You never seen one without the other. Mark I will keep you and your family in my prayers. May God Bless.- Shalottie

Christie Estes

May 6, 2009

I am deeply saddened that this has happened to Lisa and her family. I cant even imagine what you all are going through. I went to Highschool with Lisa and she was such a wonderful person and friend. When her and I got in touch with one another through the internet again I was happy to see her and Mark were still together and had created a beautiful family. She was so in love with her husband and her kids. You could tell her kids and family were her everything. I was pregnant at the time Lisa and I were reunited and she gave me lots of good parenting advice. Now that I am a mother I cant imagine what I would do with out my daughter. I know Lisa was so excited to finally be having a girl. I could go on and on about how wonderful of a person Lisa was. My heart aches for Mark, Ashton and all of the family and friends affected by their loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and just know we have 4 new guardian angels watching over us all. God Bless.

May 6, 2009

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pour through and shine down upon us to let us know that they are happy.
Author Unknown

God Bless this family.

Heather Boyd

May 6, 2009

Lisa was the most positive person in any circumstance. Her love for her children and family was unmistakable. I thank God for the chance to call myself her friend. We will always remember her sweet smile and those precious babies. May they all rest in God's perfect hands.

Shellay Marlatt-Smith

May 5, 2009

Words alone cannot express how deeply saddened I am by the loss of your loved ones. May God's love and strength carry you through the days ahead. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ricardo, Nadia & Tatiana Fadell

May 5, 2009

To Mark and Ashton, Belle and Kent, and Mr. & Mrs. McCarty, Garrett, and Chelsy: Our hearts ache for your terrible loss. Lisa, Nathan, Baby Katie and soon-to-come baby Andy will be ever remembered and missed. May God hold each of you in the crook of his arms and comfort you at this time and in the days to come. We can't change this painful situation,or we would, but we can listen with ears that open into our hearts, so please feel free to call or come by and allow us to help you ease your hurt.

Evelyne

May 5, 2009

My last conversation with Lisa took place on the afternoon of Tuesday, April 28, 2009. I remember it
like it was yesterday. We talked, laughed and I listened as she shared some important things about her life and future. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mark and Ashton, know that your loss will make you stronger individuals in life.
R.I.P. Lisa, Nathan, Katheryn and Baby Mark!

Tracie Fulford

May 5, 2009

Oh Lisa, I can still see you playing in the yard with your babies! You were always smiling, always happy and positive. I loved our walks on the track pushing strollers. I am praying everyday for Ashton and Mark, and I will never forget your sweet face. I pray that you and the kids will rest in peace.

rwg

May 5, 2009

I met mrs. lisa in her kidz in aug of 2008. when they start going to school at j.c.e.h.s nathan were in my class he was such a sweet smart little boy and he loved his nanny and she loved then .i can remember that day last tuesday morning on when she drop them off with that big smile.if's she was leaving out quickly she stick that head back with a smile . she tld me that the baby was due in june i say my son birthday is in june to 11 . They will b truly miss.

Sharon Thomason

May 5, 2009

I have been so deeply saddened by the death of Lisa and her babies. I can remember so vividly the sight of her sitting in my class, working away on her writing, which was so important to her ... and she was such a good writer! I remember her coming back to visit, bringing Ashton and Nathan ..... so proud of them, so filled with love. My heart breaks for you. I pray that God will help you heal, and that you will be sustained by many happy memories.

Lynn C

May 5, 2009

I'm so sorry for the loss of the treasured family members that each of these families has suffered. A mother, a friend, a companion, children and grandchildren. I did not know Lisa but I'm sure she was a wonderful mother. May God comfort Mark and Ashton in the days ahead.

Tiffany Dalton-Strunk

May 5, 2009

I met Lisa a few years back and went to Godby with her. I can't even imagine the pain everyone went through. I hope lisa and her precious little ones are peaceful in heaven. My heart hurts to hear what happen and I hope that Mark and Ashton can get on with their lives and remember all the good times they shared together.

Nikki Marlatt-Snoke

May 5, 2009

Thinking of you during this hard time.

Dick Goulding

May 5, 2009

We just wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in your troubled times. Dick & Marlene Goulding

Heathyr & Woodrow Porter

May 5, 2009

I met Lisa when she first moved her and we became instant friends and alot though we have lost touch here and there we wre always glad to reconnect. We had always hoped to see our children playing together even before they were hear. Her and the childern will be missed deeply

Buddy & Dianne Westbrook

May 5, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Kimberli Eure

May 5, 2009

Phillips, McCarty families & friends, my Deepest Thoughts and Prayers go out to each and every one of you. Many times I have seen Lisa outside with her babies when I would pass by on my way to my parents. From the bottom of my heart, my tears that wont stop, God is with us all. Cherish the precious memories. Love to you all.......

Brooke Williams

May 5, 2009

I had the pleasure of meeting Lisa in high school. Each day I would walk in the classroom, she would always have a smile on her face. I just remember her positive energy. We recently found each other online; she was still smiling :) My deepest sympathy goes out to her family and friends. They may not be here on earth, but they are here in spirit –angles shining down.

Jo Ann Harper

May 5, 2009

Thoughts and prayers are with everyone in the McCarty family. My heart achs for you. Love you with all my heart.
Aunt JoJo

Katherine Harpe

May 5, 2009

To Mark, Ashton and Sara's Family,

I am so sorry for your loss, it is just heart wrenching to read about it. there just are not any words, right words to say. Please know that Sara and the babies are now guardian angels watching over their beloved. God bless

kira lloyd

May 5, 2009

my heart thoughts and prayers are with you all. i could not have said that better myself. i think that everything was covered when you said what you said. lisa would have loved the fact that she was known so well. she will be missed more than anything but she is definatly watching over us all and keeping us safe. her and those babies were angels and now they are living with their father and helping him watch over us all.

Betty Money

May 5, 2009

I cannot even imagine the pain that you all must be going through. I only knew Lisa briefly through my niece, Fay, but I have cried so many tears. You will forever be in my prayers. May God help you and guide you through this very difficult time.

Susie Stewart

May 5, 2009

Mark, Ashton,Bell,Kent,
I am so very sorry for the loss of Lisa and the Kids!! There is no words to express how hurt and upset we all are which we know you are feeling! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all and that If there is ANYTHING that we can do to help we are just a phone call away! God Bless you and help the healing begain and the hurt not be so painfull!

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