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John Bezdegian Obituary

John Aram Bezdegian, 59, of Paxton, died suddenly in his home, Friday, February 20th, 2009.

John leaves his beloved wife of 26 years, Anita (Conklin) Bezdegian. John leaves his son, Jonathan Bezdegian of Paxton and his daughters, Tina, wife of Shawn Chaput of Derry, New Hampshire; and Jennifer and boyfriend Rick Lippe of Warwick, Rhode Island. John also leaves his four granddaughters, Anna Mae, Holly, and Claire Chaput and Felicia Lippe.

John leaves his mother, Surapi Sue (Surabian) Bezdegian of Worcester, MA and was predeceased by his father, Aram Edward Bezdegian. John leaves his brother, David Bezdegian of Worcester, and sisters, Janice and husband Stephen Phillips of Shrewsbury, MA; Joanne and husband Thomas Yaylaian of Worcester, MA; and Margaret and husband Fred L'esperance of Worcester, MA. John leaves his nieces and nephew, Talya and Brad Yaylaian, and Lori, Marni, and Tiffani L'esperance. John also leaves his sister-in-law, Melvina and husband Donald Hutchins and brothers-in-law, Anthony and wife Sally Conklin; Hollis and wife Rita Conklin; Robert Hardy and John Hardy. John also leaves his aunts, uncles, and cousins.

John graduated from Burncoat High School in 1968 where he was an honor student and standout athlete, specializing in shot-put. He went on to graduate from the University of Massachusetts Amherst in 1972 and from Central New England College in Worcester, Massachusetts. He worked diligently for many years at Blue Cross Blue Shield, Commercial Union Insurance, and Keane, Inc. John was a member of the Armenian Church of Our Saviour, Worcester, MA.

John was a man of great integrity and intelligence who valued education and lived his life with impeccable attention to detail. He was a Latin scholar who traveled the world with an unceasing curiosity and desire to experience other cultures. John loved his home and cherished every moment spent with family, whether it was a quiet evening doing crossword puzzles with his loving wife or a huge family gathering. John was so proud of his beloved son Jonathan's accomplishments as a musician and his face lit up every time he listened to his son play the organ, whether it be at a grand concert hall, church, or at home. John had a huge appetite when it came to his favorite Armenian dishes and even mastered a few of his father's recipes along the way. First and foremost, John lived his life with great dedication to his home and to his family, as a husband, a father, grandfather, a son, a brother, and an uncle. He will be deeply missed by the many who loved him dearly.

Funeral services will be held at the Armenian Church of Our Saviour, Tuesday, February 24, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. with burial in Hope Cemetery. Calling hours will be held at Nordgren Memorial Chapel, 300 Lincoln St. on Monday, February 23, 2009 from 5-8 p.m. A Dahngark Service will be held Monday at 6:30 p.m. at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Armenian Church of Our Saviour, 87 Salisbury St., Worcester, MA 01609 or to Assumption College, Attn: Office of Campus Ministry, 500 Salisbury St., Worcester, MA 01609. For directions and on-line condolences please visit:

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Feb. 22, 2009.

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Ruth Silvernail

March 12, 2009

I was just informed last night by a friend who still works at CU (One Beacon Ins.). I was in shock at hearing the very sad news. I worked with John at CU and always remember his incredible smile and high work ethic. I never saw John in a bad mood. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Owen and Karen McNamee

February 27, 2009

Jo, Tom and Family,

Karen and I are sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lyn Tivnan

February 24, 2009

Janice & Joanne & Family -
I just found out about Johnnie's passing and my thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of your unimagineable sorrow. I honestly am in shock.I can still see Johnnie on the swingset in my backyard in the mornings when we'd play together. Margaret was in the first grade, so she was at school, and my mother would be calling me to come in and get ready for the afternoon kindergarten session. Jan, you were only a toddler, and Joanne, you weren't even aound in those days. Johnnie, who was a year younger than I, would be mad that I had to go in and get ready for school and that we couldn't make "mud pies." Then there were the mornings when my father's old Buick would shift into gear right in front of your house, and Johnnie said it was like an alarm clock waking him up. It seems like only yesterday... From your eloquent tributes, I can see that he grew into a wonderful man, and as Jo said, I am sorry that you've been cheated out of so many years of new memories. But please cherish those that you have. I always considered myself the non-Armenian member of your family when we were kids. I can still taste those great Armenian dishes! I have so many fond memories of our years together. My love to ALL of you.

