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Joseph Vecsey Obituary
He leaves his wife, Erika M. (Steimar) Vecsey; his son, Eric John Vecsey and his wife Elizabeth of Worcester; five daughters: Sharon Vecsey of Eastham, Susan Vecsey and Lorraine Kelsey both of California, Sende Anne and her husband Richard Fayard of Hardwick and Barbara Jean and her husband Keith Sparhawk of Worcester; a brother, Donald Vecsey in Ohio and a sister, Alice Zanine in Florida. Mr. Vecsey also leaves ten grandchildren: Jessica, Daniel, Jillian, Ryan, Meaghan, Eric, Geoffrey, Amanda, Jamie and Jason; and 3 great-grandchildren: Riley, Kayleb and Brady. He was predeceased by his brother, Howard.
He was born in New York City, the son of Joseph V. and Henrietta (Behring) Vecsey. Mr. Vecsey served for 17 years in the Navy during World War II and the Korean War, ending his service with the rank of Chief Quartermaster. He was awarded the Meritorious Service Medal in April 1953 which was presented to him by Admiral William Klee. Mr. Vecsey had worked for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, Department of Youth Services; previously he had worked for Spraque Electric as a general foreman. He had served as past president of the Tatnuck Island Club, and was a member of the First Congregational Church of Worcester and a former member of Tatnuck Post 288, American Legion.
Funeral services will be held at the convenience of the family. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, 311 Arsenal Street, Watertown, MA 02472. O'CONNOR BROTHERS FUNERAL HOME, 592 Park Avenue is directing arrangements.
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Joe & Heather, havin a special day together
February 22, 2009
Carol Bilazarian
February 22, 2009
Dear family of beloved Joe,
He was truly a wonderful man that touched my heart so deeply.
He will never be forgotten; there are so many nice memories of him.
Our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Love always, Carol & Heather
Erika M. Vecsey
February 21, 2009
Joseph!
I know you are watching over all of us. Your'e suffering is over and you are at peace.
You will not be forgotten, you are always in our heart. We are always remembering the good and funny side of you.You loved all of your children and grand children. They all have their own stories and remembrance of you.
Rest in Peace.
Loving, Erika
Susan Ann Vecsey
February 18, 2009
Dear Dad, Although you are not here for me to reach out and hug, your spirit lives within me, You are the father that has taught me to be strong as will as to carry on. You are the man that that has lifted me to be the woman that I am today. Thank you Daddy, I will miss you. I Love You . Your daughter , Susie
Sharon Vecsey
February 18, 2009
Dad...Grandpa...you are missed more than words can fully express...as we celebrate your life, we pray for your peace and give thanks for everything that you shared with us along the way. You lived life well, Dad/Grandpa, and have given each one of us a special place in your heart. Our memories are countless and filled with laughter, tears, joy, sorrow...most of all, love. God Bless you always...Sharon and David, Lorraine and Carl, Susie, Geoffrey and Cheryl, Amanda, Jason and Kathy, Jamie, Brady
Sharon and Dad 2008
February 18, 2009
Sharon, Dad, Lorraine & Susie
February 17, 2009
Marianne, Opie, Omie, Heini
February 16, 2009
Howie, Opie, Debbie, Don and Alice
February 16, 2009
John Eric and Opie
February 16, 2009
Opie and Johnny
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Rick Danny and Opie
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Meaghan Opie and Eric
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Amanda and Joe
February 16, 2009
Omie, Opie, Sende, Barbara, and John
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Barney and Opie
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John Barbara and Sende
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Opie
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Sharon, Lorraine, and Susie
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Lorraine, John and Opie
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Fred and Paula Brewer
February 14, 2009
Both Fred and I are saddened by Joe's passing. He was a wonderful friend and neighbor way back in the Sunnyvale years. God bless him and his family.
Barbara, Opie, Keith and Ryan
February 10, 2009
Opie and Jill
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Barbara and Keith's wedding
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Omie and Opie
February 10, 2009
Ryan and Opie on 85th B-day
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Jessica, Barbara, Jill, Danny and Opie
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Opie and Jillian
February 10, 2009
Stephen DeVincent
February 10, 2009
Dear Family I had the pleasure of working with Joe in 1973 in a group home in Westborough. I found him to be a warm and congenial good human being. My condolences.
Jillian and Ryan Sparhawk
February 10, 2009
Miss you and love you Opie!
February 10, 2009
Dear John, Beth, Meghan and Eric:
Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Love,
Mike, Chickee, Ariana & Michael
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