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Joseph Murray Obituary
Brookfield - Joseph F. Murray, 87, of Pleasant St., died Monday, August 27, 2012 surrounded by his family.
He leaves his wife of 57 years, Carolyn L (Potter) Murray; six sons, Davis Murray and his wife Margot of St. Thomas, Brian Murray and his wife Nancy of Cotuit, Kris Murray and his companion, Beth of Brookfield, Eric Murray and his wife Julie of Woodstock, CT and Daniel Murray of Dayville, CT; two daughters, Louise Murray of Marstons Mills and Sandra Bovat and her husband Stephen of Sandwich; one sister Nancy Hinds and her husband Carson of Warner Robbins, GA; eight grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a son Joseph Murray and a sister Mary Lemoine. He was born and grew up in Worcester son of the late Joseph P. and Anne (Davis) Murray and has lived in Brookfield since 1952. He graduated from Worcester State College with a Masters Degree.
Mr. Murray was a school teacher for 37 years at the Warren Elementary School and for a short time served as the Vice Principal at Quaboag Regional High School. He also served 34 years as a summer Police Officer for the Barnstable Police Department, 7 years as Chief of Police in the Town of Brookfield and currently has been serving the Town of Warren as a Police Officer since 1971.
He was a Marine Corp Veteran of W.W. II and the Korean War and was a member of the Marine Corp League Detachment 140 of Ware.
He was a Justice of the Peace for over 20 years and served the Town of Brookfield as Selectman for 12 years and currently as Water Commissioner. He also served 13 years on the Brookfield Fire Department.
A Memorial Service for Joseph will be held Saturday, September 1, 2012 at 11:00 AM in the Brookfield Congregational Church in Brookfield. Calling hours will be held Friday, August 31, 2012 from 4 to 7 PM in the Varnum Funeral Home, Inc., 43 East Main St., West Brookfield. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Joseph F. Murray Scholarship Fund, c/o Quaboag Regional High School, P.O. Box 909, Warren, MA 01083.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Murray
Sponsored by Joe and Sheila LaFlower.
Sgt Joseph R LaFlower (Retired)
September 5, 2025
It's hard to fathom that another year has come and gone since the passing of Joe and Caroline. A few months ago I bought a new truck. I decided to put vanity plates on the vehicle and was contemplating what I wanted them to say. I then remembered that Joe had plates on his truck that read SGT JOE. So I applied to the Registry for the plates and they were available and I received them shortly after. I proudly display those plates as reminder of my service to the PD but also as a tribute to my good friend Joe's legacy and memory as well. Semper Fi my friend. Rest in peace Joe and Caroline
Caroline Murray
September 4, 2025
Grampy,
I miss you and Grammy every single day. As I get older I've begun to see qualities in myself that remind me of you. I feel overwhelming pride just knowing it's a beautiful part of you that continues to live in me and I get to share it with the world. Your love, compassion, and humanity.. your legacy. I love you with all of my heart.
Lulu Murray
August 27, 2025
Thank you Joe & Sheila every year on this date I read & reread all the cherished memories that people have offered ..a wonderful gift
Joe LaFlower
August 22, 2023
It's hard to believe another year has passed since I last wrote a message on this forum. Many do not know this but when my son became the K9 officer for the Warren Police Dept. and we picked up his K9 he decided to name the K9 "Murray" in honor of Joe Murray. My son is living in Florida now and working for a Sheriff's Dept.. "Murray" is with him, although he is retired as a K9. Rest in peace Joe and Carolyn you are missed.
Joe LaFlower
August 22, 2022
Remembering when we used to call Joe Murray "PaPa Smurf" because he was the oldest officer on the department and we used to wear powder blue uniforms at one time. Joe was always full of wit and wisdom and was a great mentor to me on how to be a good leader. One day while my wife and I were at a tag sale we saw a coffee mug that had a picture of PaPa Smurf. We had to buy it for Joe. A few days later he stopped by the station and I met him outside in his car. I presented the mug to him and he smiled, held it up high and said loudly. "Smurf" and we both laughed. His wife, Carolyn, sitting in the passenger's seat smiled, looked at us both, and said "You guys are crazy" and we all laughed. God rest your souls Joe and Carolyn. You are missed.
Sgt Joseph R. LaFlower, Retired
Chad Stratton
August 27, 2021
Thinking of you on the bright sunny day Mr Murray. RIP.
