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Shane O'Leary Obituary
She leaves her son Cameron, her fiancé Jacob Bruning, with whom she lived; two sisters Karen A. O'Leary of Worcester, and Francine wife of John Bennett of Virginia; a nephew Matthew Bennett and his fiancée Rene of Rutland, and numerous relatives and friends.
Shane was born January 29, 1973 in Boston, daughter of the late Francis M. and Anna M. (Brennan) O'Leary.
She graduated from St. Mary's High School in Worcester and attended Fitchburg State College. She graduated from Rob Roy Academy.
She was a hairdresser for many years at Rob Roy Hair Salons in Auburn and Oxford. She was also a personal care attendant for four years.
Shane was a loving mother, sister and friend. She was always willing to help others, had a wonderful sense of humor, a great voice and loved to rock.
Shane will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
Funeral services are private. The Athy Memorial Home, Worcester, is directing arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Shane O'Leary
March 15, 2010
Dear Jacob,Cameron and O'leary families
Please accept my sincere condolences for your sad untimely loss.
David Sampson
Mark Campanale
March 15, 2010
Jake and Cam,
Shane was one of the most wonderful people I have ever met; As I am shocked and saddened by her passing, I know I am a better person for having known her. We are all very lucky to have had her in our lives.
Tabitha Desplaines
March 15, 2010
Cameron attended preschool at Guild of St. Agnes on Grove Street. Those of us that are still here from that time period all remember Cameron and Shane. She always had a smile on her face and it was evident that she loved Cameron more than words can say. We are all shocked and saddened to hear about her passing. Our sincere condolences go out to Cameron and all her family and friends.
--Guild of St. Agnes
March 14, 2010
What an awesome person. Always so kind to everyone!! She will be missed
Thaddeus & Maria (Liseno) Endriga
March 14, 2010
We were shocked to hear of Shane's passing. Our deepest sympathy go out to her family. We went to St. Mary's with Shane. She always had a smile on her face. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Thomas Brennan and Family
March 13, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
March 13, 2010
We went to SMH with Shane, she was one of the nicest people. Very sorry for
your loss.
Stephen and Meredith Lemieux
Angela Rentas
March 13, 2010
It is not everyday you meet someone like Shane. I met her several years ago through my sister and enjoyed many conversations with Shane during my hair appointments at Rob Roy. She was always smiling and had a personality that lit up the room. She gave off an Aura that just made me feel good to be around her. I remember spending time at her house getting my hair done for a wedding and Cam was just a little baby, she was such a wonderful mother who loved her child deeply. I bumped into Shane just a few weeks ago and we talked about her giving me a Marilyn piercing (she thought that would be great on me) I am sorry to hear of her passing She will be deeply missed by everyone who knew her. She sure was a one of a kind a beautiful kind spirit that again lit up a room. Shanes family & friends I am sorry for your loss this is a huge loss for all that knew her. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow
Becky St.Pierre
March 13, 2010
Shane and I worked together at Rob Roy in Oxford. Finding out this news has been hard. Shane was a loving mother and an awesome person. Shane will always be in my hearts.-Love Becky S.
Jennifer Coonan
March 12, 2010
Shane was one of the sweetest, kindest and warmest people I have ever ever known.She always had the best taste in music, the coolest hair and the biggest smile. She helped make my days at SMH a lot more fun. I will keep all of Shane's family and friends in my prayers and thoughts at this very sad time.
Heather O'Rourke
March 12, 2010
Shane was such a great person I went to high school with her and she was just so nice.
I am sorry for your loss and I will keep you all in my heart,thoughts, and prayers.
May she watch over us all our sweet angel.
Lynn Bruning
March 12, 2010
Jake and Cameron, If I could take away the pain of this situation...you know I would. It hurts me that I can't be with you when you need me most. I love you and pray that each day gets a little easier.
