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Wilmer Patrick "Pat" REAVES

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Wilmer REAVES Obituary

REAVES, Wilmer Patrick "Pat"

82, passed away at home surrounded by family and friends and his cat, "Blue." On September 18, 2018 he went to be with his Lord and Savior after a long brave battle with lewy body dementia. Born June 6, 1936 in Anniston, Alabama, Pat grew up in Birmingham, and served a highly decorated career in the US Air Force earning many medals, including the silver star, bronze star, and distinguished flying cross during the Vietnam War flying the RF 101 Voodoo aircraft. After completing his tour in Vietnam with 162 missions, Pat flew for Northwest Airlines as an international captain based out of Minneapolis, MN, and was a representative of ALPA. Pat also lived in Tampa, serving as president of Twin Branch Acres HOA and was a member of the mustang club of America, before returning to his home state of Alabama, where he published a family genealogy book comprised of 35 years of research. Pat had many hobbies and interests including, archeology, history, model trains, mustangs, motorcycles, and horses. He was preceded in death by parents, Richard and Annie Reaves; sister, Aileen; and brother, Joseph. Pat is survived by his loving wife of 35 years, Kathy; his son, William Patrick Reaves; daughters, Shannon Dusek, Mercedes (Jim) Tierney, Mari (Rod) Cadwell, Kimberly Reaves; nine grandchildren, Matthew, Michael, Brandie, Natalie, Nicole, Noelle, Taton, Aubrey, and Cotton; two great-grandchildren, Skylar and Leo; and many nieces and nephews. Special thanks to his longtime loving caregiver, Latrice Franklin. A visitation for Pat is scheduled on October 2 from 11:30-1 pm, with a funeral service to follow at 1 pm at Charter Funeral Home in Calera, Alabama. Pat will be laid to rest at the Alabama National Cemetery in Montevallo on Tuesday, October 2, at 2:45 pm. Memorials to lewy body dementia Association are preferred.

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Published by Tampa Bay Times on Sep. 30, 2018.

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Mercedes Tierney

September 24, 2020

I miss you Dad

Mike Marino

November 13, 2018

Was fortunate to fly with Pat many times while he was at NWA. Always enjoyed hearing the stories about Mustangs and his time flying the Voodoo. Condolences to his family. Mike Marino

Mercedes Tierney

October 4, 2018

I miss you Dad and I look forward to seeing you again in Heaven. Your light will continue to shine bright through your Family and Friends. As you always said love while there is still time, for in the end...all that remains is Love. Love you forever, Mercedes (Dee)

Sherry Brock

October 1, 2018

I will never forget the strong, kind man who was so willing to share experiences and wisdom with all he met. And the laughter shared by Kathy and I over our thoughts of blowing out the single candle of the Confederacy at that special dinner. Then the horrified looks on your and Jim's faces as you heard our idea. I will never forget your kindness to my sons and to me. God bless you and your family.

September 30, 2018

Our sincere condolences to the Reaves family in the loss of your dear love one. Our prayers are as yours that God provides you with his care and comfort each day.
Psalms 145:18,19

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