Kathryn (Murray) Perry
May 11, 2021
This is for Colleen Connors:
Colleen, I'm sorry to hear about your father. I hope we can keep sharing memories and continue to remember the legacy your father and my grandfather left behind.
My dad (Brian Murray) asked me to share this with you. I'm sure you've seen it before, but it's always a nice reminder of what incredible men they both were.
Colleen Connor
December 25, 2020
Dear Murrays, I was cleaning out my Dads top dresser drawer, were he kept his treasures. I thought this would crack you up. My Dad passed away this month. I have tons of fun memories of your parents visiting our house in Syracuse. You mom was the best and your Dad was really unique. He called my dad regularly. Their friendship was one of the best. Hope you are all well. My husband and I are on the Cape often. (Brewster) I hope to install my dads IWO JIMA license plate at the Chatham Squire. Take care, Colleen Connor
Dads obit: https://tindallfuneralhome.com/tribute/details/2406/Martin-Connor/obituary.html?fbclid=IwAR1hPaS79bmNq9HW9VHH8CqycEHl0jzHKgfa120DKYTV-wuyS2AB3yygkgk
Joseph LaFlower
August 22, 2020
Remembering my good friend, colleague and mentor, Joe Murray on this day of his passing 8 years ago. 8 years have passed but you're remembered daily by so many because of the legacy you left behind. Rest in Peace my friend. Semper Fi !
Sgt Joseph LaFlower
September 30, 2012
I can remember one night when Joe and I were on patrol together, probably in the early 90's, we got called to a disturbance on Bacon St. As we drove up Bacon st. behind the other officer on duty we could see a group of young men fighting. Most of them scattered upon our arrival, as the other officer (can't remember who it was)and I were placing two of the men under arrest, Joe was acting as the cover officer. Once I had my guy cuffed I turned to put him in the back of the cruiser and I did not see Joe. I asked the other officer where Joe went. He stated he didn't know. I walked a few steps to see where he was and here comes Joe with another young male, carrying him by the back of the belt and the collar of his shirt and plants the guy on the hood of the cruiser and handcuffs him. I aksed where did he come from, Joe said while i was covering you guys I heard some rustling over there and I saw this young lad hiding in the bushes. He was in his early 70's then. We miss you Joe. Semper Fi
Sandy Wirstrom
September 16, 2012
Mr. Murray was both my 5th grade teacher and my driving teacher when I reached high school. I have so many fond memories of him. They range from our singing the Marine's Hymn every morning in 5th grade to his eating an orange while teaching me how to drive. He threw the orange peel out of the car and then told me that when licensed, I would be responsible for any passenger's litter violation! I admired him so much!
Sue Deslongchamps
September 11, 2012
I have never read so many testimonials to such a fine, warm, well respected human being. I am truly honored to have fit into this mans life, even if it was only a small corner. This photo of Mr. Murray is perfect to reflect who he was. His warm eyes and great smile. To the Murray family, you can truly be proud of your marine.
April (Carr) Bennett
September 10, 2012
Mr. Murray meant a great deal to my family. The first year he taught in Warren he had a rascal named Greg Carr in his class. Mr. Murray influenced my father's life choices. When I reached 5th grade, he and my father (aka "grasshopper") would exchange notes through me, I became the milk girl of my class but most of all; I think Mr. Murray made an impression on me (and all of us) because he taught RESPECT. The stories are many because he influenced every kid he'd ever taught. I am forever in his debt. Thank you Murray family for sharing him with us and may you find comfort in these stories and memories.
Jolene Poleshuk
September 5, 2012
My story about Mr Murray: After having him for a 5th grade teacher & being the last of 3 siblings to have that honor in our family, I went through a graduation from Quaboag, a wedding & the 2 births of our sons. After 14 or so years we found ourselves back in Warren. My husband walked our boys down to the P. Office & he came back puzzled. He told me, "Some guy came up to me & said, 'Those kids look like POLESHUKS. Are they?' So I told him "Yes. Who are you?" My hubby then asked, "Do you know a Joe Murray?" I told him he was my favorite teacher. Love you & miss you Mr Murray. RIP
Tracy Pagnoni
September 4, 2012
RIP Mr. Murray, you will never be forgotten!
Joan Brodeur
September 4, 2012
Mr. Murray was a great teacher and he taught me how to drive as well. He will be missed very much,my prayers go out to all of his family.
