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Thomas Betts Memoriam

In Loving Memory Of

Thomas James Betts

11/23/1986 02/24/2009

It' s been two years since you were called home. Our tears still sting and our hearts ache. We will always love and miss you. Until we meet again. Love Dad, Mom, Tori & Timmy

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Published by TBO.com on Feb. 24, 2011.

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February 25, 2013

May God be with the Betts family during this time.

(Me, Tommy, Sarah Stoutenger) play room at my parents house

Rachel Cooper

February 29, 2012

My dad (David Stoutenger) just notified me of this website and of the news that Tommy had passed. I am so sorry for the entire family's loss! I wish I had known much sooner. I tried keeping in contact with Tommy over the years, he was a good friend. He will truly be missed
-Rachel Cooper (Stoutenger)

Tasha Locklear

February 24, 2012

He was a little guy the last time I saw him. I know it has to be hard to lose a child but to know hes with our father is a big relief. Tommy we know you are smiling down and awaiting the day when you can see all of your loved ones again. Tasha Locklear

Tim Betts

February 24, 2012

Wow never knew missing someone is so hard. You were the best brother any one could ask for. You put me in my place when I needed it and told when everything is ok. Your still the person I strive to be and no matter how long your gone or how far away your are we still connected. Man I miss you so much bro you have no clue. One day we will meet and we can talk about all the time you missed. LOVE YOU BRO.

Cooper Family

February 24, 2012

Miss him and his beautiful smile!! Love you Betts family!!

Sherri Lynn

February 24, 2012

Love you all! Tommy was such a handsome young man!

Elaine Zink

February 24, 2012

Wish I had known Tommy, the man; but Tommy, the boy was a generous beautiful soul; a friend to my son and a joy to be around. Know that he is part of the great cloud of witnesses and the Lord does let him have glimpses into your lives. He knows what is going on in the family and I am sure he is helping shape your future homes in heaven. We love you all and remember you on this day.

Tammy Pinson

February 24, 2012

Tommy was a very talented young man...... He was a huge part of our praise band..... I will always remember this particular song he played on his saxaphone "Say The Name" there was no doubt he was annointed everytime he played it......... so now everytime we do that song in church I can still hear him playing softly behind us..... it's people like Tommy you just never forget...... Artie, Janet, Tori and Timmy, you are amazing people........ I love you all and pray that God will continue to strengthen you and give you complete peace......

Rita Steighler

February 24, 2012

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Neil Smith

February 24, 2012

You are really missed Tommy! Recently I was at Cracker Barrel and looked for you, wanted to sit in your section and then caught myself! You were a special person in our lives.

July 28, 2011

Artie, Janet , Tori and Timmy,
We are so deeply sorry for this tragic loss of your son.It was shocking to see this as I searched to find Artie on the net. May all the good memories of Tommy help you through all the terrible days you encounter.Again, we are deeply sorry for your loss.
Tom & Terri Long

April 18, 2011

“You cannot prevent the birds of sorrow from flying over your head, but you can prevent them from building nests in your hair.” - Chinese Proverb

Debbie Ardalan

March 26, 2011

God has called back one of his angels you will always be in our hearts.

Joan Russell

March 14, 2011

yes it really is
thank goodness for special memories

March 10, 2011

Death leaves a heartache
No one can heal;
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal

In loving memory of Tommy Betts
...

Jay Hernly

February 28, 2011

very nice sentiment

John Vazquez

November 25, 2009

I was in band with Thomas, and had the privelege of marching and playing in jazz and orchestra with him. He was an amazingly kind and had a heart of Gold, he'll live on forever in our hearts and memories. I miss you Thomas, we'll jam out one day again.

Kelly Skaggs

April 1, 2009

He and I were not the closest of friends but we were still friends, but the passing in hallways at WCHS we chatted here and there and he was always up to talk and listen. Such a nice guy he is. I am sure he is very missed and I am truly sorry to his family and friends. Celebrate how he lived, mourn not his death. Take care.

Brenda Johns

March 13, 2009

I worked with Thomas at Cracker Barrel. He was truly a gentlemen, and kind soul. We would talk of faith and such matters while rolling silver. I am sorry for his family's loss, but I am happy to know he is with the Lord right now. I pray that God would comfort his family as only God can comfort in situations like these. Brenda Johns

Victoria Betts

March 11, 2009

As Tommy or Thomas little sister I would just like to say thank you to everyone who has posted on here. I don't think you will truly understand how much this blesses my family knowing that Tommy has affected people. It has truly been a blessing reading the kind thoughtful words everyone has put on here.

Tommy Delaney

March 9, 2009

Hello - I'm 'lil' Tommy's uncle, 'big' Tommy. My wife Carol, daughter Rachel and myself send our heartfelt condolences to Janet, Artie, Tori, and Timmy on the passing of Tommy.

We will miss that wide grin of his.

I am grateful that his parents raised him up in the ways he should go because Tommy kept his Christian belief and now has true Love and Peace.

May the Lord keep all of us in the palm of His hand.

Mary Stevens

March 6, 2009

I worked with Thomas at Cracker Barrel in Wesley Chapel. He was a breath of fresh air; unique, enthusiastic, funny, and extremely kind and selfless. He was truly one of a kind, and I am deeply saddened that he can't continue to spread his zest for life to those around him. We can only learn from his example and try to live each day to the fullest. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Darby Cobb

March 4, 2009

Dear Artie, Janet, Tori and Timmy,
We are so sorry and are praying that God will help you in this very difficult time. Tommy was a wonderful boy and this tragedy is so shocking. My heart goes out to you.

