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Joan Webster Obituary

Joan Webster, 88

Worcester - Joan Webster, a tireless defender of human and civil rights and mother of three, died peacefully of cancer June 19 surrounded by family. A resident of Worcester, MA, she was 88.

Throughout her professional and volunteer career, she had an indelible impact on countless people, including many who never met her. Most recently, she worked for 11 years as the administrator for the now-defunct Human Relations Department of the Town of Framingham. In that position, Joan had countless roles, including serving as the town's fair housing officer, overseeing ADA compliance, and mediating conflicts involving racism and homophobia.

Her passion for mediation led to post-retirement involvement as an organizer, trainer, and mediator, providing services in Worcester courts. For years, she was a regular volunteer at dance, theater, and music performances at Mechanics Hall and the Hanover Theatre. A lifelong artist and advocate of the arts, she was a dedicated and accomplished ballroom dancer.

Extremely active in the Unitarian Universalist Church of Worcester, she participated in a host of committees, projects, and education programs, most notably as a founding member of the FUUtures Team, anti-racism and accessibilities efforts, and serving on the Committee on Ministry.

Active throughout her life in civil rights, justice, and peace movements, she devoted decades to causes such as passage of the Equal Rights Amendment, free speech, anti-racism, and women's rights. Joan's commitment led to her to become the first woman to serve as president of the ACLU Vermont board of trustees and serving on the Vermont State Advisory Committee of the US Commission on Civil Rights, where she was vice chair.

As a faculty member in the Goddard Experimental Program in Further Education, Goddard College's novel program for working adults, Joan taught a wide range of classes, from child development, to theater and performance, and the First Amendment. In addition to her teaching responsibilities, she served on the Goddard College Board of Trustees.

In her days in Cortland, NY, she was a founding officer of Citizens for Peace and participated religiously in weekly peace vigils.

Joan worked at home as a full-time mom with her three children for 19 years from 1956 to 1975; she often said that raising her children to become good human beings was what she was most proud of.

Joan was born in Elizabeth, NJ, in 1932, the daughter of Herman and Sylvia Greenbaum, and sister of Elaine (Greenbaum) Strauss and the late Harold Greenbaum. The daughter of an illegal immigrant who fled Polish anti-Semitism, Joan learned early how to navigate classmates' barbed taunts. "The values, ethics, and politics that I attribute to Judaism determine how I strive to be in the world and set up a responsibility to make tomorrow's world better than this one," she later wrote to her grandchildren.

She earned an MA in education/counseling psychology from Goddard College after earning a sociology major at Clark University. During her time at Clark, Joan was the founder and driving force behind launching Helicon, Clark's literary magazine, and heavily involved in the theater department. It was at Clark that she met her ex-husband, Lin Webster.

Joan is survived by her children and their partners: David Webster and Kim Landau (Roslindale, MA); Steven Webster and Elizabeth Collins (Lincoln, MA); Marcia Webster and Matthew Perry (Sharon, VT); three grandsons; and one great-grandson.

For the safety of everyone, services will be held virtually on Tuesday, June 30, at 5p ET. To register through the Unitarian Universalist Church of Worcester, go to https://bit.ly/3dl26Ef.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Worcester or the ACLU.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jun. 22 to Jun. 23, 2020.

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Bernadette M. Nelson

June 16, 2022

I miss Joan. I hope your happy memories help to sustain you.

SANDRA ANSALDI

June 28, 2020

Joan never seemed to lose her sense of mission, nor her desire to contribute knowledge to any group she was a part of. I know I am lucky to have known her. My condolences to all who love her.

Felice Wolfzahn

June 24, 2020

Sending love and condolences!! What a spirited, generous and loving woman. She will be missed!!!!

Janet Cutman

June 24, 2020

What can I say? I distinctly remember the very first Sunday that Joan came to UUCW. I greeted her at the door. I can remember saying that every service is different, so do not judge based on just one service. For sure, there will be times you will be in full agreement and times where you will not agree with what is shared. But that is the joy of it all. We do not create clones. She kept coming back and our friendship grew and my admiration of all she did and had accomplished in her life grew and grew. What a fascinating and energetic woman. A blessing in my life and an inspiration. I am a better person for having had Joan Webster in my life. I am so grateful she stuck around and added immensely to our congregation. I will miss her. she leaves a void that will be hard for us regular people to fill. It might take a dozen or so people each trying to fill just a portion of her 'shoes'. We, and the world in general, are suffering a great loss.

Art Shea

June 23, 2020

I always was glad to see Joan when we were involved in an activity in the community and especially at a UU activity.
I would wish to emulate how she always made whoever she interacted with feel interesting, cared for, and loved.

Sue Neaz

June 23, 2020

joan was an inspiration and I enjoyed engaging in conversation with her

Bernadette M. Nelson

June 23, 2020

To Joans family and friends,
My deepest sympathies to you on the passing of Joan. She was a remarkable woman who lived a life of purpose to encourage others, help solve problems, and make this place a better world in which to live. Her establishment of a conflict resolution policy at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Worcester was one of the reasons I joined this church. She was a wonderful woman and a great role model. May your happy memories help to sustain you, especially when you decorate your paper bags during the holidays.

June 22, 2020

Joan's obituary took my breath away; I knew she was someone who got involved in causes that she cared deeply about, but I had no idea the length and breadth of this.
Joan was a fascinating woman, who always brought an interesting, thoughtful perspective to things.
I will miss her very much.

Betty Jenewin
Unitarian Universalist Church member

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