Patrick O'Day
September 4, 2012
Sorry for your loss to the Murray family. One of my more memorable times I shared with Mr Murray was the banter between my Uncle George O'Day (Army ww2) and the Marine Mr. Murray. Those two gentlemen would go back and fourth between who led whom into battle and who cleaned up the mess afterwards. The Brookfield Rod and Gun Club will never be the same to me. Their shared conversations always meant for a lively debate and you new they deeply respected each others gift to our wonderful country. Mr. Murray went to Rangely Maine years ago to help lay my dear Uncle George to rest. Mr.Murray with the deepest respect asked each one of us in attendance to say something (during the small gathering) that we cherished or loved about our Uncle,Friend,Dad,or cousin. He made sure that we all had something to say, Mr. Murray has always been a man to be admired and looked up to. He truly showed it on that memorable day.A truly humble man will be missed.
Ralph DeFeo
September 3, 2012
Kris, so sorry for your loss. After reading all these wonderful comments about your dad's life leaves me speechless. He truly was a remarkable man. I fondly recall working with him in Warren. He had a keen eye for things and more stories than the Library of Congress. Be well my friend and please contact me when you have a chance.
Wm. Schlosstein
September 2, 2012
What a privilege it's been to have known the man who taught me 5th grade arithmetic for over 40 years. Your service is legendary; your courage and humility is unparalleled; and your influence to so many is everlasting.
Rest in peace, my friend.
Craig Hamill
September 2, 2012
Mr Murray was an incredible man, he was a true patriot and a real American hero. Mr Murray blessed us all with his service to his country and community. He will always be fondly remembered. God bless you Mr Murray and thanks for all the things you taught us. Semper Fi!
Carolann Koziol Forder
September 2, 2012
Mr Murray would help you without you asking. Best of all, he helped you when you did not know you needed help. He changed your reality by changing you. He gave the gift of self worth and hope.
Jane (White) Keil
September 1, 2012
One of my fondest memories of Joe is the bright orange GMC that he and my Dad used to pile all of us kids into before heading to the Cape to open the house for the season.
One of the true greats of the greatest generation of Americans. Joe walked the talk and set an example by which I still try to live my life. I will cherish these memories always.
Glenn Hallett
September 1, 2012
Remember Reader's Digest had a feature titled My Most Unforgettable Character? Well, in my life I can count those on one hand and Joe Murray ranks in that group; a former Marine who taught self defense during the Korean War, he had that unm
istakable military bearing, when we worked together for two summers with Barnstable Police Dept., he was a weightlifter, very strong and well built, who quelled disturbances quite fast! We would chuckle during roll call in the morning, as he went out with extra tickets, armed to the teeth with extra ammo and the big 357 magnum; if you asked about the tickets, he'd reply, "The law is the law" No gray areas with Joe, right and wrong~they don't make many like Joe anymore~Godspeed to you Joe & Peace~Salute!
Glenn Hallett
September 1, 2012
I served with Joe for 2 summers on the Barnstable Police Dept; I have to list him among "My Most Unforgetable Characters" ( remember Reader's Digest? ) He was a guy I would have wanted beside me in a tough spot, anywhere and an amusing, interesting, nice person too~~I am sorry for your loss
September 1, 2012
I have many memories of Joe Murray. The most recent when he married my youngest daughter and husband. He made sure everyone signed the book. He and his wife Carolyn stayed for the reception. Nice day
Gail Ryan
Barbara Mellor
August 31, 2012
Marco and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May faith guide and comfort you in this difficult time.
Love, Bambi
Kelly and Russ Anderson
August 31, 2012
Memory Eternal, Mr. Murray, Sir.
Irene Demetrius
August 31, 2012
Mr. Murray was also MY 5th grade teacher. I was his coffee girl. One day I got upset with him for some reason, which I do not remember. I told him "The war is over, get your own coffee!". He made Marilyn Wallace get his coffee that day. I babysat their 8 children for 9 years. I was asked up until the day I got married if I was still able to babysit. I was his FIRST drivers ed. student. He use to make me back up (yes in reverse) from Brookfield to Warren on all of the back roads in his old Ford with a broken drivers seat! I was so short, I could hardly reach the pedals. To this day, I can back up better than drive forward! HAHA My family, including all of my grown children, still have great memories of camping with the Murrays on Cape Cod. I think of him often and will remember him in my prayers.
Don Nickerson
August 31, 2012
Another proud Marine guarding Heavens Gates. Semper Fi my friend.
