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Anthony Polito Obituary

Dr. Anthony J. Polito, Sr., 95

Worcester - Dr. Anthony J. Polito, Sr., 95, a noted area educator and decorated WWII Veteran, passed away peacefully in his sleep at Oakdale Rehabilitation Center in West Boylston on Wednesday, May 13th, 2020. He is now reunited with his loving wife of 67 years Florence M. (Donnelly) Polito, who predeceased him just nine days earlier on May 4th also at Oakdale Rehabilitation Center.

Anthony was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, uncle, brother and son. He touched thousands of young lives as an educator for nearly four decades in the Worcester Public Schools. He provided countless hours of free counseling to individuals and couples for 50 years through Trinity Tree Counseling Clinic, an organization he founded to help all people access these services. His life is defined by a passion for education, devotion to family and faith, and service to community and country. He was truly a great member of the famed Greatest Generation.

Anthony was born in Worcester to parents Frank and Antonina Polito, who both had emigrated to America from Sicily. Anthony was the youngest of nine siblings. A child of the Great Depression, he was an ambitious and industrious youth. He delivered newspapers, grew vegetables, and raised animals to help feed his family. He excelled in school and entered the U.S. Army after graduating from North High School in 1943. He proudly served his country as an infantryman. Anthony landed at Utah Beach during the invasion of Normandy and was seriously wounded in the Battle of Cherbourg. He earned the Bronze Star for his actions in battle. Anthony rarely discussed his wartime experiences and his family did not know the extent of his injuries until an emergency room doctor treating him for a recent accident shared the results of a full body scan. Upon his return to Worcester, Anthony helped his older brother Joseph establish a construction company, working on such projects as homes, hospitals, water and sewer lines, roads, and bridges. He wanted to further his education and entered Fitchburg State Teachers College where he completed both his bachelor's and master's degrees in just five years. Anthony was class president, class marshal, and a member of the Epsilon Pi Tau honor society. It was at Fitchburg State that he met the love of his life, Florence Donnelly. They were married in 1952.

Anthony completed post graduate study at Worcester State College, Assumption College, Harvard, and M.I.T. He completed his doctorate and CAGS as a member of Phi Delta Kappa Honor society with a dissertation on behavior from Boston University. He taught and served as an administrator in the Worcester Public Schools for nearly 40 years. He held licenses for the positions of teacher, supervising principal, psychologist and superintendent. He founded the Higher Horizons Program which helped to address the needs of children attending inner city schools. He served his fellow teachers as vice chairman and coordinating counsel of the Educational Association of Worcester and vice chairman and director of the Teachers Credit Union. Anthony was also president of the Assistant Principals Association. He lectured for several years as an adjunct professor at Lowell State University.

Anthony was active in the community serving as director and president of the Worcester Public Library. He also spent several years on the Worcester Veterans Council and the Worcester Historical Commission. He was a parishioner of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church where he served as ecumenical and parish council chairman, lector, and eucharistic minister. He founded the Mt. Carmel Tutoring Institute and Reading Clinic. He was a major patron of St. Joseph's Abbey in Spencer and a member of the Sodality at the College of the Holy Cross for over 62 years.

Upon his retirement in 1985, he received a letter from President Ronald Reagan who wrote; "Throughout your career, you have built an admirable record of dedication and achievement in sharing your talents and leadership. You have reached out to and touched the minds of countless children and adults who will contribute to the betterment of our nation."

Anthony is survived by his cherished family, his four sons, Anthony J. Polito, Jr., Martin Polito and his wife Karen, all of Worcester, Frank Polito and his fiancé Carina Dolcino of New Hampshire, and Jim Polito and his wife Kathleen of Shrewsbury; five grandchildren he adored, Michael, Stephen and his wife Lindsey, David, Victoria, and Stephanie Polito; many nieces, nephews, and extended family and friends. Besides his dear parents, he was predeceased by his loving siblings, Rose, Pauline, Lena, Mary, Josephine, Caroline, Joseph, and Salvatore "Sam."

A Joint funeral Mass for Anthony and Florence who passed away on May 4th will be held Friday, May 22nd at 11:00 am in St John's Church, 44 Temple Street. To view the services online, please go to www.mercadantefuneral.com and click on live services. Burial with military honors will follow in St Bernard's Cemetery, Fitchburg. Anthony and Florence's sons will receive friends attending the Mass from 10:30 to 11 am prior to the mass.

The MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St. is honored to be assisting the family with arrangements. The Polito family wishes to thank the staff of Notre Dame Health Care Hospice and Oakdale Rehabilitation Center for their compassionate care. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Dr. Anthony '48, '49 and Florence '50 Polito Family Memorial Trust & Foundation at Fitchburg State University, 160 Pearl St, Fitchburg, MA 01420.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from May 19 to May 21, 2020.

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Susan Gauquier

June 9, 2020

I remember Mr Polito. I had him as a 6th grade teacher at Granite St. School in 1966. He was kind and a wonderful teacher! My sincere condolences to his family.

