Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BORN
1950
DIED
2017
FUNERAL HOME
Carol Carpentier Obituary
Warren - Carol A. (Kalakowsky) Carpentier, 67, of Coy Hill Rd. died Tuesday June 20 following a 6 week battle against a brain injury. Born in Boston, January 21, 1950, she grew up in Tewksbury and traveled for many years as a member of the US Army, including spending 3 years in Belgium. Carol then came to Western Mass. and settled in Warren. She was a communicant of St. Thomas Church in Palmer and her love for singing prompted her involvement with the Folk Group at the church. Carol spent her professional career as a self employed stenographer for area lawyers. She most recently pursued a passion of advocating for children through the CASA Program (Court Appointed Special Advocate) in Worcester working as a representative for the health and welfare of biological and foster children. A source of pride was also her involvement in the designing and building of the log home in which she lived. She will be deeply missed by her long time partner and soul mate, Edward Stawiarz with whom she lived, her 2 sons, Nelson of San Francisco, CA and Christopher of Hingham, MA, along with her 3 precious grandsons, Tyler, Dylan and Logan. Calling hours are on Sunday, June 25th from 2-4:00 p.m. at Beers & Story Palmer Funeral Home, 1475 N. Main St. A Funeral Mass will be Monday, June 26th at 1:00 pm. at St. Thomas Church followed by burial with military honors at 3:00 p.m. at Mass. Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Agawam. Please meet directly at church. For those wishing to honor Carol's memory and her devotion to children, please make donations in her memory to casaworcestercounty.org or CASA Project, 100 Grove St., 4th Floor, Worcester, 01605. For more information or to sign online guestbook, please visit:
www.beersandstory.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Carol Carpentier
Sponsored by Beers & Story Funeral Home - Palmer.
David Hansen
August 26, 2019
Carol was a regular part of our gatherings at Upper Room Christian Fellowship in West Warren. She is sorely missed by us.
August 26, 2019
I and the other members of Upper Room Christian Fellowship continue to miss Carol. She was a regular part of our gatherings and is sorely missed.
October 16, 2017
Dear Nelson and Chris,
I don't think you would remember me but I was a friend of your Mom and Dad and played guitar in the St Thomas Folk Group with them back in the early 90's I was Googling to get contact information for your Mom and was so saddened to see this sorrowful news. I was so very fond of her. SHe was such a light in my life when I was having some issues and I will always remember her sense of humor! She was a pure delight and I was hoping to get together with her after all these years! Well my condolences to you all and prayers for strength and comfort.
Much love,
Renata Rasp (nee Goodreau)
PS Please send my love to your Dad
Robb Zarges
June 27, 2017
Carol was an incredible advocate for children in Worcester County. She will be greatly missed by her CASA family. Our thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Carol.
-CASA Project Staff and Board
Athena Caiazzo (formerly Vakas)
June 24, 2017
My sincere condolences to you, Nelson and Chris (and your families). Your mother was one of the kindest souls I have ever met and although I only spoke with her a handful of times, she touched my heart and I am sure she has touched countless others. My thoughts and prayers are with during this difficult time. May your loving memories of her bring you peace...♡
Elizabeth Gittens
June 24, 2017
Dear Chris,
I am so sorry to read of your mother's passing. I recall hearing many wonderful stories about the work she did, and still remember your own kindness from many years ago. My condolences to you and your family.
June 23, 2017
Nelson, Chris and Anya Your Mom was a great neighbor and friend. She will be greatly missed. She was always bragging about her grandsons. She will be remembered fondly.
Judy and Lloyd Rice
June 23, 2017
The Partners and Staff at the Law Firm of Gould & Ettenberg would like to express their condolences to the family.
Carol was used often at G&E as a Court Reporter and was loved by everyone in the office. She will be missed and we are very sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful and caring person.
Heather Edlund
June 23, 2017
Chris, Anya and family - please accept my deepest sympathies and condolences. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time
Jody Parker-Matt
June 22, 2017
Nelson, Chris and Ed,
I cannot even begin to tell you how sorry I am to hear of Carol's passing. Whenever I saw her, she was always smiling and so full of life. Carol always had a great story to tell and has brought so much laughter into my life through the years. She truly was a blessing to all who knew and loved her, and she will be missed terribly. My thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Showing 1 - 10 of 10 results
Make a Donation
in Carol Carpentier's name
Memorial Events
for Carol Carpentier
Jun
25
Calling hours
2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.
Beers & Story Funeral Home - Palmer1475 North Main Street, Palmer, MA 01069
Funeral services provided by:
Beers & Story Funeral Home - Palmer1475 North Main Street, Palmer, MA 01069
How to support Carol's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreResources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read more
The Five Stages of Grief
They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreWays to honor Carol Carpentier's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