Nick
Rose Brodeur/Hickenbottom
August 31, 2012
I was in the first class Mr. Murry ever taught. About 3 year's ago I met him at a family function and his word's to me were, "do you still owe me homework?" How he even remembered us by name just blow's my mind.Everything has been said, simpley he was just the Best. Blessings to his family, he will be missed.
Jane
August 31, 2012
Mr. Murray, may you rest in peace. Such a wonderful man to many. A person who you gave respect to naturally, his gruf way made you learn and appreciate the guidance he gave, whether learning how to drive or sitting in a classroom. My sympathy to all who loved Joe.
Dan Jewiss
August 30, 2012
Most people are rightfully deserving of praise and gratitude when they find it in their hearts to dedicate some time in their lives to serve the community. Joseph Murray seemed to dedicate his entire life to serving mankind. His legacy will be ever growing because the ripples of his goodness spread through his family, friends, military and law enforcement service, and his teachings will continue to impact lives and hearts forever. I happen to be fortunate enough to be one of those people impacted. I know that I am a better person today because of Joseph Murray and I thank him and his family for that.
Rest in peace... and I'll thank you in person someday.
Charlotte Farrar
August 30, 2012
Mr. Murray was a very special teacher. My sister Joan always spoke well of him and how much he enjoyed the cookies that she would have our mother bake for him. He always had a smile and wave when I would see him in Warren directing traffic. He was well respecterd and loved by his students. May he rest in peace.
Ed Page
August 30, 2012
My condolences to the Murray family. What can I say that hasn't already been said? Joe was great guy and coworker at the PD. I have many memories with him. He was around 70 then. He would do chin ups on the door jam. Break up fights with just words. He was tough as nails. He would crack me up when he would tell people running in the cross walk "No running or you will lose your recess." Joe and my other coworkers at the PD were the best. Joe always taught us something and led by example.
August 30, 2012
Mr. Murray was my 4th grade teacher. I few years ago I went home and saw him in the coffee shop and introduced myself. He didn't remember me, but when I told him I am a Marine just back from Iraq, he lit up and we talked for about an hour about the Corps. I often think of him because he was an inspiration to me. I will miss him dearly.
Russ Stevens
August 30, 2012
It is an honor and a privilege to have known Mr. Murray. He has touched so many lives throughout the years, leaving them with fond memories. What he has done for his Country and Community will long be remembered. His larger than life presence and powerful handshake will always be embedded in my mind.
Russ Stevens
Chief of Police
Hamilton Massachusetts
Lieutenant(Ret)Connecticut State Police
Joan Dougan
August 30, 2012
He was my 5th grade teacher. I had forgotten about the chin ups! lol I still think of him guiltily whenever I slouch. You just didn't do that! Tonight I will write 500 times "I will always remember you Mr Murray!" There are 25 lines per page...something else he taught me. lol OH, and the SARDINES for Christmas! Cans and cans of sardines!
Marilyn McCarthy Coltey
August 30, 2012
"Four score and seven years ago..." Which of Mr. Murray's fifth graders could have imagined that in his four score and seven years, Mr. Murray would pass from us? What a gift he was to so many. "And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by..." He was the star who led so many people in so many ways. As the poppies bloom in Flanders Fields, Joe will be remembered by us all. Peace
Nancy (Brodeur) Sullivan
August 30, 2012
What a great teacher he was to all of us at Warren Elementary,The marine Core Hymn was a favorite song to sing every morning at school.I will always have fond memories of him,God Bless and deepest sympathy to his family.
Sandy Brodeur
August 30, 2012
He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.
Carole (Frenchik) Putz
August 30, 2012
I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. I have wonderful memories of Mr. Murray and our 5th grade class. He was firm, far and set the ground rules from day one. He was my favorite teacher; he was loved and respected by all of his students. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sadness. Hopefully knowing how much he was loved and missed with be of comfort.
Michael Darcy
August 30, 2012
Joe Murray was one of the last of a generation that we will never see the likes of again. His military, educational, law enforcement, civic, and family exploits were a model for others to emulate. A disciplined,tough, squared away man who left an awfully impressive legacy. I was proud to be present when this legend was honored a few years back as "Brookfield Bombers Man of the Year." He seemed almost embarassed by all the praise that was heaped upon him that evening from the dozens of present and former police officers who were present and all thought so highly of this man. Joe Murray deserves to have a school named after him. A very solid man.
