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1962
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2009
Lisa Darr Obituary
She was born April 20, 1962, in Seattle, to Bob and Arlis (Zehner) Rutherford. The family moved to the local area and Lisa graduated from Kelso High School in 1980.
Lisa was a customer service supervisor with the Cowlitz PUD for seven years. She was fun-loving and enjoyed celebrations and camping. Lisa had a deep, unending love for her family.
She married Rick Darr in Kelso June 27, 1981. He survives her at home. Also surviving are her mother; a son, Joe Darr of Kelso; two daughters, Chelsie Darr and Brittney Darr, both of Kelso; two brothers, Bob Rutherford of Missoula, Mont., and Don Rutherford of Longview; and many nieces and nephews.
Lisa was preceded in death by her father Dec. 7, 1995; and a brother, Gary Rutherford, June 5, 1970.
A celebration of Lisa's life will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday at Kelso First Presbyterian Church, 215 Academy Street with Pastor Hannah Peterson officiating.
Contributions in Lisa's name may be made to Relay For Life, care of the Hanson Family and Friends Team, 575 Peardale Lane #4, Longview, WA 98632.
Arrangements are by Dahl-McVicker Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Lisa Darr
Sherry Berkenmeier
March 31, 2009
Im so sorry for your loss.
Clover Bagaoisan (Rios)
March 30, 2009
May God be with you and your family. Her big smile and kind heart will never be forgotten.
Greg&Carlena DeLaGrange
March 30, 2009
Rick & Kid`s, We are so sorry to hear of your biggist loss of your life. The Heart of your family!If we can help in any way don`t hesitate. Love Greg&Carlena
Joanie Martin
February 4, 2009
Well... this is really difficult to believe... when you are out of touch with those you care about so much... Lisa was/is my little sister... Donald was/will always be my big brother... Rick, God knew what he was doing when he brought you two together!! When Lisa gave birth to you kids, well, each one was so special to her and we had so much fun celebrating each birth. The stories I can tell... How about the first time Lisa talked Billy Hobbs into allowing us drive his Checker Cab in the parking lot when we were going square dancing and we weren't even old enough to have a license... Poor Billy... Well, at least Lisa could reach the peddles!! The memories of all us square dancing going to Merry Mavericks campouts, the Moonshiners when we visited the Outlaws. Jim Hattrick, Vern Kennedy, then my Dad Dave Martin, teaching us all how to dance plus all the kids we met and did things with... WOW!! Those days seem like they were just yesterday. How about the trips to Penticton and when I traveled with the Rutherford's us kids up in the bed of the camper. What fond memories and guess what... I still have all those pictures from everything, too!! I only wish I knew Lisa was sick and that I could have seen her just one more time to share the good times with her. We always laughed and did something crazy when we were together... Then I was just telling someone the other day a story Lisa had told me when her friends and her were talking in school. Isn't it funny how even though we are miles apart and haven't seen each other for awhile, that God sends us on a memory to give us a message... WOW!! We all had such AWESOME times with Lisa! She will always be my little sister we even shared our blood by cutting our fingers and pledging we were blood sisters. The fun we had at the Rutherford's house on 7th Street, eh? I know you all have memories there!! We won't mention anything about the neighbors! Oh yeah... They were square dancers too!! No matter what, Lisa will always bring a smile to my face and remain in my heart. My son "C.J." is the one who told me today that she had passed away. I too got tears. You never expect to out live your Lil' Sis!!
My love goes out to all of you! I am sending the biggest hug to you, Rick, and the families. If any of you ever want to visit... Please contact me by email or POB 244 Blaine, WA 98231.
John Crocker
February 3, 2009
To Rick,
It's been a while since our paths have crossed, but I think of you now and then. I hope you and your family find some comfort in what must be an enormously difficult time. Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care,
Bob Huffman
February 3, 2009
Rick and family; I just cannot express the sorrow I feel, of hearing about Lisa Marie. Such an upbeat person, so helpful and caring. I share your loss. Rick, you and Lisa were quite a team , both so efficient and caring in your life's work. You, helping me with Comcast and your team mate helping me at the PUD. I am truly fortunate to know both of you, I will never forget Lisa Marie, and will think of her very often. God bless you and your family.