Christy (Dyment) Searles

February 24, 2009

So sorry for your loss. Please know you are all in my heart and prayers and as you go through this difficult time, know that God will carry you and He holds your tears in His hands.

Diane Rosenblad(Anderson)

February 24, 2009

My deepest condolences to all of John's family. I went to Burncoat with John, or Stitch, as we all knew him. Always an gentleman, he was someone you just knew would turn out to be nice man. I know he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Donna Salafia

February 24, 2009

Anita and family:

We are saddened to hear of your loss and please know how very sorry we are.

It’s hard to understand why people are taken from us, but find comfort in knowing you were a special part of a well-lived life.

Take comfort – those who love will be reunited in eternity.

Our condolences
Uncle Ray and Aunt Donna Salafia

Vera D'Angelo-Manzi

February 24, 2009

I' m so sorry to hear of John's passing, I only found out this am and would have made the service. My brother Joe just told me. What a great sorrow and loss to the world, Remebering Stich fondly.
"What the heart has once loved it can never loose. "

Matt Dyment

February 23, 2009

So sorry for the loss my preyers go out to you guys and you are all in my thoughts every day.

Angela Tsetsos

February 22, 2009

Joanne and Family,

Life is so unfair sometimes....Our deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family. We are so saddened and shocked to read about your loss. He was way too young to leave this earth- may his memory be eternal.

Our prayers, love and thoughts are with you during this unthinkable time.

Angela, Angelo and Family

joanne yaylaian

February 22, 2009

Johnnie, I am so proud to be your sister. You are a man of great integrity, intelligence, honesty, kindness, compassion and love. I will miss your hearty laugh that came from your toes when we told each other jokes(only jokes that we as Bezdegian siblings would understand and think were funny). I will miss your calm when I was shaken or upset or scared. You made my life a wonderful life from childhood to adulthood. I feel so sad and cheated not growing old as so many brothers and sisters do; growing old to share more laughter and make more memories. What a lucky person I am to have you for a brother....what a lucky world this world is for having you as an active participant. I am honored to call myself your sister. Everything you did was without fanfare or hoopla but you deserve a standing ovation for the person you are and the life you led. You are truly a gentlemen, a wonderful brother, and true friend. My life will never be the same without you but you will live in my heart forever. I love you Johnnie. Thanks for being the big brother who walked me to Kindergarten and never left me even though you were in the 5th grade and it was so uncool to hang out with your kindergarten cry baby sister, but even at that young age you knew who you were and what was important. Thanks for making me secure when I was scared of the dark. Thanks for always saying I will do that when it came to Mom and Dave's care. You are so gentle and so strong, so calm and reassuring, so funny and fun. You never had an envious bone in your body. You were happy for everyone and their accomplishments and were helpful to those less fortunate. You were a team member and a team player and never had to be asked to help. You were free with compliments and never did an ill word leave your lips. You are an angel and God must have needed an extra special angel in heaven. God made the greatest choice for heaven but it has left me broken hearted and so sad. Johnnie I will miss you and your slangs, your sounds, your cheerful gorgeous smile. My darling brother I will miss you for the rest of my life. Thank you for being you. My extra special, wonderful, kindhearted, warm brother Johnnie. All my love forever. xoxoxox Jo