Major Michael B. Darcy
Connecticut State Police
Jimmy Capaldo
August 30, 2012
He was always "Mr. Murray" even afterall the visits to Vt and Cape Cod just respect for a great man My condolences to the whole family."Semper Fi" Mr Murray may you rest in pease.
Jacqueline Award
August 30, 2012
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to Joe's family. He was my 5th grade teacher and I am now 65 yrs. old. He also taught all 4 of my children at the "East School." He never forgot who I was whenever we would meet and ALWAYS remembered my children by name and would ask about them. He was one in a million. Over the past few days, I have been humming the "Marine Hymn," which was the first song our class learned in 5th grade. Rest well, Joe, you have earned it. You will be missed...
Nancy Nagle-Labbe
August 30, 2012
I would like to express my condolences to the entire family. Mr. Murray was my fifth grade teacher in Warren, MA back in 1981. He was a strong man with solid character and a great role model for us all. He made incredible contributions throughout his life. He will be missed! My prayers of peace go out to all who mourn this great loss.
~Nancy (Nagle) Labbe
August 30, 2012
Joe, You will not be forgotten, Semper Fi, Spunker Hagman
David Squires
August 29, 2012
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the entire Murray family. I first met Mr. Murray when I was working as a part time dispatcher while in college and completing my student teaching. He had a positive impact on everyone that he encountered and was well respected by all that knew him. As I left employment there and time went by he always remembered me when I was passing through I would stop to say hello while he was directing traffic in the center of Warren. I remember last speaking with him while we were both attending a training conference in Northampton a couple of years ago. He will be missed by all that knew him.
David Squires
August 29, 2012
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to the entire Murray family. I first met Mr. Murray when I was working part time as a dispatcher while completing my student teaching in college. I will always remember the positive influence he had on everyone that he encountered and the respect that everyone had for him. In the years that went by he always remembered me when I was passing through town and stopped to talk to him while he was directing traffic in the center of Warren or the last time I got to speak with him at a training conference in Northampton. He was truly one of a kind and will be missed by all.
Mike & Carol Cayea
August 29, 2012
Truly a honor & a pleasure to know you Joe
God's peace & grace to your family..
Nicholas Williams
August 29, 2012
We send our regrets and he will be missed, the best of all teacher in my lifetime.
Stephen Gallerani
August 29, 2012
Though not knowing Mr. Murray personally, I have known some of his children for many years. He seemed to have lived a very fulfilling life, filled with public service. I'm sure you're very proud of your husband and father. God Bless and may he rest in peace.
ROGER (BOPE) BEAUPRE
August 29, 2012
MY CONDOLANCES TO THE FAMILY OF JOE MURRAY.JOE WAS A CLOSE AND DEAR FRIEND.I WILL MISS JOE,THERE IS NO DOUBT ABOUT IT.HE IS AT PEACE NOW.I HAD THE HONOR OF HAVING JOE MARRY ME AND LINDA IN 1972.THAT IS WHEN I FIRST MET JOE.WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS EVER SINCE.I WILL MISS HIM.HE NEVER FAILED TO AMUSE ME.I USUALY SAW JOE IN THE WARREN P.D.,DOING CHIN-UPS ON THE DOOR CASING.HE WAS QUITE THE CHARACTOR.GOD BLESS HIM.HE HAD A LONG AND FULL LIFE.HE WAS A HAPPY CAMPER.BOPE
August 29, 2012
Please accept my sincerest condolences. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Mr. Murray was my favorite teacher, a great role model and a friend to my family.
His lifelong dedication to service to his community and country are an inspiration. He was a positive influence to everyone who had the honor to have known him. His was the epitome of a life well lived. Rest well, Sir.
Joe Levesque and family
Marie O'Keefe (Valois)
August 29, 2012
MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. WORDS CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW THIS MAN TOUCHED MY LIFE. HE WAS TOUGH, FUNNY AND ALWAYS PROTECTED THE UNDER DOG. AFTER 35 YEARS HE STILL RECONGNIZED YOU AND NEW THE NAME. HE JUST WAS ONE OF THE BEST
August 29, 2012
Joe served the Town of Warren well in many ways. He was alway there bright and early on election day. Ready to deliver the ballots to the polling place. I was certainly privileged to have his assistance. Beverly Russell, Former Town Clerk 1977-2002
Cindy Gadaire Martin
August 29, 2012
Carolyn and kids, I am so sorry for your loss, Joe was such a huge part of "The Gadaires" lives!!! I will never forget him, he was such a good man and such a character! Much love and many hugs to all of you!