Randy and Beth Grambo
February 2, 2009
Rick and family,
We are very sorry to hear about the passing of Lisa.
Summer Braaten-Reed
January 29, 2009
You will be dearly missed
Ron&Jamie Bailey
January 29, 2009
Rick & Family,we are so sorry to hear of your loss,our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Sherri' Taylor(Wilcox)
January 27, 2009
Rick,
I just heard of Lisa's Passing.I am so sorry for your loss.Lisa was always so full of smiles! She will be truly missed by everyone.God has a beautiful Angel in heaven now! Truly thinking of you and the kids.
My prayers go out to you guys as I know nothing anyone says or does can replace her but her memory will always be in everyones hearts forever! GOD BLESS!!
Sherri'
Kaylee, Steve, Karissa and Jaden Warren
January 27, 2009
Dear Brittney and family,
I hope you know how very sorry we are for your loss. We only met her once at a winter Guard show last year but she was so kind. Brittney, when she watched you, her eyes just lit up. She was so proud of you. If you need anything please let us know.
Lolita (Lita) Williams
January 26, 2009
Dear Rick and Family, I worked with Lisa the last 4 years. She was always full of energy and upbeat. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you daily. Lisa will always be there when you need her. Bless you all.
Betty Trembley
January 26, 2009
Dear Rick,
Lisa was a lovely person - both inside and out. She and you, Rick, were so beautiful together. I remember you kids at Kelso High School. Of course, I loved having you, your pals, and Andrew at the house. It was great living so close to you on Cowlitz Way. I am so sorry to read of your loss. Please contact me.
Lovingly,
Mrs. T. (Betty_
Desiree White / Plamondon
January 26, 2009
Rick and family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I will remember Lisa for her kindess, and her amazing smile.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Leslie Clark Pingrey
January 26, 2009
Dear Rick, Joe, Chelsie & Brittney,
I am so sorry for your loss. Lisa was a terrific woman with a contagious smile and laughter. She definitely brightened a room. I will miss her. Know that I love, miss and keep you in my prayers.
Love,
Leslie, Matt, Justin & Emily (your cousins)
Ronda Thorsen
January 26, 2009
To the Loving Family of a Loving Woman;
As I didn’t know Lisa very well, I have learned that indeed she was a Loving Woman. I saw as they showed how she loved her friends, she loved to work; she loved her family, her husband, children. As I watched & listened I saw that LISA LOVED LIFE. And as I stood there with my son I rejoiced. I rejoiced in the fact that Lisa Lives on. She Lives on with our Lord Jesus Christ. Oh, what a comfort that will be for her children and her whole family someday. It will be a blessing to you all as it is for me that Lisa is living on and that you will be reunited with her again. For me that is what gets me though those rough days. Sorry to say that this pain you feel does not get any better. You just get use to it. Day in and day out I struggle with the passing of My Dad. And as I write this to you all tears roll down my face as he left all too soon from the same illness that Lisa did. It’s now been 1 year and 6 months to the date that My Dad has been gone. And some days I think to myself and I have been known to yell it out loud, “I hate this, He should be here, its not suppose to be like this, he is suppose to be here!!” And believe me I still feel this way. So with that I wanted to tell Lisa’s children most of all. That she’s in a better place NO MORE PAIN, YOUR LOVING MOMMY HAS NO PAIN. Now I should not be credited (lack of a better term) for these words. As they were said to me also, by my 5 year old son as I sat yelling and crying out for my Dad. He is now 7yrs old and every once in a while he reminds me of that. But as I stood there watching the awesome pictures of your mom, I saw tears from my sons eyes. And I looked at him and said “Better place baby. She is in a better place. She is with Grandpa and she has no more pain. “ He smiled a little smile and at that point I thanked the Lord that Lisa was with him and that she has no pain. Honestly I never thought that something so small would be so big. The lord works in mysterious ways and one thing I have realized is that he uses children to help us though the rough times.