Linda Shelley

March 2, 2009

I met Thomas several times during thanksgiving dinners at the Steighler's home in Lakeland. He was a very happy and kind person who had only good things to say about everyone. He always verbalized his thankfulness for his family and friends. He will not be forgotten and his love will live on forever.

West Miraglia

February 28, 2009

Thomas, I'm really going to miss you man. I remember working with you at Cracker Barrel in Wesley Chapel. You always had a smile on your face and I remember all the good times we had together. It's so sad to believe that you are no longer with us but it's comforting to know that you are in God's hands. We will always remember your positive and friendly attitude. May you rest in peace.

Marcia McMann

February 28, 2009

Though we didn't really know each other except from the fact that I am a customer and my daughter worked with you, I still know you as always being so kind and I always talked to you. I will miss your smile from our Publix family and may your family find comfort in knowing that you were such a sweet person that treated everyone with respect. You were a pleasure to talk to. The fact that you will not be there anymore saddens me and it's never understood why God chooses someone so young. God though had other plans for you and he welcomed you into his arms. May God continue to bless you on your journey and may he bless your family as they go thru this difficult time. You did not have very long on this earth but you brought so much to each person that you touched. You will not be forgotten. May you rest in peace.

Eric Bunch

February 28, 2009

I worked with Thomas at Publix for a few years and I remeber him and a very hard and honest worker and always made others smile. I will keep the family in my prayers. He will be missed.

Ruth Newton

February 28, 2009

I was truly shocked when I heard of the loss of Thomas. He was a fine young man who always had a smile and a kind word. I met him when working at Publix store 6 but later he would stop his jog and talk with me by SPES when I worked there. This is very sad and my heart goes out to his family for their loss.

Jennifer Aguilar

February 27, 2009

Janet.. you are so special to all of us at Heritage Academy. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you!
Jennifer and Damien Aguilar

Xenia Seiler

February 27, 2009

When we loose the ones we love I tell myself that another Angel was needed. My thoughts and prayers are with you Janet & Family!

Xenia Seiler & all the Staff at Skyway Technology Group, Inc.

P.J.

February 27, 2009

My regaurds to the family. I used to go to Oasis. You guys are awesome. My prayers are with you.

Fran Lawrence

February 27, 2009

Dear Janet, Artie, Victoria, & Tim,
Tommy's kind, gentle, loving ways, will be in our hearts & memories forever. We enjoyed watching him grow into a very fine young man, and feel blessed to have known him. We will miss him, yet know he is looking over us all, as one of God's special angels. I pray that you are comforted by all the wonderful memories, and the knowledge that he will live forever in your hearts.

Alesia Mosse

February 27, 2009

Artie,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although I never met Tommy, I felt like I knew him though all of the stories you shared about him. May God bless and comfort you and your family at this very difficult time.

KRISTIN BRAXTON

February 27, 2009

I KNEW TOM WHILE WORKING AT CRACKER BARREL HE WAS ALWAYS THE ONE TO MAKE YOU SMILE AND ALWAYS WAS A FUN LOVING PERSON AND HE WILL ALWAYS BE MISSED AND LOVED.WE WILL KEEP HIM AND HIS FAMILY IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.

Katie

February 27, 2009

I'm still at a loss for words... I worked with Tommy at Publix....he was the nicest person you could come across.... i enjoyed working with him and am grateful to have known him... its going to be a loss at work without him there... my thoughts and prayers go out to his family.... rest in peace tommy, your publix family will miss you!

Denise and Dave Kenney

February 27, 2009

My prayers and thoughts are with Thomas's family during this time of sorrow.
Our deepest sympathies,

Lindsey Drown

February 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Thomas and his family. I worked with Thomas at Publix store 6. He is going to be greatly missed but not forgotten. I still can't believe he's gone from this world but I know he is in a wonderful and safe place watching over everyone. And I'll be seeing you again one day Thomas. God Bless

Lynne Vito

February 27, 2009

My deepest sympathies. My prayers are with all of you in this time of such sorrow. My daughter Lauren is a friend of Timmy. Please accept my sincerest sympathies.

Sophia Carney-Bray

February 27, 2009

Please send prayers to the family of Thomas Betts. I am so sad that Thomas is gone. But, I am happy that he is with our Lord, Jesus Christ. I met Thomas when I worked at Publix on SR 56 and as a mother of a young adult myself, I knew right away Thomas had that "something special" that I immediately liked. Unlike most older teens, Thomas definately was was a true gentleman. I often felt that Thomas should have been born in an era where chivalry was the norm. He more apt to be giving rather than receiving. I don't believe I ever seen Thomas complain or get mad or be upset. He was a very freshing young man in that he could carry on intelligent conversations without the use of profanity and vulgerness. I know Thomas is with our Lord, but this world truly will be amiss without that fine young man. God Bless the Betts Family.

Jeff and Kelly

February 27, 2009

We only met Tom once back in 07 when he gave us a ride to the airport. This is tragic and our thoughts are with his family.

Sue McClintock

February 27, 2009

Prayers and sympathy to the family.
from: grandmother of Michelle Roth Cullens and Derek Piccinini.

Bob Lawrence

February 27, 2009

What a wonderful picture posted in the announement. It is how I will always remember Tom. My sympathy to the whole family in this period. I wish you strength in the understanding that God has added to his league of Guardian Angels.

Valerie Berdy-Shortt

February 27, 2009

Tommy, you were a tremendous man, you will truely be missed by many. Janet, Artie, Tori, and Timmy stay strong. I love you all. God Bless you thru this tough time.

Sanjay Jani

February 27, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you.

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