Mike Sweet
August 29, 2012
Joe Murry: A True American Hero. A Great Husband and Father. A Great Teacher. A God Fearing Man. A Hard Working Fire Fighter. A Cops Cop. And A True Citizen To The Towns He Served And Lived In. What else could be said? How about Humble, Contrite, Honest, Patient, Kind, Obediant. All Because He LOVED His Fellow Man. Joe Rest In Peace With The Lord. You certainly deserve it.
Brenda Ahearn
August 29, 2012
Kris, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. He was not only a true gentleman but an upstanding man. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Chad Stratton
August 29, 2012
Mr Murray, the man who taught me the song "Ain't Gonna Grieve My Lord No More (The Deacon Went Down In The Cellar To Pray)" which will forever be stuck in my head in the sound of his great booming voice. Mr. Murray was an icon of fortitude and wisdom. I'm not sure a statue would be anything but a soft imitation of the rock that this man was to so many people. He will be missed greatly.
tibbetts family
August 29, 2012
carolyn& family
sorry for your loss. we have been neighbors for over 40 yrs. and i think i will remember most is hearing the joe's whistling in his vehicle as he came down the street..we knew who it was without even looking..may he rest in peace..
The Rozzen Family
August 29, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Joe. Although I did not have the pleasure of getting to know Joe the way everyone else has (did not grow up in Warren), my husband speaks of Joe often and how he was such a great person. Joe has been the subject of many dinner conversations and each one brought smiles and laughter. Through my husband I have learned and felt what a wonderful man Joe is. He is what a true hero is made of. He has touched so many lives and made such an impact on everyone he came in contact with.
You will be missed Joe.
Ernie Parker
August 29, 2012
Carolyn,May the love of friends and family be a source of comfort to you at this time.
Ruth Zola Davis
August 29, 2012
Our 5th grade teacher.....and I'm happy to say coworker at the pd.
I can't say enough wonderful things about "OUR MR. MURRAY" . I am grateful to be able to call him friend.
Blondie,my heart goes out to you and your entire family. We loved Joe...he was an amazing person.
I remember one time a teenaged driver didn't stop for someone in the crosswalk...I was with Mr.Murray when that teen passed in his assigned paper...writing 100 times..." I will always stop for people in the crosswalk."
Mary Lynch Jarvis
August 29, 2012
My thoughts echo those already spoken. Mr. Murray was a great teacher and I still remember so many things learned in his classroom 50 years ago. My condolences to the family. RIP, Mr. Murray.
August 29, 2012
All who knew Joe, knows that he's a man of so many accomplishment in his 87 yrs. Many of you known him as your fifth grade teacher, or maybe from his time as a Marine, police officer, firefighter, or a selectmen, water commissioner or he may have even married you. But to me he was like my second dad. He remarried my Mom and Dad on their 50th anniversary and me and John on our 25th. He was so much to so many. He had many children, grandchildren and has been married to his wife, Blondie as he called her, or Caroline for many, many years. In all my years I have heard so many people tell me they had him for a teacher in school but I have never heard anyone ever say they disliked him and never heard any disparging comments about him, although no one could deny he was tough when it called for it and caring when needed. So Joe, Semper Fi...I will love you forever...rest easy.
07-19-1925--------------08-27-2012
Lisa Pensinger
and family
John Orlowski
August 29, 2012
Thank you, Joe, for the sacrifices you made defending our country. My father was a Marine vet and I stay in touch, today, with Don Pero. Semper Fi!
A Friend
August 29, 2012
Mrs.Carolyn Murray,
I was saddened by the news about Joe's passing on. May he rest in peace with God!!! Prayers & thoughts to your whole family,as you go through this very difficult time in your lives.
Deb Potter
August 29, 2012
You have brought many wonderful memories and humor to all of our lives. Most of all though I am proud to be able to call you family. You and Carolyn represent what to me was a wonderful relationship and friendship. I will miss you
Brett Kustigian
August 29, 2012
On behalf of the Quaboag Regional School District, please accept my most sincere condolences on the passing of Mr. Murray. He was a well respected educator.
August 29, 2012
Mr. Murray you captured the hearts of many of your students. We are forever indebted to your compassion for teaching and love of life.
