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Patricia Finnegan Obituary

Patricia M. (Connolly) Finnegan
HOLDEN - Patricia M. (Connolly) Finnegan, 80, of Highland St., died in the presence of her loving family on Friday, September 6, 2013 at St. Vincent Hospital, Worcester, after a short illness. Born and raised in Worcester, Pat was the daughter of Frederick and Sarah (Mulvey) Connolly and had lived in Holden for 53 years.
Pat was proud of her Irish heritage. She was raised on Grafton Hill in Worcester and was a graduate of St. Stephen's Grammar and High Schools. In 1951, following her passion and love for music, she enrolled in the Boston University School of Music, to which she would take the train daily from Union Station. She received her bachelor's degree in 1954. She met the love of her life, Henry P. Finnegan, also of Grafton Hill, and on October 8, 1955 they married, living on Gordon Street, Worcester for several years and then moved to Holden where they raised their four daughters.
Pat taught piano at the former St. Gabriel's School of Music in Worcester. She also taught music at the Thorndyke School in Worcester, Holden Jr. High School, Thomas Prince School in Princeton and the Ruggle Lane Elementary School in Barre. She was a faithful member of St. Mary's Church in Jefferson where she was the organist for over 25 years and later was an organist at Prince of Peace Church in Princeton. In retirement Pat was an active member of the Retired Educators Association of Massachusetts and Outdoor Sports. She took painting lessons, classes at Assumption College, bowled and continued to play the piano.
Her greatest joy in life was her family. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother. As the matriarch of the family, she led by example through her deep religious faith, generosity, loving nature and boundless enthusiasm for life. She looked forward to vacationing with her family at Ogunquit, Chatham, winter get-aways at Longboat Key, Florida, and trips to Ireland, England and Italy.
Her beloved husband of 48 years, Henry P. Finnegan, passed away in 2004. She is survived and will be sadly missed by her four daughters, Patricia M. Finnegan Gates and her husband Gerald M. of Princeton, Kathleen M. Finnegan Breen and her husband Timothy E. of Holden, Christine M. Lawton and her husband William F. of Princeton and Nancy M. Finnegan and her husband Dylan H. Caldwell of Gloucester; nine grandchildren, Mary, Daniel and Margaret Gates, Elizabeth and Michael Breen, Thomas and Sarah Lawton, and Sophie and Emmett Caldwell; and several nephews and nieces. She was predeceased by two brothers, Phillip and Frederick Connolly.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend calling hours from 4 to 7 p.m. on Tuesday, September 10, at the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden, and again on Wednesday morning, September 11, at 8:45 a.m., followed by a procession to St. Mary's Church, 114 Princeton Street, Jefferson for a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 10 a.m. Interment will be at St. Mary's Cemetery, Holden. Donations may be made in Pat's memory to Catholic Charities, 10 Hammond St., Worcester, MA 01610. To share a memory or offer online condolence, please visit
www.milesfuneralhome.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Sep. 7 to Sep. 10, 2013.

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Trish Graham

September 13, 2013

Hi Patty,

So sorry for your loss. Your Mom was a nice nice lady. Missed you at Labor Day.

Trish

Maureen Duffy

September 12, 2013

So very sorry to hear about your mom. I have such great memories of our moms and "the sorority" get-togethers and how much fun they had! I'm sure the girls are having a grand reunion up there. God bless and may the many wonderful memories bring you some comfort now.

steve feingold

September 11, 2013

She was a very smart lady an will be sadly missed by us all Good Luck And God Bless

Paul & Laura Allard

September 11, 2013

Chris,Bill,Tom & Sarah,

We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 11, 2013

Dear Kate,
We want to send our condolences to your entire family Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pam and Tom Lunder

Mary Cringan

September 10, 2013

To the Gates and Lawton families, the Thomas Prince School community sends our thoughts and sympathy to you at this sad time. Your mother/grandmother was spirited and had high expectations for all of us. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers, Mary Cringan, TPS Principal

Jim Cosgrove

September 10, 2013

Dear Patty, Gerry and All the Family,

I was very sorry to learn of your loss of your mom. She and each of you are and will remain in my prayers.

September 9, 2013

To the Finnegan Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. It was very obvious to me that she was a very special lady as she raised a very special family. May you all find comfort in knowing you did all you could to provide her with peace and love in her last days.
My deepest sympathy,
Susan Franchi

Joe Sullivan

September 9, 2013

What a wonderful picture to remember Pat by. She was a lady of dignity who was never afraid to speak her mind. While she will be missed, she finally gets to see her best friend in heaven. God Bless Pat.

Stephanie Adams

September 9, 2013

Mrs. Finnegan was a wonderful music teacher! She is the reason I sang chorus for years. Her vibrant personality and smile made music fun. I remember her talking about her daughters all the time in class, and how proud she was-she lit up every time she spoke of her family which was often. So sorry for your loss.

Maureen Sweet

September 9, 2013

The Flanagan Family sends hugs and condolences. I'm sure your Mom walked into the loving arms of your Dad, and we'd like to think our Mothers are having tea and catching up. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time

Heather Rubin Kelsey

September 9, 2013

Mrs. Finnegan was my music teacher at Princeton Center School. She had loads of energy and enthusiasm and always a big smile. Sending my deepest condolences.

J. Rollins

September 8, 2013

Your mom was my only music teacher, ever. I can recall her always having an easy smile for us and teaching us that Every Good Boy Deserves Fudge to learn the scale. She was a wonderful teacher and a spirited lady. So sorry for your loss.

Nancy Mastrototaro

September 8, 2013

Chris and entire family,
So sorry to hear of your mothers passing. She was such a kind and sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time. God Bless.

Peter and Kathy (Gates) Grass

September 8, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Finnegan family. It was always nice to see Pat at family gatherings, she cherished her daughters and their spouses and adored her grandchildren. We will miss her.

Glenn & Mary Kauppila

September 8, 2013

When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves the gift of memories in exchange....I have wonderful memories of your mom. God Bless

Susan Claprood Wagner and family

September 8, 2013

my condolences, support and love to the entire family. The Finnergan Highland St. home was my second home growing up in Holden. While recently on a trip in Italy, I came across a beautiful saying, "Tears may dry, but memories will never die". Much sympathy, Susan Wagner and the Claprood Family

September 8, 2013

My condolences to all of Pat's family. She was a very nice lady I enjoyed conversing with at the post office. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Fondly, Bev Abramson

ann phelan

September 7, 2013

my condolences, Christine.

Cynthia Mellor

September 7, 2013

My condolences to the entire family. I have very fond memories of Mrs. Finnegan.

Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Cynthia Mellot

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