So as I hope that everyday gets better for you I will pray that there is a peace for each and every one of you soon. And Rick as I can still see that picture of you and Lisa on your desk at work I think “Wow” how the little things in life you miss. Not the jobs etc. but how I would walk into your office and the first thing I would see was the picture of you and Lisa. I always would think to myself that I could tell how much you loved her and she you. Funny how we see that just with a picture. And as I never heard you say it but from the times I saw you and Lisa together and the pictures and the way you would light up at work when she would call you to ask you something, I know you were “SOULMATES” My heart goes out to you totally. God Bless
January 25, 2009
Rick & Family:
So sorry to learn of your loss. Lisa was a beautiful person & always such a kick. Our thoughts & prayers go out to all of you.
Love, Don & Beth Holland
(Gary Graham's Mom)
Rachelle DeSpain
January 25, 2009
Lisa was my supervisor for the last 3 years. She had the ability to take a stressful situation with a difficult customer & turn it into a "learning opportunity". She always gave me a positive perspective & her continuous guidance. She was full of knowledge & taught me a lot. I thank her for her patience she had with me. She will be missed.
Debbie Curtis (Thurston)
January 25, 2009
You Lisa a true angel,your time here was so short but your memories of that great smile.laugh and true kindness will be with all who loved you ,will last forever.I know you are not far from us and we will all be together again.God Bless you and your family.
Mellany & Chris Studer
January 25, 2009
Dear Rick and Family;
Chris and I are truly saddened and wish to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Lisa was a sweetheart and though I hadn't seen her in many many years, I will never forget working with her at Fibre Credit Union in the 80's. She always made work more enjoyable. She was special and such a fun loving person. A joy to be around.
God Bless you and yours,
Gary Graham
January 25, 2009
Rick,
Although life has moved us apart I have never felt a seperation from you and Lisa and our friendship. When I had last talked to Lisa a few months ago we just never missed a beat. We talked like old times and her sense of humor and witt was the same. My heart goes out to you and the kids. I know she is with God and together they will watch out for you all. God Bless
Brenda Tank
January 25, 2009
As a longtime Darr family friend I have know Rick his entire life. As his soul mate Lisa contributed greatly to what Rick grew up to be, a responsible adult, a devoted husband and a loving father. I remember their wedding day and what a beautiful bride she was. Everyone was thrilled to have her in the Darr family. I will always remember her laughter and great smile. She will be missed, but never forgotten.
Johnny Groce
January 25, 2009
Rick, sorry for the loss of Lisa, she will be missed most dearly. I will always cherrish the memories growing up with her in south kelso. From grade school to high school, she always made me laugh. Rick we shared alot of good times back in the days, baseball, tournaments, double plays, etc.... thank you both , Rick and lisa for the great memories. My thoughts and and prayers are with you and your family.
Sue Baker
January 25, 2009
I will always remember all the good times Lisa and I shared together playing backgammon, cribbage, eating cinnamon toast, laying in bed talking until wee hours of the night, cutting class (sorry mom), laughing and sometimes crying together. I'm grateful that I had a friend that graciously shared her home and family with me and made a difference in my life. I will miss her "one of a kind" personality and BEAUTIFUL smile. She was a true friend and kindred spirit! My heart goes out to all of the Darr and Rutherford family, I am so sorry for your loss. I love you guys!
Lisa Bateman
January 24, 2009
Rick, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have such fond memories of you and Lisa during our high school years at KHS.
Lisa (LaFave) Bateman
Chester Springs, PA
Wendy and Rob Leggett
January 24, 2009
So sorry for your loss, Rick and family. Everytime I saw Lisa, she always made me smile. She was a great gal. -Wendy
Amy Hewitt
January 24, 2009
We will miss you Lisa..
Our prayers are with the Darr family in their time of loss...and always.
Jerry Hause
January 24, 2009
I work for the Cowlitz Indian Tribe and contacted Lisa for Electricity Bills for my weatherization job for the last two years and she was always very courteous and a joy to talk to. I got to meet her two weeks ago to put a face to the name and she was so nice. I was very upset to read this and my condolence's to the family and my God Bless You in this time of loss.