Judy
Drew Dumsch
August 29, 2012
Joe was a legendary chaperone for many years for the Warren Community Elementary School 6th grade trip to Ferry Beach Ecology School (FBES) up in Maine. From everyone here at Ferry Beach, our sincere condolences to Joe's family and friends. I will miss his heartfelt chuckles and the dorm shoe inspection! -- Drew Dumsch, Executive Director, Ferry Beach Ecology School, Saco, ME
Paul Como
August 29, 2012
Mr Murray was the first teacher that gave us something to take home to think about besides homework....everyone is sitting up a little straighter because of you.
Sue Deslongchamps
August 29, 2012
Joe you are truly one of a kind. You will be remembered as one of Warren's legends. From teaching my children to directing traffic and listening to your many stories. You were always a joy to be around. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten. God bless you and my prayers to your family.
August 29, 2012
All though I did not know you to long, or to well, I hear the impact you have made to so many people in this community. God Bless your family and R.I.P Sir.
Don Skiest
August 29, 2012
Rest in Peace Joe. Semper Fi.
Johnny Blanton Jr
August 29, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Jeannie Sloan
August 29, 2012
He could silence a classroom without saying a word. And when he spoke, you listened. A presence unlike any other, he walked tall with pride and authority. And if by chance, he looked your way and nodded, you knew you had earned his approval. For Mr. Murray, it was all about earning and learning and perseverance. Lessons learned from an honest-to-God hero, who made the world a safer and better place. My deepest condolences to the Murray family. Thank you for allowing him to share his time with all who hold him near and dear.
Colby
August 29, 2012
It was a pleasure to work side by side with you. You have been an inspiration to many people, including myself. RIP sir.
Joseph LaFlower
August 29, 2012
Joe was a great colleague and friend of mine for 27 years. Joe I will miss our frienship, the knowledge that you conveyed onto me during those years is irreplacable. You always have my utmost respect and admiration. Thank You for all you have done for me and others.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Joe's family in their time of grief.
The world will be a lesser place without Joe Murray but Heaven will be a better place with him in it.
Elaine Motyka
August 28, 2012
An Officer & A True Gentleman! Thank you for all of the laughs and smiles you brought into my life, I will cherish those memories forever. You will be missed. Thank you for your service and the positive influences that you made on our children and community. I love you my friend, Semper Fi,..until we meet again.
Laun
August 28, 2012
So sad.. we lost a legend..a man who touched many lives..taught some of us..married some of us and heck even arrested some of us! A prouddddd Marine..an amazing teacher and a wonderful friend but that isnt enough to describe Mr. Joe Murray .. he was family to all of us! God got him a GREAT one ...you will be deeply missed in soooo many hearts! I sure hope my little town sets one day out a yr to celebrate this legend who will always walk along those streets that taught us and protected us!
Dick Erban
August 28, 2012
I was a teacher at Quaboag when Joe was the assistant principle. I found him to be one of the most 'real' people I encountered in 33 years as a teacher. Semper Fi, Joe
Donald Pero
August 28, 2012
Carolyn and Family, you have my love and sincere sympathy during this sad time.You and Joe have been part of my extended Family for more than 50 years and Joe has been my comrade,since 1944, my brother, tent mate in Camp Tarawa, Hawaii and Squad member when we landed on D-Day at IWO JIMA. We have shared Reunions, Happy and sad times. I pray that he is at peace and went ahead to prepare for us to join him. He was my Hero and part of me goes with him. God Bless you all. SEMPER FIDELIS! Don Pero Family
Dan Larkin
August 28, 2012
One of the most important roles
of a teacher is to create good citizens, and Mr. Murray excelled at that. I can still recite the Preamble, the Gettysburg Address, and "In Flanders Fields." He taught us so much about what it means to be an American. He will never be forgotten.
Ray Gregoire
August 28, 2012
The lessons you taught me so many years ago made me who i am today. Rest in Peace you may be gone but you will never be forgotton Thank you for everything
Darlene Soja Fisher
August 28, 2012
Deepest Sorrow for your loss.Mr Murray will never be forgotten.
Trista Kauppila
August 28, 2012
Joe, it was a pleasure getting to know you. You always put a smile on my face. I miss you so much already. Work will never be the same without. You made my day with your funny jokes and ur big smiles. You will forever be in my heart!!! I love you Mr. Murray, may you rest in paradise!! Xoxo
Tadeus J. Seremeth Sr.