~ Mom/Grandma ~
March 12, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Paul & Tootsie Bruning
March 12, 2010
Jake and Cam,
No words can comfort you right now but the memories of Shane will Forever remain in your Hearts that Loved her so very much. She will be your Angel and guide you each day and night, Love Never Dies...
Not time, Not space, Not even Heaven seperates us from those we Love. Our Deepest sympathy to her Sisters who Shane Loved with all her Heart.
Mr and Mrs Paul Bruning
Kathy Morgan
March 12, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to Shane's family. I was very blessed to have worked with such a beautiful person at Pegasus. I was very sadden to hear of your loss. She will be in our hearts forever.
Jon Palardis
March 12, 2010
I met Shane when I got my first job at CVS on Gold Star. She trained me and before I knew it I was going to her prom. She wore a burgandy dress that night. I started my high school years with her and distictly remember hour or more long conversations when we'd talk about nothing and yet everything. She always put a smile on my face. I can remember how happy I was when she pulled into the driveway on those Friday and Saturday nights.
Bob & Barbara-Jean (Arsenault) Blood
March 11, 2010
Jake, Cameron, The Bruning and The O'Leary Families;
With Our Deepest Heartfelt Sympathies, We're so sorry for your loss.
As you comprehend this profound loss,
Let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens…
May Shane Rest In Peace,
In The Heavens, With Our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Amen
Christine and Scott Wilkinson
March 11, 2010
Jake and Cam,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this very difficult time. May your wonderful memories give you strength.
John Barney
March 11, 2010
The most sincere and caring friend, that I've EVER come in contact with in this life, is gone. Rest peacefully Shane, till we see eachother again. ♥
Denise Legere
March 11, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Michael Brennan
March 11, 2010
Dear Francine and Karen, We are very sad to hear of Shane's passing. Know that you and Cam are in our prayers.
Mike and Sandy Brennan
Christina Foster-Nicholas
March 11, 2010
Cam, Jake and Family I'm so sorry to hear of Shane's passing. I became friends with her at Pegasus and have been friends with her ever since. There isn't enough words to explain the kind of person that she was. She was a great friend to me, my kids and my family. She touched my life dearly. Shane I will never forget you and I will always love and miss you.
Simone
March 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Shane's family. I had the pleasure of working with Shane many years ago and no matter what the situation, she always found a way to make everyone smile. She will be dearly missed.
Kathy Wisniewski
March 11, 2010
Dear Karen and Francine,
I'm one of your countless Brennan cousins...although I did not know Shane personally,I feel as if I knew her through your mother and mine...I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.
My mother is Dotty (Kelley) Palmer
your cousin,
Kathy Wisniewski
SUSAN PRITCHARD/SANTOR
March 11, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Marina
March 11, 2010
Dear Francine and Karen I am very saddened with the loss of your Sis.I pray for Cam and your families.Shane was a burst of sunshine on the cloudy of days pretty gal even more Beautiful smile.......God Bless
Eric Bagdis
March 11, 2010
I heard about Shane's passing through a freind . I didnt know her but I lost my Fiancee a year and a half ago and I have 2 Children that I now raise alone. My heart goes out to your family and freinds.
Michael Capers
March 11, 2010
Shane was a great person. Always positive and always smiling. I miss that smile.
Jen O'Connor
March 11, 2010
Dear Shane,
I am still in shock and cannot believe you are gone. You truly were such a special person, and I don't think you ever knew just how special you were. I am so very, very sorry that this has happened, but am glad that you are not suffering any longer. I know that you will continue to be a guiding force for your amazing little boy.
My deepest sympathies to Karen, Francine, and the rest of Shane's family. I am truly blessed to have known her since college, and would not have met my husband and many of my friends without her. I am thankful that I had the chance to make so many memories. You will always be in my heart.
Leisa
March 11, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you, and your family. RIP beautiful soul.