Joanne Yaylaian

February 22, 2009

Johnnie,
I am so proud to be your sister. You are a man of great integrity, intelligence, honesty, kindness, compassion and love. I will miss your hearty laugh that came from your toes when we told each other jokes(only jokes that we as Bezdegian siblings would understand and think were funny). I will miss your calm when I was shaken or upset or scared. You made my life a wonderful life from childhood to adulthood. I feel so sad and cheated not growing old as so many brothers and sisters do; growing old to share more laughter and make more memories. What a lucky person I am to have you for a brother....what a lucky world this world is for having you as an active participant. I am honored to call myself your sister. Everything you did was without fanfare or hoopla but you deserve a standing ovation for the person you are and the life you led. You are truly a gentlemen, a wonderful brother, and true friend. My life will never be the same without you but you will live in my heart forever. I love you Johnnie. Thanks for being the big brother who walked me to Kindergarten and never left me even though you were in the 5th grade and it was so uncool to hang out with your kindergarten cry baby sister, but even at that young age you knew who you were and what was important. Thanks for making me secure when I was scared of the dark. Thanks for always saying I will do that when it came to Mom and Dave's care. You are so gentle and so strong, so calm and reassuring, so funny and fun. You never had an envious bone in your body. You were happy for everyone and their accomplishments and were helpful to those less fortunate. You were a team member and a team player and never had to be asked to help. You were free with compliments and never did an ill word leave your lips. You are an angel and God must have needed an extra special angel in heaven. God made the greatest choice for heaven but it has left me broken hearted and so sad. Johnnie I will miss you and your slangs, your sounds, your cheerful gorgeous smile. My darling brother I will miss you for the rest of my life. Thank you for being you. My extra special, wonderful, kindhearted, warm brother Johnnie. All my love forever.

ROBIN & DONNIE & MIKE DANTINI

February 22, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Cousin Claudette & Al Guilmette

February 22, 2009

Dear Anita, Jonathan, Tina, and Jennifer,
We are so sorry for your loss. John was the light of your lives. Anita, we know John is in heaven with his dad and your mom & dad. We will definitely see them again . We just need to stay focussed.
We love you very much.

AILEEN & Walter Janulewicz

February 22, 2009

We offer our condolences and prayers in this time of loss, especially for the family who at this time need it the most. God Bless You All. Stephen Janulewicz parents

Janice & Steve Phillips

February 22, 2009

To our beloved brother John,

John, you have broken our hearts leaving us so soon. Our lives will never be the same without you.

John, we want you to know we will always love and cherish you for the kind, thoughtful, gentle, strong and genuinely caring brother you are and always will be to us.

We will treasure the beautiful memories of our lives together and will always keep them close to our hearts.

John we will never ever forget you and the wonderful human being that you were and we are so proud to have had you as our brother and friend.

Our love and prayers forever and ever.

Jan & Steve XXOO

jo

February 22, 2009

Johnnie, I am so proud to be your sister. You are a man of great integrity, intelligence, honesty, kindness, compassion and love. I will miss your hearty laugh that came from your toes when we told each other jokes(only jokes that we as Bezdegian siblings would understand and think were funny). I will miss your calm when I was shaken or upset or scared. You made my life a wonderful life from childhood to adulthood. I feel so sad and cheated not growing old as so many brothers and sisters do; growing old to share more laughter and make more memories. What a lucky person I am to have you for a brother....what a lucky world this world is for having you as an active participant. I am honored to call myself your sister. Everything you did was without fanfare or hoopla but you deserve a standing ovation for the person you are and the life you led. You are truly a gentlemen, a wonderful brother, and true friend. My life will never be the same without you but you will live in my heart forever. I love you Johnnie. Thanks for being the big brother who walked me to Kindergarten and never left me even though you were in the 5th grade and it was so uncool to hang out with your kindergarten cry baby sister, but even at that young age you knew who you were and what was important. Thanks for making me secure when I was scared of the dark. Thanks for always saying I will do that when it came to Mom and Dave's care. You are so gentle and so strong, so calm and reassuring, so funny and fun. You never had an envious bone in your body. You were happy for everyone and their accomplishments and were helpful to those less fortunate. You were a team member and a team player and never had to be asked to help. You were free with compliments and never did an ill word leave your lips. You are an angel and God must have needed an extra special angel in heaven. God made the greatest choice for heaven but it has left me broken hearted and so sad. Johnnie I will miss you and your slangs, your sounds, your cheerful gorgeous smile. My darling brother I will miss you for the rest of my life. Thank you for being you. My extra special, wonderful, kindhearted, warm brother Johnnie. All my love forever. xoxoxox Jo

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