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Dennis Stillman Obituary

STILLMAN, Dennis Ian, 65, of Odessa, went home to be with the Lord June 8, 2009. He retired from J.P. Morgan Chase Bank, after 38 years. He will be greatly missed by family and friends. He was a loving husband, father, and grandfather. He is survived by his wife, Barbara; son, Mark; daughter, Stacey; stepchildern, Ward, Kennett and Shawn; grandchildern, James, Darrin, Heather, Remington, Madison, Aaron, Mariana, and Ethan; and brothers, Richard, Stuart and Alan. Family members will receive friends from 11-1 p.m., with funeral services at 1 p.m., Friday, June 12, at Idlewild Baptist Church. Interment to follow at Trinity Memorial Gardens.

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Published by TBO.com on Jun. 11, 2009.

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Mack Bates

July 26, 2009

Hey, Sweet Pea.. Mack and I did not know of Ian's graduation until Phyliss told us this morning. Our hearts are heavy thinking of your loss but overjoyed because Ian knew his final destination. Few people pass our way that we can say make a genune impact..Ian certainly impacted those that knew him...his wit, love of life and his love for you and family always put a smile on those that were blessed to know him. We will be praying for you and the family. Love, Mack and Pat

Nazaro Propati

June 22, 2009

Barbara and Family,

A long time ago Dennis gave Stephanie and I a goofy Christmas tree ornament of a Santa on a surf board and said: "no matter where you are, you will remember me every year when you put up your Christmas tree". Every year since, I've smiled when I've put that ornament on the tree because Dennis was the type of person that found a way to warm his way into your heart and leave a lasting memory. He was truly a mentor and a friend and I wanted you to know his words of encouragement and advice still ring around in my head today. In fact, Stephanie and I still talk about how you and Dennis were like our surrogate parents when we were first married. Stephanie and I are so sorry for you and your family's loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Scot Mewbuorn

June 19, 2009

Dear Barbara and Family,

It took a while for the grapevine to reach Missouri, but I heard of Ian's passing today. He was my mentor and tormentor, but I truly loved the man. Jennifer and I are so sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jean Archer

June 12, 2009

Barbara and family,
Ian was loved by your painting friends and will be missed. We treasure the memories of him and his wonderful sense of humor. You are in our prayers. We pray that God will give you comfort, strength and a full measure of His peace.
Jean Archer and your friends at FSDA

June 12, 2009

Barbara & family,

We are praying for you and the family in this time of loss. We enjoyed lively banter with Ian every Sunday morning when he was ushering and we'd see him occasionally on Wednesdays-(we sit up in the second level wed.) Ian was a great guy, my husband enjoyed "chewing the fat" with him. We will miss him greatly. Knowing he is in the presence of God is the only consolation for the loss of such a great guy. Love to all your family.

Bryan & Amy Verran & kids

Kim Brownen

June 12, 2009

Dear Family
Our prayers are with you. Every time we visit Idlewild we looked forward to his smile and his great warm welcome. Our prayers are with you!

Gloria Flack

June 12, 2009

Barbara and family,
You are in my prayers and thoughts. I will miss Ian coming into class and ushering at church. I know he is in a wonderful place now. Our memories of him will live on in our hearts and mind. Much love to you and your family.

June 12, 2009

Our Ian is surely making all the saints laugh in Heaven! How we will miss his presence. We are thankful that he accepted Christ as his personal Savior, so we can have peace that he is with our Lord. Prayers to your family. Dave & Rebecca Diebold

Terry & Jo Anne Moses

June 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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