Hillarie Jason
March 11, 2010
Shane and my husband, Kevin Chosta, were friends since the beginning of high school. When I first moved to MA and started dating Kevin, I met Shane. She was one of the first people I found a strong connection with in my life and we had a great friendship for many years. I remember when Cam was born and in the hospital and Shane took time to come and visit Kevin's grandmother who was also in the hospital at the time. She could really light up a room with her positive outlook on life. Kevin and I used to visit her and Cam in her old apartment when he was little and I remember the way Shane adored him. Just the way she looked at him, you knew he was everything to her. It was amazing to me that someone to give so much to so many.
We lost touch with Shane some years ago and have been trying to find her since, but for some reason could not figure out where she had gone too.
My husband and I wish to convey our deepest condolences to Cam, Jake, and her entire family for the loss of nothing less than the most giving and genuine person we have known. Shane will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Tiffany Paquette
March 11, 2010
Shane was and always will be one of my best friends. She was adored by my kids and loved so much by countless people. She was there for me whenever i needed her and always knew how to make me laugh. To Jake - she loved you so much and you gave her her greatest accomplishment, Cameron. To Cam - You may not remember me but I was there when you were born and I knew how much you meant to your mom. You will forever have a beautiful angel looking over you. Shane, I love you and will miss you everyday
Seana Flagg
March 11, 2010
Love you, Shane... miss you forever! Hang in there, Jake & Cam, you have friends & people who love you to help you through.
Laura
March 11, 2010
I'm so sorry to learn of Shane's passing. We worked together at Pegasus and she always had a joke and a smile for everyone. She was a very sweet person. My condolences to her family and friends.
Tammy
March 11, 2010
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
My deepest sympathies to Shane's family at this time. Shane was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all whose lives she touched.
Tiffany Paquette
March 11, 2010
Shane was and always will be one of my best friends. She was always there for me in trying times and always made me laugh. She was adored by my children. She would do anything to make you understand the meaning of happiness. To Jake - I am so sorry for your loss, she loved you deeply and you gave her Cam, who was her one true love. To Cam - I know you may not remember me, but I was there when you were born and know how much you meant to your Mom. You will forever have an angel looking over you.
Shane, I love you and will always miss you
MARY PARSONS
March 11, 2010
TO SHANE'S FAMILY AND FRIENDS I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. SHANE WILL BE SADLY MISSED BY ALL WHO KNEW HER. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU. MARY ELLEN PARSONS
Denise Liseno
March 11, 2010
My sincerest deepest sympathy go out to Cam, Jake, The O'Leary family, and all who knew and loved Shane. Shane and I were both St. Mary's graduates and our sons attended Quinsigamond elementary together. Shane reached out to me after the loss of my son, and her encouraging words and devotion to her own child was incredibly inspiring. Shane was an amazing person and will never be forgotten. May you all find comfort in your memories of Shane.
Aloma
March 11, 2010
I'm so sorry for your family and friends. You were too young to have this happen to you.
Andy Sharry
March 11, 2010
This is not fair. A very sad loss for everyone who knew Shane.
Kristen
March 11, 2010
To Jake and Cameron, I know it's going to be tuff but always know there are so many of us here for the both of you. Shane is terribly missed but will always be with us. Stay strong. Love you guys!!
Nancy Cashman
March 11, 2010
sometimes when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated..
With Love,
Sue Miville
March 11, 2010
To Cam and everyone whose life Shane touched,
Shane was my student at St. Mary's. She was a bright and shining star who put a smile on my face every day. She is now a bright and shining star in the heavens. Shane will always hold a special place in my heart. Please accept my condolences in your time of sorrow.
gina barney
March 11, 2010
There are not enough words in the world to descibe what kind of a person who came to be in this world. our hearts go out to Cameron Jacob and her family and many friends . you will be forever missed and will always hold a special place with everyone who knew you .
Harris
March 11, 2010
There aren't enough words... We'll miss you Shane!
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