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John Murphy Obituary

John M. Murphy, 52

Auburn - John M. Murphy, 52, of Auburn, passed away on Sunday, October 25, 2020 at Beaumont Nursing and Rehabilitation in Northborough.

John is survived by his loving family, including a son, Nathan H. Murphy; a daughter, Alicia N. Murphy; their mother and former wife, Virginia "Gina" (DiRamio) Murphy, all of Auburn; a niece, who John thought of as a daughter, Taylor M. Gauthier and her husband Vincent and their daughter Lilyana, all of Spencer; a brother, Richard Murphy of Worcester; two sisters, Karleen Murphy of Millbury and Gina Elia of Auburn; many nieces, nephews, and close cousins. John was born in Worcester, son of the late, Kathleen (Cove) Murphy, and graduated from Worcester North High School. He later moved to Framingham and Ashland, before settling in Auburn with his family sixteen years ago.

John was a long-time roofer for over 30 years. He owned and operated Murphy and Son Roofs Inc. He was a hard-working man, who was dedicated to his family. He loved to take rides and tune out in his Mustang or in his red Buick Riviera; he enjoyed "The Wonder of It All." John was always appreciative of good food both at home or at a new-found restaurant. He was a proud friend of Bill W., for ten years, and found great happiness in his family, friends, and supporters.

Calling Hours for John will be on Thursday, October 29, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. in MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester. His Funeral Mass will be on Friday, October 30, at 10 a.m. in North American Martyrs Church, 8 Wyoma Drive, Auburn. Interment will follow at Hillside Cemetery, Auburn.

*social distancing practices and the use of face masks will be required at the funeral home, church, and cemetery.

Flowers may be sent or donations may be made to the Alicia & Nathan Murphy Educational Fund, in care of Webster Five, 400 Southbridge Street, Auburn, MA 01501.

There is an online register for messages and condolences, it can be found at

www.mercadantefuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Oct. 27 to Oct. 29, 2020.

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Deborah Lee Cote

November 2, 2020

Gina and family,
So very sorry to hear of Johns passing. He was one of the good guys. May he be at peace and out of pain. I’m sure Jr was there to welcome him. May happy memories carry you through this very tough time.
Love Debbie Cote

Diana Petraitis

November 1, 2020

If you should hear a song out in the meadow, loud and clear, have no fear ~ he is there. The melody heard is that of love, and those who listen hear it true. I will miss you immensely my friend. ❤ Love, Diana
Deepest sympathy to Johns family and friends. He will always be in our hearts and thoughts.

Jason Hamilton

October 30, 2020

John's family
I am sorry for your loss
He was a remarkable and kind person
He was the only person who reached out to me when my brother, Derek, passed away several years ago.
May I Rest In Peace
Your memory be eternal

Danielle Donahue

October 29, 2020

An Angel in heaven RIP

Al C

October 29, 2020

So sorry for your loss Gina. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this most difficult time.

Kimberly Ryan

October 29, 2020

Murph, you were my best friend, THE BEST FRIEND I HAVE EVER HAD! "MY ROAD DOG!" We always had each others backs no matter what; helped each other with anything & everything...ALWAYS! You taught me so much and always treated me as an equal on your team! 12 years my dear, 12 years that I will cherish and hold so close to my heart!
Life will never be the same without you in it!
Every time a Journey or Van Halen song comes on I will blast it just as loud as you would and close my eyes and know that you are with me rocking out to classic 80s jams! I will truly miss taking random trips to Hingham at the end of a work day because Scarlet Oak Tavern was our favorite restaurant with the best jumbo shrimp and filet mignon (that melts in your mouth) in the world. Or driving to New Hampshire just to eat pizza and tune out on the ride! Most of all I will miss the small things like laughing with you because you loved to eat nacho Doritos with a cold pint of whole milk or making me go to ten different stores to find you mallo cups!
You were a great dad to your awesome kids and being an extension of your family and watching them grow into the beautiful young adults they are today was a true privilege!
I hated watching you suffer this past 8 months and truly wished I could have done more or even taken that pain away... Its really difficult for me to accept that you're gone... I will find some comfort in knowing that the pain is gone and your an angel in heaven watching over us!
I LOVE YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN EXPRESS AND YOU MEANT SO VERY MUCH TO ME! UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN MY ROAD DOG!