Roger Bourassa

May 23, 2020

To the Polito siblings I offer my sincere condolences. I am very sorry that you have lost both of your parents and especially under the circumstances of sequester that the virus brought upon us. However they both were together when they went and it seems to me the Polito children are carrying on their parent's and grandparent's legacy of achievement. I was astonished after reading Dr. Polito's life story!

Roger Bourassa

May 23, 2020

To the Polito siblings I offer my sincere condolence.I am very sorry that you lost both of your parents,especially under the circumstances of the sequester that the virus brought on. However they both were together when they left us. It seems to me the Polito children are continuing their parent's and grandparent's legacy of achievement. I am astonished at Mr.Polito's life story!

Victoria Fontana

May 21, 2020

My sincerest condolences to all of the Polito , family.
Losing one parent is heartbreaking. Losing two ,within two weeks it's unimaginable.
My heart ,and my prayers go out to the family.

What a wonderful legacy, what a wonderful family.

I feel that no one ever dies ,as long as you keep the love in your heart that they gave you. Each one of us has a part of our family inside us. And we have wonderful memories. And those will never die. God bless all of you.. sincerely Victoria Fontana

Clare Nadolski

May 21, 2020

Stephanie,

So sorry to hear about your Grandpa's passing. How excited I was when you invited him to a program at Wawecus and I got to meet my sixth grade teacher again. I remember how happy you were that day introducing him to me and how surprised he was that you knew one of his students! We shared memories of when he read his favorite books aloud to my class and listened attentively as we each presented our weekly book reports. I also reminded him that we made Easter bunnies in his class by gluing millions of cotton balls to a plastic jar. We had some good giggles.

Most of all, I remember his smile as you proudly reminded me that he was my teacher but he was your Grandpa!

I send warm thoughts to you and your family and know a special Grandpa is smiling down proudly at the beautiful tribute you wrote to him.

Thomas A. Pellegrino and Family.

May 21, 2020

To the entire Polito Family Please accept our deepest condolences for the loss of Dr. Polito. He is one of the most joyful festive and influential educators I had in school. He loved to read aloud with strong emotion and also get the children to sing loud and clear with that baritone voice of his. We learned a lot in his class and had fun as well. Rest in Peace Dr. Polito you touched a lot of lives in a beautiful way and will never be forgotten, REST.

Mary Ann Franco

May 21, 2020

To the Polito Family,

I was sorry to hear about the death of your dear father and grandfather. I hope you are comforted by the many happy memories you have of him during his long, life. We will keep your family in our prayers during the difficult days ahead.

Mary Ann and Paul Franco and family

May 20, 2020

Dear Polito Family;
I attended Granite St. School from K thru Grade 5. I was looking forward to having Dr. Polito for 6th grade but unfortunately in 1966 we moved to Lincoln Plaza area. My older sister and 2 older brothers had him so my family knew what an outstanding teacher and person he was. I clearly remember him as always dressed to the tee in a nice suit and always went out of his way to ask how my sister and brothers were doing. No one more kind and classy than him. Everyone he touched are fortunate to have known him.

God Bless

John Galvin
Auburn

Linda Rowe

May 20, 2020

Rest in peace.

Joan DiMasi

May 20, 2020

Jim, once again, my condolences to you and your entire family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Joan DiMasi

Don Roberts

May 20, 2020

Marty and Jim so sorry for the loss of Your Dad You Men had such great Parents and they raised 4 great Sons. Rest in peace Dr Anthony and thank You for Your service.

Elaine Brouillette

May 20, 2020

Dear Jim, Kathy, and all of your family,

Once again, I want to express condolences on the passing of one of your parents, your precious father. His life was an impressive one; one to emulate, and tells the story of a life lived in the way Christ would have us to do. Your dear parents are together now, and praise God their lives were long.

May you all know peace in the coming days as you reflect on their lives, and may you know that they are watching over you all.

Elaine Tibbetts

May 20, 2020

May you rest in peace, Mr Polito. I remember Mr Polito from the 4th grade. He was my first male teacher. i recently mentioned his name on facebook cause there was a quiz to see how many of your teachers your could remember. I was only a little girl at the time, but i knew he was a good man... not to mention handsome. as soon as i looked at the Army pic,, it brought it all back. God Bless you and your wife and your family.


An old student of yours...Elaine RIP Sir....

Craig Peters

May 20, 2020

Great American man.

Stephanie Polito

May 19, 2020

Grandpa I just wanted to say that you really played a big part in my life. I really learned a lot from you I can remember I would always come and visit you at your house you would give me and my family the best hospitality you made us feel welcome into your home. I always enjoyed listening to your stories about your life and how much you have accomplish. You really had a great sense of humor always tell the best jokes you always know how to make me laugh I'm going to miss the sound of your laugh and I'm going to miss your smile. Thank you Grandpa for always believing In me and thank you for always being by my side i'm glad to be your granddaughter. Now I know you're in heaven with Grandma watching over our family I will cherish all the wonderful memories I had with you and Grandma you both will always play A special please in my heart.

Carolann McAdam

May 19, 2020

I have wonderful memories of both of them. They always made me feel like part of the family and I loved them with all my heart. They will rest now-side by side forever. Peace and love to all of you

Carl gentile. Teamster local 170

May 19, 2020

Prayers for dr. Anthony!!

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