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Brenda Chaffin Obituary

Brenda Milligan Chaffin

Hendersonville, TN

Age 71, went to heaven on May 1, 2015.

She was a graduate of Cumberland High School, where her classmates voted her Miss Cumberland. She worked part-time at Stein-Mart for 10 years.

Preceded in death by her parents, Hoyte and Nell Milligan.

Survived by her husband, Jack "Jackie" Chaffin of 50 years; son, Eric (Kyndra) Chaffin; daughter, Shannon (Shane) Starks; grandchildren who were the light of her life, Jake and Kaylor Chaffin and Connor, Abigail, and Barrett Starks of Hendersonville.

Pallbearers are Billy Griggs, Doug Jones, Don Dixon, Ronnie Webb, Earl Whaley, Jr., Mike Ryan, Alex Cantrell, Rick Shelton, Elbert Ashworth, Earl Whaley, Sr. Honorary Pallbearers are friends of the family.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made in memory of Brenda to Alive Hospice, 1718 Patterson Street, Nashville, TN 37203; or The Jeremy Pete Parker Scholarship Fund at Freed-Hardeman University (please send donations to the Hendersonville Church of Christ, 107 Rockland Road, Hendersonville, TN 37075.)

Service will be held on Tuesday, 11 a.m., at Hendersonville Church of Christ. A private burial will follow in Hendersonville Memory Gardens. Visitation will be held on Monday from 4-8 p.m. and Tuesday from 10-11 a.m., all at the church.

Hendersonville Funeral Home, (615) 824-3855.

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Published by Tennessean from May 3 to May 4, 2015.

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Lillie Kirby

May 15, 2015

Jack,
I just learned of Brenda death. I am so shocked. She was a beautiful lady and made me laugh when I would run into her at Stein-Mart about customers.
You and your children are in my prayers.
Lillie Kirby

Barbara Burcham

May 12, 2015

Jackie, Eric & Shannon: Sorry for the difficult time you have experienced. Even though our families have not been in contact for some years we have wonderful memories from kindergarten thru high school. The many school activities & times at the ball park & basketball in the back yard. We love you & know that your angel will always be with you.

May 8, 2015

Jackie, Eric, and Shannon

Just found out about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love to you all.....Wanda Fuqua

Karen Mears-grant

May 7, 2015

Jackie you & your family have my deepest sympathy! Mom says cousin Brenda was life of the party! Well she is now having eternal party!

JUDY JAMES

May 7, 2015

Jackie, Eric & Shannon,
We are so saddened to hear of Brenda's passing. You are all in our thoughts & prayers.

Judy (Chaffin) James & Family

Elaine Hughes Duncan

May 5, 2015

Jackie, I am so sorry for your loss. Though our paths didn't cross often in the years since school, I could never forget Brenda. I know it's hard to imagine life without her, but God will help you.

Roger Williams

May 4, 2015

So sorry to hear about Brenda. We graduated together. A very sweet girl and very well liked. My prayers are with the family.

Todd and Emily Hayes

May 4, 2015

Our prayers are with you.

Sandy and Jeff Strachan

May 4, 2015

Jack, John 16:30. These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. Praying for strength and peace for you and your family in the days ahead.

Kendra Altepeter

May 4, 2015

What an amazing person! Thoughts and prayers being sent your way.

Patsy Litchford

May 4, 2015

Jack and Family, you all are in our prayers.

Luke and Julie Wyatt

May 3, 2015

Prayers for all the family... We are so sorry for your loss.

May 3, 2015

To the Chaffin Family: Our hearts go our to you at this sad time. We send our prayers. Rick and Becca Kaylor

Fred Milligan

May 3, 2015

Our condolences and prayers go out to Jackie, Eric, Shannon and all of their families. We share your sadness during these difficult times. We are keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

She was such a wonderful wife, mother and grandma she will be missed by everyone. She was always there for anyone in need. She always had a smile and a word of cheer for you, as she went thru life at 100 MPH. Our families were fortunate to have her for the time that we did. Memories of Brenda will live with us and always comfort us forever.

I'm sure all of her family and friends were alongside Hoyte & Nell, waiting for her arrival with open arms, surrounding her with love.

Fond memories of Brenda will remain with me forever.

R.I.P. my dear cousin and God Bless You
Love ya,
Fred & Emily Milligan

Joan Arone

May 3, 2015

Prayers for the family.

Ron and Denise Phillips

May 3, 2015

Jackie
Prayers for You and Your Family

May 3, 2015

Jackie,
All of the Boguskies are thinking about you and your family. Dianne Boguskie Webb

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