Tracy Ruhs (Faul)
January 24, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Lisa's passing. As a former classmate from KHS 1980, it seems we should still be too young for this to be a part of our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
judy greer (wohl)
January 24, 2009
I grew up with Lisa since kindergarten in wallace school. She was like my sister and she was my best friend growing up. There were 7 of us that were pretty much together all the time. Debbie, Barb, Trudy, Robin, Lisa, Camillia, may she rest in peace, and me, Judy. All of which I considered sister and best friend. I love every one them. Even though I moved away, they all were in my thoughts and prayers. I don't know what else to say........ I feel sad for Rick and Lisas family. Rick, was also a good friend to me growing up.. Just know you have an angel watching over you now. I pray the Lord will give you all strength and love to get through this terrible time. Lisa was a giving and loving lady and she will always be in my heart.
Carmen Dunnington
January 23, 2009
Rick, I am sorry I never got to meet Lisa. From what people have told me, she was a great lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie Fittro
January 23, 2009
Lisa has been and will be my best friend and "sister" forever and I never wanted this day to be here. How will my world ever be the same without her.
As children, my mom and dad called her "nuiscance" everytime she spent the night. Even my big brothers teased her and treated her as if she was another member of the family. From those wonderful times, as we grew up together, we became the sister to each other that neither one of us had.
The last time we spent time together at the hospital we talked of wanting so much to return to those days of playing with our Barbies and riding my horse. In my heart we always will be...
Mark Jarvis
January 23, 2009
In October when we visited you at home,Lisa had a phone call and told the caller her friend from high school was there. It meant a lot hearing that, I love your family and will always cherrish being your friend. My prayers are with you all.
Kellce Pipkin
January 23, 2009
I met Lisa four years ago and recently worked with Lisa in December 15 - 19, 2009 to deliver training where she worked. She was a ball of energy (just one month ago!!!) when I saw her and we went to lunch together each day. We had an instant connection with our silliness and love of laughter. Her sense of humor and down-to-earth nature was very endearing. Friday night I attended her family birthday celebration for her 17 year old daughter. There were 14 family members there. Lisa was so ALIVE, so fun, so real...and her family absolutely adored her. She told me about her lung cancer during one of our lunches together. She and her family honestly thought that the news she would receive from her doctor on the 12th of January would be good news. Her office has been good about keeping in touch with me. Without her there is a definite loss and a great sadness. She was a kindred spirit and made a very positive impact on my life. I miss her! My heart goes out to her family who must be devestated by their loss.
Kayla fittro
January 23, 2009
Lisa will be greatly missed. She was a wonderful person and had a big heart. There wasnt a time that she didnt make me laugh..I love and will miss her greatly!
Deloris Lyon
January 23, 2009
Rick,Joe,Chelsie & Brittney
I am heartbroken for all of you. I know how much much you loved Lisa and how much she will be missed,we will miss her too. We will keep all of you in our prayers. I know it will take time but when you can, remember the good times you had with her.
Much love
Aunt Dee
Carrie Magill
January 23, 2009
They say it isn't fair to have favorites, well sometimes you can't help it. This family is near and dear to me and I love them more than I could ever say. I was lucky enough to be apart of Rick and Lisa's wedding and share a moment of time in thier lives. I loved babysitting for them and being able to call Lisa cousin. She always had an ear to listen and advice that I cherished and I knew no matter how much time or space had gone by since we had seen or talked to each other I knew that she would always be there. I talked to her on the phone about a year ago and she still gave me such a hard time about teaching Joe to say "poop stain" even though that was 20 years ago. I loved that she always told me what she thought and wasn't afraid to laugh. She was one of the most wonderful people I ever knew and she never judged me. I am sorry I didn't get to see her in the last few months but I know that she knew I loved her. All my prayers go to her family at this time in hopes that the heartache will heal. She was a beautiful, wonderful, caring woman that will be greatly missed. Thank you Lisa for letting me be blessed by you, and sharing your family with me. All my love.
Cynthis Moore
January 23, 2009
I have known and worked with Lisa for many years. She was always happy and energetic with a great sense of humor. I know how much she loved her family and how proud she was of her children. I would like to express my sincere sympathy to her friends and family during this difficult time.
gayla scott
January 23, 2009
Lisa will be very missed, my friend debbie fittro loved her as a sister the loss she feels breaks my heart, lisa was a great lady and will be very missed.
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