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John Ingemi Obituary

NORTH BROOKFIELD John J. Ingemi, Sr. 88, passed away peacefully at home on May 31, 2016 with his wife by his side.

He leaves his wife of 55 years, Theresa M. (Foley) Ingemi. He is survived by his sister, Laura (Ingemi) Danek and her husband Edward of Enfield, CT, his brother-in-law Dennis Foley and his wife Jeannette of N.Brookfield. He was predeceased by his sisters Natalie, Josephine, Grace, Irene, and Mary.

John was born in North Brookfield on March 27, 1928, the youngest child and only son of Antonio and Lucia (Panaccione) Ingemi. John lived his entire life in his hometown. As a teenager, he worked at his father's barber shop until serving his country as a Sergeant in the US Army during the Korean War. Returning home from combat, he purchased the barber shop from his father and became a full time barber. He was most fondly known as John the Barber. He was a member of the American Legion and VFW, where he served as Quartermaster for over 20 years and chairman of the North Brookfield Housing Authority for many years. As if he wasn't busy enough, John organized the North Brookfield Memorial Day parade for over 30 years.

In 1955, John met Theresa Foley, the love of his life and they married on Tuesday, July 4,1961, so as not to interrupt the business. He always joked that he ""lost his independence on Independence Day!"" He leaves 5 children; son John Ingemi, Jr. & his wife Sandra of N.Brookfield; daughters Mary & her husband Jeff Copeland of Jefferson ,Martha Ingemi of Jefferson, Nancy Ingemi of Ellington,CT., and Kathryn and her husband Ron Premo, Jr. of Holden. Nothing meant more to John than the time he spent with his family, especially Terry - they were inseparable. John embraced the role of ""Grampy"" to his 16 grandchildren, Theresa, Natalie, Jacquelyn, Ryan, Jeffrey, Anthony, John III, Paul, Sean, Julia, Johanna, Caroline, Matthew, Elizabeth, Ronnie and Dominic. He was also a proud uncle to his many nieces and nephews.

John was full of energy. His lively spirit allowed him to participate in most any family adventure or endeavor, even up to his last day. He loved to travel, each year enjoying his anniversary and vacation in early July at Lake Winnipesaukee,NH.with as many family members as could attend.

John was also a long-time active member of St Joseph's Parish in North Brookfield, was a devoted man to his community, his country and most importantly his family. His presence will be greatly missed.

Friends and family are invited to attend calling hours on Monday,June 6, 2016 from 4-7PM in Pillsbury Funeral Home 44 Gilbert St. North Brookfield. The funeral Mass for John will be held on Tuesday at 11:00AM in St. Josephs Church 296 N. Main St. North Brookfield. Burial will follow in Walnut Grove Cemetery with full Military Honors. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the North Brookfield Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 73, North Brookfield, MA 01535. Please visit: Pillsburyfuneralhome.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jun. 2 to Jun. 4, 2016.

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Linda

June 11, 2016

I work with individuals with special needs and we have been bringing them to johns barber shop for many years, John was truly a remarkable kind and patient man, my thoughts and prayers go out to the family and all whom were blessed to be a part of his life

Brenda Rossi-Rich & Family

June 11, 2016

Infinite Condolences and Peace to the entire Ingemi Family

June 10, 2016

Three generations of Bigwoods and Richardsons have fond memories of John the Barber. Mr. Ingemi was a role model for quiet, dignified accomplishment. Linda Richardson

June 9, 2016

So sorry for your loss our deepest sympathy.
Linda and Roland Rathay
Eustis FL

Kelly & Dan Prefontaine

June 7, 2016

John, Sandy & family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Although, I can not physically be there today I am there in thought and in prayer. The entire Ingemi family is in my heart. I haven't had the honor of meeting Mr. Ingemi but reading about what a wonderful man he was made me smile. I'm certain he was amazing, warm and that he loved you all very deeply. I've asked Dan to pass along my most sincere condolences to you. We are both very sorry for your tremendous loss and wish you as much peace as possible during this most difficult time.
With love,

Dr.Timothy Hoffman

June 5, 2016

Thank you for serving our country. May your family find comfort in their faith and may you Rest in Peace.

John Boxshus, Jr.

June 5, 2016

John,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time.

Marie Benvenuti Orrell

June 3, 2016

Dear Terry and family,
We were so sorry to read about John.
Our prayers are with you at this very sad time. The Ingemis were a great family in North Brookfield - my father and brothers always got their hair cuts either from John or his father. Remember way back when we even brought our sons to the shop when we were visiting my parents.
Love,
Marie Benvenuti Orrell and Davidi

Kimbetly Altobelli

June 3, 2016

John I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family .

Ralph Nichols

June 3, 2016

I was so sorry to read on the internet of John's. I started getting haircuts at his shop when I came to town in 1953. He was kind, honest and a true gentleman and will be greatly missed.

June 3, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ingemi Family. John will be missed.
Joe, Kim, Nikki & Ryan Holway

Richard & Charlotte Chabot

June 3, 2016

so very sorry for your loss. John will sadly be missed by all who knew him. we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

sally Irvine

June 3, 2016

I am so sorry for your big loss. He was a great guy. he will truly miss from everybody. love sally&adam irvine

Scott & Bonnie St Cyr

June 3, 2016

Our hearts and prayers are with all of the Ingemi Family as you mourn the loss of John. A devoted member of the community who proudly served our Nation as a Soldier, and who was even more proud of his Family. May God welcome him home and comfort all who loved him.

Deborah Lauzon

June 2, 2016

To the Ingemi family so sorry for your loss.
May John RIP
Debbie (retired Dr Filiberti's office).

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