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Thomas Trudeau Obituary

Thomas "Tom" J. Trudeau, 61, of Wells Park Road was called home suddenly while vacationing with his family on the shores of Cape Cod. He leaves his wife of 42 yrs. Suzanne K. (Allen) Trudeau, and 3 children: Mark and his wife Carey Trudeau of Woodstock, Michelle and her husband Paul Benoit of Southbridge and Amy Champeau of Charlton, and 12 grandchildren: Emma Comeau, who lives with her grandparents, Anna Panico, Thomas "Big Tom" Benoit, Alex Benoit, Nicolas Benoit, Andrew Filler, Abigail Champeau, Ethan Champeau, Luke Comeau, Marcus Trudeau, Adam Trudeau, Jacqueline Trudeau. Tom also leaves his mother, Theresa (Metivier) Trudeau Nowak of Warren, MA; a brother, Dennis Trudeau of Lake Worth, FL, and a sister, Nancy Marren of Cromwell, CT; and his mother-in-law, Catherine Allen of Charlton.

He was born in Worcester, son of the late Albert D. Trudeau and lived in Charlton where he graduated from Charlton High School, and later attended Quinsigamond College. He served in the USMC during the Vietnam Conflict. Tom was a member of St. Anne's Church and was employed at NStar in Boston as Transmission System Supervisor, and previously worked at National Grid for 39yrs. He enjoyed golfing, fishing, spending time at the ocean, he was a season ticket holder for the Patriot's Football Team, but most of all he enjoyed spending time with his family. He was a loving husband, father and grandfather.

The funeral with Military Honors will be Saturday from Sansoucy Funeral Home 40 Marcy St. Southbridge with a Mass at 10AM at St. Anne's Church (outside Pavillion) 16 Church St. Sturbridge. Calling hours are Friday (July 4th) from 5-8PM at the funeral home. Burial will be in WestRidge Cemetery in Charlton. Donations in Tom's memory may be made to the American Heart Association 20 Speen St. Framingham, MA 01701, or to the New England Center for Autism 33 Turnpike Road Southborough, MA 01772-2108.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jul. 2 to Jul. 3, 2008.

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Ann Marie Vienneau

May 17, 2023

Never forgotten

Nancy Nale

July 11, 2008

Suzanne - I just bumped into Marge Jalbert yesterday who told me about Tommy. I am so so sorry. I'll always remember fun times as kids at the lake. I called Carl today, and he sends his sympathy and prayers. I'm sure he will be in touch. God Bless You all.

Madeline McCue

July 11, 2008

Sue,
I am so sorry about Tom. Even though I haven't seen you in years, I feel as if you and your family will always be my neighbors.
Sincerely, Madeline

Jim Ribeiro

July 7, 2008

Mark:
As we go through life struggling to keep our values and have a positive outlook at life defines Tom. He always made a bad situation look good and a lesson learned. My heart goes out to his family and I will always remember comparing military stories and how much he loved being the one with the better story. Tom may you rest in peace and will always be a part of my life and I am sure hundreds of others.

Mark Lombardi

July 4, 2008

Dear Mark and Trudeau Family,

Tom's passing is a great loss to your family and all the people to whom Tom touched during his life. I have only known him a short time but during that time came to realize he was compassionate, loving, and a truly sincere person. He will be missed by all.

Mark Lombardi

David & Betty Benoit

July 4, 2008

Dear Sue: Our sincerest condolences on Tom's passing our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
David & Betty Benoit

Elizabeth Monaco

July 4, 2008

Dear Mark and family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!

Sincerely-
Elizabeth Monaco

Lance & Janie Wilson

July 3, 2008

Dear Trudeau Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Tom always meant the world to me and treated me just like his own son. I was currently planning to take a trip up to see your family after all of these years, and I especially wanted to see Tom. I have wonderful memories of the time that I spent with Tom and your family.

Sincerely,
Mr. & Mrs. Lance Wilson

Phil Lavallee

July 3, 2008

Sue, Mark, & Family,
It is with great sadness that I write this note today. I have had the pleasure of being both a friend and co-worker of Tom’s over the past 24 years. He has taught me many things about myself and about life in general over the course of those years. Tom was the consummate professional and taught me above all other things to work hard and give 100% of yourself in all that you do. The greatest lesson that Tom taught me was that happiness in life is not gained by acquiring material possessions, and climbing the corporate ladder, but instead, by being a loving and caring husband, father, and friend. For that advice, I will be forever grateful. I will miss my almost daily conversations with Tom and truly count myself as a blessed person for having had the privilege to be considered his friend. “There are so many things”.

Phil Lavallee

Sandra Parry

July 3, 2008

Dear Suzanne,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I saw those wonderful qualities in Tom when we were in school together....gentle, kind, quiet, respectful and genuine..he was a gentle man even than. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandra (Bullock) Parry

Donna Sprague

July 3, 2008

Dear Suzanne and family,
We are praying for God to bless each of you with peace and comfort as you go through this very difficult time of grief. It is always a pleasure to see you at the gatherings with the Sprague and Servant families. with love and prayers, Jeff & Donna Sprague

Ronald McCue

July 2, 2008

Dear Sue, very sorry to hear of your tragic lost. I will always treasure the memories I had with Tom at the Patriot's games.

Glenn Harper

July 2, 2008

Dear Mark and Trudeau family,
We would like to express our deepest sympathy for your loss. Tom made all of our jobs at National Grid so much easier with his expertise. Each of us spent countless hours on the phone over the years and every conversation was always pleasurable. He was a dedicated employee but more than that he was a great friend.
Transmission Line Services Supervisors

Karin Cantwell

July 2, 2008

To the whole Trudeau family
Can't believe this has happened, so so sorry for all of you. Tom was a huge part of our sons childhood, as were all of the Trudeau's. We are all so very sad. May God Bless you. Tom and Karin Cantwell

Diann Loring

July 2, 2008

To all of Tom's Family - I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Many of us at National Grid who knew Tom, liked him very much and are deeply saddened by the news of his passing. With deepest Sympathy - God Bless.

Maria Gadoury

July 2, 2008

Dear Mark and Family
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Gadoury Family

Courtney Harper

July 2, 2008

Dear Mark and family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. He was always so kind and pleasant to all of your friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Courtney Harper (O'Malley)

Christelle Lindewall

July 2, 2008

Dear Mark and family ~

All of us are blessed for having known your beloved father. He was truly a gentle_man.

My deepest condolences,
Christelle

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