August 28, 2012
Respect is earned not given.
Mr. Murray earned all that.
I was honored to have him perform my marriage.
Memories not forgotten,
until again we meet.
Trista Kauppila
August 28, 2012
Joe, it was a pleasure getting to know you. You always put a smile in my face. I miss you so much already. Work will never be the same without. You made my day with you funny jokes and ur big smile. You will forever be in my heart!!! I love you Mr. Murray, may you rest in paradise!! Xoxo
Dawn Makynen
August 28, 2012
My thoughts and Prayers go out to the Murray family.
Mr. Murray was one of kind and having had him as a teacher and remembering how he always took the time to help those in need is only one way I will remember him. Rest in Peace Mr Murray, you were one of my favorite teachers and such a great person.
Cindy Carbonneau
August 28, 2012
Going to miss you, Mr. Murray. You were the best teacher, great role model and all around wonderful person. You definitely were one in a million. So sorry for your family's loss, and for the loss of all of us that he touched. Good bye, Mr. Murray, I'll always respect you.
Robyn Quillen
August 28, 2012
What a pleasure to have known such a kind, caring ,intuitive person who treated everyone with respect. I learned a great deal from him not only about law enforcement but life itself.
Cynthia Cook
August 28, 2012
You were assigned to be my mentor starting on my first day at Warren Elementary (1970) and you were our #1 choice to perform our ceremony when Margaret & I decided to marry last year (2011). So many years filled with memories and stories...You are, and always will be, a legend. Peace.
lisa fusco
August 28, 2012
I will never forget you Mr. Murray you are in my heart forever...:)
Bill Crowley
August 28, 2012
A roll model for many young boys in Warren who were lucky enough to have known him. When ever the words, "Mr. Murray" we're spoken it was always with great respect. He will always be remembered in a special place in my heart.
Thank you Mr. Murray!
Nancy Hinds
August 28, 2012
You will be greatly missed. I love you Nancy Hinds
Ryan Cosby
August 28, 2012
There is not one person I respect or admire more! A true American hero and small town legend. They should put a statue of you at the Old Elementary/High School.... You'll be forever missed ... Thanks for all the help..
August 28, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Joe. I have many fond memories of our time at Warren Elem. School. I always considered Joe a friend to everyone in my family and we all miss his wonderful smile and kindness to all.
Love,
The Bednarz Family
Meg Sloan
August 28, 2012
It seems like just yesterday, Mr. Murray would call out "Joyce, go down to the basement and get me a cup of coffee" or, "Marcia, go down to the basement and get me a cup of coffee." Two sets of winding stairs made for little coffee remaining in the mug by the time this 5th grader got back upstairs with Joe's cup of joe. Mr. Murray would take one swig of the coffe and ask, "Woah, Joyce, where did you get this, out of a river???" To be honest, I used the bubbler to make up for what I spilled climbing up the staircase. Later on in life, I was married by Mr. Murray as a justice of the peace. He arrived up the fire escape of the 3rd floor in the winter time, and insisted on leaving in the same manner after the ceremony. Later, we would drive to the Cape and see Mr. Murray directing traffic in Hyannis. Fond memories of a true legend who spanned I believe 3 generations of students, who kept us patriotic with deep respect for our country, and who after inspecting for clean hands during lunch line, always replied when asked, "What's for lunch today, Mr. Murray?" -- "Fish heads and rice, my dear... fish heads and rice." Thank you, Mr. Murray for your service to your many students, to your country, to the many lives you touched and helped whether directing us where to go or helping some of us with our "I do's" -- and because of Mr. Murray, I never again talked in class after the one time Trisha and I wrote 100 times on the board, "I will not talk in class" -- it worked. He made the world a safer place everywhere he went, and taught us pearls of wisdom along the way such as, walk 1000 miles in a man's shoes before judging his path or gait. While my memories are fond and whimsical, my heart is with the family at this time of passing... and with deep respect I offer heart-felt condolences with much gratitude for having been a part of the vast community of people whose lives are forever touched by this legend of a man. We all thought the world of Mr. Murray, and he truly touched our lives in so many ways, making this world a better, safer, closer and kinder village. Praying comfort to the all the family, friends and people whose lives he touched profoundly, my sympathy with fondest of memories and deepest of respects, God bless --
Gary Bateman
August 28, 2012
You will be missed. I enjoyed having you as a teacher. Thank you for all you did over the years. You are a great person.
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