Lena Loughlin

October 29, 2020

Oh John,
You will be missed so bad. I will miss your loud voice, great hugs and that awesome smile of yours. I'm glad you are at peace and are no longer having to fight rotten cancer. Cancer sucks so bad and takes away so many before they're time. You will never ever be forgotten my Big Little Bro, and always loved. Gina, Alicia and Nate, I will always be here for you.
Love always,
Lena

Fran Daviau

October 29, 2020

Johnny , We went though some much . I wonder what it all for . Did so much together, many struggles, and we made it so I thought. You took life back like you said . So proud to be your Friend . Till we meet again . Fly high Cuzz . My deepest sympathy to your family .

Lisa Cavalieri

October 28, 2020

I went to school with John. So sad losing another classmate. My thoughts are with his family.

Robin Hamelin Richardson

October 28, 2020

John, I’m sorry you had to go through so much pain and suffering. Thank you for always being a great friend and like a big brother. Sending my deepest condolences to John’s family and our Providence Street family. RIP my friend. Love you!

cathy and andy powers

October 28, 2020

My husband and I never had the pleasure to meet John at Janel Murphy's wedding to our son William Powers 8 years ago. We are sorry for your loss. He was too young. He will be an angel in heaven watching over his family. May god bless all of you in this time of need.

kathleen fraser

October 28, 2020

We are all saddened by the loss of this precious man......he is so much to so many.........Heaven has another beautiful angel in its midst........

Jessica Phillipo

October 28, 2020

Sending you all our love, and remembering all the good times with John. He loved you all so much and was bursting with pride for all of you! He’ll always be with you. We love you!

Love and hugs,

Jes, Jay, Tyler and Dylan

Joanne Diramio

October 28, 2020

Rico and I wanted to say that we loved you very much. Thank you for your part in our family. We will miss your kind words and smiling face. At least we know you are not in pain any longer and we will strive to take care of the family you have left in our care. Rest in Peace dear boy may the Lord bless you forever. Mom and Dad "D"

Amy Moccia (Westbrook)

October 28, 2020

Aw, man! I haven't seen John since high school but knew him growing up, he was always a good guy. My condolences to the family. May you find the peace and light to get through this! RIP, Murph.

Betsy Fricka

October 28, 2020

I did not know John, but I am also a great friend of Bill W. Please accept my sincere condolences in your loss. He is at Peace.

Elaine Stjohn

October 27, 2020

Gina E sorry for your loss

Elaine Stjohn

October 27, 2020

Gina E sorry for your lost

Chris Logan

October 27, 2020

My condolences go out to John’s family. I’ve known John since we were teenagers, we worked together at the old City Lights restaurant and we had some of the best times of my life. John will be sadly missed, by all that new him. RIP John. I loved you like a brother

Mindy Shaughnessy

October 27, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Stacy Bennett

October 27, 2020

My deepest condolences to Johns family. A beautiful life taken too soon. Our friendship and my memories will be forever in my heart.

Bryan Jakubiak

October 27, 2020

John you were the greatest friend anyone could ask for. You left your mark on everyone you came into contact with. God bless you and may you Rest in Peace.

Malcolm Person, Jr.

October 27, 2020

My Sincere Condolences to the Murphy Family in the loss of John. John was my friend & family to me. He'll be missed! John had Character & so much Heart for others. North High 1984-1988. Great Memories...RIP...My Friend.❤
Malcolm Person, Jr

Chris Lawrence

October 27, 2020

John, may you be with God and experience eternal peace. You have left your mark on the world and you will truly be missed.

Linda Hammo d

October 27, 2020

John, may you rest now, pain free.
Alicia, Nate, and Gina, our deepest condolences, may you find comfort in your memories and each other. ❤❤
Love Mike and Linda

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